Law of Attraction + I Hate Rich Kids

by Pre
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According to law of attraction HATE is not a good vibration, but I have to admit that right now I hate kids and people who grew up rich. They had everything since they were born, they didn't had anything to worry about, their parents made sure they get the best education / training, they traveled the world, had the latest toys, etc ....without doing anything. They were just lucky because they were born in a family that had it all.

And the worst part about this is that they see themselves SUPERIOR ...even if they aren't.

Now as I've said before I hate this kind of kids / people and according to the law of attraction hate is not a good vibration and I was wondering how other people deal with this and with the law of attraction.
#attraction #hate #kids #law #rich
  • Profile picture of the author RogozRazvan
    There is a difference between hate and envy.

    And the best way to go about this is to follow the old platitude ...

    "If you can't beat them, join them".

    At some point, I've used to hate a lot of people not because they suck as people but because they have something I don't. From money to status to knowledge to influence. As soon as I've got it, I've realized that they are actually amazing human beings.

    I guess this is part of human nature.

    And you know what's the irony in all of this?

    I've grown up hearing that rich people are greedy *******s and that the best people in the world are the poor ones. They are "pure".

    The problem was that the pure people were arguing, figthing, gossiping while the rich people actually treated me like a million bucks. It wasn't long before I've reversed my bias and started hating poor people instead of rich ones.

    This goes for everything. Hate the opposite sex because it seems mean and once you get to understand it and like it, you'll not hate it anymore. Hate Germans because they were associated with Hitler and once I've meet a few, I've realized that they are among the most awesome people in the world.

    (Some of the most wisest people I've ever meet and also the friendliest were from Germany or Switzerland).

    Hate rockers because society taught you that rockers are dirty and a waste of potential until you meet one. A good friend of mine is also my client and a rock-star, the kind with songs in the iTunes leader-board.

    So my advice is to try and get to know those rich kids. You'll realize that even if some suck due to their pseudo-"I'm better than you" attitude, most of them are actually awesome.

    And you know what's the real deal here?

    In this world there are both amazing people and awful people. There are benefactors and there are rapists. There are people who would jump in front of a bullet for you and there are people who would shoot you just for fun.

    You can't change the world, you can't make them go away. So just focus on your own thing and live and let live.

    PS: A bit of tough love - they may be superior in some ways. If I can play basketball better than you, I'm superior in that game. If you work harder than me, you are superior in work ethic. But you can't define if a human being is superior on this simplistic arguments alone.

    PPS: Hate is a good emotion in SOME CIRCUMSTANCES. Hate for poverty, hate for cancer, hate for compromises. Hate is a major dislike towards something, emotionally charged. It is the opposite of LOVE. So you can use HATE in some cases but it is a rather short lived emotion. Hating myself for not being able to accomplish my goals won't make me accomplish my goals. Hating the opposite of not accomplishing my goal can actually push me to accomplish my goal.

    However, love, joy, serenity, passion(ate) are far better emotions ... but I've never been big with the LoA stuff. I personally consider that it is BS.
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  • Profile picture of the author JensSteyaert
    You would be surprised who many of these people who were born rich have a totally miserable life.

    See the thing is that if you have everything in life without ever having to struggle for it, you will never be able to appreciate the things you have.

    I really believe the happiest people are those who know both sides of the coin. How can you really know joy if you haven't known misery?
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    • Profile picture of the author Maximus93
      Originally Posted by JensSteyaert View Post

      You would be surprised who many of these people who were born rich have a totally miserable life.

      See the thing is that if you have everything in life without ever having to struggle for it, you will never be able to appreciate the things you have.

      I really believe the happiest people are those who know both sides of the coin. How can you really know joy if you haven't known misery?
      This totally, I went to an all-boy's private school from a middle class family (both parents worked full time) with a LOT of rich kids. They didn't seem much happier than any other type of kid in my opinion. But they were probably more comfortable.

