How taboo is the other women?
I recently had a long time friend confess an affair with a married man. Eeks! It was pretty startling because I knew this girl from Bible school.... anywho, like a lot of us she has changed a ton since then.
I don't know what surprised me more, that she was a part of this situation or that she was so okay with it. She explained to me that she was very lonely this past year (bad breakup) and so this man was filling a void for her. She came to me not because she wanted him to leave his wife but that he wanted more from her than she wanted to give. She simply wanted a physical relationship and thought that being with a married man would provide a good "no strings attached" sort of deal. Only now, he is becoming a bit needy.
The whole thing boggles my mind! I guess when I try to be very logical about it I can see why my friend would want this type of relationship. And I could even be accepting of a relationship where all parties knew and were okay with it. I have heard of women who knowlingly share their husbands. From a logical and libertarian perspective I see the value in this sort of deal... just as long as nobody gets hurt. I mean, as long as each party views it as sex and not a moral obligation. Once morals (or religion) get involved then can you truly guage how much people will be hurt.
Anyway, sorry this is so long... my real question is how taboo is it to be "the other women" these days. I'm not talking about scandalous Tiger Woods type other women... I mean everyday, normal, I guess like my friend (!) other women.
A few years back, I would probably have forsaken my friend the moment she confessed. Ah the glories of self righteousness Now I just feel sorry for her. Sorry that she needed this sort of relationship, and sorry that she may be hurting this random women. I think that you guys are a great collection of different backgrounds so I am curious how you would guage this sort of behavior. Should we go back to stoning? lol Just kidding!
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Roger Davis
Roger Davis
Roger Davis
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Roger Davis
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Roger Davis
Roger Davis
"As a man thinks in his heart so is he-Proverbs 23:7"