Isn't sad that I never had a girlfriend ?

7 years ago

lol funny post.. I've never had one either but i **** the hottest girls. i notice every time i start to get feelings for a girl they lose interest. just my experience so far. I'm 21

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Bkelly301 7 years ago

The less you try, the easier it is. Get into the habit of talking to chicks, and not trying to pick them up. When you do that, they start to make the moves.
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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Gangsterpart

I'm a grown adult. and never had a gf. I was in the PUA community did what i was told and nothing.
I'm always outside in public places , like starbucks ,where people, and Hollywood shows, think that are good to meet someone and never had any luck. I approached MILLION times and nothing.

I can only speak from experience. When I was a young man, I was an idiot. I thought getting a girlfriend was all about pickup lines..appearing like an alpha male, and acting like a moron. It's all I had.
Unless you are mentally deficient, in 20 years you'll look back on this time in your life and laugh. We all start out as losers.

I hate to break it to you but Pick Up Artists are lonely losers. Even the best ones aren't married...are still trying to get laid....and doing it in the most inefficient way.

Stop trying to pick them up. An animal chased..runs away.
Just be a nice guy, take a shower, dress like a human being and be kind to their friends.
You'll stand out from the losers who are just trying to get laid, by watching other guys try to get laid...guys who are still trying to pick up girls when they are 45 years old. These people are losers. Stop trying.

And don't try to be someone you are not. It takes a girl about 15 seconds to see past that.

Really want to get laid? Get a job where you talk to the public every day. Be nice to everyone. Keep your word, stay sober, and don't insult girls or their friends. Never talk badly about anyone. Just be nice.

God...I can't tell you how many offers you'll get. The big secret here is that half of the world is trying to meet the other half of the world. Girls are sitting at home right now, complaining to their friends that they have no dates.

Stop approaching girls. Get a job where they come to you...and your next girlfriend will just walk through the door.

Mine did.

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

Stop trying to pick them up. An animal chased..runs away.
Just be a nice guy, take a shower, dress like a human being and be kind to their friends.
You'll stand out from the losers who are just trying to get laid, by watching other guys try to get laid...guys who are still trying to pick up girls when they are 45 years old. These people are losers. Stop trying.

And don't try to be someone you are not. It takes a girl about 15 seconds to see past that.

I have to agree with Claude here. Once you stop trying and just become a more genuinely good person, who tries to help others, then your real qualities show and women will notice that.
Talking to women and just treating them as an equal will go a long way, rather than obviously searching for an excuse to ask them out.

Also, divulging a little bit of personal information can go a long way for earning some trust early on. Nothing too personal or weird, sharing just a modest outlook or philosophy you have (something positive and agreeable obviously), or maybe even a family anecdote can spark an interest or at least make you somewhat memorable to them should you meet again. Telling her something you would tell a close friend can show you trust them and aren't trying to use 'guy talk' or 'pick up lines' on her.

Find out what her interests are and ask her about them. Try to appear helpful and interested, but don't scavenge around for excuses to 'help out' with something meaningless. Don't be afraid to give your own 2 cents on the topic though, otherwise it can feel like an interview!
Just try to stop seeing them as your next date or whatever and they might start doing that for you... it worked for me anyway.

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Gangsterpart

7 years ago

I dont think just sitting there in a Yoga class without making a move and ask a girl out will do get me somewhere, will it ? I thought we are men supposed to initiat. I never understood the advice stop trying and do nothing.

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Gangsterpart

I dont think just sitting there in a Yoga class without making a move and ask a girl out will do get me somewhere, will it ? I thought we are men supposed to initiat. I never understood the advice stop trying and do nothing.
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You're not supposed to do anything.

"Initiate"? Just smile and say "Hello".....and then don't keep staring at them. If they are interested at all, they will say "Hello" back, and then they will ask you a question or comment on something.

Do yourself a huge favor and read How To Win Friends And Influence People. Really, you want girls to like you? This is the book.

Here's a link;
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Banned 7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

Stop trying to pick them up. An animal chased..runs away.

Seeing your belly, I don't think many animals need to run away if they're chased by you (except maybe the sloth).

So how do you know that an animal chased... runs away?

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by socialentry

Seeing your belly, I don't think many animals need to run away if they're chased by you (except maybe the sloth).

