The TOP 4 Things To Master In Your Life

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Hi

Just a few thoughts on what I learned at a recent business seminar I went to.

In my opinion, there are 4 Things you should become a Master At:

(1) MONEY - To obtain Financial Freedom & Wealth, to afford the desired lifestyle as well as to give to others.
(2) RELATIONSHIPS - Great relationship with partner, children, a fulfilling social life with close friends/companions
(3) HEALTH - a healthy fit body leads to stronger mental focus
(4) SPIRITUAL - spiritual awareness leads to a satifying purpose-filled life

The main focus of the forum is to obtain the "Money" aspect covered.
But in my experience, we need the other 3 to be truly fulfilled.

*Something to think about*
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  • Profile picture of the author C G
    Agree.. You need to live a balanced life with goals in all these 4 areas.

    Cheers,

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  • Profile picture of the author damiensuccess
    How about,,,, Master debater?
    *Giggle* childish humor..

    Thanks for sharing this. Focus on these points and you will indeed stand strong in the end.
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  • Hehehe being a master debater can be an added advantage..
    Like when asking your moms to put an extra piece of chicken on your plate
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  • Profile picture of the author sarah23
    We need all of these 4 plus there are more which can be added
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    the order of the list it the main problem most will have with mastering these .

    spiritual understanding is the first thing to master ..in the last few years there has been a major shift in being spiritual ..many of the teachings of the past involve getting in touch with spirit to escape or deal with the the suffering of human life . or explain ..what ever .

    the new mastery is opening to letting spirit work in your life to end the suffering .

    relationships..if ya didn't notice it seem every relationship of almost everyone in the world is shifting and changing from the traditional role as most people are going through the spiritual shift and being driven to things that allow them to express the way spirit is comming through them ..

    and traditional relationships where based on people families and communities molding together to limit suffering and take care of survival .

    health ..no pain no gain ..does not work anymore ..our relationship to our body and the community of trillions of cells ..effects everything else . if their is pain in the body ..we must learn to listen to our body on how to fix what is causing the pain..and stop looking at pain as somthing to be treated or supressed ..now there are kinds of soreness that show signs of growth and progress .. but these also tell you if you need reast or what you need to feed the body to restore it .

    money ..is a medium of exchange and a currency ..so it;s basic purpose is to flow through your experience so you can acquire thing that provide experiences .and support the action you are taking .. the main problem most people limit the amount of money in their experience ..and limit what comes into their experience to what they can buy with money .
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  • Profile picture of the author Gavin Stephenson
    (5) Mental and Emotional Intelligence (Should be no.1)

    This is the source to mastering every other area. When you master yourself you can master all other areas of life.

    This is a forum about money and marketing but, you'll need the mind and emotional strength of a WARRIOR to beat, problems, road blocks, adversity, challenges and more!

    The 'easier' ride comes through mastering the mind and emotions, with that you can take on anything!
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    • Profile picture of the author cshilling22
      Originally Posted by Gavin Stephenson View Post

      (5) Mental and Emotional Intelligence (Should be no.1)

      This is the source to mastering every other area. When you master yourself you can master all other areas of life.

      This is a forum about money and marketing but, you'll need the mind and emotional strength of a WARRIOR to beat, problems, road blocks, adversity, challenges and more!

      The 'easier' ride comes through mastering the mind and emotions, with that you can take on anything!
      You are right about emotional intelligence. However, that could probably be a sub-category under relationships.
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      • Profile picture of the author Gavin Stephenson
        Originally Posted by cshilling22 View Post

        You are right about emotional intelligence. However, that could probably be a sub-category under relationships.
        What do you mean?
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        • Profile picture of the author cshilling22
          Originally Posted by Gavin Stephenson View Post

          What do you mean?
          I agree how important EQ is. I just think with the categories he listed EQ is similar to relationships or even spirituality for self-awareness.
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          • Profile picture of the author heavysm
            Originally Posted by Maestro-Copywriter View Post

            Hi

            Just a few thoughts on what I learned at a recent business seminar I went to.

