Motivation: Myth Or Magic?

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Motivation is a psychological feature that arouses an organism to act towards a desired goal and elicits, controls, and sustains certain goal-directed behaviors. (wikipedia)

Motivation is literally the desire to do things. (psychology today)

If this is the case why don't we pursue projects and goals that appeal to our inner nature? Each of us knows exactly what we like and don't like. If we were instructed early on and given guidance that it is not only okay to pursue what you really enjoy doing, but it is recommended as a way of life regardless of income potential. But that's not how it is.

It is possible to make a transition into a line of work that is truly cared about by the participant. When this happens the question of motivation becomes unnecessary because the line of work provides all the motivation necessary for the one who is passionately involved with this effort of his life.

"I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life.
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things ..."

Somehow I can't see why this doesn't apply to our livelihoods as well.
#monster #motivation #myth
  • Profile picture of the author AlyseS
    Because the desires of our inner nature can't always pay the bills or buy the yacht.

    Everyone is always talking about following your dreams, but for a lot of people following their dreams won't create the lifestyles that they want or need. It can be a bit hard for dream projects/passions and financial goals to meet.

    I find that if you want less financially, it's much easier to be happy following your dreams and passions. I just don't see how it's possible for everyone to follow their dreams (do what they really love) and make a living doing it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Ten
    Motivation can be tricky because we often each have conflicting desires. Someone can want to become wealthy, but want to relax and play frequently. Depending on how these conflicting motivations/desires interact, it can result it multiple different outcomes.
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    motivation ..does not get you doing new things ..real motivation keeps you doing things in a certain pattern ..unless a change is forced or gets the same results with less work.

    if you want to replace a bad habit with more productive behavior..it is hard to get motivated not to do something you like doing .

    the only way is to replace that behavior..the problem many smokers found was they replaced the smoking with eating junk food ..after all the junk food companies where bought by the tobacco companies ..who used their know how to make junk food more addictive .

    motivation to do something is really pointless we can't all be rock start or rap stars who need to be dragged up on stage an hour late to perform..but once they are up there they are motivated as f*(& .

    if it is something that motivates you when you are doing it ..get some process in place to get you started doing it
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    • Profile picture of the author Michael Shook
      This is a self-regulating sort of idea. We do do the things that bring us what we want. We are always motivated, there is no way to do anything without being motivated to do that thing.

      Its not like we have to find motivation, it is part of our internal system. If we want to change, the first step is deciding we want something different, the second figuring out what we are going to let go of to make room for what we want now, and the third - actually letting go.

      The third is what keeps a lot of people stuck with what they have right now. They believe that since it already met their needs, it will continue to do so, even though they themselves and their needs and desires have changed.
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  • Profile picture of the author Make Money Ninja
    I dont think motivation is the problem with most people. We all wan't better things and if you are anything like me you will most likely be driven to get them. (All of us on this site have that much in common right? We are here to improve, learn and make money).

    The key thing i think most people lack is FOCUS. Theres a huge difference between motivation and focus. Motivation is what gets the wheels going on any venture, focus is what creates momentum.

    Focus takes a great deal of discipline. It requires mental clarity. Having your goal in mind at all times and the discipline to bring yourself back on track every time you go off track.

    Personally i find it easy to get distracted with stuff like facebook, youtube, news sites, email etc. I have managed to make improvements in this area by having clarity of goals, then by enforcing discipline, blocking certain sites in work hours and increased consciousness to bring myself back on task whenever i slip.

    Its always a work in progress. Think 2 steps forward, one step back.

    2 cents.
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  • Profile picture of the author teEntrepreneur
    Great post mate! For me to be honest, it's science.

    Motivation is kind of like your desire.
    Desire, to achieve something, is what keeps you going.
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  • Profile picture of the author taxpayment1
    Motivation Is a key word to everyone's success. You must always stay motivated to keep moving forward, to always progress, and find a way to better yourself. Personal development Is great, you must always have a positive attitude. Motivation Is KEY!
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  • Profile picture of the author sweethomeliving
    Motivation is a great start to doing something. What seems to hold people back, I think, is fear, poor self-image (i.e. not believing you can do what you set out to do) reaction to criticism and other mind-set stuff.
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  • Profile picture of the author joesfortune
    Because life is real. It has to be lived and experienced with all its ugliness and beauty, and all its contradictions that temper us all to do the best we can, be the best we can. Unfortunately, not everybody can see this wisdom of life. Most of us succumb to the fast-food mentality, to push-button life-styles.
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