The Silent Treatment. . .
There is the ego. Then, there is everything else that is or isn’t. When the ego encounters a problem, a question, a situation, a dilemma; it generally digs in and works to attain the answer it requires. And, when it fails to receive the correct answer amidst its search it reacts first in frustration trying to force the answer. Then desperation and a sense of failure set in.
This kind of blockage, defeat is not unusual for the human condition. It is a sort of built in default position we too often find ourselves in. The answer to this quandary is too simple, and often too trying for the participant to deal with. But, . . .give it a try.
The answer is “give it the silent treatment”. In other words when the confusion arises, when the problem doubles in size and looms ever more menacingly, when the answer refuses to reveal itself: “Go Silent”. “Drop It”. “Let Go Of It”. . . . if you have it in you.
I have found if you do this and are patient enough to flow (resistance-lessly) with the outcomes that ensue while you work to maximize your effort in honestly resolving the issue as the next step reveals itself, . . .You Will Get Relief, . . .You Will Get A Satisfactory Answer. At least to the next step in the process: and some times the issues require a “process” which will play itself out over time. But ultimately the outcomes pursued this way were Always Positive. They always have been for me. Honestly!
Best to everyone.
Cat @ Product Creation Blog
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