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That's not strictly true but I just saw this article which is sadly getting a little too common on this island.

Benefits mum 'too fat to work' who receives £30k with daughter says she DESERVES the money | UK | News | Daily Express

Forgive me but can I just draw attention to a few of the points.

Janice Manzur, who weighs 26 stone, and 17st daughter Amber said they cannot help being obese and there is "no point" in dieting or going to the gym.
Of course there's no point. You wouldn't be able to sit at home eating, not having to work and getting paid handsomely for it.

Janice, who suffers a string of weight-related health problems, added she would rather her daughter is "fat and happy" on benefits than "depressed and thin".
I agree, Id rather be fat, ill and 30k better off, than being thin, skint and unemployable.

The 44-year-old said: "There's no point in dieting, it doesn't make a difference.
It does work but not when you eat the amount of food you have on that table, even more so when you eat disgusting full fat unhealthy shite like that.

"It's just the way we are built and I'll never encourage her to diet as it made me so unhappy.
I wonder if you were in a war zone with virtually no food, if you'd still be like that after 6 months. Actually you never encouraged her to diet because you'll get double benefits when your daughter starts claiming them too.

"Amber has never stepped foot in the gym and never will. It won't change her weight as she is born to be fat."
Yes I think I can see the issue. Do nothing, never exercise, eat for Britain and then convince yourself you were born to be fat. Sorry my love but you were born to be stupid.

The pair eat ready-meals and junk food as they said it is cheaper than cooking things fresh and feel that fruit is too expensive.
Lazy idle b.....

They also use paper plates so they do not have to wash up.
So you buy junk food because it's cheaper and you're too lazy to stand up for 5 minutes to cook but you will endlessly buy paper plates because you're a lazy idle waster who can't be bothered to wash up.

"I do like fruit, but it's expensive. It's £1.50 for a punnet of grapes. A chocolate bar costs 50p and I can get a six-pack of crisps for £1, so I buy those instead.
On 30k a year, a free house and all the other trimmings, you can buy a bloody apple a day. You also weren't born fat if you get fat from eating chocolate and crisps all day while remaining seated all the time.

Amber said: "People shouldn't judge me or my mum for how big we are because it's in our genes.
No it isn't it's due too...No, go on, save me the bother, tell us yourself...

"I've never been on a diet or to a gym and I don't even eat that much junk food.
Caveat. I'm not against over weight people and I appreciate some over weight people may well have something in their genes, but eating like that and assuring people you'll never diet or exercise is not an excuse to say it's your natural build.

These people are complete fruit loops and I help pay for all that chocolate they munch on.
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    Richard, your prose is a tad neutral. Tell us how you really feel.
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    • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
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      Of course there's no point. You wouldn't be able to sit at home eating, not having to work and getting paid handsomely for it.
      LOL, pretty funny read Richard, and l don't mean that in a personal way, l just haven't seen you dig in teeth like l or others here do!

      But she lives in England, isn't the weather so bad over there, with the nasty rain and such, fat people have a good reason to stay at home?


      It does work but not when you eat the amount of food you have on that table, even more so when you esat disgusting full fat unhealthy shite like that.
      Yes, she should say, l can't help eating this s*** because the elves put it there, or Santa delivers every day to our house?


      Yes I think I can see the issue. Do nothing, never exercise, eat for Britain and then convince yourself you were born to be fat. Sorry my love but you were born to be stupid.
      Yes, l see individuals which are overweight in these carts at the shopping centre's, and feel sorry for then that some disability doesn't give them the option to lose weight. But l agree that someone like this that eats this crap all day long and rely's on a free scooter, does need outside help.

      Well, send the boys around with some baseball bats, and kindly tell her to go walk around the country once or twice!



      So you buy junk food because it's cheaper and you're too lazy to stand up for 5 minutes to cook but you will endlessly buy paper plates because you're a lazy idle waster who can't be bothered to wash up.
      She can't help it, after all all that GMO has modified her genetic mackup, maybe she should sue; make millions so she can pig out in style?


      On 30k a year, a free house and all the other trimmings, you can buy a bloody apple a day. You also weren't born fat if you get fat from eating chocolate and crisps all day while remaining seated all the time.
      Well she and her daughter can't help it, they are fat, overweight slobs with low IQ's!


      Caveat. I'm not against over weight people and I appreciate some over weight people may well have something in their genes, but eating like that and assuring people you'll never diet or exercise is not an excuse to say it's your natural build.

      These people are complete fruit loops and I help pay for all that chocolate they munch on.
      Yes, l hate to say it, but she probably got another 1000 pounds for the media stint! Probably get a bigger fridge.

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    • Profile picture of the author whateverpedia
      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

      Richard, your prose is a tad neutral. Tell us how you really feel.
      I think he's on their side. Maybe. Possibly. Perhaps.
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    Originally Posted by Richard Van View Post

    Caveat. I'm not against over weight people
    I try not to be too prejudiced about it (not always successfully, in my case ).