            In my opinion, there are 4 Things you should become a Master At:

            (1) MONEY - To obtain Financial Freedom & Wealth, to afford the desired lifestyle as well as to give to others.
            (2) RELATIONSHIPS - Great relationship with partner, children, a fulfilling social life with close friends/companions
            (3) HEALTH - a healthy fit body leads to stronger mental focus
            (4) SPIRITUAL - spiritual awareness leads to a satifying purpose-filled life

            The main focus of the forum is to obtain the "Money" aspect covered.
            But in my experience, we need the other 3 to be truly fulfilled.

            *Something to think about*
            I am a stronger believer that if your internal world is strong so should the same reflect on the physical plane or the material world.

            Number 1 for me would have to be the spiritual dimension of development since when that is strong and solid literally everything else falls into place. Or so it did for me.

            Originally Posted by Gavin Stephenson View Post

            (5) Mental and Emotional Intelligence (Should be no.1)

            This is the source to mastering every other area. When you master yourself you can master all other areas of life.

            This is a forum about money and marketing but, you'll need the mind and emotional strength of a WARRIOR to beat, problems, road blocks, adversity, challenges and more!

            The 'easier' ride comes through mastering the mind and emotions, with that you can take on anything!
            I would have to classify that under the spiritual as well.

            Meditation puts you more in tune with internal balance. Things just become okay which were originally chaotic and unstable. And the things that were great become extraordinary and amazing.

            I studied emotional intelligence when i first got into college. Mostly just the books and talking to my psychology teachers about what they know.

            To get the most out of yourself, especially for emotional intelligence, you really need to focus on you rather than the benefits of being emotionally intelligent which is merely the effect.

            I've thought about this stuff (I am philosophy major in university so i think about a ton of stuff lol) and as soon as one points the focus inward and fixes those internal problems their material world reflects this positive change.

            I think you know what I'm talking about since you have those videos about LoA etc but I needed to clarify your post that a ton can be attributed to the spiritual aspect - health, relationships, money, prosperity and general success - as long as we're working with the definition of looking inwardly to first solve and enhance ourselves at our core rather than starting from the outside going from effect to cause.
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            • Profile picture of the author Gavin Stephenson
              Originally Posted by heavysm View Post


              I think you know what I'm talking about since you have those videos about LoA etc but I needed to clarify your post that a ton can be attributed to the spiritual aspect - health, relationships, money, prosperity and general success - as long as we're working with the definition of looking inwardly to first solve and enhance ourselves at our core rather than starting from the outside going from effect to cause.
              Yep, I can go really deep into this subject. I love it.

              For example sometimes people can't seem to create money in their lives, no matter how hard they try (this was me!) - EVEN if they change their subconscious patterns.

              This is because they haven't dealt with the spiritual level.

              From personal experience when I dealt with the spiritual level, things shifted.

              We have to understand that we are spiritual beings living in a physical experience and not the other way around.

              Inward is the only way to create the outward.

              Everything starts within, and most people are looking outside themselves for answers.

              This is truly hard to explain for people reading this because sometimes your current level of awareness won't allow you see the JUICE in what I am actually saying.

              Sometimes you're just not ready to hear it yet.

              Example: I had the book Think and Grow Rich for 4 years. I "thought" (internal) - it was a bunch of BULLPooP.

              When I read it four years later - when my awareness had expanded. I read the first 4 chapters in a day and BOOM - money with 2 months

              Life changing money.

              What stopped me before? From reading it? From putting into action.? emmm?

              We have to take responsibility for our internal world. STOP allowing the external world to dictate our thoughts emotions and actions.

              Example - Television (TELL LIE VISION) A tool to programme your mind and tell lies to your vision.

              What we must do is focus on creating our own vision for life and not watching other people live out their vision.

              Call me conspiracy theorist but the truth is you're being exposed to it. If you know anything about neural plasticity you'll know that, what we expose ourselves to we become.

              Ever hear the term - You are what you eat? Same goes with what you expose your mind to consistently.

              Everyone knows you're the 5 people you hang around the most too. :-)

              Now I am not saying I don't watch stuff, I am not going to lie, but it's stuff that makes me laugh, inspires me and makes me feel good.

              On the odd occasion I watch some TV junk that adds no value to my life apart from being entertained by it.