So how do you know that an animal chased... runs away?

he has a tiger in his tank

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Originally Posted by hardraysnight

he has a tiger in his tank

He has tiger blood.
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Originally Posted by socialentry

Seeing your belly, I don't think many animals need to run away if they're chased by you (except maybe the sloth).

Now that hurts. You have made me sad...and doubting my manhood.

Originally Posted by socialentry

So how do you know that an animal chased... runs away?

Seriously.....
All animals do that. If they are a predator, and you show them your back and run away from them? It triggers a predator response, and they chase you. The big rule around big cats is...don't show them you back and start running away from them.

If you are a prey animal, and something chases you...you run away. It's instinct. And people have all these same reflexes and drives.

This "run away when being chased" reflex comes into play from different kinds of men talking to women.
If the guy is constantly moving in...won't stop talking...it's an almost impossible to ignore impulse to escape. If the guy sounds needy, that means he's weak and a poor choice.

Really, the best approach by far is to be nice but not needy. Interested but not aggressive.

Basically, just be a good person.

My own method of picking up girls...way way back in time...was to leave openings in conversations where they could express interest in me, if they had any...but not in a way that they would notice.

For example, I'd ask "I have lots of great friends..describe the kind of guy that you like"

Anything to get them thinking about dating....and they would literally tell you if they were interested in you or not...by how they described their idea of a great guy. Sometimes they would know what I was doing, and sometimes not. But they had plausible denial. Meaning they could pretend like they had no idea what was going on.

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Kitiemau

7 years ago

Go to search for a girl that need a bf. To do this you need some one to introduce.

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7 years ago

but you must be rich

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Claude Whitacre 7 years ago

Originally Posted by hardraysnight

but you must be rich

No. You may need to be rich if you want to marry another rich person.

But almost everyone finds someone that is like them...is compatible with them.

The vast majority of couples...aren't rich.

Of course, if you are unemployed...at 40 years old...living in your Mom's basement....

You simply aren't going to be compatible with many women. And you won't meet the women that are compatible with you...because thy are also unemployed...living in their Mom's basement.

Thinking you have to be rich to attract a great girl is a defense mechanism. It lets you off the hook. It's a great excuse..."Well, you have to be rich to attract a woman, so it's unfair..so it's not my fault".

All your friends that have girlfriends? They aren't rich.

What turns women off is thinking like a 15 year old, when you're 25 years old.
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7 years ago

Phew, l just think gee she is hot, and they pick up on it, then if they are interested they will stare you down, at some point and then you swap phone numbers.

I had someone at a coffee shop do just that, and l would classify her as extramely attractive.

But she was probably 27 and l am 50, so it wouldn't be a relationship, so l tended to distance myself a little. But since l look 36, l recently told her that l was 50, but did it in a "I have a 50th coming up, do you make cakes for that".

I was certainly flattered that a marine blue eyed, satin haired blonde, was interested.

For me running into attractive women is common, but l need to meet someone who is into spiritual stuff, so l need to hang out in those sorts of places more.

And becoming rich, always helps!

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7 years ago

You said you're always outside in public places, like starbucks, where people, and Hollywood shows, it's good to meet someone and never had any luck, but you had never told them about your feeling, right? If you don't tell, who knows? If don't have a test, will you get result? Everything starts from zero. And it must have its causes and results. Try to test it. Tell them the truth even if the result is either positive or negative. Braveness is very important. For my experience I used to pick a girl around two days, the answer is OK. Why not you try? You said you met them and never had any luck. But I think you didn't meet them. You just only see them, instead. Right? If that is true, rethink it. Test! Test!

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Gangsterpart

7 years ago

How did you pick them up in two days? I hope you arent one of those braggers that just talk.
I do talk to them all the time, but it doesnt go anywhere. The conversation dies out or they ask me to leave.

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Banned 7 years ago

Originally Posted by Gangsterpart

How did you pick them up in two days? I hope you arent one of those braggers that just talk.
I do talk to them all the time, but it doesnt go anywhere. The conversation dies out or they ask me to leave.

Two days?

Maybe that's the problem, they're exhausted from the conversation.

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I'm not one of those braggers that just talk. My experience is true 100%. You said you did talk to them all the time, even when they were working, right? if so, you're wrong. That means that you've tried to disturb them. You don't understand the circumstances, right? You must know when to talk to them. Time is very important. If you use it carelessly, you'll regret. Try to talk to them when they want to talk to you, especially her free time, not working time.
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Dolives

7 years ago

if u a rich man, then u just need to grab them by their.......

