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I have self sabotaged into the abyss of scarcity

by Justin1
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WOW, the wife left me taking the kids to live in a caravan on her mothers land. Now living in my parents small room at the end of their house, but it could be worse, at least I have internet and food and shelter and a crappy car to drive!

Scarcity and mind is my whole problem I believe

Money is SCARCE for me, scarcity is all that is in my mind, there is no abundance, Ive tried to do all the think and grow rich stuff and all that sort of thing but have not been able to get out of that scarcity mindset, like forever. I once had abundance travelling over to vegas with my wife that was pregnant at the time, but that was many years ago.

We own our own house and sold it and had money to build a new one and even have the block, but it was too much for her for me not having a proper job and not making money online, while she had a part time job in retail. Its a nasty cycle, the cycle of non action, just reading and thinking mode, thats what I have been in for 3 years PLUS and have never been able to get out of, I have a part of my brain that just says " no it won't work, don't be stupid"
My mind is stuck on failure and scarcity, and not on abundance.

I got on that arbitrage conspiracy product a few years ago and was nearly getting somewhere but fell in a heap and ever since have jumped from wso to wso to product to product launch, from guru to guru . Now I just think its all smoke and mirrors, its all just big list owners conning all the people to buy their crappy new latest products, my mind doesnt believe there is any money for me online at all.

So I am on this forum, the mind one, because I need help guys, I am a mental mess and wake up feeling horrible every day because I have let down my family. My mind is to fault for all of this I believe, I can't control it and I can't make it feel like I will ever be successful again.

Any help to get my mind on the right track?

kind regards

Justin
#abyss #sabotaged #scarcity
  • Profile picture of the author jsonjylee
    Hi Justin,

    What I find helpful is to go onto youtube and listen to motivational videos about how to get yourself motivated. Stop going watching videos about how to think to get rich and stuff but find videos where it helps you recharged yourself and reconfigure your mindset. I personally find listening to Tony Robbins very helpful. I always watch his videos when I'm at the deepest point in my life.

    If you are still working on internet marketing I would tell you to not give up but take some time and review your actions in your previous attempts to sell a product and learn from it and I would advice to stick to one product to sell. Find one that is suitable for you and work on it. It's very tempting to jump from one product to another when the product you are currently working on is not converting. but be focused and stay on one product and you will find success.

    There's always light at the end of the tunnel don't give up. Everybody is meant to be successful including you. Be strong and carry on.

    I've attached a few videos that I hope will motivate you

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    • Profile picture of the author Justin1
      Thanks man, I will look at those vids, yes you are right, I have ignored youtube lately, I love Robbins stuff as well, thanks for your positive post, I appreciate it.
      Originally Posted by jsonjylee View Post

      Hi Justin,

      What I find helpful is to go onto youtube and listen to motivational videos about how to get yourself motivated. Stop going watching videos about how to think to get rich and stuff but find videos where it helps you recharged yourself and reconfigure your mindset. I personally find listening to Tony Robbins very helpful. I always watch his videos when I'm at the deepest point in my life.

      If you are still working on internet marketing I would tell you to not give up but take some time and review your actions in your previous attempts to sell a product and learn from it and I would advice to stick to one product to sell. Find one that is suitable for you and work on it. It's very tempting to jump from one product to another when the product you are currently working on is not converting. but be focused and stay on one product and you will find success.

      There's always light at the end of the tunnel don't give up. Everybody is meant to be successful including you. Be strong and carry on.

