How To Deal With Your Past

11 years ago

there are two states .. running away from the past or moving forward to get something you want ..

with goals that you are taking action on ..you know actions you can take now to get where you want to get.

without goals people try and move away from what they don't want.. but get stuck in a cycle of fear waiting for the unwanted past to repeat itself .

p.s it was probably just my youtube being buggy but i could only watch a minute of the video

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MaddieQ

Banned 11 years ago

You will always remember the past and all the good and bad things that happened. But what is done is done, learn from your mistakes, make today count and be a changed person

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success4all 11 years ago

Thanks for sharing a cool video, Isaiah.

Past life experiences and resulting belief system could control the life of people for the rest of the life. If you can shake it off, like you suggested in the video, that would be great.

The good news is we are responsible for creating our belief system and we have the power to change or erase any belief system we create. With the help of good self improvement technique/system one can over come any belief system limitations.
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datingworld

11 years ago

Past, hard to forget mistakes made but better to forget about mistakes made in the past and move on.

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Isaiah Jackson

11 years ago

Originally Posted by Odahh

there are two states .. running away from the past or moving forward to get something you want ..

with goals that you are taking action on ..you know actions you can take now to get where you want to get.

without goals people try and move away from what they don't want.. but get stuck in a cycle of fear waiting for the unwanted past to repeat itself .

p.s it was probably just my youtube being buggy but i could only watch a minute of the video

All true except the Youtube video having issues thing, seems to work just fine for me.

Originally Posted by Art of Marketing

Isaiah have to give you a high five for that!

I only got to 3 mins into it and my battery was fully charged..but you know what? When I need another Positive Energy Drink...I will come back and watch again and watch longer.

Your delivery really made me smile you are like an instant buddy. hahahaha rare talent.

The same can be said about our past positive accomplishments..we can not keep relying on them we have to let it go and focus on what we contribute this day.

And the part about focusing on making someone elses day..superb.

Very cool. Thanks for Sharing.

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Inspire me to keep doing them

Originally Posted by MaddieQ

You will always remember the past and all the good and bad things that happened. But what is done is done, learn from your mistakes, make today count and be a changed person

Exactly my point. Don't let what happened yesterday create the type of person you want to become. Let what you do today create the person you want to become.

Originally Posted by success4all

Thanks for sharing a cool video, Isaiah.

Past life experiences and resulting belief system could control the life of people for the rest of the life. If you can shake it off, like you suggested in the video, that would be great.

The good news is we are responsible for creating our belief system and we have the power to change or erase any belief system we create. With the help of good self improvement technique/system one can over come any belief system limitations.

You are right, its just hard when you don't know if you want to shake it off. Some people love misery and misery loves company.

Originally Posted by datingworld

Past, hard to forget mistakes made but better to forget about mistakes made in the past and move on.

Learn from those mistakes and move on, you can't go back in time and fix it.

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Coby

11 years ago

Thanks for the reminder bro!

I just text my dad! :p

I feel better already.

Cheers,
Coby

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Isaiah Jackson 11 years ago

Originally Posted by Coby

Thanks for the reminder bro!

I just text my dad! :p

I feel better already.

Cheers,
Coby

Like A BOSS!

Thats awesome Coby
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Odahh

11 years ago

got to watch the whole thing ..not dissing anyone here who makes videos but your wone of the few i can watch ..but for some reason i revert to my 18 year old bootcamp mindset and thing " yes drill sargent" weird i know .. but i am weird ..

anyway did your mother respond happily but curious about why you send the message .

for me is not so much the sun ..but getting into areas heated by sun light like a stone chair that doesn't burn when you sit on it but radiates heat into the body or sping and fall when the sun make the inside of the car war and comfy .

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Isaiah Jackson

11 years ago

Originally Posted by Odahh

got to watch the whole thing ..not dissing anyone here who makes videos but your wone of the few i can watch ..

Well thanks for that.

Originally Posted by Odahh

but for some reason i revert to my 18 year old bootcamp mindset and thing " yes drill sargent" weird i know .. but i am weird ..

Nothing weird about the bootcamp mindset, I remember what that was like lol

Originally Posted by Odahh

anyway did your mother respond happily but curious about why you send the message .

Yes, in fact she did respond to the message with a "thanks baby" weird since she rarely calls me that ever. I don't really know if she was curious though, never asked.

Originally Posted by Odahh

for me is not so much the sun ..but getting into areas heated by sun light like a stone chair that doesn't burn when you sit on it but radiates heat into the body or sping and fall when the sun make the inside of the car war and comfy .

Yeah, I know what you mean. Feels good just thinking about it. Being all comfortable and what not.

-Isaiah Jackson

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LastingLifeSuccess

11 years ago

Isaiah, Good job on the video presentation. The video itself is testimony to the idea of doing something in moment. Bravo!