As u are a grown adult, money and good maturity would definitely help to get you involved in a good relation. Just make some good eye attraction first, and next do some sweet patience intelligent communication with her.
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agmccall

7 years ago

You might want to consider prostitutes.

Higher up front costs, but much cheaper in the long run.

There are also mail order brides that can be changed out every 2 years or so

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Banned 7 years ago

Are you hideous?

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Originally Posted by Gangsterpart

I'm a grown adult. and never had a gf. I was in the PUA community did what i was told and nothing.
I'm always outside in public places , like starbucks ,where people, and Hollywood shows, think that are good to meet someone and never had any luck. I approached MILLION times and nothing]

Many times People use the Pickup/Seduction Community techniques/beliefs to mask their insecurities. You're a Man. Evolutional has proved that you're a Man. The next woman you see when you walk up to her and say "I think you're gorgeous." Only three outcomes can happen. 1. She will ignore you. 2 She will be somewhat flattered and be receptive. 3. She will be responsive and initiate the conversation.

To be honest I'm not all that good with women. However after being blown out of a 2 set and then opening them again the girl I was interested in was receptive and gave me some great advice about how to complement women.

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Sinclar

7 years ago

Maybe you must go to pick-up courses? I don't know...It's sad. I just got acquainted with the girl and it's all.

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7 years ago

Wait - I have a girl for you

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The conversation dies out or they ask me to leave.

That tells me you are focused only on what you want out of the situation. Otherwise, you would notice when a woman is not receptive, not comfortable, or views you as someone to get rid of. If women ask you to leave - that's a problem.

If you have any good male and female friends - ask them what you are doing wrong. I expect it's clear to everyone except you.

I'm female so see it differently - but reading responses here I'm surprised a few of you ever manage to hook up...let alone develop a relationship.

Women are people - treat them accordingly.

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7 years ago

Stop focusing on trying to pick up girls and focus on improving yourself. Hit the gym, update your wardrobe, make sure your hair & mustache fit your face and highlight your features, etc.. Shower daily.. this should be a no-brainer, but you would be surprised how many people don't.. ew.

Be more social and outgoing, and don't be afraid of failing or making an ass of yourself. Talk to everyone you meet if you have time. You basically just need to be semi-attractive and have some confidence. Also.. it sounds to me like your first goal is to sleep with someone (again, using pick up artist tricks is a dead giveaway of what you're after.) If so, like another poster said, prostitutes exist..

Just treat women the same way you would treat your guy friends, assuming you don't want to sleep with them too, LOL. It will help you to stop being so nervous around women and get you to relax a little.

Humor goes a LONG way. I mean, just look at Seth Rogen. Guy is ugly as hell, but I'm sure he still got plenty of girls long before he made it big in Hollywood, because he's hilarious. Being able to make women laugh (well, not just women but everyone, really) is a HUGE plus.

Oh, and if all else fails, get a puppy. Women LOVE puppies, hahahahaha (but on a serious note, don't actually get a puppy if you aren't going to be able to properly care for it.)

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7 years ago

buy a guitar
girls love men with guitars

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7 years ago

Hi Gangsterpart,

Since this is a marketing forum, I have to ask "Have you tried marketing?"

You have got to target the right market segment.

If you are a decent guy, clean, and with good morals join a local church with lots of single women and participate in all the popular group activities for your age group.

If you are a bad boy with low moral values, hang out in your local singles bars, tattoo parlors, or crack houses.

Try to hang out with groups of single people that are mostly just like you. Because women that are looking for a particular type will look where those types hang out. It's basic marketing, you have got to target the right market segment.

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

I can only speak from experience. When I was a young man, I was an idiot. I thought getting a girlfriend was all about pickup lines..appearing like an alpha male, and acting like a moron. It's all I had.
Unless you are mentally deficient, in 20 years you'll look back on this time in your life and laugh. We all start out as losers.

Sometimes you just make things way too easy...

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Seeing your belly, I don't think many animals need to run away if they're chased by you (except maybe the sloth).

So how do you know that an animal chased... runs away?

Seeing Claude's belly, I think "Noah's Ark" and how you can fit two of every species of animal in his belly.

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Kurt

Sometimes you just make things way too easy...

Seeing Claude's belly, I think "Noah's Ark" and how you can fit two of every species of animal in his belly.

