"Why Is It Such A Struggle To Get What We Want?"
But, it can feel more difficult in practice. It sounds great on paper - - but in practice... well, we've all been there. But consider this.
The more things you are managing consciously, the more effort you must expend to do it. If you have a lot going on in your life, doing it this way gets stressful fast. But on the other hand.
If you habitually do something, you don't need to think about it - - It just happens. If you habitually take the actions that lead to what you want... you can get there with less effort. ( less stress )
Once something becomes a habit, it stays there ( assuming you don't undo it ). You no longer need to focus on it.
Ever noticed how you can get in the car, start it, and make it to work without remembering any of it?
Making decisions that lead to what you want can become just as
automated. Therefore, I propose the following definition:
Progress: Increasing the percentage of your habits, and therefore actions, that lead to what you want.
How To Do It
To build a habit, you must be consistent. And research shows that it takes roughly 21 days to form a habit. So, pick something repetitive you MUST do to get what you want - - then focus on it rigidly for 21 days.
You have other things you must do - - yes, but make that habit you are forming a TOP PRIORITY.
After 21 days, pick a new decision to make into a habit. And start again.
By changing your habits you can make positive changes to your life
permanently, rather than temporarily.
I wish you the best,
Dante
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