    Originally Posted by Richard Van View Post

    I appreciate some over weight people may well have something in their genes
    Only comparatively recently, it's actually been proven (by Sir Steve O'Rahilly and his research group, in Cambridge) that very rare, occasional people become like that genuinely because of their disordered leptin metabolism, as a congenital illness, but they really are very, very few and far-between.

    "Far-between" probably isn't a very appropriate description for them, though, is it, given the space they take up?

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    I help pay for all that chocolate they munch on.
    Don't we all? And some of us need that chocolate more than others!


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  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    To all those that are over 25% fat. TAKE MY WORD FOR IT! LOSE WEIGHT!

    If I had lost weight earlier, a lot of things would be better, and I would likely not have had a dissected aorta.

    For ANYONE to weigh 364 is OBSCENE! BTW GOOD LUCK trying to fly anywhere!

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  • Profile picture of the author whateverpedia
    Originally Posted by Richard Van View Post

    These people are complete fruit loops and I help pay for all that chocolate they munch on.
    A much better use for your taxes would be on politicians moats.

    Quite serendipitously, the pollie who claimed that as an "expense" goes by the name of Hogg. You couldn't make stuff like that up.
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  • Profile picture of the author zeus136
    Sir, I take issue with your narrow minded opinion.

    Obesity is not a lifestyle choice, it is a disease. Sufferers deserve compassion and support not criticism and hatred.
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    • Profile picture of the author salegurus
      Originally Posted by zeus136 View Post

      Sir, I take issue with your narrow minded opinion.

      Obesity is not a lifestyle choice, it is a disease. Sufferers deserve compassion and support not criticism and hatred.
      You may take issue thats your right but calling someone else's opinion narrow minded shows you can't tolerate differing points of view...

      Some say Obesity, some say Lifestyle Choice...
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      • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
        I'm speechless -

        I'm afraid I don't have a lot of compassion for people who refuse to take any responsibility for their lifestyle choices and who feel entitled to handouts because of medical challenges stemming from those lifestyle choices -

        I looked at the junk food on the table of theirs, and even if they just eliminated the pop they drink, they would lose a ton of weight -
        but whatever - I don't think they are going to live long -
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    • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
      Originally Posted by zeus136 View Post

      Sir, I take issue with your narrow minded opinion.

      Obesity is not a lifestyle choice, it is a disease. Sufferers deserve compassion and support not criticism and hatred.
      No. Obesity isn't a choice. But overeating is. Not being responsible for how you eat, or if you exercise, is a choice.

      I'm nearly 100 pounds overweight. I accomplished that by not exercising, and eating enough to feed a family of four. That's why I'm fat. That's how you get fat. You take in more calories than you burn.

      Overweight people don't deserve hatred. Grossly overweight people don't deserve criticism.

      But they also don't deserve sympathy. It's not like we have no idea what causes obesity. It's not as though it's a mystery as to how to lose weight.

      Richard isn't narrow minded...except that being narrow is more attractive, and will allow you to live a more mobile life.



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      • Profile picture of the author WalkingCarpet
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        Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

        No. Obesity isn't a choice. But overeating is. Not being responsible for how you eat, or if you exercise, is a choice.

        I'm nearly 100 pounds overweight. I accomplished that by not exercising, and eating enough to feed a family of four. That's why I'm fat. That's how you get fat. You take in more calories than you burn.

        Overweight people don't deserve hatred. Grossly overweight people don't deserve criticism.

        But they also don't deserve sympathy. It's not like we have no idea what causes obesity. It's not as though it's a mystery as to how to lose weight.

        Richard isn't narrow minded...except that being narrow is more attractive, and will allow you to live a more mobile life.
        Fat and bald. How typical.
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          Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet View Post

          Fat and bald. How typical.
          Your rudeness, your emotional neediness and your lack of social skills betrays your upbringing... or lack of it.

          How typical.


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        Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post


        Overweight people don't deserve hatred. Grossly overweight people don't deserve criticism.
        And they also do not deserve my money.

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      Originally Posted by zeus136 View Post

      Sir, I take issue with your narrow minded opinion.

      Obesity is not a lifestyle choice, it is a disease. Sufferers deserve compassion and support not criticism and hatred.
      Right - and everyone child that plays organized sports deserves a 'participation trophy' - win or lose!

      In rare instances obesity is a disease. Usually it's nothing more than a combination of bad choices, lack of self control before the fact, poor nutritional education and lack of will power after the fact.

      When you tell people that they have a disease you give them permission to not try to do anything to overcome their situation. It's destructive because it does nothing more than exacerbate the problem.

      Take it from someone who has lost over 100 pounds, twice.

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    Unfortunately Richard you seem to have fallen victim to one of the oldest cons going. That's not to say that the story you quoted isn't true though.

