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I was just watching an episode of MASH where Potter had to take his
driving test again. He was doing so poorly that Rizzo offered to fudge
the results for him, but Potter wouldn't let him.

Rizzo couldn't believe he'd ever meet somebody who couldn't be bought off.

And then it got me thinking.

As much as I'd love to get a songwriting contract and one of my tunes
recorded by a big name artist, would I allow myself to be bought off to
make it happen?

If somebody came to me and said, "All you have to do is put on a nice tie
and meet with this one gentleman, and no matter how lousy your music is,
you've got the contract AND the recorded song" would I do it?

I realized tonight that I wouldn't.

Why?

Because it doesn't mean anything.

It's like going into a store and buying a trophy.

Anybody can do that.

What about you?

Do you feel the same way OR are there circumstances where you COULD
be bought off.

Be honest.
  • Profile picture of the author captivereef
    How much and what would i have to do? As long as nobody gets hurt or killed i could be for the right price.

    Realistically if i set 1 million in cash in front of you and said "Steve start singing" could you really walk away?
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by captivereef View Post

      How much and what would i have to do? As long as nobody gets hurt or killed i could be for the right price.

      Realistically if i set 1 million in cash in front of you and said "Steve start singing" could you really walk away?
      It would depend on why you were putting $1 million in front of me. If it
      was because I had talent, no problem. If it was because I had to do
      something for you to get it (sleep with you, commit a crime, etc.) no I
      wouldn't do it.

      If it was for something innocuous like your friend said to you, "Hey, do this
      guy a favor and give him a contract" as long as I didn't know the real reason
      (the person tells me I have great talent) then I'd never know and thus would
      not feel guilty about it.

      The deception would be between him and his friend and something that
      THEY would have to live with...not me.

      Having said all that, I understand this business very well and I know
      better than anybody that it's not just talent that gets you in. You DO
      have to know the right people who WILL do you favors.

      Which is why I hate the music business so much in the first place.

      Still, I want to at least believe that my talent had something to do with
      it.

      In other words, if the publisher and record company say to me, "Look, you
      really suck but your dad is a good friend of ours so we're giving you this
      break" NO I would NOT take it.

      How good would I feel if I did?

      It's not the money. I can make money doing IM.

      It's knowing that I created something that people wanted to listen to.

      If you were a musician, you'd understand that.

      So obviously, you're not.
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      • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
        this is a great thread, Steven, and it's a topic I've discussed with my own circle of friends in the past with very interesting results.

        I can't be bought...I've turned down projects because of niches that I'm not comfortable working in, even though I could have used the money. What's really interesting is that every time I took the "high" road, something better always came along.

        I've ended working relations before because the client was abusive, or unreasonable, or whatever. There is only so much I will do for money. If it feels wrong to me - and usually my instincts are spot on - then no amount of money will tempt me.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    WOW Steve - I hope it wasn't my name that put you off on these kinds of thoughts, LMAO.

    Ya know....System of a Down was opening up for someone pretty well known and loved in the industry -- can't remember now who, Tool or Nickel Back, someone like that. Now these guys really sucked 100%. Everyone was thinking that they got some sort of pal boost onto the stage. And that may well be - as bad as they stunk up the place, it wouldn't have been anyone's surprise.

    But, low and behold, being on stage actually helped them develop their talents and if you go see them in concert today, you are in for one load of awesome getting down with it. Whatever the deal was that got them up there - they sure took over and made it real.

    And what if someone you knew was going to pull you into a seat of power because they were trying to buy a yes man. You knew if you had the chance to get there, you could actually do some good, even if you had to betray a shoddy hand up. Would that fact that you could turn it around and make it good - make it real justify grabbing the dark deal?

    I think if I firmly believed I could go on from the buy off and make it real, I probably would take the deal.

    Uh........Steve.......if you are offered anything on the song, for any reason - TAKE IT! I'll keep writing til you make it real, pal.
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  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Well, I see this as a more complicated issue. Could I be BOUGHT? NOPE! But I could maybe be RENTED! If someone wanted me to lie about something, I would probably NOT do it. If someone wanted me to break the law, I probably would NOT do it. If it were too much, I would have to assess the situation.

    At this point, I even question some things that ARE, in their immediate sense, legal. One company had me change a contract, and I later found it facilitated an embezzlement. IRONICALLY, they ended up stealing from ME.

    BUT, if I felt I was as musically talented as others, that I RESPECT, that did well, and given a deal like you said, I would probably GO FOR IT! Of course, I am NOT that talented(at least not as talented as people whose talent I RESPECT ), so I wouldn't. I could never, in good faith, try to sell music I play, even though it would be better than a LOT of the garbage out there, because I would want to sell something BETTER!

    As for sleeping with someone? If it were a nice woman that I respected, was healthy, and it would go somewhere, GREAT!!!!!!!!!! I would LOVE the money, but it would be a BONUS! Otherwise, FORGET IT!!!!

    Steve
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    • Profile picture of the author thedogtreatjar
      Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

      Could I be BOUGHT? NOPE! But I could maybe be RENTED!

      I could go with this Also, I am a big believer in the ends justifying the means...

      If sleeping with some nasty old dude would save a country of children from starvation I would go for it....Lord knows I have walked the "walk of shame" for a lot less!
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  • Profile picture of the author captivereef
    I guess the conversation can change with the amount of money, a few grand is different then a few million. Steve i would never ask you to sleep with me! not even for money!
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  • Profile picture of the author captivereef
    Eveyone has a price, i guarantee it! Its easy to sit on WF and claim otherwise but money talks and most people listen to it! Look at all the crazy crap that goes on in this world because of money. Better men then I and anyone here have crumbled under its weight and temptation.

    I will go out on a limb and say if you claim you have no price you are either lying or delusional
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    • Profile picture of the author HeySal
      Originally Posted by captivereef View Post

      Eveyone has a price, i guarantee it! Its easy to sit on WF and claim otherwise but money talks and most people listen to it! Look at all the crazy crap that goes on in this world because of money. Better men then I and anyone here have crumbled under its weight and temptation.

      I will go out on a limb and say if you claim you have no price you are either lying or delusional
      I think that statement is partially true but needs some qualifying. I am sure there are CERTAIN things that each one of us can honestly say they would never do no matter what the price. I am also just as convinced that each of us has areas in which we could fold our hand for the right price.

      To say No I never would, or Yes I'd do it, I think is just too broad a statement to make with any reality whatsoever without knowing exactly what it is that we would be asked to do.
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    • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
      Originally Posted by captivereef View Post

      Eveyone has a price, i guarantee it! Its easy to sit on WF and claim otherwise but money talks and most people listen to it! Look at all the crazy crap that goes on in this world because of money. Better men then I and anyone here have crumbled under its weight and temptation.

      I will go out on a limb and say if you claim you have no price you are either lying or delusional
      well you are wrong...not everyone believes that money is the "be all and end all"
      and I resent the fact that you think someone would lie about stuff like this...
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      • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
        You know what I find so fascinating about this thread?

        First of all, I fully acknowledge that there are people out there who are
        TOTALLY driven by money. In fact, almost all my friends are...and they're
        all broke.

        But what bugs me is when one of them says that if you claim to not be
        driven by money, you're a liar.

        Make no mistake about it...we all need money to live. Nobody is going to
        feed us for free of house us for free. I concede that point and therefore
        admit that in order to survive, we need money. That is a big reason why
        I do what I do for a living.

        But to think that just because you have money you're going to be happy,
        is absolutely absurd.

        Do you think a guy with $10 million dollars in the bank and an inoperable
        brain tumor with 6 months to live is happy?

        And please don't give me that BS that he'd be less happy if he was poor.

