When a friend or family member asks you for a loan, what would you say?
Yes, it may be tough to turn down requests - as always - but it is absolutely necessary to do so.
Any help involving money will almost always spoil a relationship. Of course that's not the point. This kind of relationship is not worth keeping anyway.
Offering favours is always better than offering money. I remember that I once asked a colleague of mine jokingly, "I think I might need to seek financial help from you."
You know what her reply was? She said, "I don't think offering financial help is a good idea. But if you're so broke that you can't feed yourself, I'll buy you food."
I was actually very touched upon hearing her offer. I always knew that lending someone money is never a good idea because I'd had a number of bad experiences myself. My colleague thought I was for real so I understood where she's coming from.
More importantly, she didn't turn me down plainly. She did offer to help, albeit in a more unconventional way. And she didn't say it to brush me off. I could feel her sincerity!
Sure there might be some exceptional cases like there's this friend who'd always paid back promptly or a family member whom you'd have to help no matter what.
A few exceptional cases are fine. Just refrain from turning too soft. It's not going to do you any good.
So, when someone asks you for a loan, what would you do?
Cheers~
Mark
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