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What's up warriors?

I spent the last year saying sayo-f******-nara to being a keyboard jockey.

I went on a road trip across the States, couch surfing from Oregon all the way to Vermont. I worked on a vegetarian organic farm run by an eccentric but lovely Jewish family and had an absolute ball chasing chickens around, harvesting, chewing strange licorice flavored plants that make your mouth numb, and celebrating the Sabbath with song and traditional feasts Friday nights.

I stayed in Montana with a couple who lives completely off the grid in their own straw-bale pyramid. They're amazingly hospitable people, have two black labs "Coffee" and "Cream", and showed me in a way I could actually feel and experience you can choose the way you live. And, why it's important to do so.

I went to Arizona to learn insane marksmanship skills from a hypnotist and can now shoot single-hole groupings with my .45 1911 Operator by Springfield any time I feel like it.

I threw myself knee-deep in the 'pickup' game and have made rather miraculous changes in my social skills. I've taken up singing lessons and am addicted to being a karaoke hero (not to be confused with jukebox hero, which is a legendary song by Foreigner that will turn you into a karaoke hero should you choose to master it).

I found myself drinking with lovely young ladies out on Ocean Beach here in San Francisco into the wee hours of the morning swimming naked in the freezing ocean surf at 3AM.

I've done a LOT in the last year.

And you know what I learned, warriors? You know the one thing I would say had I only the opportunity to say one thing?

Obliterate Fear!

Abolish it from your life. Fear is a cancer. I've heard before that "fear is useful, it will motivate you, blah blah blah". I call bullshido. There are MUCH more effective and useful motivators than fear. And, so long as you're afraid, you can't choose your focus because you're constricted. You are at the effect, rather than the cause, side of life.

This is another thing I learned from Matt and Sherrie Seibert in Arizona for advanced marksmanship. Choosing your focus... learning to let go of that which is not relevant, is the difference between being effective or not in the big leagues.

If you want to excel in any endeavor, you MUST be able to focus in like a laser on what is relevant. ALL ELSE CAN BE FORGOTTEN.

If you want to start a business or sell a product you believe in, that resonates with you, that you have put your heart and soul into... and people naysay... guess what? IRRELEVANT! It simply doesn't matter.

If you want to talk to that lovely young lady over there at the bar, but there are voices from either your friends or negative echoes from your past rattling around in your skull... FOR-GET THEM. Act. Now. Go. Do whatever you need to so fear has no grip on you.

Because every little stitch of focus you give to that which does not serve you is a waste of your time and energy. Blast that muck to the stone-age. Wash your hands of it.

Warriors, friends, countrymen...

You are enough. Now. As you are.

You don't need to wait to be perfect to execute. You don't need anything extraneous. There is no reason to be afraid. Just start on whatever it is you've got your heart set on and sink Excalibur TO THE HILT!

I know a lot of this is vague but it's for a good reason. The principles I'm talking about are wide-ranging and universal. If you begin to unravel fear in one area of your life... all of a sudden it starts to unravel in all areas. Just pick one and get started. Probably the one with the most emotional charge is the most important, but whatever. Start where you can.

"Field reports" for inspiration to come soon, ladies and gentleman. Until then, I wish you all the best.
#abolish #fear
  • Profile picture of the author PLR Basket
    I just have a question for you: Did you plan any of this?

    I'm asking because I know that a lot of people on this forum believe that planning and taking massive action is the only way to get what you want from life. I, on the other hand, believe in doing anything you naturally feel like doing at the very moment, as long as you feel passionate about it...
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    • Profile picture of the author DC England
      Originally Posted by Chris Moore View Post

      I just have a question for you: Did you plan any of this?

      I'm asking because I know that a lot of people on this forum believe that planning and taking massive action is the only way to get what you want from life. I, on the other hand, believe in doing anything you naturally feel like doing at the very moment, as long as you feel passionate about it...