      I've attached a few videos that I hope will motivate you

      Complete Secrets to Success! How bad do you want it? - YouTube
      The most motivating 8 min of your life! - YouTube
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  • Profile picture of the author svsets10
    Sorry to hear about your current situation. Have you tried getting yourself in shape or training for something difficult? Whenever I am struggling I always set big goals for myself and put my head down and plug away. While this is happening everything else seems to fall in place. It could just be my own personal experience but maybe it would work for your too
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    • Profile picture of the author Justin1
      Originally Posted by svsets10 View Post

      Sorry to hear about your current situation. Have you tried getting yourself in shape or training for something difficult? Whenever I am struggling I always set big goals for myself and put my head down and plug away. While this is happening everything else seems to fall in place. It could just be my own personal experience but maybe it would work for your too
      Thanks for your post, well I have started doing some weights, and yes, its a great feeling, but have to keep up the consistency, I love weights and love walking the dog, but sadly the dogs going with the family but thats ok, I would rather her be with my boys, I do need to train harder though and lose some weight, thanks for the post :-)
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  • Profile picture of the author GT
    Hi, Justin. Internet Marketing can be a tough business, that's for sure (despite the marketers and ads that tell you otherwise).

    Emotionally, if a person has hope, then improvement and progress are possible. The good news is, there is always hope. Potential for marketing success does exist.

    The bad news is, it's not going to happen unless you do something to make it happen, and I don't mean reading more WSOs on how to make money online. I mean getting out there and doing something to generate sales.

    There are marketing plans that are free to join that have products of interest to consumers (not marketing aids of interest to marketers, but real consumer products). You would have to find a way to get potential customers to go to the sites where the products are featured and can be purchased, but that is no different than any kind of sales opportunity.

    If you find a marketing plan with a consumer goods site where you can earn direct commissions from sales, then perhaps you can do some free, personal one-on-one marketing and promotion right in your own community. Hand out cards or flyers featuring some of the available items along with the link to your affiliate-coded product site. Be friendly and invite people to visit the site.

    So, my suggestion here is that what you need right now is to see some positive results for your efforts and to generate some immediate income. My idea might not work for you. But it is worth some consideration.

    GT
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Ten
    To get back on the right track, maybe focus on positives and cut negatives out of your life.
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  • Profile picture of the author Komsat
    All good advice, just be sure to get enough sleep. It's very important in being able to resettle your hormones and emotions, and it's something you can actually do that is proven to give you some clarity. (obviously don't oversleep to the point of losing inertia.) Good Luck friend, hope things turn around.
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  • Profile picture of the author therenegadeleader
    You don't have to feel sorry for yourself, there are many people who have worst situation than you are. You need positive mindset and don't be lazy.
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  • Profile picture of the author betsyanne
    If you are looking for suggestions, here are a few. You could try a part-time job (not your dream job, but it would be nice!) and still continue learning about Internet Marketing or Online Sales or whatever you want to learn about, and doing that part-time too.

    Get motivation from successful people with good track records and keep on trying. You will be having your other job making steady money, and eventually you can quit that part-time job as soon as you have enough money coming in from the job you are studying.

    I hope this helps!
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  • Profile picture of the author garwil200
    Justin, I emphasize with your predicament and while the other posts have given you
    some good suggestions, the real root cause of your self sabotage is negative trapped
    emotions. You have been accumulating these trapped emotions since birth.

    They are trapped and exert negative vibes to your conscious, subconscious,, and heart.
    They are the cause of making wrong decisions, in other words self-sabotage. Until
    they are removed you are fighting a losing battle.

    Justin, I have a thread started on self sabotage and am offering my new ebook on the
    subject to the Warrior forum. It is called "Self-Sabotage the Dream Killer" Here is the link to get it: http://bit.ly/Swh7bD

    This is a self help book that explains the problem, but more important it gives you an
    easy 3 step system that you can do yourself. This will get those negative emotions out of you permanently.

    In addition I am offering to work with you one on one to answer your questions, and even more important I can get you started by removing what is called a "Heartwall" Based on what you are going through now I am certain that you have one or more.

    I am a practicing energy healer and I can clear you while we talk. I have been 100%
    successful at removing these trapped emotions, even for a friend and her animals in
    England. My offer is totally free and absolutely with no strings attached.

    Justin, I can and will help you, but you will have to ask. Just email me your request
    for help, and your contact details. jerry_garner@bellsouth.net
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