        He might...BUT...his $10 million...he would GLADLY TRADE IN A HEARTBEAT
        to be rid of that inoperable brain tumor.

        Unless he just doesn't care about living at all.

        And then if THAT'S the case...how happy can he really be WITH all his
        money?

        Do you now see what the problem with the argument is that money can
        buy you happiness?

        It can't...at least not for everybody.

        And what I resent is people saying that those poor people with the
        inoperable brain tumors and all the money in the world are lying or fooling
        themselves when they say that their money isn't making them happy.

        It's simply ludicrous.
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        • Profile picture of the author Radix
          Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

          You know what I find so fascinating about this thread?

          First of all, I fully acknowledge that there are people out there who are
          TOTALLY driven by money. In fact, almost all my friends are...and they're
          all broke.

          But what bugs me is when one of them says that if you claim to not be
          driven by money, you're a liar.

          Make no mistake about it...we all need money to live. Nobody is going to
          feed us for free of house us for free. I concede that point and therefore
          admit that in order to survive, we need money. That is a big reason why
          I do what I do for a living.

          But to think that just because you have money you're going to be happy,
          is absolutely absurd.

          Do you think a guy with $10 million dollars in the bank and an inoperable
          brain tumor with 6 months to live is happy?

          And please don't give me that BS that he'd be less happy if he was poor.

          He might...BUT...his $10 million...he would GLADLY TRADE IN A HEARTBEAT
          to be rid of that inoperable brain tumor.

          Unless he just doesn't care about living at all.

          And then if THAT'S the case...how happy can he really be WITH all his
          money?

          Do you now see what the problem with the argument is that money can
          buy you happiness?

          It can't...at least not for everybody.

          And what I resent is people saying that those poor people with the
          inoperable brain tumors and all the money in the world are lying or fooling
          themselves when they say that their money isn't making them happy.

          It's simply ludicrous.

          My only argument is that the things I really value are not things that can be bought. If I were going to forfeit my morals for something, you would first have to take something from me. A simple offering of money isn't good enough.
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        • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
          Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

          You know what I find so fascinating about this thread?

          First of all, I fully acknowledge that there are people out there who are
          TOTALLY driven by money. In fact, almost all my friends are...and they're
          all broke.

          But what bugs me is when one of them says that if you claim to not be
          driven by money, you're a liar.

          Make no mistake about it...we all need money to live. Nobody is going to
          feed us for free of house us for free. I concede that point and therefore
          admit that in order to survive, we need money. That is a big reason why
          I do what I do for a living.

          But to think that just because you have money you're going to be happy,
          is absolutely absurd.

          Do you think a guy with $10 million dollars in the bank and an inoperable
          brain tumor with 6 months to live is happy?

          And please don't give me that BS that he'd be less happy if he was poor.

          He might...BUT...his $10 million...he would GLADLY TRADE IN A HEARTBEAT
          to be rid of that inoperable brain tumor.

          Unless he just doesn't care about living at all.

          And then if THAT'S the case...how happy can he really be WITH all his
          money?

          Do you now see what the problem with the argument is that money can
          buy you happiness?

          It can't...at least not for everybody.

          And what I resent is people saying that those poor people with the
          inoperable brain tumors and all the money in the world are lying or fooling
          themselves when they say that their money isn't making them happy.

          It's simply ludicrous.
          yep..im sure that if they had an inoperable brain tumor, and were totally broke, couldnt afford the life extending care that money buys them and instead lived out their last days in pain, squalor in some shanty in the hills, with big pink bunnies from all their friends that say 'i love you' on them, they would no doubt be much happier as they writhe in pain until they finally draw their last breath.

          I dont know why so much money is spent on disease research to cure people so they can live longer, just give everyone a hug!. They will die sooner...but they'll be happy.
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          • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
            Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

            yep..im sure that if they had an inoperable brain tumor, and were totally broke, couldnt afford the life extending care that money buys them and instead lived out their last days in pain, squalor in some shanty in the hills, with big pink bunnies from all their friends that say 'i love you' on them, they would no doubt be much happier as they writhe in pain until they finally draw their last breath.

            I dont know why so much money is spent on disease research to cure people so they can live longer, just give everyone a hug!. They will die sooner...but they'll be happy.
            Michael, you're confusing happier with happy.

            No, nobody will be happier poor.

            But if I'm dying in my bed no amount of money is going to make me happy.

            How difficult is THAT to understand?

            Sheesh. :rolleyes:
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            • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
              Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

              Michael, you're confusing happier with happy.

              No, nobody will be happier poor.

              But if I'm dying in my bed no amount of money is going to make me happy.

              How difficult is THAT to understand?

              Sheesh. :rolleyes:
              and thats YOU...and YOU dont speak for the rest of the world.

              how hard is THAT to understand?
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              • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                and thats YOU...and YOU dont speak for the rest of the world.

                how hard is THAT to understand?
                Problem is YOU are speaking for the rest of the world.

                Do you see the irony there?
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                • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                  Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

                  Problem is YOU are speaking for the rest of the world.

                  Do you see the irony there?
                  Not really. I'm speaking for me, as I have through the entire thread. It is you and your fellow high horse rider that say nobody can be happy with any amount of money.

                  I'm still waiting for your check. Help me help you be happy...send me that moolah.
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                  • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                    Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                    Not really. I'm speaking for me, as I have through the entire thread. It is you and your fellow high horse rider that say nobody can be happy with any amount of money.

                    I'm still waiting for your check. Help me help you be happy...send me that moolah.
                    Okay, if you're just speaking for yourself, fine. But then don't make
                    statements that people who say that money doesn't make them happy
                    are lying because THEN you are not speaking for yourself any longer.

                    Yes, you've convinced me. Money is at the top of your "must have" list. I
                    get it.

                    And there is nothing wrong with that as long as you get it legally and
                    ethically.

                    Donald Trump hasn't been put in prison because he's rich.
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                    • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
                      well, I just had an argument with a friend because of this thread. People are so interesting but what's troubling to me is that less people have integrity than I originally thought.

                      Remember the movie Indecent Proposal?

                      so my question to you all, along the vein of Steven's OP, is this:

                      If someone offered you a million dollars to sleep with your best friend's spouse, would you do it?
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                      • Profile picture of the author HeySal
                        Originally Posted by Karen Blundell View Post

                        well, I just had an argument with a friend because of this thread. People are so interesting but what's troubling to me is that less people have integrity than I originally thought.

                        Remember the movie Indecent Proposal?

                        so my question to you all, along the vein of Steven's OP, is this:

                        If someone offered you a million dollars to sleep with your best friend's spouse, would you do it?
                        No. Not unless she knew was okay with it, was planning to leave him anyway, and he was someone I truly really liked and was hot for. All three would have to apply.

                        But then I've never been with a man that I know has a woman that has rights to believe he is exclusive with her - whether a wife or just a regular date.

                        I don't feel that "I can" or "I want" is a good enough excuse to violate certain principles.

                        What Steve was talking about is selling your dreams and your whole self image for a buck. It wasn't about whether money can make you happy. It was about compromising a dream that is bigger than yourself for a wallet.

                        Nobody that has ever been broke can not know that money can make a difference and can go a long way to achieving some happiness. As has been pointed out - a roof and food depend on our wallets. But there are things it can't buy and if you don't get those things, no amount of money is going to complete you, inside or out.

                        The artist might be able to buy some damned awesome equipment with money...but there is no way those bucks can guarantee the accomplishment and satisfaction of creating a piece of work that the public just goes wild over. The artist could get rich by accepting an offer made for reasons other than the quality of a piece of work.....and it won't accomplish the real feeling of success that you can get from knowing you did something outstanding.