Good reminders all around as well as a confident direct approach to the viewer.

Keep making your good luck.

LLS

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Isaiah Jackson

11 years ago

Originally Posted by LastingLifeSuccess

Isaiah, Good job on the video presentation. The video itself is testimony to the idea of doing something in moment. Bravo!

Good reminders all around as well as a confident direct approach to the viewer.

Keep making your good luck.

LLS

Well thanks for watching the video, I'm happy to see that you enjoyed it.

Its reasons like that is why I continue to make them, people seem to love more of my on camera direct approach to things which is awesome.

-Isaiah Jackson

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Joel Young

11 years ago

When you texted your mom, did she text back something like, "What did you do wrong and how much will it cost"? :p

Seriously, though, awesome vid. Love how you just lay it down without all the gift wrapping. Straight shootin'. That's what it's all about.

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Isaiah Jackson

11 years ago

Originally Posted by Joel Young

When you texted your mom, did she text back something like, "What did you do wrong and how much will it cost"? :p

Seriously, though, awesome vid. Love how you just lay it down without all the gift wrapping. Straight shootin'. That's what it's all about.

Lol man that would have been funny if she did say something like that, lucky for her she rarely has too.

But yeah, I tend to not want to beat around the bush, just give it to you straight.

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11 years ago

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Isaiah Jackson

11 years ago

Originally Posted by Plugin Profits

Thanks for the video and reminder. I like your deep voice.

I wish it was easier to forget things and control thoughts and images. Instead trying to forget them often paradoxically keeps them around longer when they're things that bother you and you actually want to forget them.

Though we do have a choice to not give much importance or focus to the thoughts, images and feelings hanging around in our heads and try to not care that they're there or not, even if it feels like they ruin the present things you want to think about and do. Don't struggle with trying to get rid of them cause that is like struggling to get out of quicksand. Wanting them gone gives more energy to them (aka attention), when what you want is to give less energy to them. So as soon as you're fully successful at not caring if they are there or not and resisting their presence, you take away that energy focused on them and then they finally fade away on their own. It's not always easy to not care, even though we know that caring that they are there is what keeps them there, it is still so automatic and intuitive. We have to do what is counterintuitive. Takes a lot of practice and mindfulness.

Thanks for the compliment on my deep voice

And you are absolutely right about that as well. Which is why staying focused on the here and now is so important, if all you focus on is what is happening right here, right now. Do you even think about what happened yesterday?

I know I don't, all I'm thinking about is right now, as in what I'm typing on my computer screen right now. If someone was to ask me what I did yesterday as I'm typing this I wouldn't be able to tell them immediately because I would be too focused on doing this.

Its the same with things that bother you, think of everything that went horribly wrong in your life, then think about everything that went right. Then just think about what went right, instead of what went wrong. What went wrong only prepared you for what actually went right so in essence what went wrong really wasn't wrong at all but actually right.

Unless you did something wrong, overcoming that will be a lot harder, one way to do that would be to not give it any energy. You can't fix what has already been done but what you can do is give all of your energy to what you are going to do right now and focus on making that right.

I think its just accepting the fact that what one may have did is wrong and admitting you can't do anything about it, so just move on really.

Wow probably the longest reply from me ever :p

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KnightOnboard

11 years ago

Hi Isaiah Jackson:

Nice thoughts on your video. Say hi to your mom from a bunch of nice guys and gals from WF.

On the topic of dealing with the past, if you are still chewing and grueling your past mistakes, you are just wasting you time and energy that you should be addressing more important goals. You are just blocking your "vibes" with negative energy instead of recharging it with positive "vibes" from the universe.

Long time ago, I was watching a movie with my son:"The Lion King" and we found a dialogue that really cause an impact in my life :
{Rafiki whacks Simba on the head with his staff.}
Simba: Oww! Jeez-- What was that for?
Rafiki: It doesn't matter; it's in the past! {laughs}

Simba: {Rubbing head} Yeah, but it still hurts.
Rafiki: Oh yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it, you can either run from it, or... learn from it. (TLK Script (HTML 3.0 Version))

Then again it´s a matter of CHOICE.

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Odahh

11 years ago

i have one of the strangest ways of dealing with my past in this lifetime .

for the last for month i have been trying to break free of the patterns that keep me stuck in one place by understanding them an knowing how to avoid repeating those patterns.

in realty the last 4 months have been some of the most painfull and draining of my life .but it has also been the first time that going through had some grounding in a future outcome .

frankly i need to distance my self from my family now as they will always treate me as they have always treat me .. and i waste to much effort and energy trying to get back on the path i want to be on ..having to deal with them

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KnightOnboard

11 years ago

Originally Posted by Odahh

i have one of the strangest ways of dealing with my past in this lifetime .

for the last for month i have been trying to break free of the patterns that keep me stuck in one place by understanding them an knowing how to avoid repeating those patterns.

in realty the last 4 months have been some of the most painfull and draining of my life .but it has also been the first time that going through had some grounding in a future outcome .

frankly i need to distance my self from my family now as they will always treate me as they have always treat me .. and i waste to much effort and energy trying to get back on the path i want to be on ..having to deal with them

Hi Odahh:

Break that vicious circle and move forward.
Past is already gone. Love and do something for yourself.