Actually, you unintentionally brought up a useful point.

If you look at a photo of me, you'll notice that I'm bald, about 80 pounds overweight, have crooked teeth, and am as old as dirt.

But women like me. My two best friends are women. And I was into my early 50s before women stopped showing interest in me. Why? Because I treated them like people, and not a piece of meat.

It's not rocket science. Most things men do to attract a women are signals of desperation.
Just be nice to them, and their friends, and just treat them like people that you like.

You would be amazed at how many women are out there looking for "a decent human being who is not insane". The bar is set pretty low.

The evidence of this is that Kurt had sex with a woman once. She even gave him a discount.

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Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

If you look at a photo of me, you'll notice that I'm bald, about 80 pounds overweight, have crooked teeth, and am as old as dirt.

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Really? I never noticed. Me calling you a creepy old fat bald white guy was just a coincidence using random words....now back to your "used to be an idiot" comment...
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Banned 7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

It's not rocket science. Most things men do to attract a women are signals of desperation.Just be nice to them, and their friends, and just treat them like people that you like.

That's it. Thanks Claude. The problem with many Men (and certainly those in the "Seduction Community") is that they have an "agenda." Unless you're an expert at fooling People, women can sense when you're being genuine.

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0

That's it. Thanks Claude. The problem with many Men (and certainly those in the "Seduction Community") is that they have an "agenda." Unless you're an expert at fooling People, women can sense when you're being genuine.

Especially women. A huge part of their brain (and ours) is dedicated to recognizing facial signals. Women are better than men at telling if someone is lying...or being insincere.

If you ever think you fooled a woman to get your way with them...it's because they didn't care that you were gaming them....or enjoyed it. It's almost never that they couldn't tell..

I've read several books on the seduction techniques of Mystery and other guys. And I've read The Game. Great books on marketing, and good books on picking up women.

But I think the entire premise is flawed. "Tricking women" into sleeping with you? I've been around more than most, and I can tell you that if they sleep with you, it's because they want to....despite what you did to "seduce" them. Maybe you made it easier for them to justify, but they wanted to. (unless they said "No" and then it's rape)

Like in selling, most "techniques" I've heard from salesmen are terrible, And the people buy from them despite their "techniques" , not because of them.

Another serious problem with "gaming" women is that they think you are somebody completely different from the person you really are. And it only takes a day for them to realize you are an insecure child, trying to imitate an alpha male.

The first date I had with my wife, she knew that I was a "Judgmental...narrow minded man". I know, because she told me...on our first date. I instantly knew she was for me...a smart woman that can see through my BS. Now she knew how I really was...every day.

A woman who really knows you..and still wants to be with you...is a treasure.
And smart...I love smart.

By the way, I asked her why she went out with me the second time (I asked after she said OK at the end of the first date) She said "You're funny and a great kisser. Worth another look". It's been 30 years. I chose well.

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Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

But I think the entire premise is flawed. "Tricking women" into sleeping with you? I've been around more than most, and I can tell you that if they sleep with you, it's because they want to....despite what you did to "seduce" them. .

Good point. Sometimes "PU Techniques" can be helpful for meeting Women that want to sleep with you that wouldn't have the opportunity without the Social Skills.

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0

Good point. Sometimes "PU Techniques" can be helpful for meeting Women that want to sleep with you that wouldn't have the opportunity without the Social Skills.

I think the advantage of pick up techniques is that it gives the guy enough confidence to say something...anything ...that conveys that he's interested in a girl.
Not all women are aggressive enough to show interest in a man. and some men are too shy as well. The PU techniques give some men an assist in getting up the nerve.

Some women find shyness attractive. For example, every woman that has ever met Kurt has wished that he was too shy to talk to them.

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

I think the advantage of pick up techniques is that it gives the guy enough confidence to say something...anything ...that conveys that he's interested in a girl.
Not all women are aggressive enough to show interest in a man. and some men are too shy as well. The PU techniques give some men an assist in getting up the nerve.

Some women find shyness attractive. For example, every woman that has ever met Kurt has wished that he was too shy to talk to them.

I don't think when women (and men) tell you that you need to be "re-accommodated" it means what you think it means.

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Kurt

I don't think when women (and men) tell you that you need to be "re-accommodated" it means what you think it means.

Does "Re-accommodated" mean to leave? Because women ask me to leave often.