                        To someone who has a life's dream of achievement, that money will put food on the table, keep a roof over the head, and buy a few other items he will be happy to have -- but underneath it all there will still be the nagging frustration of failing to accomplish your dream that no amount of money can take from him until it is money earned from the creation of that one special item that fulfills the dream.
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                        • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
                          Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

                          The artist might be able to buy some damned awesome equipment with money...but there is no way those bucks can guarantee the accomplishment and satisfaction of creating a piece of work that the public just goes wild over. The artist could get rich by accepting an offer made for reasons other than the quality of a piece of work.....and it won't accomplish the real feeling of success that you can get from knowing you did something outstanding.

                          To someone who has a life's dream of achievement, that money will put food on the table, keep a roof over the head, and buy a few other items he will be happy to have -- but underneath it all there will still be the nagging frustration of failing to accomplish your dream that no amount of money can take from him until it is money earned from the creation of that one special item that fulfills the dream.
                          absolutely, I understand and can relate to that. There is a kind of emptiness that comes from making money from an offer that isn't because of the quality of one's work. I also know a lot of people just don't get that. To a lot of people, the money is what's important, or instant gratification. But later in life those same people might suffer some regrets, I would think.
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                      • Profile picture of the author metaphors
                        Originally Posted by Karen Blundell View Post

                        well, I just had an argument with a friend because of this thread. People are so interesting but what's troubling to me is that less people have integrity than I originally thought.

                        Remember the movie Indecent Proposal?

                        so my question to you all, along the vein of Steven's OP, is this:

                        If someone offered you a million dollars to sleep with your best friend's spouse, would you do it?

                        Unless there was a rule in place that stopped me from telling my best friend about the offer I would simply offer him half ($500,000)for him and his spouse to go through with it. Nothing wrong there as long as everyone knows whats on the line and are onboard.
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                    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                      Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

                      Okay, if you're just speaking for yourself, fine. But then don't make
                      statements that people who say that money doesn't make them happy
                      are lying because THEN you are not speaking for yourself any longer.
                      when you stop making blanket statments how money doesnt make people happy, i'll do likewise.

                      have a good day Steven.
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                      • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                        when you stop making blanket statments how money doesnt make people happy, i'll do likewise.

                        have a good day Steven.
                        You know what makes me happy Michael?

                        Oh never mind...you wouldn't believe it anyway.

                        You have a good day too.
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  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

    Do you feel the same way OR are there circumstances where you COULD be bought off.
    In general... I'm a whore. I do have some limits, but everything is for sale.
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  • Profile picture of the author Silas Hart
    Like most people in the world, I am corrupt, and I do have a price. It's not very high either.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
    Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

    As much as I'd love to get a songwriting contract and one of my tunes
    recorded by a big name artist, would I allow myself to be bought off to
    make it happen?

    If somebody came to me and said, "All you have to do is put on a nice tie
    and meet with this one gentleman, and no matter how lousy your music is,
    you've got the contract AND the recorded song" would I do it?

    I realized tonight that I wouldn't.

    Why?

    Because it doesn't mean anything.

    It's like going into a store and buying a trophy.

    Anybody can do that.
    I'd definitely be bought in this situation. I mean, it'd be the big break I need. It's not that I'm gonna stink forever.

    Not 'everyone' could do it! What are the chances that they'd meet this guy?

    People are born with different advantages. I mean, Tim McGraw's dad was a baseball player. He had all the riches to pursue whatever he wanted to. He chose music. Now, he started somewhere and I'm sure he was not as good as he is today (or atleast I think he is). He improved and I would too. Another case, Miley Cyrus... uhh.. hmm.. Enough said.

    Now, it's not fair that all of the wannabe musicians don't have rich dads/moms to back them up and that they would have to fight their way into the music industry, with little to no hope of success..

    So, maybe this would be the 'advantage' that I have over the others.

    Now, I'm not talking about killing someone, robbery and stuff but this situation is very acceptable.

    Sumit.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    i can't be bought.

    but i can be rented for a reasonable rate.
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    • Profile picture of the author Ron Kerr
      I can't be bought Steve, but if that isn't the answer you were looking for, a few dollars might convince me to change it.

      On a more serious note, if I strongly believe in something, my opinion won't be changed by anything other than hard evidence that I am wrong (which, of course, never happens). What, me wrong?

      Some might call it pig-headed but some things are too serious not to take a stand.
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      • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
        Originally Posted by Ron Kerr View Post

        On a more serious note, if I strongly believe in something, my opinion won't be changed by anything other than hard evidence that I am wrong (which, of course, never happens). What, me wrong?

        Some might call it pig-headed but some things are too serious not to take a stand.
        i think we may be related.
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        • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
          Thanks for all your replies. For those who say that everybody has a price,
          please understand, this isn't a case of morality or right or wrong with me.

          Hell, if somebody wants to throw their money at me for no reason, I'm not
          going to kick them in the face. It's THEIR money and they can do whatever
          the f*ck they want with it.

          It's about how it will make ME feel.

          If my dream is to have somebody want one of my songs because it's actually
          good, how good will I feel if it's just because they're doing me a favor?

          Again, if I just want to make money, there are plenty of cold, disconnected
          things I can do to that end. But something like this, it isn't about the money.
          It's about being recognized for something that means a lot to me because
          of the fact that what I have done is actually good and liked by others.

          Because if it's just about the money, I'll tell the publisher and the record
          label, "Look, no offense but just cut me a check for $1 million and forget
          about the song. I don't want my record out there just because somebody
          who knows me has an in with you guys."

          Now some of you might think that's stupid, but when you love something,
          I mean REALLY love something, you want the good that comes out of it
          to be as pure and as real as possible.

          It's not about morality or right or wrong. You want to send me money?

          I've got a PO Box I can send you.

          Just don't try to buy my love.
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          • Profile picture of the author Radix
            Money can't buy:

            1-happiness
            2-peace
            3-success
            4-love
            5-sanity


            Just about anything else can.

            With that said, "anything else" can be earned.
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            • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
              Originally Posted by Radix View Post

              Money can't buy:

              1-happiness
              2-peace
              3-success
              4-love
              5-sanity


              Just about anything else can.

              With that said, "anything else" can be earned.
              if money isnt buying you all these things, you either dont have enough money or you are shopping in the wrong stores.
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              • Profile picture of the author Radix
                Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                if money isnt buying you all these things, you either dont have enough money or you are shopping in the wrong stores.
                Name one material thing per item on the list and I'll bet I can prove you wrong.
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                • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
                  Originally Posted by Radix View Post

                  Name one material thing per item on the list and I'll bet I can prove you wrong.
                  Your wife's wedding ring?
                  Clothes?
                  Food?

                  EDIT: I was giving you the examples for happiness. Peace maybe for the first one.
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                  • Profile picture of the author Radix
                    Originally Posted by Sumit Menon View Post

                    Your wife's wedding ring?
                    Clothes?
                    Food?

                    EDIT: I was giving you the examples for happiness. Peace maybe for the first one.

                    My wife's wedding ring is a symbol. As an object it means absolutely nothing to me and honestly I couldn't even identify it if you put it on a table with two other wedding rings.

                    As for the last two, I'm squared away on both. Being self sufficient provides inner peace. Being able to buy food and clothing is a luxury and saves a lot of time, but not something brings me any significant pleasure.
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                    • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
                      Originally Posted by Radix View Post

                      My wife's wedding ring is a symbol. As an object it means absolutely nothing to me and honestly I couldn't even identify it if you put it on a table with two other wedding rings.

                      As for the last two, I'm squared away on both. Being self sufficient provides inner peace. Being able to buy food and clothing is a luxury and saves a lot of time, but not something brings me any significant pleasure.
                      So, you are saying you would run around naked and eat only fruits and vegetables that grow on trees and still be happy?

                      And when you asked your wife to marry you/will ask you won't mind giving her a plastic ring?

