Overcoming procrastination - What finally worked for me...

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I found out about the Secret a couple years ago, but no matter what I did, nothing would work. I still had this procrastination feeling every time I wanted to take action on my goal

Everyone told you to visualize your dreams, create your vision board, recite affirmations a thousand times. I tried all of that for a long time, but the procrastination was still there.

I tell you what happened though: my limiting beliefs about money disappeared and I became more optimistic about achieving my goal. I felt deserving of my goal and believed that it was possible to get it.

So I had all this optimism and belief and worthiness, but then when the time came to do the task, I still felt blocked in some way, but I couldn't figure it out

Then I read an article about visualization and it talked about 2 kinds of visualization.

There's this visualization that all the guru's are teaching which is outcome visualization. You visualize your goal with emotion, or you make a vision board and look at it everyday.

Then there's the second kind which is the game changer for me. It's called process visualization. It involves visualizing all the steps you need to take to achieve the goal.

They had a study back in 1999 that involved students who used outcome visualization and students who used process visualization and the latter performed a lot better and had higher grades than the former. I also read that the students who used outcome visualization actually performed worse than if they didn't use any visualization at all (Maybe because it made them too optimistic)

I was surprised by this so I tried this for the first time ... and it worked!

I sat in my computer desk, then when I felt the procrastination, I closed my eyes and I visualized myself writing the ebook. I visualized myself smiling and having fun as I wrote it.

Then I made the visualization colored (instead of black and white), a movie (instead of a still frame), big and close, with slightly loud, high energy music. I turned up all these qualities and suddenly I felt a shift.

I no longer felt the task was boring and tedious, and I began to take action and enjoyed the process.

I believe this is the end of my searching-for-solution-for-procrastination journey. I'm so happy right now.

Just wanted to share this. Feel free to try it and see if it works for you!
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  • Profile picture of the author TaraCarson
    I'm on the fence about procrastination. Hard work may pay off in the future, but laziness pays off now.
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    • Profile picture of the author BrianTubbs
      lol, Tara! :-)
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    • Profile picture of the author Aaron Doud
      Originally Posted by TaraCarson View Post

      I'm on the fence about procrastination. Hard work may pay off in the future, but laziness pays off now.

      As long as that choice is conscious and you are ok with giving up things in the future for laziness now I see no problem with this.

      Most people chase money without a reason for doing so. If you are happy where you are now and where that will lead in the future you are more "successful" than most people in the world.
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      • Profile picture of the author TaraCarson
        Originally Posted by Aaron Doud View Post

        Most people chase money without a reason for doing so. If you are happy where you are now and where that will lead in the future you are more "successful" than most people in the world.
        I've been on auto-pilot lately, it's hard to get motivated. I'm comfortable with my income where it is, savings is growing, debt is mostly paid off, but I still have a lot of free time and could be doing more. I know I should continue to try to grow it, but dammit it's Florida and summer is here.
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        • Profile picture of the author Aaron Doud
          Originally Posted by TaraCarson View Post

          I've been on auto-pilot lately, it's hard to get motivated. I'm comfortable with my income where it is, savings is growing, debt is mostly paid off, but I still have a lot of free time and could be doing more. I know I should continue to try to grow it, but dammit it's Florida and summer is here.
          Tara there is nothing wrong at all with relative success as long as it is a conscious choice. If your income lets you live the life you want why should you waste time making money when you could be actually living that life?
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  • Profile picture of the author Richard Phillip
    Procrastination is my biggest bear. It helps to really feel dissatisfied with your current situation and then blow it up bigger and project it out into the future. Where will you be a year or 5 years from now if you don't take action?

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  • Profile picture of the author Gary Ning Lo
    This is exactly what i do on a daily basis. I also keep a single concept in my.

    The next step is never hard. If you focus on taking a single step towards a specific goal one at a time. You will not procrastinate.

    Cheers,

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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    live the life you have the way you want ..it is not procrastination if you are making the money you need to live the life you want now so you see no reason to work harder ...actually if the day is rainy and sucky outside it is perfect to work harder that day.. so you can take more pleasure on the good days ..

    If you are making enough to do what you want to do ..then great..why make a bunch of money ..if you never enjoy the thing having money can give you ..
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    the 4 hour work week..if you look at it ..is mostly about removing things from your day that are really low yield activities that are just procrastination in disguise
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    • Profile picture of the author PBScott
      Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

      the 4 hour work week..if you look at it ..is mostly about removing things from your day that are really low yield activities that are just procrastination in disguise
      Planning is the worst kind of procrastination.
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      • Profile picture of the author RobinInTexas
        Originally Posted by PBScott View Post

        Planning is the worst kind of procrastination.
        Boy are you close to the biggest problem in IM for many people.

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        ...Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just set there.
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  • Profile picture of the author Cobaki
    I totally agree. If you are happy with what you are earning and it's enough to sustain your needs and wants, you don't have to work harder if you don't want to. Living is not always about earning big bucks. You push yourself harder to work and earn more but you're not happy with it so it's not healthy for you. You're living life the way you want it to be.. Balancing your life is also essential.
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  • Profile picture of the author soylentgreen
    I think you may have given me a procrastination breakthrough! Thank you
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  • Profile picture of the author Sandycmy
    Perhaps I want to avoid procrastination so that I can procrastinate later !
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  • Profile picture of the author coachkat
    I have a video on YouTube about the "Have Tos" which are at the core of procrastination. Over the years, every time I had a client facing their own procrastination, we discovered its root cause...their own self-talk. Visualization is good and it helps, but add a change in your own self-talk and you will find that your resistance or procrastination can melt away. Go check out the video here, it's about 9 minutes:

    SuccessOrSabotage EliminatingTheHaveTos - YouTube

    Let me know your thoughts...
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  • Profile picture of the author Cobaki
    I think each one of us procrastinate but others do it more often while it's rare for some. It's normal I think but when it's becoming serious and you are no longer productive, that's when you should think about if you are really enjoying what you do.
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  • I agree with you that process visualization is superior to outcome visualization by a lot.

    It worked for me the same as it did for you. I was able to achieve my goals in much shorter time period with process visualization. The process of breaking up the goal in steps is much easier than conjuring emotions.

    Good post.
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  • Profile picture of the author carnal
    Procrastination is one of the worst enemies, it can literally ruin a person’s life.

    I used to procrastinate quite a lot, but now I am trying to change.
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  • Profile picture of the author devonm
    I found out that early rising, long before breakfast is a help to come onto this forum for a while to see what is being said about CPA and things like this, such as a simple landing page, that was mentioned this morning, did some work on 2 pages before I forgot and did this piece of work today and it isn't breakfast just yet. so two pieces of work done. I get crackin' early to get a headstart.
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