Your Most Important Sacrifice

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There's one sacrifice that you cannot escape from making once you decide to follow your dream or your calling. A sacrifice that would determine whether you'd make the journey before you one with joy or immense suffering.

This is especially true if your dreams are outrageously wild and seemingly impossible to others. You'll find that most times you won't even have to wait too long before an opportunity presents itself.

You'll have to face it at one point or the other but either way the sacrifice will be made. Your choice however, will be on whether or not the sacrifice shall benefit you or be your doom.

You'll have to decide who to keep in your trusted circle.

Its been said that you can tell a lot about a person by the company they keep. Take a close look at the 5 people who you closely associate yourself with and ask yourself this: Do they have my best interests at heart? Would they be there for me if I crashed and fell flat on my face?

The moment you decide to follow your dream and stay true to it you'll begin to notice certain people in your life begin to fall out. These could even be people who you used to hang out with for hours on end but for one reason or another you don't seem to have the connection you used to have.

Now I'm not here to tell you which friendships you should keep, I'm here to enlighten you on the ones worth keeping. And if you do find that it's someone who you truly value as a friend but you've both drifted apart then by all means FIGHT TO HAVE THEM BACK.

But if they're not then here's exactly what you're going to do: ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.

Let them go. It's a hard step forward but a necessary one.

In my opinion it's better to achieve success and celebrate it with the people who remained true to you than to celebrate it with people who you don't trust and worse of all could even suspect.

Save yourself the trouble, pain and effort.

If you know in your heart that this person/people do not have your best interests at heart and do not support whatever you're doing, that's fine.

This will come off as a bit harsh but the truth of the fact is you're better off without their support. Follow your own journey and let them follow theirs. Wish them the best of luck in life and proceed to do what you do best with the people who truly love and support you.

Your life is too short to fill it with people who'll drag you down. You'll have enough troubles to deal with why make your journey even tougher?

You are a light that should not be contaminated. Start seeing yourself as such.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dain Supero
    100% agreed, from personal experience.

    Greatness through sacrifice.

    There is no other way.
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    i have gone into this in other threads and for the most part agree ..but this is ego based as people will surround themselves with people who they feel are like them.. and if they are petty with people who are a bigger mess .

    personally i have to move from where i am .. but i have been taking care of my parents untill recently and may do so again if they come home to pass on ..but i severed ties with many people a long time ago .

    i do not show who i am now to my family as the refuse to see it anyway..and know who i want in my life ..there are 7 plus billion people on this planet ..you can surround yourselve with the one who make your live better to live and you can get rich havining a few thousand as customers
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  • Profile picture of the author C G
    Letting some of my friends go because they were holding me back, was one of the hardest things i had to do. But it was necessary and worth it.

    Cheers,

    C.G.
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  • Profile picture of the author Ryan Lindner
    Great points here guys.

    I agree, I think that as you grow and become more conscious/aware, ultimately some relationships are going to fall away.

    I have noticed myself become less reactive over time, as a result of being more aware of my ego. Certain relationships do not seem to be aligned with this mindset, as some of those old patterns, negativity, and destructive relationships no longer have room in my life.

    I agree CG, I think it was worth it, and the relationships I'm in now are much more positive.
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  • Profile picture of the author Trey Morgan
    Letting go of relationships that aren't beneficial to your success may be difficult at first, but it the long run you will be able to focus on your goals without feeling responsible for keeping the relationship alive.

    If it is meant to be that person will end up back in your life, if not you have to accept your decision and move on.
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