Read this if you WANT SUCCESS...

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I haven't created a thread on the warrior forum in a while but today I woke up and decided I want to touch someone's mind out there and help them in their business and life.

I have been successfully and unsuccessfully marketing online for the last 5+ years. I've learned a TON of priceless skillets and mindsets since then.

I have decided I want to help the few that will actually listen and implement some of this stuff.

One of the most profound ideas or concepts that have helped me the most in my business and in life in general is this.

Almost anything that anyone says to you at any given time has nothing to do with you. ( read that again and internalize it as much as possible. ) Almost anything that anyone says to you at any given time has nothing to do with you!

Everyone's reality is different. Try not to take anything anyone says to you too personally because it's only that persons reality or "story"

Seriously, when I understood this concept my LIFE LITERALLY CHANGED FOR EVER.

Now, this also works internally. You yourself have a story that you tell yourself everyday. What ever that story is...YOU have complete control over it and can change it to whatever you want it to be.

Your "story" might be what is actually holding you back from becoming successfull and making progress in life. Your story that you tell yourself is what is keeping you from moving forward and achieving greater success in your business and life.

I KNOW that if you learn to understand this concept and apply it you will achieve greater success in your business and life in general.
#read #ryan lima #success
  • Profile picture of the author BLM
    hmm im going to have to practice that
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  • Profile picture of the author mikedz
    nice share.
    Inner talk certainly changes life =)
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  • Profile picture of the author Thrazgard
    I liked this one. Somehow it reminds me of:

    "No one can hurt you, unless you let them."
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    When someone laughs at your dream, its a good dream.
    I'm already rich, because I get to live.
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  • Profile picture of the author AllenYK2
    Yeah, I agree with you.
    Nothing will change unless you change how you think about yourself first =)
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  • Profile picture of the author HolyWarrior
    Other people teaching you is a bit like a suit. Some of the suits suck, some are very nice, and some may fit quite well, but at the end of the day, the suit that you make is going to be the only one that truly fits you.
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  • Profile picture of the author EmmaA
    Everyone is the center of their own universe. It's how you react to what they say that counts. That is the only control you have. How they react to what you say is totally out of your hands. All you can do is communicate your message and remain unattached to how they receive it.
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  • Profile picture of the author ivanadee
    YES!! I am in that kind of situation.
    I am kinda a smart student (just being lucky for having a good grade) and my family keep pushing me to be a professional employee in one of the companies but I just want to build my own internet business (ironically, I never learn about it when I was a student) and seemed that I have to keep doing what I really want to. I want to have a story where I become an internetpreneur and not a financial manager or something like that
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  • Profile picture of the author crork
    thanks man for your share!
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    • Profile picture of the author watty12
      thought provoking. Be true to yourself and remember that if you listen to others you may find you get dragged down by them. It's the same with sharing goals with other people, you'll find they don't always want to help you progress. Therefore you need to focus on what you want and not what others want of you.

      Having said that, success breeds success, so perhaps it is wise to listen to those successful people you admire.
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  • Profile picture of the author stopper
    It seems a have been telling myself the wrong story I think I should correct the story before I tell it to myself next time.
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  • Profile picture of the author jpete
    Great post!! Thank you...
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  • Profile picture of the author Glenda from OZ
    Love it, Love it, Love it. This is sooo true. Its very free-ing to know that what people say about you or others is a reflection of them. Working on our own stories and creating what we want for ourselves is the responsibilty of all of us. :p
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  • Profile picture of the author seo-it-right
    Great, thanks for the share, great post
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  • Profile picture of the author maestro_mr
    Agree with you man!

    We should improve our skill day by day.
    Thanks for your great share.
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  • Profile picture of the author SteveSki
    Originally Posted by RyanLima View Post


    Almost anything that anyone says to you at any given time has nothing to do with you. ( read that again and internalize it as much as possible. ) Almost anything that anyone says to you at any given time has nothing to do with you!

    Everyone's reality is different. Try not to take anything anyone says to you too personally because it's only that persons reality or "story"
    You must have read "The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz

    Don't take anything personally... is the one you wrote about. The other 3 agreements in his book are also Life Changing!

    Cheers,
    Steve
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  • Profile picture of the author gsgoh
    Great share! Totally agree with you.
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