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A WINNER is always part of the answer.
A LOSER is always part of the problem.

A WINNER always has a plan.
A LOSER always make excuses.

A WINNERS says: "let me do it for you"
A LOSER says: "that is not my job"

A WINNER sees an answer in for any problem.
A LOSER sees a problem for any answer.

A WINNER sees a green near every sand trap.
A LOSER sees two sand traps in every green.

A WINNERS says: "it may be difficult but it's possible."
A LOSER says: "it may be possible but it's too difficult."
#losser #winner
  • Profile picture of the author RobKonrad
    That about sums it up!

    I don't like the term "loser", though... I'd rather say "positive people always say.. negative people always say..."

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  • Profile picture of the author Magnus Koenig
    Originally Posted by Iamroyce View Post

    A WINNER is always part of the answer.
    A LOSER is always part of the problem.

    A WINNER always has a plan.
    A LOSER always make excuses.

    A WINNERS says: "let me do it for you"
    A LOSER says: "that is not my job"

    A WINNER sees an answer in for any problem.
    A LOSER sees a problem for any answer.

    A WINNER sees a green near every sand trap.
    A LOSER sees two sand traps in every green.

    A WINNERS says: "it may be difficult but it's possible."
    A LOSER says: "it may be possible but it's too difficult."

    Totally agree!
    But, a Loser can also be a Winner
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  • Profile picture of the author Duy Nguyen
    Nice comparison I really like it!
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    Failure Is Temporary, Giving Up Makes It Permanent
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  • Profile picture of the author RepATX
    I always feel like a winner when I use my spell check & am sure that I am spelling the words in my title head correctly.

    Great comparison, otherwise.
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  • Profile picture of the author David Sneen
    One's mindset can make all the difference in the world!
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    that determines what you will be able to
    do when everyone is watching.
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    • Profile picture of the author kardesh10
      I'm not a fan of putting labels on people.

      There is no such thing as a winner or a loser. They are just concepts. It all comes down to your perception. Someone who you might think is a loser might be thought of as a winner by another person.

      There is no such thing as failure. There are only attempts. Since there's no such thing as failure, there is no such thing as winners or losers.

      A spiritual teacher once said, "it's not about winning or losing, it's about attempting until you reach completion."

      A lot of people put labels, judgments, generalizations, on other people just to feel good about themselves.

      It's so sad really
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      • Profile picture of the author Royce Space
        Originally Posted by kardesh10 View Post

        I'm not a fan of putting labels on people.

        There is no such thing as a winner or a loser. They are just concepts. It all comes down to your perception. Someone who you might think is a loser might be thought of as a winner by another person.

        There is no such thing as failure. There are only attempts. Since there's no such thing as failure, there is no such thing as winners or losers.

        A spiritual teacher once said, "it's not about winning or losing, it's about attempting until you reach completion."

        A lot of people put labels, judgments, generalizations, on other people just to feel good about themselves.

        It's so sad really
        I think you're misunderstanding something. Anyway, it's my mistake for putting WINNER VS. LOSER rather than postive than negative.
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    • Profile picture of the author Royce Space
      Originally Posted by David Sneen View Post

      One's mindset can make all the difference in the world!
      Very true.
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  • Profile picture of the author lutherestrada
    great share ....
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  • Profile picture of the author magnates
    Originally Posted by Iamroyce View Post

    A WINNER is always part of the answer.
    A LOSER is always part of the problem.

    A WINNER always has a plan.
    A LOSER always make excuses.

    A WINNERS says: "let me do it for you"
    A LOSER says: "that is not my job"

    A WINNER sees an answer in for any problem.
    A LOSER sees a problem for any answer.

    A WINNER sees a green near every sand trap.
    A LOSER sees two sand traps in every green.

    A WINNERS says: "it may be difficult but it's possible."
    A LOSER says: "it may be possible but it's too difficult."

    A bit of poetry i see .Nice

    being is a winner or a loser is a choice . they are preferences you have adopted and if you would change your preference and choose the postive outlook in life you would win .

    Nobody really is a loser in life .Everyone wins at something . Positive mental attitude goes a long way
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  • Profile picture of the author parkrangercal
    i guess it depends on what you consider being part of the problem means... some people simply consider someone who disagrees with them as being part of the "problem."
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  • Profile picture of the author JohnDBrewer
    There is a book called Failing Forward by John Maxwell that talks about failing. Failing is part of our DNA. We will fail. That is how we learn. If you take failure out of life, you will stop learning. Then you become stagnant and then you become useless. So in a nutshell, FAIL as many times as you can. But learn from it.

    haha...after typing this whole thing, I went back and reread the thread and realized nothing was said about failing but about being a loser. Only a person can label themselves a loser because they are the only ones who know themselves on the inside.

    But then again, anyone that is successful can take someone that has labelled themselves a loser and help them become a winner by helping their self-talk and self-perception.

    Interesting post nonetheless.

    Thanks
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  • Profile picture of the author AJ Smith44
    Excellent Post! This was a great example of the winning mind set. I especially like this part of it:


    A WINNERS says: "it may be difficult but it's possible."
    A LOSER says: "it may be possible but it's too difficult."
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  • Profile picture of the author jemi jhon
    Originally Posted by Iamroyce View Post

    A WINNER is always part of the answer.
    A LOSER is always part of the problem.

    A WINNER always has a plan.
    A LOSER always make excuses.

    A WINNERS says: "let me do it for you"
    A LOSER says: "that is not my job"

    A WINNER sees an answer in for any problem.
    A LOSER sees a problem for any answer.

    A WINNER sees a green near every sand trap.
    A LOSER sees two sand traps in every green.

    A WINNERS says: "it may be difficult but it's possible."
    A LOSER says: "it may be possible but it's too difficult."
    Nice sharing dear.I like it.
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  • Profile picture of the author galvanmatt
    great share
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