      I can plan EVERY SINGLE DAY, but guess what, in the end, it's just a plan and without action. All you've got are words that predict the future of some someone that takes ACTION.
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      • Profile picture of the author PLR Basket
        Originally Posted by DC England View Post

        I can plan EVERY SINGLE DAY, but guess what, in the end, it's just a plan and without action. All you've got are words that predict the future of some someone that takes ACTION.
        I think planning can be a good thing if you enjoy it, but sometimes, you just have to trust your guts and have the balls to go on an adventure and see what happens...
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        • Profile picture of the author frontiergold
          I like the way my friend Ken Roberts says it, "Proceed while being afraid." I know for me fear is something that always seems to be there. But if I can go ahead and do something even while afraid I win.

          The first time I jumped out of an airplane it was like that... I was afraid I would land and sprain my ankle and then not be able to drive my stick shift car. Imagine having such a stupid fear considering I was jumping at 3000 feet from an airplane. If I was in my right mind I would have fearful of the jump.
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          • Profile picture of the author vicone
            Fear, like other negative emotions, such as anger and depression, tends to fixate our attention so that we are held by the conditions we are responding to and other possibilities are not seriously considered. The negative situation is seen as the "real" world.

            I'm often reminded of the 'Matrix' movies which are based on a similar concept of a reality which holds us in its embrace.

            However, it's possible to train ourselves so that, when we experience negative feelings, we automatically become alert to more favorable possibilities and, if we remain in touch with those, the negative feelings are no longer being triggered and they evaporate after the initial response.

            This enables us to handle the situation more calmly and confidently.

            It takes practice to learn to shift attention when under stress but it can be done and is very effective.

            However, most will remain attached to their negative perceptions of a situation because that to them is what is real. We have the ability to choose something - a perspective - that is very different and beneficial.

            It isn't difficult but it's a learned skill and few will take the trouble to learn it well enough so that it becomes a habit. They would rather attribute their failings to some past trauma because that is what 'really' happened and the past event can then be blamed for present shortcomings.

            Ivan
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  • Profile picture of the author Traffic Eagle
    Fear is what prevents many people from starting an online/offline business. Fear of failure, fear of success, fear of looking foolish, fear of taking those first steps, the steps into the unknown. It is not easy to conquer fear, it took me a long time. But conquer it you must. The most successful people are those who are not afraid of making a fool of themselves. So if you have a good original idea or are making money at something using a new twist, then go write that ebook or create a WSO or make a membership site and don't be put off by anyone. There will always be critics, most of them don't make any money themselves. Go for it!
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  • Profile picture of the author Rachel Castagne
    thanks for sharing this inspiration

    simple to say abolish fear; not so easy to do

    simple but not easy when one's system is flooded with adrenalin pumped out by an amygdala that 'thinks' youre under threat

    especially for anyone who has experienced trauma and finds it re-activated or surfacing...
    possible with mega focus and intent

    you remind me of a time i adopted an attitude that if i was afraid to do it, that was what i did next

    right now its like i am staring into the abyss and forcing myself to take my eyes off of the deep bottomless pit therein- what you focus on is everything as you mention

    so i am walking a tightrope across the abyss of my fears
    remembering the wise one who said keep your eyes on where you are headed- look in the direction that you want to go...

    did you know when riding a horse if you want the horse to go in a certain direction- you gotta look that way, cos lots of tiny muscles in your body communicate that intent to the animal between your legs?

    fear is often manifesting for me like an unconscious animal self
    it doesnt respond to rationality or 'higher thinking'
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  • Profile picture of the author PLR Basket
    Fear is an experience like any other. It's perfectly normal and shouldn't be feared itself. It should only be observed for what it is, an experience.
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  • Profile picture of the author Debra Barrow
    The old saying "Feel the fear and do it anyway" helps me to move past the fear, and take some kind of action......even if it's baby steps.
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  • Profile picture of the author happyme
    Well, that's the right way to do it. Let your mind run free to abolish your fears.
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