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the real difference between those who win and those who do not

by Odahh
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hello,
the real main difference is that winners win because they understand that it the actions the take in the face of what ever happens to them ..that the effect where they end up.

people who fail to attain any success .get completely offended that they are responsibility for where they are .they believe there outside forces that shower a few with success and keep everyone else suffering .

now this may be extremely offensive..but a lot of people including me ..who have been convinced that it is the circumstances and outside forces at fault..tend tend to pull themselves out of one set ..but plunge into another set somewhere else .
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  • Profile picture of the author cferfland247
    This is the difference

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  • Profile picture of the author dad2four
    Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

    hello,
    the real main difference is that winners win because they understand that it the actions the take in the face of what ever happens to them ..that the effect where they end up.

    people who fail to attain any success .get completely offended that they are responsibility for where they are .they believe there outside forces that shower a few with success and keep everyone else suffering .

    now this may be extremely offensive..but a lot of people including me ..who have been convinced that it is the circumstances and outside forces at fault..tend tend to pull themselves out of one set ..but plunge into another set somewhere else .
    I think about this allllll the time Odahh.

    I have learned alot. It's amazing how many people truly believe that those that are successful got that way through luck, or because it was handed to them.

    I believe that if this is how you think then you will never find success at that level.

    To me that shows no respect for the accomplishment. It shows that in your mind you don't have the understanding that you have total control of your destiny.

    I truly am where I deserve to be. I am where I am due to my actions. I have probably made over 2 million dollars in my life. It sounds incredible but it's an average of 75k a year over 25 years. What if during that time I kept my expenses down, didn't drive a car, took the bus, lived in a small apartment, didn't eat out, etc etc. How much would I have in the bank? I could be a millionaire, literally.

    And this is just one example.

    This same thinking could be aplied to health, relationships, family, work, etc etc.

    I had a teacher in high school that used to use the saying "Life is choices" through everything he taught. Now I understand why that was so important for him to teach us. Every minute of every day we have a steady stream of choices to make. Do you get up and exercise in the morning? Get up early enough to to get to work on time, or early? Spend 30 minutes on our IM dreams or zero? Turn on the TV or listen to the radio and read? Eat fruit or bacon for breakfast?

    And no matter where we are in life. We have the ability to change course immediately and we have total control over each of those choices. Truly, we have absolute control over the direction we go.

    I can wake up tomorrow and decide never to go to a job again. I can walk out of my house and decide to let the bank have it and walk the planet digging in trash cans for food. Or I can make the decision that I'm gonig to move into an apartment lower my expenses and buy a sailboat to travel the world in.

    It's pretty incredible when you think about it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    "I truly am where I deserve to be. I am where I am due to my actions. I have probably made over 2 million dollars in my life. It sounds incredible but it's an average of 75k a year over 25 years. What if during that time I kept my expenses down, didn't drive a car, took the bus, lived in a small apartment, didn't eat out, etc etc. How much would I have in the bank? I could be a millionaire, literally."

    people who have a million from doing this never really get any joy out of spending..and the children or grand children have fun spending the inheritance.

    the key os how to spend money to have a better lifestyle than most while building wealth ..and money in the bank is not that safe today ..fg global or whatever that bank that went belly up a few years ago stole the money from some of the biggest accounts ..


    a lot of people who have though buy giving their money to the government or some investment company or hiding it in the bank..that would get or grow their wealth ..buy the right stock invest in gold ..

    in many ways a lot of people became wealth on paaper from riding the correct tide.


    the way to become wealthy is to move away from the pack..figure out where the pack is going to go ..

    bill gates saw a time where there would be a computer in every home in america .. he didn't build computers though.. he built software that he wanted to be on every one of those computers .
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