    The mainstream media is mostly owned by the the people at the top of the tree. They're constantly telling the people in the middle (like yourself) about how much the people at the bottom of the tree are ripping off your taxes. This is nothing more than a trick to distract you from the amount of money being ripped out of the system by those at the top.

    If you're horrified by how your taxes are being spent on the people in the article you quoted, you'd probably be incandescent over how much of your taxes go to "support" the people at the top of the tree, despite the fact that they don't need any of it.

    Having spent some time in the corporate world previously, it never ceased to amaze me at how many are suckered in by the old line that the executive class peddles. According to them, the workforce should have their pay and benefits reduced so as to provide an "incentive" for them to work harder. "Yes, I know we're paying you peanuts, but that gives you an incentive to work harder so you can earn more money".

    In practically the same breath they'll tell you that the executive class needs to be paid more so as to "incentivise" them to work harder.

    It never ceases to amaze me how many people beneath executive class actually believe and accept this bullshit. But, once again, the executive and above class own and control the media so that's the message that goes out.
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    • Profile picture of the author seasoned
      Originally Posted by whateverpedia View Post

      The mainstream media is mostly owned by the the people at the top of the tree. They're constantly telling the people in the middle (like yourself) about how much the people at the bottom of the tree are ripping off your taxes. This is nothing more than a trick to distract you from the amount of money being ripped out of the system by those at the top.
      ACTUALLY, they ARE ripping off MONEY! The "TAXES" are what the "political elite" call the money they STEAL to pay for favors! BTW I HATE the word elite here!

      e·lite
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      noun
      1. a select part of a group that is superior to the rest in terms of ability or qualities.
      "the elite of Britain's armed forces"
      synonyms: best, pick, cream, crème de la crème, flower, nonpareil, elect; More
      antonyms: dregs
      2. a group or class of people seen as having the greatest power and influence within a society, especially because of their wealth or privilege.
      "the country's governing elite"
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      The media and they THEMSELVES call them "elite", and imply the #1 meaning above. Meanwhile, they are only peripherally in #2, and are just SCUM!

      But YEAH, some of the poorest have this as a "lifestyle", and may even have lots of other ways they are bringing money in, so they are claiming poverty simply so they can get that much more on other peoples backs.

      If you're horrified by how your taxes are being spent on the people in the article you quoted, you'd probably be incandescent over how much of your taxes go to "support" the people at the top of the tree, despite the fact that they don't need any of it.

      Having spent some time in the corporate world previously, it never ceased to amaze me at how many are suckered in by the old line that the executive class peddles. According to them, the workforce should have their pay and benefits reduced so as to provide an "incentive" for them to work harder. "Yes, I know we're paying you peanuts, but that gives you an incentive to work harder so you can earn more money".
      NOBODY would argue that paying less is an incentive. I think you have it BACKWARDS! Those that do less and risk less MAKE less!

      In practically the same breath they'll tell you that the executive class needs to be paid more so as to "incentivise" them to work harder.

      It never ceases to amaze me how many people beneath executive class actually believe and accept this bullshit. But, once again, the executive and above class own and control the media so that's the message that goes out.
      FUNNY you should say this! A lot of the "political elite" say that SAME thing and often the VERY VERY poor AGREE with them! Frankly, I NEVER did! The ones in the top of the various branches should be paid LESS! WHY?

      1. They generally do LITTLE good if anything!
      2. They get a TON of benefits!
      3. They get LOTS of free time.
      4. They work far less time.
      5. MOST aren't even qualified.

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    • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
      Originally Posted by whateverpedia View Post

      It never ceases to amaze me how many people beneath executive class actually believe and accept this bullshit. But, once again, the executive and above class own and control the media so that's the message that goes out.
      I'm sure you're totally right.

      This is just a thread about the two people in the article and their attitude to eating, exercising and not working.
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      • Profile picture of the author Alexa Smith
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        The amount of National Health Service money (read: "our taxes") currently spent on treating complications of long-term obesity is staggering. They're now planning to offer bariatric surgery on the NHS in an attempt to reduce the long-term costs of these people's continual medical/social care (and maybe rightly, too, looking at it in financial terms).

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        • Profile picture of the author seasoned
          Originally Posted by Alexa Smith View Post

          The amount of National Health Service money (read: "our taxes") currently spent on treating complications of long-term obesity is staggering. They're now planning to offer bariatric surgery on the NHS in an attempt to reduce the long-term costs of these people's continual medical/social care (and maybe rightly, too, looking at it in financial terms).

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          What kills me is that there are TWO types of bariatric surgery for this. ONE reduces your ability to eat food. I forget the name, but one person actually came up with a bar that does the SAME thing by expanding in the stomach. So have expensive dangerous surgery, or eat a $0.50 bar before each meal? The OTHER makes your system less efficient, so if you get some cancers or whatever, you could be in REALLY sorry shape, and you will HAVE to over eat! Of course, taking in less, you may actually LOSE weight even if you eat like a pig.