I also get this question..."are you done yet?". I assume that this is a high compliment.

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

Does "Re-accommodated" mean to leave? Because women ask me to leave often.

I also get this question..."are you done yet?". I assume that this is a high compliment.

It happens every time you belt out "You Make Me Feel Like A Natural Woman" at the weekly Karaoke and Water Aerobics night at the Wooster Senior Center.

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Originally Posted by Kurt

It happens every time you belt out "You Make Me Feel Like A Natural Woman" at the weekly Karaoke and Water Aerobics night at the Wooster Senior Center.

i thought that "Re - animated" was a more apt description.

240 volts to the two bolts on his neck and he is good to go, at least for a while.
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Banned 7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

I think the advantage of pick up techniques is that it gives the guy enough confidence to say something...anything ...that conveys that he's interested in a girl.
Not all women are aggressive enough to show interest in a man. and some men are too shy as well. The PU techniques give some men an assist in getting up the nerve.

True, Thanks Claude. I think Guys using "Pickup Techniques" as something of a "crutch" can be a good thing. However as Style/Neil Strauss put it they use (Community) routines to convey disinterest instead of simply being "genuine/authentic/disinterested"

Like I said: Women can sense when you're a "High-Value Male" and is just out to have a good time and meet women. .

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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0

True, Thanks Claude. I think Guys using "Pickup Techniques" as something of a "crutch" can be a good thing. However as Style/Neil Strauss put it they use (Community) routines to convey disinterest instead of simply being "genuine/authentic/disinterested"

Like I said: Women can sense when you're a "High-Value Male" and is just out to have a good time and meet women. .

Jonathan

I'm going to admit that I was so shy as a teenager that I didn't have a date until I was 19. I really thought that I was never going to have sex...ever.

The truth is that most of us think that everyone else (except Kurt) is more socially adept than we are. But we are all just struggling, at least when we are younger.

Someone on this forum has, as their signature; "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle", And that really hits me at home. Everyone wants to be appreciated, liked, maybe admired a little...and we crave acceptance. Just remember that when you meet a girl that you find attractive.

In fact, remember that when you meet anyone.

And also remember....if you ever meet Kurt....that he may be beautiful on the inside.....at least we all hope so.

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OptedIn 7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

I'm going to admit that I was so shy as a teenager that I didn't have a date until I was 19. I really thought that I was never going to have sex...ever.

A prophecy that has been borne out. Sad, but having seen your YouTube videos, not at all surprising.

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- lanfear63 7 years ago
  
  Originally Posted by OptedIn
  
  A prophecy that has been borne out. Sad, but having seen your YouTube videos, not at all surprising.
  
  Thank you.
  
  I see you are being drawn to the Kurt Side my son...good...good.
  
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7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

The first date I had with my wife, she knew that I was a "Judgmental...narrow minded man". I know, because she told me...on our first date. I instantly knew she was for me...a smart woman that can see through my BS. Now she knew how I really was...every day.

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Narrow minded and fat headed leaves a "vacuum" in that noggin of yours. That's what they call irony.

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Jonathan 2.0 Banned 7 years ago

Something to consider is that Isaac Newton died a virgin. Yet he will be remembered long after our genes have become so diverse that calling them "Our own" would just be pretentious.
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tagiscom

7 years ago

Originally Posted by Kay King

Wait - I have a girl for you

http://www.warriorforum.com/off-topi...l#post11061547

That tells me you are focused only on what you want out of the situation. Otherwise, you would notice when a woman is not receptive, not comfortable, or views you as someone to get rid of. If women ask you to leave - that's a problem.

If you have any good male and female friends - ask them what you are doing wrong. I expect it's clear to everyone except you.

I'm female so see it differently - but reading responses here I'm surprised a few of you ever manage to hook up...let alone develop a relationship.

Women are people - treat them accordingly.

Yes, exactly, l knew an attractive woman in a social group; and there was a guy, you know, open shirt, gold necklace, and once he was within earshot he wouldn't stop talking, thinking if he talks enough he can get anyone.

All he did was drive women away, and this particular one sat close to me, just to get away from him. I would have liked to talk to her as well, but just smiled, and continued to listen to the speaker.

A few years later, she showed more and more interest in me, and it could have gotten serious, but we had very little in common, so...

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RonaldT55

7 years ago

How much old are you? You never proposed a girl before?

