Deal with fear, keeping it.
Some days ago, I was talking to a friend about fear. About feeling it. I was afraid about something and I was terribly frozen. He's a smart guy and a very courageous one. He just go ahead, doing his best. What I was expecting for him was something like: "eliminate your fears thinking in what you desire". You know - something very common on the self- improvement world. NLP take it more profound and say to you feel, see, listen it, shrink and enlarge images, etc.
But he turned your head, looked to my eyes and said: "If you stop to feel fear, you stop."
Great thought. The point is... almost everyone think that fear is something bad. Something that paralizes you. And really does. You stay stopped thinking in everything that can get wrong at anything. And then you begin to read and watch Tony Robbins and other guys and stay repeating to yourself whatever that you are looking for in your life. You imagine, you do all the stuff, and then...you reach the "It's time to rock" point.
And this is very, very good. You begin to do, work hard, manage your time, create some articles, a website layout, some backlinks maybe, bookmarks, you stay proud of how much you evolved. And this is very great. But in the beginning of whatever people's want to achieve, they often forget what they want to achieve and in the process they tend to imagine the bad stuff, so, it's time to do all the exercise again. The problem is, this consumes time.
And time is far away the most precious fortune. The trick is: keep going.
"How?", "Why?", "It's impossible! I'm an ice cube now."
One day I was reading the Stephen King book "It". In one specific stretch, King wrote what a boy was feeling - power. And he also turned it more specific: "a mix of fear and euphoria". So, think for a moment: if you have one, you have half. OK, you got the dark side. But who cares? Still being half. Now, move forward to your goal and keep going after the other half.
And remember: power is something individual. Don't try to be famous or run after millions or social approval if you haven't taken the first step. The people are in the majority selfish when dealing with goals or what you want for your life. They don't really care. And expect compassion will be worst for you.
Warriors, can you please do me a favor? Say if you noticed some English error. Isn't my language and I'm improving it. Thanks.
And please, if you have something to increment the text or a different opinion. I would love read what you think.
But he turned your head, looked to my eyes and said: "If you stop to feel fear, you stop."
Great thought. The point is... almost everyone think that fear is something bad. Something that paralizes you. And really does. You stay stopped thinking in everything that can get wrong at anything. And then you begin to read and watch Tony Robbins and other guys and stay repeating to yourself whatever that you are looking for in your life. You imagine, you do all the stuff, and then...you reach the "It's time to rock" point.
And this is very, very good. You begin to do, work hard, manage your time, create some articles, a website layout, some backlinks maybe, bookmarks, you stay proud of how much you evolved. And this is very great. But in the beginning of whatever people's want to achieve, they often forget what they want to achieve and in the process they tend to imagine the bad stuff, so, it's time to do all the exercise again. The problem is, this consumes time.
And time is far away the most precious fortune. The trick is: keep going.
"How?", "Why?", "It's impossible! I'm an ice cube now."
One day I was reading the Stephen King book "It". In one specific stretch, King wrote what a boy was feeling - power. And he also turned it more specific: "a mix of fear and euphoria". So, think for a moment: if you have one, you have half. OK, you got the dark side. But who cares? Still being half. Now, move forward to your goal and keep going after the other half.
And remember: power is something individual. Don't try to be famous or run after millions or social approval if you haven't taken the first step. The people are in the majority selfish when dealing with goals or what you want for your life. They don't really care. And expect compassion will be worst for you.
Warriors, can you please do me a favor? Say if you noticed some English error. Isn't my language and I'm improving it. Thanks.
And please, if you have something to increment the text or a different opinion. I would love read what you think.