Give up dreams, unless

hello ,

4 month ago i heard a teaching .. that it i time ti give up most of our dreams unless we are ready to start making them happen..and bringing them into reality .

most dream we have our dreams the we where told we should have ..or dreams of things that compensated for what we didn't have at a certain time ..

I would guess many people reading this have gone through major changes in the last few years..an many of the old dream may just not fit into the you who you are today or the you you are moving to become.

from hearing the teaching to now life has offered up a rather brutal thrashing process to pull away much of the stuff that didn't fit any more ..and to get rid of many of the dreams that will be counter to who i know want to be ..relentless ,brutal , merciless .

But i am stubborn so it has taken a brutal beating from fate to get me off the path of living a lifestyle i wanted no part of anymore ..to dreaming about and focusing on a lifestyle that allows me to be the best me i can be .

Dreams are important they allow us a yaste of an experience we may want in the future ..and they give us the choice to work for them to become reality .. but for most dreams are an escape from reality ..that they will never really try to attain .

i have just gotten around to putting my list of goals together because up until know i never managed to write goel that fit me ...many where negative goals about fixing me .

p.s. there seem to be people on this forum who read the title ignore the text and even though i know i am difficult to understand for some.. will think i was saying to stop dreaming..which i am not .