              I like to call it Enter-TRAINMENT lol just to remind myself not to get too engaged! Don’t let them Enter-TRAIN your kids

              One of my friends just had a baby and he is already getting her to listen to think and grow rich and positive affirmations (Ouch she’s going to live an awesome life)

              Heck, Some people go extreme and don't watch tv at all. I totally understand why.

              But we all know anyone who has done anything "great" is either very TALENTED (a trait from within) or they have learned to master themselves in a specific area.

              Some people are lucky enough to just be BORN with it or they had the experiences and situations that got them to think in a particularly way that allows success.

              All in all.

              YOU are the results of your thinking, emotions and actions!
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  • @Sarah what else, would you say can be added @Odahh I agree with you, people go after the money first, looking for joy there, instead of finding joy from within (spiritual) and then from there look for outside success.
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  • @Gavin True.
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  • Profile picture of the author BonganiS
    That is true. We call this a balanced life. Thanks for sharing.

    Originally Posted by Maestro-Copywriter View Post

    Hi

    Just a few thoughts on what I learned at a recent business seminar I went to.

    In my opinion, there are 4 Things you should become a Master At:

    (1) MONEY - To obtain Financial Freedom & Wealth, to afford the desired lifestyle as well as to give to others.
    (2) RELATIONSHIPS - Great relationship with partner, children, a fulfilling social life with close friends/companions
    (3) HEALTH - a healthy fit body leads to stronger mental focus
    (4) SPIRITUAL - spiritual awareness leads to a satifying purpose-filled life

    The main focus of the forum is to obtain the "Money" aspect covered.
    But in my experience, we need the other 3 to be truly fulfilled.

    *Something to think about*
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  • Profile picture of the author Trey Morgan
    Originally Posted by Maestro-Copywriter View Post

    Hi

    Just a few thoughts on what I learned at a recent business seminar I went to.

    In my opinion, there are 4 Things you should become a Master At:

    (1) MONEY - To obtain Financial Freedom & Wealth, to afford the desired lifestyle as well as to give to others.
    (2) RELATIONSHIPS - Great relationship with partner, children, a fulfilling social life with close friends/companions
    (3) HEALTH - a healthy fit body leads to stronger mental focus
    (4) SPIRITUAL - spiritual awareness leads to a satifying purpose-filled life

    The main focus of the forum is to obtain the "Money" aspect covered.
    But in my experience, we need the other 3 to be truly fulfilled.

    *Something to think about*
    Looking at most of my goals and aspirations I see that I'm currently working towards mastering all four of those without realizing it.

    I also believe it is wise to work on conquering our fears, because I noticed that fear is usually what restricts our success and happiness in life.

    After mastering all those things, life would become a playgruond.
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    mental and emotional intelligence ...

    i steer cleer of this ..

    manipulation is looked at as negative ..but if you are going to work with people you have to know how to get them in the most productive emotional state
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    • Profile picture of the author heavysm
      Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

      mental and emotional intelligence ...

      i steer cleer of this ..

      manipulation is looked at as negative ..but if you are going to work with people you have to know how to get them in the most productive emotional state
      I don't see how this is problematic. One of the best ways to get people amped up their work is to get them to see how much they're appreciated in the work place. That their efforts actually mean something.

      Recognizing that and conveying that would a function of emotional intelligence.

      Mental intelligence as I understand it appeals more to raw thought power as it creates strategies and outlines for profit. This would obviously be in the business setting, but it applies to anything else really.

      I just don't see how these things are problematic if taken from a neutral stand point. It appears you're looking at it from a forcably manipulative view which isn't necessary at all.
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    i agree .

    there is manipulation that leaves a person feeling wronged ..and there is manipulation .. that people like but sometimes pushes them to far out of their comfort zone

    i am empathic ..and some people i tune into really well so i can't allow them to be in a negative state or cause harm to them when i am around them ..or contacting them .

    but i can't tune into most people ..

    but i made the mistake of mentioning it to new agers once.. and they made it out like it was a bad thing to put people in a much better state so i could tune into those emotion to feel better ..

    well i hope the go;lactic federation of light mother ships came down and save them from the end of the world in 12,21,12
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