                      Now, come on. Even though these things don't bring happiness as objects they are important in the process to get there.
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                      • Profile picture of the author Radix
                        Originally Posted by Sumit Menon View Post

                        So, you are saying you would run around naked and eat only fruits and vegetables that grow on trees and still be happy?

                        And when you asked your wife to marry you/will ask you won't mind giving her a plastic ring?

                        Now, come on. Even though these things don't bring happiness as objects they are important in the process to get there.
                        As long as I'm not hungry, what I eat is pretty inconsequential. What I wear is even less important. A good marriage is based on unconditional love. My wife could care less how much money I make, but she would be devastated if I were ever unhappy with our marriage.

                        Let me ask you this, were people in a constant state of depression and hopelessness before the existence of currency?
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                          Originally Posted by Radix View Post

                          As long as I'm not hungry, what I eat is pretty inconsequential. What I wear is even less important. A good marriage is based on unconditional love. My wife could care less how much money I make, but she would be devastated if I were ever unhappy with our marriage.

                          Let me ask you this, were people in a constant state of depression and hopelessness before the existence of currency?
                          There has always been some who will trod on others for their own comfort so I imagine that even without money you had those that did not have enough and those that were willing to take the little they had away from them. There were probably always those who got the "respect" of their tribes falsely whether money was involved or not.
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                        • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                          Originally Posted by Radix View Post

                          As long as I'm not hungry, what I eat is pretty inconsequential. What I wear is even less important. A good marriage is based on unconditional love. My wife could care less how much money I make, but she would be devastated if I were ever unhappy with our marriage.

                          Let me ask you this, were people in a constant state of depression and hopelessness before the existence of currency?
                          A good marriage may be based on unconditional love, but money is required to keep that marriage going. 'All you need is love' is just the name of a beatles song, dont take it too seriously.
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                      • Profile picture of the author Sylvia Meier
                        Originally Posted by Sumit Menon View Post

                        So, you are saying you would run around naked and eat only fruits and vegetables that grow on trees and still be happy?

                        And when you asked your wife to marry you/will ask you won't mind giving her a plastic ring?

                        Now, come on. Even though these things don't bring happiness as objects they are important in the process to get there.
                        You know when my husband first asked me to marry him back in high school, the ring he put on my finger was constructed of a black shoelace, that he tied around my finger, knoted (which makes it look like a solitaire type diamond ring) and that was it. And you know what...I still have it to this day. And of all the "jewellery" I own, it is still my favorite, because it didn't matter how much it cost it, it was the meaning behind it, and the love that went with it.

                        Now in regards to trading it all for money, never. Not in a million years. Honestly I wouldn't. I was raised below poverty level and was taught at a very young age money really doesn't matter. Yes, it does hold some value in things like getting food in your stomach and a roof over your head, but some of the wealthiest people in the world are also the saddest. And I would rather have the love of my family and those around me, then all the money in the world. This past christmas was tight for us, and really put it back into perspective. We had maybe a quarter of the presents we did last year, and you know what, the kids were still just as happy.

                        In regards to sleepin with a best friends husband for a million dollars...it would require she knew about it, was okay with it, my husband knew about it and was okay with it. And hell, if they aren't why not offer to split the win fall with them, may change their ideas as well LOL. $500K per couple? There goes my good girl image...

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                          Originally Posted by Sylvia Rolfe View Post

                          In regards to sleepin with a best friends husband for a million dollars...it would require she knew about it, was okay with it, my husband knew about it and was okay with it. And hell, if they aren't why not offer to split the win fall with them, may change their ideas as well LOL. $500K per couple? There goes my good girl image...

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                          Sylvia, Just 500k?
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                          • Profile picture of the author Sylvia Meier
                            Originally Posted by Michael Mayo View Post

                            Sylvia, Just 500k?
                            Calling the wife now!

                            Michael

                            LOL Too funny. See you you can be bought...
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                              alright fine..i'll be the little spoon, but its going to cost extra.
                              Now, THAT'S funny!

                              Would that be an upsell?
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                              • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                                Okay, let me make this perfectly clear...I wouldn't sleep with anybody
                                here.

                                Not if I want to live to see tomorrow.
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                                • Profile picture of the author Radix
                                  Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

                                  Okay, let me make this perfectly clear...I wouldn't sleep with anybody
                                  here.

                                  Not if I want to live to see tomorrow.

                                  What about napping?
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                            • Profile picture of the author Michael Mayo
                              Originally Posted by Sylvia Rolfe View Post

                              LOL Too funny. See you you can be bought...
                              Lol... Takes one to know one and two ta tango huh!

                              Have a Great Day!
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                              PS. Wife said "over her dead body" so, I may be a little late!
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                • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                  Originally Posted by Radix View Post

                  Name one material thing per item on the list and I'll bet I can prove you wrong.
                  I bet you can't.

                  You can prove it doesnt make you happy, or it doesnt make you feel peaceful or successful

                  here's a newsflash, not everyone thinks like you.

                  Having money in the bank makes me happy as hell. Im tickled when i can pay my bills, im very peaceful when there are no real mony concerns, i feel successful when my family has everything it needs because of the money i generate. Regardless of what the romantics in the crowd think, when it comes right down to it, you will never hear a female say 'you know, i want to fall in love with a guy that is broke as hell and can't afford to take me anywhere, lives in a crappy house, and drives a trashed out car'. I've seen plenty of people flip out because of lack of money, can't say as i've ever seen anyone lose it because they had enough.


                  that whole concept of 'money can't buy you everything' is outdated and was b.s. to begin with. That comes from the western point of view that greed is bad, money is bad..etc.
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                    Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                    I bet you can't.

                    You can prove it doesnt make you happy, or it doesnt make you feel peaceful or successful

                    here's a newsflash, not everyone thinks like you.

                    Having money in the bank makes me happy as hell. Im tickled when i can pay my bills, im very peaceful when there are no real mony concerns, i feel successful when my family has everything it needs because of the money i generate. Regardless of what the romantics in the crowd think, when it comes right down to it, you will never hear a female say 'you know, i want to fall in love with a guy that is broke as hell and can't afford to take me anywhere, lives in a crappy house, and drives a trashed out car'. I've seen plenty of people flip out because of lack of money, can't say as i've ever seen anyone lose it because they had enough.


                    that whole concept of 'money can't buy you everything' is outdated and was b.s. to begin with. That comes from the western point of view that greed is bad, money is bad..etc.

                    Michael, I understand what you're saying and there is a lot of truth to it,
                    but I know people with money who are miserable. I don't know why, but
                    they are. Not only are they miserable but they're miserable people to
                    others as well. Not a kind word or anything positive to say.

                    I'm grateful for my money, but I'd be a lot happier if I had my health.

                    And money can't buy that because doctors are not gods.

                    Does money help? Sure. But it's not the answer to everything.

                    I should know. I have it and could still be a lot happier than I am right now.
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                    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                      Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

                      Michael, I understand what you're saying and there is a lot of truth to it,
                      but I know people with money who are miserable. I don't know why, but
                      they are. Not only are they miserable but they're miserable people to
                      others as well. Not a kind word or anything positive to say.
                      You know, i've heard people say this, but i have NEVER seen someone with money that was 'miserable', unless they were foolish with their money. Money doesnt make them sad or unhappy or miserable, thier inability to manage it does. You can bet when they were flush or in the black,t hey were happy as could be.

                      I'm grateful for my money, but I'd be a lot happier if I had my health.
                      And if having your health is what makes you happy, how do you think you'll be more likely to have good health...when you are poor and cant afford things like nutrious food, doctor visits and medicine, or if you were broke and couldnt afford any of that?