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streetpipscom

11 years ago

All I can say is that, learn from your previous mistakes and then move on.

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Isaiah Jackson

11 years ago

Originally Posted by KnightOnboard

Hi Isaiah Jackson:

Nice thoughts on your video. Say hi to your mom from a bunch of nice guys and gals from WF.

On the topic of dealing with the past, if you are still chewing and grueling your past mistakes, you are just wasting you time and energy that you should be addressing more important goals. You are just blocking your "vibes" with negative energy instead of recharging it with positive "vibes" from the universe.

Long time ago, I was watching a movie with my son:"The Lion King" and we found a dialogue that really cause an impact in my life :
{Rafiki whacks Simba on the head with his staff.}
Simba: Oww! Jeez-- What was that for?
Rafiki: It doesn't matter; it's in the past! {laughs}

Simba: {Rubbing head} Yeah, but it still hurts.
Rafiki: Oh yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it, you can either run from it, or... learn from it. (TLK Script (HTML 3.0 Version))

Then again it´s a matter of CHOICE.

Greetings

Thats awesome, and yeah I told my mom everyone said hi

I like that how a simple movie like The Lion King (great movie) can have an impact on someones life like that.

Originally Posted by Odahh

i have one of the strangest ways of dealing with my past in this lifetime .

for the last for month i have been trying to break free of the patterns that keep me stuck in one place by understanding them an knowing how to avoid repeating those patterns.

in realty the last 4 months have been some of the most painfull and draining of my life .but it has also been the first time that going through had some grounding in a future outcome .

frankly i need to distance my self from my family now as they will always treate me as they have always treat me .. and i waste to much effort and energy trying to get back on the path i want to be on ..having to deal with them

I know the feeling and you want to know what is working for me right now, keeping to myself. Thinking about myself (not to sound selfish) but I'm serious.

You can't force your family to be a certain way, they act the way they do because they chose to act that way make sense?

Next, who cares how you family treats you (not trying to sound harsh or anything).

What really matters is how do YOU treat YOU?

Focus on YOU first and always, then worry about everyone else later.

Originally Posted by streetpipscom

All I can say is that, learn from your previous mistakes and then move on.

Exactly, its just harder for some people than it is for others.

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Odahh

11 years ago

Originally Posted by Isaiah Jackson

I know the feeling and you want to know what is working for me right now, keeping to myself. Thinking about myself (not to sound selfish) but I'm serious.

You can't force your family to be a certain way, they act the way they do because they chose to act that way make sense?

Next, who cares how you family treats you (not trying to sound harsh or anything).

What really matters is how do YOU treat YOU?

Focus on YOU first and always, then worry about everyone else later.

careing how you are being treated now by those around you is importan in as far as somthing i may have posted earlier in this thread.

you are either running away from the past or you are moving in the direction of who you want to be .

how i have been treated by the world has been pretty much the same way my family treated me .

the cavat is for the last 3 years i have been taking care of my elderly parents who my father has had 2 heart attacks .. and my mother has been really ill and needed a lot of help..most of it from me .

when you are faced with the prospect of getting away from them to take care of your needs ..means they may pass earlier ..

but i just can no longer wait for the to die to live the life i want .

but i also now have a very clear vision on nearly every level of what the best life for me right now will be ..and with every day that pases over the last few weeks i am at that point i can shut my eyes and walk through smell taste and feel what it will be like .

so the has been a shift from being stuck where i have been for a long tome to being pushed out of and struggling to break free ..to now being pulled forward to where i want to be .

even my body and my back ..are lineing up..as day by day in the last week the pain in my back the has been constant for several years .. or the damage causeing the pain..feel like it is starting to heal .

one by one over the last few months many of the excuses that where piled up have become invalid and been shredded .

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Odahh

11 years ago

my family will never support me in what i want to do .. and will always make me feel like i am incabable of doing anything right..or at least right by them i will never be good enough..or do enough .

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Trey Morgan

11 years ago

Great advice man. The past is the past. Learn from it and move on.

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Isaiah Jackson 11 years ago

Originally Posted by tvon

Great advice man. The past is the past. Learn from it and move on.

Thanks for watching the video.

-Isaiah Jackson
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onlinesolutions1985

11 years ago

If you choose to and you are really skilled, you can block all memory of the past from your mind. In extreme settings, I have seen people do this naturally, but I must admit, it’s rare.

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