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      • Profile picture of the author whateverpedia
        Originally Posted by Richard Van View Post

        I'm sure you're totally right.

        This is just a thread about the two people in the article and their attitude to eating, exercising and not working.
        Fair enough. I've got less than zero sympathy for the people in the article, however the amount they're bleeding from the system is small compared to the amount that is bled from it by the pollies and their corporate sponsors.

        Plus there's the danger when cutting someone off benefits that they'll turn to crime which would lead to an even higher cost to society. It's unlikely the people in the article would turn to crime though, as that would actually require some effort.

        On a side note, I remember reading about a guy in Australia back in the 90's who used to rock up to the Social Security office to hand in his dole form in a Rolls Royce Silver Shadow.

        Apparently he'd been doing that for months. He only got caught because the SS staff member who'd just served him walked out of the office for a cigarette behind him and saw him get into the Roller and drive off. From memory he was then "gifted" a 12 month taxpayer funded holiday at Her Majesty's Pleasure.

        On an even further side note, I also remember that, once again, back in the 90's, that Australia's Treasurer at the time (equivalent to your Chancellor Of The Exchequer), went on TV and boasted of how his department had conducted a crackdown on welfare cheats. This exercise saved taxpayers around $2 million dollars. Unfortunately the operation cost taxpayers $8 million. We'd have been a lot better off letting the cheaters get away with it.

        That incident, BTW, is the main reason why I tend to ignore media stories about alleged "welfare cheats".
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        • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
          Originally Posted by whateverpedia View Post

          On an even further side note, I also remember that, once again, back in the 90's, that Australia's Treasurer at the time (equivalent to your Chancellor Of The Exchequer), went on TV and boasted of how his department had conducted a crackdown on welfare cheats. This exercise saved taxpayers around $2 million dollars. Unfortunately the operation cost taxpayers $8 million. We'd have been a lot better off letting the cheaters get away with it.

          That incident, BTW, is the main reason why I tend to ignore media stories about alleged "welfare cheats".
          Hmmm, we will get that $8 million back in the fullness of time, at the appropiate juncture, when the climate is right!

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          • Profile picture of the author whateverpedia
            Originally Posted by tagiscom View Post

            Hmmm, we will get that $8 million back in the fullness of time, at the appropiate juncture, when the climate is right!

            Sir Humphrey lives!!!!
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        • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
          Originally Posted by whateverpedia View Post

          Fair enough. I've got less than zero sympathy for the people in the article, however the amount they're bleeding from the system is small compared to the amount that is bled from it by the pollies and their corporate sponsors.
          You're right, it's just a shame for people on minimum wage, below minimum wage and a few grand above minimum wage, that they have, and I mean have, to go to work for the same or less than those two.

          Plus there's the danger when cutting someone off benefits that they'll turn to crime which would lead to an even higher cost to society. It's unlikely the people in the article would turn to crime though, as that would actually require some effort.
          I think for those two crime is well out of the question. Unless they had to steal chocolate in which case you'll probably find they can actually move pretty fast, especially that 17 stone daughter. Unless shes seriously hurt I don't see why she shouldn't work, it's not that heavy and I've seen heavier people working.

          On a side note, I remember reading about a guy in Australia back in the 90's who used to rock up to the Social Security office to hand in his dole form in a Rolls Royce Silver Shadow.

          Apparently he'd been doing that for months. He only got caught because the SS staff member who'd just served him walked out of the office for a cigarette behind him and saw him get into the Roller and drive off. From memory he was then "gifted" a 12 month taxpayer funded holiday at Her Majesty's Pleasure.
          Yes I've read quite a few stories like that here.

          On an even further side note, I also remember that, once again, back in the 90's, that Australia's Treasurer at the time (equivalent to your Chancellor Of The Exchequer), went on TV and boasted of how his department had conducted a crackdown on welfare cheats. This exercise saved taxpayers around $2 million dollars. Unfortunately the operation cost taxpayers $8 million. We'd have been a lot better off letting the cheaters get away with it.
          Yes, total waste of cash.

          That incident, BTW, is the main reason why I tend to ignore media stories about alleged "welfare cheats".
          Well here's a real life example of the last house I was living in. It was rented and I paid just shy of £1000 a month to live there. I had no help from anyone, especially government for anything. What I earn is what I get, of course after I've paid my taxes it's a lot less.

          Next door was a family of four. Neither of the parents worked because the Dad was permanently disabled with a bad leg but that didn't stop him running about quite often in the garden with the kids and it always amazed me how he only ever had a limp or needed his walking stick when he went out the front door. By miracle it seemed to clear up in the back garden. The couple were 4 and 5 years younger than me respectively but had all their furniture, phone, food, you name it, bought for them. All they had to do is ask. The lady seemed to take great pride in her personal belongings and would often show me a brand new phone and I was even invited in once to see the new sofa and TV they'd got for bugger all.