                      And money can't buy that because doctors are not gods.
                      I'll take my chances with those who make their living not being 'gods' rather than hanging out with those who think that being penniless will somehow make everything ok.

                      Does money help? Sure. But it's not the answer to everything.

                      I should know. I have it and could still be a lot happier than I am right now.
                      If you really have money and you're not happy, then you're not doing something right.
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                      • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post




                        If you really have money and you're not happy, then you're not doing something right.
                        Okay Michael. I'm not going to debate this with you.

                        It isn't worth it.
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                  • Profile picture of the author Radix
                    Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                    I bet you can't.

                    You can prove it doesnt make you happy, or it doesnt make you feel peaceful or successful

                    here's a newsflash, not everyone thinks like you.

                    Having money in the bank makes me happy as hell. Im tickled when i can pay my bills, im very peaceful when there are no real mony concerns, i feel successful when my family has everything it needs because of the money i generate. Regardless of what the romantics in the crowd think, when it comes right down to it, you will never hear a female say 'you know, i want to fall in love with a guy that is broke as hell and can't afford to take me anywhere, lives in a crappy house, and drives a trashed out car'. I've seen plenty of people flip out because of lack of money, can't say as i've ever seen anyone lose it because they had enough.


                    that whole concept of 'money can't buy you everything' is outdated and was b.s. to begin with. That comes from the western point of view that greed is bad, money is bad..etc.

                    Money buys material objects and if your mind is in a place where the material brings comfort then I agree your premise might be correct.

                    If money is the keystone of a relationship, it is doomed to fail. If your family has everything it needs, why do you continue to need more things?

                    If money is key to the five things I listed, how can one without a penny to their name enjoy any or all of them?

                    Because money is the means to an end, but not everything can be bought.
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                    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                      Originally Posted by Radix View Post

                      Money buys material objects and if your mind is in a place where the material brings comfort then I agree your premise might be correct.
                      If everyone's head wasn't in a place where material things bring them comfort, we would all live in tents made of branches.


                      If money is the keystone of a relationship, it is doomed to fail. If your family has everything it needs, why do you continue to need more things?
                      The U.S. has a 50%-60% divorce rate. The number 1 cause for divorce? Financial Distress.
                      Money is a requirement in the world you can't really get by without it. It is one of the basics needed in a strong relationship. If you think otherwise, you're probably not being honest with yourself, or you're in high school.

                      If money is key to the five things I listed, how can one without a penny to their name enjoy any or all of them?
                      Because they have aligned themselves with the reality that they do not and will not be 'rich'. So they can either whine and cry or tell everyone its a beautiful sunny day and they are really really happy being broke...like they have a choice.

                      Because money is the means to an end, but not everything can be bought.
                      Name one thing that can't.
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                      • Profile picture of the author Radix
                        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                        If everyone's head wasn't in a place where material things bring them comfort, we would all live in tents made of branches.



                        The U.S. has a 50%-60% divorce rate. The number 1 cause for divorce? Financial Distress.
                        Money is a requirement in the world you can't really get by without it. It is one of the basics needed in a strong relationship. If you think otherwise, you're probably not being honest with yourself, or you're in high school.


                        Because they have aligned themselves with the reality that they do not and will not be 'rich'. So they can either whine and cry or tell everyone its a beautiful sunny day and they are really really happy being broke...like they have a choice.



                        Name one thing that can't.
                        I already did

                        I named five in fact
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                        Name one thing that can't.
                        Your salvation can't be bought.

                        I named one that can't be refuted.

                        Do I win a prize because I proved you wrong?
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                          Originally Posted by digidoodles View Post

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                          Your salvation can't be bought.

                          I named one that can't be refuted.

                          Do I win a prize because I proved you wrong?
                          Being an agnostic, I challenge the existence of salvation... But, let's not talk about that or they'll kick us out of the forum!
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                          • Profile picture of the author digidoodles
                            Originally Posted by Sumit Menon View Post

                            Being an agnostic, I challenge the existence of salvation... But, let's not talk about that or they'll kick us out of the forum!
                            Well, you can challenge anything, including the existence of gravity, but that doesn't mean your going to go floating above the earth's atmosphere suddenly...
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                              Originally Posted by digidoodles View Post

                              Well, you can challenge anything, including the existence of gravity, but that doesn't mean your going to go floating above the earth's atmosphere suddenly...
                              Existence of gravity is proved.. While Salvation, not so much.
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                              • Profile picture of the author digidoodles
                                Originally Posted by Sumit Menon View Post

                                Existence of gravity is proved.. While Salvation, not so much.
                                While I completely disagree with what you just said, you missed the point.

                                One's belief or disbelief in something does not cause it to not be true. One can deny the existence of gravity until they die. They aren't going to float above the earth's atmosphere.

                                You don't have to believe that Charles Manson committed all of those murders. But, your disbelief doesn't impact the truth of that matter- he did.

                                I could go on and on with examples. It's a funny thing. People will say "well, I don't believe in ___ (fill-in-the-blank)." And, for some silly reason, they seem to think that their disbelief in _______ (whatever it is they don't believe in), somehow changes something. It changes nothing.

                                That's what truth is. It doesn't require your belief or my belief or any one else's belief. It simply is. And, you can choose to believe the truth in any given situation or not believe it. But, it doesn't change what is, one iota.

                                Something doesn't suddenly cease to exist or cease to operate simply because you choose not to believe it.
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                        • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                          Originally Posted by digidoodles View Post

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                          Your salvation can't be bought.

                          I named one that can't be refuted.

                          Do I win a prize because I proved you wrong?
                          Salvation isn't real. doesnt count.
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                  • Profile picture of the author digidoodles
                    Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                    I bet you can't.

                    You can prove it doesnt make you happy, or it doesnt make you feel peaceful or successful

                    here's a newsflash, not everyone thinks like you.

                    Having money in the bank makes me happy as hell. Im tickled when i can pay my bills, im very peaceful when there are no real mony concerns, i feel successful when my family has everything it needs because of the money i generate. Regardless of what the romantics in the crowd think, when it comes right down to it, you will never hear a female say 'you know, i want to fall in love with a guy that is broke as hell and can't afford to take me anywhere, lives in a crappy house, and drives a trashed out car'. I've seen plenty of people flip out because of lack of money, can't say as i've ever seen anyone lose it because they had enough.
                    If you've never seen anyone lose it because they had enough money... what rock have you been hiding under?

                    Hollywood is full of rich and famous people who have "lost it", in every sense of the word.

                    And, you know, give me a choice between guy who treats me like a queen and lives in a van down by the river and a guy who has a zillion bucks and treats me like a bought whore and a piece of property and I'm living in a van down by the river.

                    Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                    that whole concept of 'money can't buy you everything' is outdated and was b.s. to begin with. That comes from the western point of view that greed is bad, money is bad..etc.
                    Money can't buy you everything and was never b*. Money can't buy your salvation. You can't take your money with you in the hereafter. Once your dead and gone, its history and didn't do anything for you in the afterlife.

                    It's not that money is bad. It's the love of money that's the root of all evil.
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                    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                      Originally Posted by digidoodles View Post

                      If you've never seen anyone lose it because they had enough money... what rock have you been hiding under?

                      Hollywood is full of rich and famous people who have "lost it", in every sense of the word.

                      And, you know, give me a choice between guy who treats me like a queen and lives in a van down by the river and a guy who has a zillion bucks and treats me like a bought whore and a piece of property and I'm living in a van down by the river.
                      Yeah, women say that, until they can't buy the things they want or their friends have, and they arent in the house they would like to be in, or the car or whatever. When it comes right down to it, 99% of what men do to acquire wealth is due to females. All the flower talk of 'all i need is love' is just talk because the power company doesnt take payments in 'love'


                      Money can't buy you everything and was never b*. Money can't buy your salvation. You can't take your money with you in the hereafter. Once your dead and gone, its history and didn't do anything for you in the afterlife.