      I'm just thinking now of the rich kids who were popular in that time who are now dealing drugs and living on their own, trying to reinstate their former glory of not having to worry about anything and having everything.
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  • Profile picture of the author Pre
    Originally Posted by RogozRazvan View Post

    "If you can't beat them, join them".
    Originally Posted by RogozRazvan View Post

    So my advice is to try and get to know those rich kids. You'll realize that even if some suck due to their pseudo-"I'm better than you" attitude, most of them are actually awesome.
    The problems is that I already did that and that is not a solution. All they do all day is gossip, talk what's new in a TV show, who got drunk last night, who slept with who last week ...childish things ..and they are 25-30 years old, but since their parents provide them everything that's all they have to do.

    Yes they are very relaxed, at coffee houses and shopping all day + clubbing every weekend ...but this is not the life I want to join and the thing that bothers me is that they don't deserve all those things ...they just abuse the fact that their parents really love them and that they would do anything for them.

    Originally Posted by JensSteyaert View Post

    You would be surprised who many of these people who were born rich have a totally miserable life.

    See the thing is that if you have everything in life without ever having to struggle for it, you will never be able to appreciate the things you have.
    The problem here is that they don't care about appreciating things, because if they destroy a brand new BMW they will get a new one ( a better version ) next month. They take it for granted, and their parents provide everything for them.
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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      The envy and jealousy are dripping off the page here.

      they don't deserve all those things
      Who are you to decide what kind of life someone else 'deserves".

      I hope you will look inside yourself to see why the lifestyles of other people upset you to this extent. If you aren't one of them - how do you know what they talk about? If you don't want to have that lifestyle - why worry about it at all?

      Your comments sound bitter and hateful - not traits that will help you pursue a happy and fulfilling life. Envy and jealousy are emotions that only harm the person who feels them.
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  • Profile picture of the author RogozRazvan
    Look ...

    I know such a rich kid. He's feeling miserable. He needs your attention, friendship and help.

    You forget one thing - behind big money lies big efforts.

    Behind kids with money lies parents who were never there.

    This explains a lot if you think about it.

    And if I had all the money in the world, without the need for anything extra, I would gossip all day too.

    I am who I am today in order to serve a goal, to get from A to B. That's why it is hard for me to blame them.

    There are some people who all the think is how to get food tomorrow. There are other people who only think how they can get invited to some social event. Different stages in their lives, different needs.

    Hating them won't solve anything. You wouldn't do it better if you were in their shoes.

    I've heard a lot of people saying ...

    "If I had all that money ... I would" and I quickly cut them off with "no, you wouldn't. You would be a lazy son of a bitch too. You analyze the situation from who you are now, not who you would be then".

    It is the same principle for "when I'll have a million dollars, I will be happy". When you'll have a million dollars you'll be a different person from who you are right now and you'll have different views on life and different needs.
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  • Profile picture of the author Pre
    Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

    Who are you to decide what kind of life someone else 'deserves".
    I'm that guy who grew up around them, saw their evolution over years, didn't played their stupid games ...and now thanks to the opportunities offered by the internet I've managed to create a company that makes more than their parents offline business make ...and now they are the ones who want to be around me by trying to show me that we are at the same level by showing me their brand new BMW bought by daddy.

    I'm not that type of guy who hates for no reason, but when you see people who are where they are because of their parents, because their parents made sure they paid someone to put their kid in a good job, they bribed a judge to save their kid from going to jail, they paid for thing their kids destroyed ....this is how you react. And after all these things ...they still see themselves as superiors.
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  • Profile picture of the author Taniwha
    GROW UP, PEOPLE... Stop worrying about those people. It's just as bad as watching celebrity magazines - following up on other people's lives. As someone said earlier "There is a difference between hate and envy", and it seems like you hold the latter.

    Focus on YOUR goals and YOUR circumstances and you'll find that your beloved "Law of Attraction" will start to work.
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    • Profile picture of the author heavysm
      Quite an oxymoron there in the title.

      For true LoA to happen you need to eradicate that head trash. It's serving you no good and will serve as an anchor as you try to attract things into your life.

      Letting go of the negative so you can welcome in good and abundance is a MUST in this situation. There is no other way. Before true positive attraction occurs your negative vibration, and it is a very negative vibration (i mean hate? sheesh lol), must be wiped out from your mind.

