Is this sabotage

Now I am ticked. I don't like being ticked and I try not to be ticked.

I have been having those amazing totally in the zone flow days and I have been trying to get this feeling back for years now and I want to do everything I can to get it to stay.

Here is the problem.

My husband is annoying me. I don't know whether it is on purpose or not.

He refuses to learn how to drive and this is my fault because I should have just told him to figure it out as I have work to do.

This morning I started working and then he comes in and says his web site is all messed up and as usual I stop what I was doing and start working on his problem. Finally, I realized what I was doing and said I don't know what is wrong with it, you will have to solve it yourself. I wasted an hour on that.

I wasted nearly 3 hours driving him around today during my prime focus hours. Now I am home and irritated from dealing with people.

So I told him I was getting ready to work and then he comes in to remind me about the bills that needed to be paid and things I need to call about sometime. It was nothing urgent at all and things he is perfectly capable of doing himself.

That is when I got mad and told him. I don't care you can handle it. Then he is but this and but that and I said I don't care right now. I said unless the house is burning down, leave me alone. I really had been extremely patient but he just kept pushing me.

The other day I was really in the groove and thinking about some ideas and he decides to mention this relative I hate out of the blue. It made me lose focus again.

So now I am de focused and aggravated at him.

So what do you think? Do you think it is just coincidence or do you think he is inadvertently trying to annoy me.

I think he needs to get up off his butt and go get a job so he won't be hanging around the house all day expecting me to entertain him.