          I know what you mean Whatever but I see these people a lot, I only posted that as it was nice to find a media story to back up what I see a lot in real life. Besides, this thread was mainly to highlight that those people in the article have chosen the lifestyle they live and have about as much of a obesity disease as I have a tolerance for oysters.
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          • Profile picture of the author discrat
            Originally Posted by Richard Van View Post

            Next door was a family of four. Neither of the parents worked because the Dad was permanently disabled with a bad leg but that didn't stop him running about quite often in the garden with the kids and it always amazed me how he only ever had a limp or needed his walking stick when he went out the front door. By miracle it seemed to clear up in the back garden. The couple were 4 and 5 years younger than me respectively but had all their furniture, phone, food, you name it, bought for them. All they had to do is ask. The lady seemed to take great pride in her personal belongings and would often show me a brand new phone and I was even invited in once to see the new sofa and TV they'd got for bugger all.
            I hear you. And I am not necessarily saying you are being judgmental. But frankly do you see what happens after this man goes back in the house after he runs around with his kids ??

            Could be that he is suffering incredibly for a few minutes so he can provide laughter for his kids by chasing them around the garden. And then when he comes inside his house away from the Public's eyes he collapses and starts
            crying in agony and cannot walk because of the few minutes of playing with kids.

            Iam just saying. I do not know the exact circumstances as well as you, of course.

            But you just never know what people are going through.

            It is easy for us to look at people in Society and sum them up and their situation without knowing the whole story
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            • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
              Originally Posted by discrat View Post

              I hear you. And I am not necessarily saying you are being judgmental. But frankly do you see what happens after this man goes back in the house after he runs around with his kids ??

              Could be that he is suffering incredibly for a few minutes so he can provide laughter for his kids by chasing them around the garden. And then when he comes inside his house away from the Public's eyes he collapses and starts
              crying in agony and cannot walk because of the few minutes of playing with kids.

              Iam just saying. I do not know the exact circumstances as well as you, of course.

              But you just never know what people are going through.

              It is easy for us to look at people in Society and sum them up and their situation without knowing the whole story
              I completely understand what you're saying Robert and there are many people on benefits in situations like you described and far worse that are in need of those benefits and I fully support them getting every bit of help they can get.

              In this incident, however, it wasn't like that at all. During summer I was having a day off and it was I think a Wednesday, it was mid week anyway. At lunchtime a number of people turned up and they had a big barbecue throughout the afternoon. Being the nosey parker I am I couldn't help notice he was out in the garden virtually all day minus stick or limp. He even bounced on the kids trampoline. At about 4pm, he went out to the shops to buy more beer with 2 of the friends. At this point, as he walked out of the front door, he became almost crippled. They returned a short time later and he was limping badly but by an incredible miracle, something happened as he walked through the house, and as he returned to the back garden he could walk again. He managed to walk, dance and run around long into the evening as the beer flowed and the music, which was pretty dire, played into the early hours.

              As much as there are many in need of these benefits, you'll always have some that play the system and this fella was a prime example and that was one example of many, not to mention holiday photo's the wife showed me and he was without his stick in every photo.

              During my time there she had a third child, so they moved them to bigger house and I've not seen them since.
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          Originally Posted by whateverpedia View Post

          Fair enough. I've got less than zero sympathy for the people in the article, however the amount they're bleeding from the system is small compared to the amount that is bled from it by the pollies and their corporate sponsors.
          Actually, you are WRONG there! They are stealing MUCH MORE! HOW?

          1. It is often FOR LIFE!
          2. There are a LOT more of them!

          Plus there's the danger when cutting someone off benefits that they'll turn to crime which would lead to an even higher cost to society. It's unlikely the people in the article would turn to crime though, as that would actually require some effort.
          Can you IMAGINE they wear disguises and all, and before they get hom, the police are weighting for them, since they forgot they were both female, HEAVY, and the mother weighs close to 400 pounds! Just THAT description may be ENOUGH!

          On a side note, I remember reading about a guy in Australia back in the 90's who used to rock up to the Social Security office to hand in his dole form in a Rolls Royce Silver Shadow.

          Apparently he'd been doing that for months. He only got caught because the SS staff member who'd just served him walked out of the office for a cigarette behind him and saw him get into the Roller and drive off. From memory he was then "gifted" a 12 month taxpayer funded holiday at Her Majesty's Pleasure.

          On an even further side note, I also remember that, once again, back in the 90's, that Australia's Treasurer at the time (equivalent to your Chancellor Of The Exchequer), went on TV and boasted of how his department had conducted a crackdown on welfare cheats. This exercise saved taxpayers around $2 million dollars. Unfortunately the operation cost taxpayers $8 million. We'd have been a lot better off letting the cheaters get away with it.