      Look into the Sedona method for letting go. It needs to be a deep core release such that when you think about those better off than you or "rich kids" there is no negative sentiment whatsoever.
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    why care at all about them now if they don't add to your bottom line..or make life more fun when you are around them .

    you are not a rich kid you will never be one of them ..nor do you want to be .

    thing are thing the value you they have is based off of the experience one gets from having them .

    why do you hate them ..seem that lit a fire under your butt to get rich ..now that you are it doesn't change much..so what is the new reason to keep building wealth if you will never be one of the rich kids
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  • Profile picture of the author dgui123451
    Hate is a very strong word, do not waste your energy hating, do something worthwhile with all that energy and forget the that which is not important, only you and what you think matters.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jason Stewart
    Wouldn't you agree that you're taking on a huge burden worrying about the way that others live their lives? How about just making your life as awesome as you can make it, and not worry about the way other people live?
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    • Profile picture of the author Underxman
      I disagree.....it is only by being poor that you will enjoy being rich (once that happens) to the maximum. So consider yourself lucky.
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      • Profile picture of the author kescape
        The way I overcome envy / jealous is to understand that you are unique in your own way. In this world, over the history of the universary and in the future, no one is more unique than you. Those people you jealous are not more unique than you. Understanding that make me appreciate I am who I am and feel proud of how unique I am.

        Also, think about what things you have that other may not have. According to this NY time article:

        * Anticipation brings you happiness.
        * People get used to change, good or bad, to maintain a stable level of happiness

        People who are rich have more material than us but they are not necessary happier because they are used to that level.

        And the anticipation of getting my next big present for myself is not something they can enjoy.

        Hope this help.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dain Supero
    The more you hate the rich, the more likely you are to be poor.

    This is because while you're busy hating on them, they're busy getting richer and you're focused on something other than making money.
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  • Profile picture of the author Trey Morgan
    It's best to not even think or worry about the success of those that did not have to work for it. Hating on others will not advance you towards your goals and dreams.

    Just focus on where you want to be, why you want to be there, and what you need to do to get there. Once you become successful you won't even have time to worry about the success of others, unless you're trying to help them become successful.
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  • Profile picture of the author fatchap
    The law of attraction is rubbish and just another example od Marxs opium for the masses. What makes money? work, work and more work. From ideas to markets to sellling etc Not sitting around thinking about it.

    It is basic psychology that feelings affects behaviour so if you're full of hate and anger ot will be shown in all your attitudes and actions. Use anger to drive you to positive action - simple to say, hard to do.
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  • Profile picture of the author dndoseller
    Its good to admit to yourself that you have this hate. Its better that you are conscious of it than it being a deep bitterness you are not aware of.

    Now that you are aware of the hate in you, it would be wise for you now to learn about the laws of karma and virtue/non virtue.

    In Summary:

    Rich people who earned their money by doing good, and are good people do deserve everything they have.

    Rich people who earned their money through greed, stealing, etc. and who act badly, will eventually suffer.

    I have been around allot of rich people and I have seen this in action.

    The universe, God or whatever you call it, does not need your hate to administer this justice.

    People tend to see the bad rich people, lump them all together and then judge/envy them.

    If you do that then you have simply turned to the dark side with them. I am sure is not the final solution you are after.

    These are the basics of Law of Attraction, its the also essence of almost all religions including Christianity, Buddhism, etc...

    1. Do (and think) good - give, love, be kind, etc.

    2. Don't do evil (or dwell on bad thoughts) - hate, envy, killing, lying, etc.

    3. Tune into some kind of higher power (Love, Universe, God, etc.)

    That is really this whole deal in a nutshell. Follow that and you will be golden. You wont need to worry or even think about those rich kids anymore. They will become totally irrelevant to your peace of mind and you will eventually see the blessings you want manifest in your life.
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    • Profile picture of the author bloomingrose
      Really appreciated what you said dndoseller.

      The OP was admitting that he had hate which he wanted to get rid of.

      We should not criticize him for that - we all deserve and need infinite compassion.

      Okay, I am tired. I am taking my ample Buddhist buttocks to bed now - Peace.
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