                      It's not that money is bad. It's the love of money that's the root of all evil.
                      And thats why you'll never have any money..because of that attitude. People who think money is bad will never get what they want, because its 'bad'. Says who? Who told you money was bad? Your pastor? Yeah,but he sure wont mind when you put a pile of badness in his collection plate does he?

                      Im guessing you're a religious person and this is your angle on money. Without turning this into a religous thread...let me just say first that i dont believe in the invisible man in the sky. If you do, good for you. But if you do believe in a 'god'...do you really think he wants you to live out your life in squalor and poverty? Not likely. As you are supposed to be his 'child' he wants you probably to grow and flourish as most parents would. In this world that takes money. So in effect, god wants you to make money..so how can money be bad?
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                        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                        But if you do believe in a 'god'...do you really think he wants you to live out your life in squalor and poverty? Not likely. As you are supposed to be his 'child' he wants you probably to grow and flourish as most parents would. In this world that takes money. So in effect, god wants you to make money..so how can money be bad?
                        For someone that doesn't believe in the big man upstairs, you've explained him quite well.
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                        • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                          Originally Posted by garyv View Post

                          For someone that doesn't believe in the big man upstairs, you've explained him quite well.
                          Well I dont believe you can really say you dont believe in something unless you check it out closely for yourself.
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                            Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                            Well I dont believe you can really say you dont believe in something unless you check it out closely for yourself.
                            Check it out a few more times, you'll come back around.
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                        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                        But if you do believe in a 'god'...do you really think he wants you to live out your life in squalor and poverty? Not likely. As you are supposed to be his 'child' he wants you probably to grow and flourish as most parents would. In this world that takes money. So in effect, god wants you to make money..so how can money be bad?
                        now, I agree with you on this one, Michael. I'm non-religious, but I am very spiritual...and I don't believe the we are meant to be poor...there is so much abundance to go around...that's why I can't be bought, because I can create my own abundance...I don't have to do anything that I feel uncomfortable about to create money...

                        peace all...hope 2010 brings everyone happiness and abundance (whatever that means to you all)
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                        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                        Yeah, women say that, until they can't buy the things they want or their friends have, and they arent in the house they would like to be in, or the car or whatever. When it comes right down to it, 99% of what men do to acquire wealth is due to females. All the flower talk of 'all i need is love' is just talk because the power company doesnt take payments in 'love'
                        That may very well apply to the shallow females in your life. But, not me.

                        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post


                        And thats why you'll never have any money..because of that attitude. People who think money is bad will never get what they want, because its 'bad'. Says who? Who told you money was bad? Your pastor? Yeah,but he sure wont mind when you put a pile of badness in his collection plate does he?
                        You need to re-read what I said "the love of money is the root of all evil." Now, I didn't say money was BAD... but, I do know that money complicates many things.

                        And, thankfully, you aren't the one dolling out the financial future for anyone

                        For the record, the collection plate isn't my "pastors" (preachers). It's God's in the church I am a member of and has nothing to do with the "pastor".
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                        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post


                        Im guessing you're a religious person and this is your angle on money. Without turning this into a religous thread...let me just say first that i dont believe in the invisible man in the sky. If you do, good for you. But if you do believe in a 'god'...do you really think he wants you to live out your life in squalor and poverty? Not likely. As you are supposed to be his 'child' he wants you probably to grow and flourish as most parents would. In this world that takes money. So in effect, god wants you to make money..so how can money be bad?
                        Let me just say this... your belief or disbelief in something has no impact on whether or not it's actually a fact or exists. That's the definition of Truth, my friend.

                        If you choose to not believe in gravity, naturally that's your right. But, your disbelief doesn't suddenly cause you to float above the atmosphere. You're still bound to that law, whether you believe in it or not.
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                        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

                        Yeah, women say that, until they can't buy the things they want or their friends have, and they arent in the house they would like to be in, or the car or whatever. When it comes right down to it, 99% of what men do to acquire wealth is due to females. All the flower talk of 'all i need is love' is just talk because the power company doesnt take payments in 'love'
                        Wow, that is one sexist blanket statement.

                        Did you not read my post earlier? Look at how many SINGLE men there are in wealthy income brackets, lifetime bachelors without a woman making them aquire **** all and tell me that your comment is true.

                        For example, most of my girlfriends own homes, I still rent, honestly couldn't give a **** less about what the "Jones" have, car, don't even own one, so no Jones syndrome there either, my wedding cost around $1500 if that, all the blanket statement **** you could make up does not apply here. Perhaps I am in the 1% of your BS stats (Did you know 99% of stats are made up...LOL) but I highly doubt it. There are a great many woman who believe all they need is love. There are a great number of woman who don't even have men in their lives and still don't strive for the keeping up with the Jones mantra.

                        Now before I get myself a ban...I will wish you a happy new year and hope you acheive all the wealth you do or do not want.

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                        • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
                          Originally Posted by Sylvia Rolfe View Post

                          Wow, that is one sexist blanket statement.

                          Did you not read my post earlier? Look at how many SINGLE men there are in wealthy income brackets, lifetime bachelors without a woman making them aquire **** all and tell me that your comment is true.

                          For example, most of my girlfriends own homes, I still rent, honestly couldn't give a **** less about what the "Jones" have, car, don't even own one, so no Jones syndrome there either, my wedding cost around $1500 if that, all the blanket statement **** you could make up does not apply here. Perhaps I am in the 1% of your BS stats (Did you know 99% of stats are made up...LOL) but I highly doubt it. There are a great many woman who believe all they need is love. There are a great number of woman who don't even have men in their lives and still don't strive for the keeping up with the Jones mantra.

                          Now before I get myself a ban...I will wish you a happy new year and hope you acheive all the wealth you do or do not want.

                          Sylvia
                          right on! I feel the same way..never cared about keeping up with the Jones...basicly what you see is what you get...do I like having money? sure! But I like money for the freedom it gives me, not necessarily for all the material things I can get with it. If I was given a choice between owning a mansion or going on a dream vacation to Australia and New Zealand..I'd take the trip, and settle for a comfy bungalow to live in when I got back from the trip.



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  • Profile picture of the author Scott Ames
    I've sold my soul to my employer in the past. I guess I could be bought.
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  • Profile picture of the author captivereef
    The one thing i could never be paid to hurt or betray was my family. But people also forget that money will not make you happy. While it does make life easier it will not fill a void that is missing, i think thats what alot of people who do dumb things for money are trying to find.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    Steve.........consider,

    So a few experts tell you that your work stinks. You turn down a "deal" because it seems to crush your need to have the work stand on it's own merit.

    What if the experts are wrong? You will spend your life wondering what could have been.

    Do you realize that many of the classic books that are now read and known by about anyone with an education were turned down by sometimes hundreds of publishers?

    What if you "sell your soul" and the public goes wild over what you did? It happens. The experts are often fooled when a movie, record, or book they wouldn't look twice at turns out to be a genuine hit with the people.

    A deal might only be a cheap pay off for someone else's favor - but unless you get your work out to the public, you will never know if they like it or not. The deal might not have been what you crave........but it's the public which has the say whether they like it or not.

    If you take the deal and feel like crap for it -- will your feelings be the same when millions flock to the store to buy your work? Would maybe you be able to look back and say you wouldn't believe how far I had to bend over to get started and laugh?

    There are a hell of a lot of people out there with connections that pull them through because of who they know...........but that doesn't mean that the public will buy them.

    Wouldn't it be better to know for sure than to spend your life wondering what might have been?
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

      Steve.........consider,

      So a few experts tell you that your work stinks. You turn down a "deal" because it seems to crush your need to have the work stand on it's own merit.