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Jonathan 2.0

Banned 7 years ago

Originally Posted by Gangsterpart

UPDATE: Guys - my bad , I forgot to mention that I never hooked up with any girl whatsoever. Can you please teach me from your experience?

Once you shag your first gorgeous girl things will become easier.
: )

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7 years ago

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mahdi0907

7 years ago

I met with a girl in 2014 via Facebook. Basically she found me in a local blog where I wrote about Local SEO. There I linked my Facebook profile and then she sent me friend request through that link. Later we became friend. Lots of chatting and sharing, caring. Then we fall in love with each other. And interesting thing that we got marry in 2016. But our relation was not easy at all. Both family did not agree about our relation. And we did struggle to make it a final stage.

One thing we had no bed relation with each other before marriage.

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thirdhandbd

7 years ago

Ofcourse you're going to fail at anything if you keep doing the same thing over & over. Try to analyze what you can change, then implement and look at the results. Didn't work? Try something different.

When I was a teenager, I really wanted a girlfriend. Even the most socially awkward people I knew were dating. As an early adult, I gave up and I got several opportunities to date and I consciously didn't do it because I wanted to explore my options. The people you might be meeting may or may not have similar reasons. If you enjoy someone's company, you enjoy their company and you cross the relationship bridge when you get there. All men and women want organic genuine relationships. It just has to click. You should make a conscious effort but it shouldn't be forced. Doesn't matter how old you are, you still have the option to find someone so keep learning.

PUA force everything. They're "artists". If you want their kind of success, take acting & improv classes. I personally think it's just really immature but if you're in heat, so be it I guess. Just human biology.

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Leadsupply

7 years ago

You poor guy. Girls are awesome and being married to an amazing girl is even better. I totally think you should use match.com or something like that. Also, being in public places isn't actually enough. You want to be in situations that force interaction, like being in different community groups (like community theater, service groups, etc...). If you're looking for something serious and not just hooking up, then the best girls will be found at church. The girl to guy ratio at just about any church is really high, and they're the girls you want for a real relationship. Keep trying brotha! Keep being a warrior! You're the man for posting this, and there are several million amazing girls that are looking for a guy just like you.

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XenG

7 years ago

i bet you're not alone on this one. There are probably girls out there who are single as you are. I, for one. It sucks. But I have learned to live with it. It still frustrates me at times as I feel like I have no one to go out with when all my friends are busy. There was one time when I asked my brother to accompany me and he just didn't want to. He was so pissed and told me to get myself a boyfriend so I have someone to accompany me. Yikes!

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Banned 7 years ago

Originally Posted by Gangsterpart

UPDATE: Guys - my bad , I forgot to mention that I never hooked up with any girl whatsoever. Can you please teach me from your experience?

BBWs, they will rock your world.

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Jefay

Banned 7 years ago

Have you ever tried some online dating websites or apps? Sometimes, they work really good for such people who don't have any luck with meeting girls in public. I use the one called Cupid and met my gf there. I am really very happy with her now. I hope that you will find your love one day too, good luck!

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OptedIn 7 years ago

Originally Posted by Jefay

Have you ever tried some online dating websites or apps?

He said he felt sad, not that he felt like he's a total loser.

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Claude Whitacre

7 years ago

Originally Posted by Gangsterpart

I'm a grown adult. and never had a gf. I was in the PUA community did what i was told and nothing.
I'm always outside in public places , like starbucks ,where people, and Hollywood shows, think that are good to meet someone and never had any luck. I approached MILLION times and nothing.

UPDATE: Guys - my bad , I forgot to mention that I never hooked up with any girl whatsoever. Can you please teach me from your experience?

I know we have beaten this subject to death. But it may help if you learn this one thing;
Never tell anyone that you have never had sex, and have never had a real date. Never.

And...you mean you have interrupted girls in a public place and they aren't swept up by your charms? Of course not. That's how they react to any guy that bothers them when they are out in public.

You are admitting failure at the single worst way to meet women.

Just be nice. Treat people well. Don't expect anything in return. And for God's sake....keep clean and don't look like a homeless person. Trust me, there is someone for everyone. She just hasn't found you yet.

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OptedIn 7 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

Never tell anyone that you have never had sex, and have never had a real date. Never..

Has it been hard for you to maintain that secret?

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Trust me, there is someone for everyone.

And then there's you. There are exceptions to every rule.

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Isn't sad that I never had a girlfriend ?

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