          That incident, BTW, is the main reason why I tend to ignore media stories about alleged "welfare cheats".
          You see, I do NOT understand this! They pay people BILLIONS of dollars a year! WHY? Because there MIGHT be a general need, like tracking down a tax cheat, or a person committing fraud! EVERY country does this! They can call them what they want. In the US, they have a TON of names! DEA, FTC, FBI, FCC, CIA, POLICE, Public ...... , etc.... Some of these are DEDICATED to the government. Some share with the private agencies also, but are public of course. HECK, they even pay OTHER guys BILLIONS! Lawyers, courts, jails, etc.... With ALL of that, how can they claim that tracking down a cheat cost much of anything?

          They don't even pay TAXES, or FEES!

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    • Profile picture of the author mindtricks18
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      Originally Posted by whateverpedia View Post

      Unfortunately Richard you seem to have fallen victim to one of the oldest cons going. That's not to say that the story you quoted isn't true though.

      The mainstream media is mostly owned by the the people at the top of the tree. They're constantly telling the people in the middle (like yourself) about how much the people at the bottom of the tree are ripping off your taxes. This is nothing more than a trick to distract you from the amount of money being ripped out of the system by those at the top.

      If you're horrified by how your taxes are being spent on the people in the article you quoted, you'd probably be incandescent over how much of your taxes go to "support" the people at the top of the tree, despite the fact that they don't need any of it.

      Having spent some time in the corporate world previously, it never ceased to amaze me at how many are suckered in by the old line that the executive class peddles. According to them, the workforce should have their pay and benefits reduced so as to provide an "incentive" for them to work harder. "Yes, I know we're paying you peanuts, but that gives you an incentive to work harder so you can earn more money".

      In practically the same breath they'll tell you that the executive class needs to be paid more so as to "incentivise" them to work harder.

      It never ceases to amaze me how many people beneath executive class actually believe and accept this bullshit. But, once again, the executive and above class own and control the media so that's the message that goes out.

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    There is a conspiracy to make people fat.
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    At this rate, there will be a morbidly obese president.

    Tgere will be a mobirdly obese pride parade
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    May your thyroid never experience hypothyroidism.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    I see nothing respectable about either her attitude about her weight or her attitude about deserving to get paid to sit and eat. Sorry - I don't buy the "I'm built like this" crap. Some people are chunkier than others - but morbid obesity is not natural, necessary, or even, in all but a few cases, a physical disorder.
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    • Profile picture of the author discrat
      Article quote, Janice said: "It costs £1 for a pasta ready meal, so why bother spending money on ingredients to cook?"

      Answer... Why ? So you can have a chance to live to see 50 !!

      That being said these women are just plain reckless. This really upsets me as there are many morbidly obese people who are responsible and for some reason or another ( whether it be a biological predisposition or a handicap or depression or a sedentary lifestyle etc..etc..) are morbidly obese.

      Lets do not lump all these people with these two morons.
      Please !!
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      • Profile picture of the author AprilCT
        Morbid obesity will kill them off a lot sooner, so at least the taxpayers won't have to pay them as long. This sounds to me as though the two of them are not only really dumb but totally lazy as well. Unfortunately, they will probably use more medical services than people of normal weight. Their lives must be horribly boring!

        I don't qualify as overweight, but it would make me happier personally to be a few pounds lighter. Hard for me to do because I love to cook, and that's basically every day. We don't eat very much at all of purchased prepared foods. Most all of those aren't too good for your health or weight.
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        • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
          Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

          ACTUALLY, they ARE ripping off MONEY! The "TAXES" are what the "political elite" call the money they STEAL to pay for favors! BTW I HATE the word elite here!

          The media and they THEMSELVES call them "elite", and imply the #1 meaning above. Meanwhile, they are only peripherally in #2, and are just SCUM!


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          Yes, the elite, or sociopaths are destroying our world, or making it less fun and more expensive!

          So, far they have made tv, a wasteland, expecting individuals to either pay thousands for decent entertainment, or spend a thousand each year, to see anything decent!

          Illegal streaming online has balanced that out, and about 7 million Aussies get their entertainment this way!

          Maybe they should put a fence around Tasmania and put all the illegal downloaders there?

          The list goes on!

          The political correctness crap doesn't help, a publishing firm can't use Pork or Pig, as it might offend some Muslims!

          That means that Iron Sky, must have offended globally?

          With all those references to Nazis, and saying that Americans are less than bright!

          But overall dumb movie, with impressive visuals!


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  • Profile picture of the author joseph7384
    This quote made me sick to my stomach,

    Janice said: "I paid into the tax system for over ten years and I deserve the money I get. "There is no point me dieting, it doesn't make a difference.
    A whole ten years, WOW! What about the rest of your society that has paid into taxs a whole life time to pay for your lazy ass.
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    • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
      Before I begin, a brief note for Zeus136.

