Paralyzed by Fear of Failure? Or Fear of SUCCESS?
One of the core reasons many have not yet succeeded - fear of failure. Nobody likes to talk about it, or think about it - after all, the more you define yourself by successes (or failures), the closer to the heart it is. (And for many, that's VERY close.) Hell, even writing this thread I went off on a bunnytrail until I caught myself. Apparently I don't like talking about it either, but I feel like I should - perhaps because I feel that acknowledging it would help someone else as well as myself.
Take action, pick one system and stick to it until you can make it work, so long as you keep pushing you'll see success. Perfect logic, most people here already have that in the back of their minds somewhere, at least theoretically. In actuality however, well...
Shinyobjekt Syndrom, anyone? I'm not going to insult anyone's intelligence and say that anyone ACTUALLY believes that just because they hit the Buy Now button and read the material that money will magically materialize in their Paypal account, buttttttttttttttt let's face it, more often than not, people make either a couple attempts at the material they bought before they give up, or they let it sit on their harddrive altogether.
While I admit, there are sellers who omit "the good stuff" or who simply can't teach, the inability to act goes deeper than that... unconsciously afraid of, what if it doesn't work? What does that mean, what does that say about your character? Is it lack of intelligence, inability to make any sort of positive difference?
Conversely... what if you're afraid of actually SUCCEEDING?
Fear of success. If you've never made money before, or only miniscule amounts, what would happen if you suddenly succeeded? If you earned even an extra $1000 a month, life as you know it would change. What if that were a $1000 a DAY? Life would never be the same again... and while, that success is a Good Thing, it also means quite another:
Life's changes, for better or worse, require a step outside your comfort zone.
Sticking with the status quo, life stays the same... getting comfortable even in sucky situations. If you want it to change, you have to initiate it, and if you're resistent to making that change, it's up to you to find out why.
Which brings me to another important point: your failures do not define you, neither do your successes. It's what you do in the face of both, what you take from it and how you better yourself, that makes you who you are - not the number of successes or failures. You fail miserably, you have a choice to stay on the ground and ruminate OR learn from it and act differently. You succeed, you have the choice to stop right there or keep pushing yourself to do even better.
So do one thing today that's not in your comfort zone... you might fail, you might succeed. In either case, what will you do with the result?
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