You may studied and read a lot of books, and know that success is kind of simple. You are very good to coach others and you have a very good eye which mistakes they do and how they can turn it around to be successful and everything you makes commend sense, but as soon you turn your attention to yourself, you may spot it what is wrong, but you just can't fix it. It is like a eating or drinking disorder, when the addiction suddenly kicks in and you are losing control over your action.
So what is the controlling force that directs your life and how can you turn it around that you are controlling the direction of your life and not letting life you control.
Through my personal life experience, been mental and physical abused from my ex-husband, and I got every time mad when he was able to push me back down into my box.
That was the reason that I start learning about the human mind and to find out why we take special action we know will not help us to move forward, and why we allow life to control us. Behind every action is pain or pleasure and in most time we want the pleasure but we sabotaging our action just to prevent to be hurt again, we do more to avoid pain than to allow pleasure been in our life. When you program yourself to go after pleasure you are controlling the direction your life is going. You let pain direct your life, your life is directing were you go and not you!
Who here in the Warrior Forum had must learn to control the direction of your life and how had it change your life?
Please tell me your story!