      I put a caveat in my post, I do hope you read it, it was there from the beginning. Here it is again.

      Caveat. I'm not against over weight people and I appreciate some over weight people may well have something in their genes, but eating like that and assuring people you'll never diet or exercise is not an excuse to say it's your natural build.
      As you can see, the bolded part refers to everyone with any kind of weight problem outside of the article. The bit in Italic is referring to the 2 people in the article.

      Here's a story for you and any others that think I'm narrow minded or hateful which is not true. I know several people including my sister who have a weight problem. One of these people eats healthier than I do, exercises more than I do and looks after herself better than I do but bless her, she just doesn't seem to lose weight. Her 2 sisters are exactly the same. I suspect they may have some underlying issue that I doubt she's prepared to tell the world about, and I feel sorry for her.

      Here's the point though. If she decided to give up the gym and the healthy food and instead went on a diet like those in the article and ate chocolate and crisps all day she'd get very big, even obese. She could then give up work and claim benefits and live just like those two, eating all day, getting paid better than most people and making sure that gym membership is never reactivated.

      Also you need to understand what she brings in. Over 33k a year. The average wage at the start of last year was £26,500 for the whole of the UK. She lives in Fife, in Scotland, which is far cheaper than London. Look at the link below from last year and scroll through all the jobs to see what the average people earn here for actually doing various jobs and going to work.

      UK average salary is £26,500 but figures reveal huge pay gap between rich and poor - official earnings list - Mirror Online

      In fact I read a story once that back in the time when we all dwelled in caves and were hunter gatherer's, that the people who naturally don't put on weight were the ones that perished over the harsh winters whereas those able to bulk up during the summer months survived to see another one. That could be BS but perhaps today those people that put on weight very easily are the ones that used to survive in a world very unlike the one we live in today.

      Either way, I'll tell you why I don't think these two people have a disease and are doing this for a life style choice below.

      Originally Posted by yukon View Post

      May your thyroid never experience hypothyroidism.
      I'm not suggesting for one minute all overweight people are lazy or anything like that. I appreciate there are genuine medical and in some cases psychological issues. I'm just talking about these two in the article and others like that.


      Originally Posted by zeus136 View Post

      Sir, I take issue with your narrow minded opinion.

      Obesity is not a lifestyle choice, it is a disease. Sufferers deserve compassion and support not criticism and hatred.
      Sir, I take issue with your inability to read a newspaper article for what it is or read caveats at the end of posts. Here is why I take issue with your entire post.

      I'm talking about these 2 people in the article.

      1. The lady worked for ten years before she ate so much she chose to stop working. Lets look at that. She used to work. I suspect the work she did was either below or maybe even equal to the average wage (She was a call centre manager). Now she brings in well over the average wage and doesn't have to work. You say disease. I say lifestyle choice.

      2. So now the disease has fully kicked in. She chooses not to eat fruit and healthy food as it's too expensive, even though she gets paid well above average wage.

      3. She chooses not to diet because she tried it and it didn't work.

      4. She chooses to buy paper plates so she doesn't have to wash up. Since when did that disease make you so lazy you buy plates to chuck away after eating instead of washing up normal plates while at the same time justifying eating junk food because it's cheaper than healthy food?

      5. Her daughter doesn't have a gym membership and never will. She chose to not do any exercise and Janice actually said, and you really need to pay attention to this as you're saying she has a disease and I'm saying she has chosen this...

      Janice, who suffers a string of weight-related health problems, added she would rather her daughter is "fat and happy" on benefits than "depressed and thin".......
      Read that again and again and again Zeus. See those dots at the end? That's where Janice forgot to add ..."and having to go to work".

      You say disease, I say nonsense.
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      • Profile picture of the author seasoned
        Originally Posted by Richard Van View Post

        As you can see, the bolded part refers to everyone with any kind of weight problem outside of the article. The bit in Italic is referring to the 2 people in the article.
        I think we ALL read that, but it IS, to some degree, misguided. I can point to when I started getting overweight, I was in a job where people were smoking up a storm, and I was getting huge headaches. One thing that helped was candy, and it was the only thing the coach had that could be kept for any period. Candy is all too popular. People will buy it and people feel they can store it ANY way they want. Of course, I needed liquid, and I LOVED soda, so I got that too. My boss even started getting it for free, but that stopped when he realized I was drinking sixpacks a day.

        Simply quitting at such a point doesn't do anything, because your body wants to hold onto the fat. OH, on my LAST job, the idea of a lack of transportation, and spending days at airports didn't help.

