The Four Major Lessons In Life by Jim Rohn (Part 1)

by HTLee
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I came across Mr. Rohn's audio lectures a few years back and I've listened to this man over and over. He has so much wisdom and practical insights. Today, I'm posting the first part on The Four Major Lessons In Life. Enjoy and be blessed!

The Four Major Lessons In Life - Winter

"The four major lessons. It is so important to study the majors. Have you ever notice that some people don't do well, because they major in minor things. Whatever you do, check at the end of the week, the end of the year, and make sure you're not spending major time on minor things. Otherwise, you'll wind up with a below average life.

Now, before I get into the four major lessons, here are two phrases to consider. First, life and business are like the changing seasons. That's one of the best ways to illustrate life. It's like the seasons, the change. Frank Sinatra sang "life is like the seasons". Here is the second phrase: you cannot change the seasons, but you can change yourself.

Now, with those two key phrases in mind, here are the four major lessons in life to learn.

The first is, learn how to handle the winters. They come right after fall with regularity. Some are long, some are short. Some are difficult, some are easy. But they always come right after fall. Remember, it isn't going to change. Now, there are all kinds of winters, right? The winter when you can't figure it out. The winter when it all go smashed. We call it 'the winters of your life'. One writer call it 'the winter of discontent'. The winter when it turns upside down, when it all goes wrong. There are economic winters, social winters, personal winters. When your heart is smashed into a thousand pieces. Winter time, disappointments. Disappointment is common to us all. So learn how to handle the winters. You must learn how to handle the nights, they come right after days. You must learn how to handle difficulties, they always come right after opportunities. You must handle recessions, they come right after expansions. It isn't going to change.

So the big question is: what do you do about the winters? Well, you can't get rid of January simply by tearing it off the calendar. But here is what you can do: you can get stronger, wiser and better. Make note of the trio of words: stronger, wiser, better. See, the winter won't change, but you can.

Before I understood this, when it was winter, I used to wish it was summer. I didn't understand. When it was difficult, I used to wish it was easy. I didn't know. Then Mr Shoaff (my mentor) gave me the answer from a part of his very unique philosophy, when he said, "Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom."
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  • Profile picture of the author ImWendy
    It's hard for me to read this without Jim Rohn's voice narrating it in my mind as I read. This is also in his Art of Exceptional Living cassette program. Awesome stuff! THIS is what needs to be taught in schools! Thank you for sharing.
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    • Profile picture of the author HTLee
      I know what you mean. He had a way of speaking that was just so captivating. He was a unique teacher of life.
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Barrs
    Yes, love this. I have an old cassette series from Jim Rohn explaining this - love it!
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    • Profile picture of the author HTLee
      Originally Posted by Paul Barrs View Post

      Yes, love this. I have an old cassette series from Jim Rohn explaining this - love it!
      Glad you love it, Paul. Today I'm posting the last of the four-part series.

      Take care.
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  • Profile picture of the author stopper
    I sometimes used to wish that i had super-abilities to perform my work having something easy to do is not always a good solution.
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