      What if the experts are wrong? You will spend your life wondering what could have been.

      Do you realize that many of the classic books that are now read and known by about anyone with an education were turned down by sometimes hundreds of publishers?

      What if you "sell your soul" and the public goes wild over what you did? It happens. The experts are often fooled when a movie, record, or book they wouldn't look twice at turns out to be a genuine hit with the people.

      A deal might only be a cheap pay off for someone else's favor - but unless you get your work out to the public, you will never know if they like it or not. The deal might not have been what you crave........but it's the public which has the say whether they like it or not.

      If you take the deal and feel like crap for it -- will your feelings be the same when millions flock to the store to buy your work? Would maybe you be able to look back and say you wouldn't believe how far I had to bend over to get started and laugh?

      There are a hell of a lot of people out there with connections that pull them through because of who they know...........but that doesn't mean that the public will buy them.

      Wouldn't it be better to know for sure than to spend your life wondering what might have been?

      You do make an excellent point and it's hard to argue with.

      Something for me to think about.
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      • Profile picture of the author Andie
        Steve,
        Great thread - great question. I'm in HeySal's corner with the response that --you never know - really- without it getting put 'out there' if the so-called guilty feeling is very possibly misplaced.
        I look around and there are MUCH too many things that suck Big-Time in my opinion that the masses think are amazing creativeness. Things I think I do not well at all........others tell me are terrific. If someone says they 'admire' me for something, my first reaction (aka: low self-esteem) is that they know not of what they speak!

        Personally - No, money cannot buy you happiness but it damn sure makes being miserable a HELL of a lot more comfy
        The things I might do for a good enough price would probably surprise myself even.

        I must highly recommend a book that I've had for (gulp) 20 yrs now, titled "The Book of Questions" by Gregory Stock that ventures into a lot of these inner-moral thought provoking topics. I love it still.

        (Question #26 = Would you be willing to kill an innocent person if it would end hunger in the world?)

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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    Well if money can't make you happy, then what are you doing here?

    If it makes you so unhappy, let me help you...send me your money and you can be happy as you want to be.
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

      Well if money can't make you happy, then what are you doing here?

      If it makes you so unhappy, let me help you...send me your money and you can be happy as you want to be.
      Michael, please don't twist my words. You know what I mean.

      I'm done with you on this so feel free to chime in any other snide remarks
      that you like...I'll even give you the last word.
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      • Profile picture of the author ThomM
        So far I haven't been in a situation where I could be bought.
        I'd like to say I can't be bought, but I can only go by past experiences and not future ones.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    well thats mighty big of you steven. :rolleyes:
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    "I'm grateful for my money, but I'd be a lot happier if I had my health.

    And money can't buy that because doctors are not gods."

    I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't be happier with both, money and better health.
    And while money can't buy me perfect health, there seems to be a thriving black market for kidneys.

    Black Market Kidneys, $160,000 a Pop - Crimesider - CBS News
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    • Profile picture of the author Profit-smart
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      "I'm grateful for my money, but I'd be a lot happier if I had my health.

      And money can't buy that because doctors are not gods."

      I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't be happier with both, money and better health.
      And while money can't buy me perfect health, there seems to be a thriving black market for kidneys.

      Black Market Kidneys, $160,000 a Pop - Crimesider - CBS News

      Wow. Sure, you could buy a kidney that someone else died giving up.

      Then youd have your health, but not your happiness. (Well, unless your just a heartless *******).
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      • Profile picture of the author KimW
        Originally Posted by Profit-smart View Post

        Wow. Sure, you could buy a kidney that someone else died giving up.

        Then youd have your health, but not your happiness. (Well, unless your just a heartless *******).
        I'm confused, why do you say someone died to give it up? People are born with two kidneys and can live and function with one.
        Since finding out I was in kidney failure I was talking to one of my customers, a nice young lady , and she told me how over 20 years earlier she had given a kidney to her brother. They are both still alive and very healthy.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    how does one sell a kidney? i've got a spare...

    do you call up kidneys 'r us?
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  • Profile picture of the author liveny
    I think that a lot of people have their price. More so than not. But there are always people who cannot be bought for whatever reason.
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    Which reminds me of the line, we already determined what you are, now all we are negotiating is price.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    Oh im sure its kittens or puppies or your family..etc..etc. Anything but money.

    Thats why you have been posting 12 times a day for the last 3 years in an internet forum that is centered around making money, and there are about 125,000 entries in google relating to you and making money on the internet...because its really puppies make your day, not money...right T
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

      Oh im sure its kittens or puppies or your family..etc..etc. Anything but money.

      Thats why you have been posting 12 times a day for the last 3 years in an internet forum that is centered around making money, and there are about 125,000 entries in google relating to you and making money on the internet...because its really puppies make your day, not money...right T
      Michael, I am going to say this as nicely and as diplomatically as I can.

      Stop ragging on me or I am going to report you to the help desk.

      I have conceded your argument for YOU and for all the people who you
      personally know who are all for the love of money.

      Do NOT try to pigeon hole me into your world.

      This is the last time I am going to say this.

      I will leave you alone if you do the same for me.

      Do we understand each other?
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    Yeah, we understand each other. You have no other explanation for the posts and the endless entries into search engines for your wso's, sites, plans, offers...other than the pursuit of money so you're best reply is to stomp your feet and threaten to tattle to the admins.

    must make ya feel a little dirty doesn't it?

    Hey i know, why dont you throw out your patented 'threat' of how you hope I never need anything from you in the future, as though I somehow did in the past...that'll show me.
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

      Yeah, we understand each other. You have no other explanation for the posts and the endless entries into search engines for your wso's, sites, plans, offers...other than the pursuit of money so you're best reply is to stomp your feet and threaten to tattle to the admins.

      must make ya feel a little dirty doesn't it?

      Hey i know, why dont you throw out your patented 'threat' of how you hope I never need anything from you in the future, as though I somehow did in the past...that'll show me.
      Michael, I run my business because I need to eat, have a roof over my
      head and send my daughter to college.

      Luxuries?

      I have a few, if you can call them that.

      I have my own recording studio (value about $10,000)
      I own two cars and a home (mortgage paid)

      That's about it, aside from the money I have in the bank that's sitting
      there collecting interest that I'll probably never spend.

      Medical?

      I'm completely covered under an excellent plan that my wife gets as
      a teacher. One of the few benefits of teaching.

      Yes, I like to eat and I like to have a nice place to live and that's why I
      work.

      You are confusing that with my statement that I'd trade it all to have
      my health back.

      With all my money, I am only so happy.

      Money by itself didn't solve all my problems Michael. I still have things
      that I have to deal with that money can't fix.

      But by your logic, I should still be perfectly happy because I have money.

      But I'm not because money can't buy my health back.

      Hell, I don't even need money for my medical because it's all paid for.

      But they can't fix me...so what does it matter?

      Would I rather be poor and sick?

      No, of course not. But you're making it an all or nothing situation saying
      that people without money can't possibly be happy.

      All I'm saying is, people without money CAN be happy.

      Why?

      Because when I didn't have a pot to piss in and had my health, I was
      happier than I am today.

      You say this is just me?

      You can't know that for certain. I seriously doubt that I am the only
      person in the world who feels this way.

      I'm willing to concede that there are probably many people who value
      money above all else and would be miserable without out.

      Yet you are unwilling to concede that maybe there are some people who
      can still be unhappy even with their money, where having it makes very
      little difference to them.

      That is the difference between you and me.

      I'm giving you your ground but you won't give me mine.

      To me...that's just plain wrong.

      And you can slice that any way you want.
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      • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
        Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

        Didnt read the post of indignation
        Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post


        I'm done with you on this .

