Give up Dreams

many of your dreams are not fully your dreams.. much of the content was handed to you .. and in many cases in your past these dreams where nothing more than something you thought about to deal with the suffering or pain you where going through ..

At the same time a lot of dreams you have and hold on to you have somehow decided not to get as there is a big risk that in getting them .. they don't turn out to be as joyful in reality as they where in your head ..

Dreaming as a way to put together a vision for your future and figure out what actions to take to get there .. is great.. even dreaming as vividly as possible and figuring out if it is something you really want is fine ..

But if you are holding onto the old if this happened differently my life would have been so much better, or of getting some type of achievment to throw in the face of everyone .. or get back at someone. or you are just daydreaming to cope with the daily suck of life.. stop take your mental energy back.. and put it toward forming visions for your own life and making the changes you can make to get there ..

there is a lot you can do right now to make positive changes in your life ..if only you would stop with the if only's