        NOW, can someone have a thyroid deficiency?(Keeping fat on) A protein metabolizing deficiency?(Causing the body to heavily prefer fat to muscle) An insulin problem?(Insulin triggers storage, like of carbs) POSSIBLY something else? SURE! But they are likely FAR less common than the kind of problem I have.

        I'm certainly NOT saying that the problems never happen. HECK, on medical mysteries, they had a girl that was fat, and she had an odd disorder, cushings disease: Cushing disease: MedlinePlus Medical Encyclopedia BTW once they found out the problem, THEY FIXED IT! It ended with her being a normal weight kid!

        The TRICK is that you have to carefully get enough protein, an adequate amount of fat, and a deficiency of carbs, that the whole thing goes almost in reverse, and takes the fat OFF. That means you may not enjoy eating as much, and may need to exercise. Many DON'T like either of those.

        BTW MANY things APPEAR to be genetic but are really due to exposure. Sometimes a WHOLE FAMILY will be fat, even the FATHER AND MOTHER! You look at pictures before they were married, and one or the other may have actually been THIN!

        Before they assume what these people have is genetic, a person should call them and simply ask them to lose weight. If they claim they can't, simply give them the BEST, most glorious present you ever could! One that an HONEST person would be happily SHOCKED BY! Of course it would SCARE THE PANTS off a dishonest person! You can probably find places ALL OVER ENGLAND willing to do this for FREE!!!! It would be FANTASTIC advertising! Have them come into a clinic for a week. They will get all their base creature desires! A nice room, TV, a maid, a butler, free healthcare, internet, news, FREE FOOD etc.... The room would be in the middle of a building, and they can meet others, etc.... Sounds like paradise, ETC.....

        1. NO VISITORS!
        2. NO FOOD VENDING MACHINES!
        3. CONTROLLED EATING!
        4. MONITORED weight, etc....
        5. At least SOME exercise.
        6. After the period, they will be weighed once a week, to make sure they continue down the right path.

        HECK, you can even monitor the hormones and the like every couple days. By the end of the week, the person may have lost 7 pounds or more! You should know PRECISELY what is wrong with them, and get them a plan they can follow. You can let them go, with the only condition being that they must continue to lose weight until it is well into the safe zone.

        Also you need to understand what she brings in. Over 33k a year. The average wage at the start of last year was £26,500 for the whole of the UK. She lives in Fife, in Scotland, which is far cheaper than London. Look at the link below from last year and scroll through all the jobs to see what the average people earn here for actually doing various jobs and going to work.
        And I don't know how this works in the UK, but it is likely like the US, where they supposedly have an "unemployment" insurance. They should CAP the base unemployment(What is paid if you never contribute more than the minimum) at something below minimum wage. And it should be determined by what you put into the system, and living to maybe 90.

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  • Profile picture of the author NRabosa
    Dieting as part of new year's resolutions always go on the board in Family Feud.

    If ever it's part of my list, it's not because of cosmetic reason, but that of health's. I don't want to die young. And if ever there was such an incentive in our country "fat-for-money" I'd sign-up immediately.

    This country's doing quite well on this program. Given that they're very rich, they can afford it.
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  • Profile picture of the author @tjr
    Considering the reactions here (and the likelihood that these people hear similar if not the same thing in their day to day interactions) I'm flat out shocked that these people aren't motivated to change their lives. So much encouragement, so much of a strive to educate and help!
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    • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
      Originally Posted by @tjr View Post

      Considering the reactions here (and the likelihood that these people hear similar if not the same thing in their day to day interactions) I'm flat out shocked that these people aren't motivated to change their lives. So much encouragement, so much of a strive to educate and help!
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        I remember you. You look just like in your old avatars and you're still writing.
        Wait. Is that He Whose Name We Shall Not Speak?!
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          Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

          Wait. Is that He Whose Name We Shall Not Speak?!
          There are two things I hate, in this world;
          1) Having someone say "He Whose Name We Shall Not Speak"...and I don't know who that is.
          2) OK, I lied...it's just the one thing.
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        • Profile picture of the author WalkingCarpet
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          Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

          Wait. Is that He Whose Name We Shall Not Speak?!
          Just call him Joe.
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            Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet View Post

            Just call him Joe.
            You don't know how right you are.
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          • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
            Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet View Post

            Just call him Joe.
            Spot on in fact.
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          • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
            Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet View Post

            Just call him Joe.
            my proper name is Joseph A. Tallywacker. The A stands for Alabaster.

            Joseph Alabaster Tallywacker.......Coming to a theater near you.
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            • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
              Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

              Wait. Is that He Whose Name We Shall Not Speak?!
              WOW, l didn't know that Voldemort was here!!!!


              Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

              You don't know how right you are.
              Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

              my proper name is Joseph A. Tallywacker. The A stands for Alabaster.

              Hmmm, l thought that it was, Gee-I-Joe?

              Joseph Alabaster Tallywacker.......Coming to a theater near you.
              But not for long, we don't want mass suicides?
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