        . are you still done or are you done being done and will be done again later?
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        • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
          Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

          . are you still done or are you done being done and will be done again later?
          If that's the best that you can come up with then I'd say I made my point.
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          • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
            Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

            If that's the best that you can come up with then I'd say I made my point.
            Cool!
            Well now that you've made your point about how money isnt everything, you can go back to creating and tending to your multiple sites selling programs and information about how to make money and resume the dozen posts a day in a forum specifically about generating income, giving advice about how to make money. :p
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            • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
              Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

              Cool!
              Well now that you've made your point about how money isnt everything, you can go back to creating and tending to your multiple sites selling programs and information about how to make money and resume the dozen posts a day in a forum specifically about generating income, giving advice about how to make money. :p
              That was rude!
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            • Profile picture of the author Zach Booker
              Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

              Cool!
              Well now that you've made your point about how money isnt everything, you can go back to creating and tending to your multiple sites selling programs and information about how to make money and resume the dozen posts a day in a forum specifically about generating income, giving advice about how to make money. :p
              What's in your sig?

              Do you make money from that?

              Why are you on an internet marketing forum?

              Why are you so active on said internet marketing forum if money doesn't interest you?

              Why do you have nearly 400 posts on here?

              Jesus sometimes I wonder about the stuff that goes on around here.

              Zach
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              • Profile picture of the author thedogtreatjar
                So... I think we have accomplished proving one fact...

                Some people will be a jerk for free.

                Money well spent.

                congrats
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                • Profile picture of the author digidoodles
                  Originally Posted by thedogtreatjar View Post

                  So... I think we have accomplished proving one fact...

                  Some people will be a jerk for free.

                  Money well spent.

                  congrats
                  ROFLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                  I am literally laughing out loud. You get a thanks for that. That made me "happy". Ha.
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              • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
                Originally Posted by Zach Booker View Post

                What's in your sig?

                Do you make money from that?

                Why are you on an internet marketing forum?

                Why are you so active on said internet marketing forum if money doesn't interest you?

                Why do you have nearly 400 posts on here?

                Jesus sometimes I wonder about the stuff that goes on around here.

                Zach
                you would probably wonder less if you actually read the discussion before you jumped in. just throwin that out there.
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              • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                Originally Posted by Zach Booker View Post

                What's in your sig?

                Do you make money from that?

                Why are you on an internet marketing forum?

                Why are you so active on said internet marketing forum if money doesn't interest you?

                Why do you have nearly 400 posts on here?

                Jesus sometimes I wonder about the stuff that goes on around here.

                Zach

                Zach, I can't believe I'm defending Michael since he has been nothing
                but rude to me, but his argument is that EVERYBODY loves money,
                himself included. His point is that we'd all be miserable without it and
                with it we're happy.

                I've stopped arguing with him over this because he's just not worth it.

                In the grand scheme of things, his opinion is about as important as the
                spider that's now crawling up my wall.
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                • Profile picture of the author Profit-smart
                  Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

                  Zach, I can't believe I'm defending Michael since he has been nothing
                  but rude to me, but his argument is that EVERYBODY loves money,
                  himself included. His point is that we'd all be miserable without it and
                  with it we're happy.

                  I've stopped arguing with him over this because he's just not worth it.

                  In the grand scheme of things, his opinion is about as important as the
                  spider that's now crawling up my wall.
                  Steven,

                  I think Micheals problem is one of disbelief; he is not yet at a point where he has enough to money to know whether what he says is true or not. As he makes more, his day to day struggle is lessened; so he feels "happier".

                  Life will never be perfect, there will always be problems in everyone's life-thats the nature of being a human being. Some people call it "The human condition".

                  Believe it or not, its a really-really good thing. If we all felt euphoric all the time we wouldnt have built cities, spaceships, computers, or anything else. We would have sat on the ground and starved to death.

                  The *search* for happiness is what makes us happy, as we make progress towards whatever our new idea of happiness is we feel happy. When we get there, its never the end all source of joy we expected.


                  I guess my point.. is toe-meh-toes, tah-mah-toes
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              • Profile picture of the author Killer Joe
                Originally Posted by Zach Booker View Post

                What's in your sig?
                Shouldn't that be "What's in your cig?"

                Just askin'...

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              • Profile picture of the author Zach Booker
                Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

                Zach, I can't believe I'm defending Michael since he has been nothing
                but rude to me, but his argument is that EVERYBODY loves money,
                himself included. His point is that we'd all be miserable without it and
                with it we're happy.

                I've stopped arguing with him over this because he's just not worth it.

                In the grand scheme of things, his opinion is about as important as the
                spider that's now crawling up my wall.
                Fair enough, I didn't even realize we were on the second page (it was late).

                After reading the first page as well I found myself thinking the following even more:

                Originally Posted by Zach Booker View Post


                Jesus sometimes I wonder about the stuff that goes on around here.

                Zach
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            • Profile picture of the author TLCarroll
              Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

              Cool!
              Well now that you've made your point about how money isnt everything, you can go back to creating and tending to your multiple sites selling programs and information about how to make money and resume the dozen posts a day in a forum specifically about generating income, giving advice about how to make money. :p
              Dude...Jealous much?

              Geez Steven, how do you walk with this guy riding your jock in every thread???...LMAO
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              • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                Originally Posted by TLCarroll View Post

                Dude...Jealous much?

                Geez Steven, how do you walk with this guy riding your jock in every thread???...LMAO
                Ah, Michael's okay. My New Year's resolution is to stop fighting with people.

                I'll live longer that way.
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                • Profile picture of the author HeySal
                  Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post


                  I'll live longer that way.
                  ??? Only if you can avoid internalizing. If you internalize it will kill you. You can't just "stop fighting" you have to stop caring, really stop caring, not just say so.

                  Of course music does provide an outlet for anything pent - so you can be calm and mellow all the time by just going to a great head banging concert when your ears start to smoke and rocking real hard for about 4 hours. That'll do it.
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                  • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                    Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

                    ??? Only if you can avoid internalizing. If you internalize it will kill you. You can't just "stop fighting" you have to stop caring, really stop caring, not just say so.

                    Of course music does provide an outlet for anything pent - so you can be calm and mellow all the time by just going to a great head banging concert when your ears start to smoke and rocking real hard for about 4 hours. That'll do it.
                    Truth is, I have stopped caring about what other people think of me unless
                    it's directly related to my business, meaning they actually have some
                    constructive criticism about my product and/or service.

                    Opinions about my character, such as opinionated, stubborn, rude, or
                    whatever, don't concern me because these people have already made
                    up their minds and nothing I say is going to change them...so why bother?

                    I used to get so upset about every little negative thing somebody would
                    say about me.

                    Now I just smile.

                    This may partially be due to the fact that I have finally realized that I
                    waste too much time on nonsense.

                    And to those who would reply, "I don't believe you've taken on this new
                    attitude", they're not worth my time either.

                    Again, they will believe what they want and nothing I can say will change
                    their beliefs.

                    Are there things worth fighting for?

                    Of course there are, such as the health and well being of my loved ones.

                    For that, I will fight to the death.

                    But not over somebody calling me an ass.
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    you kidding me??? of course i won't
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    and yet you've spent how many pages arguing with it?
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

      and yet you've spent how many pages arguing with it?
      Yeah Michael, you're right...pretty stupid of me. I'll give you that much.

      Cause you ain't worth it.
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      • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
        Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

        Yeah Michael, you're right...pretty stupid of me. I'll give you that much.

        Cause you ain't worth it.
        Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

        and yet you've spent how many pages arguing with it?

        ...see above.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    no problem. glad to help out.
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    I knew that it would be.
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

      I knew that it would be.
      And you were right to know that.

      Well, since it seems that you and I are the only ones who want to
      play anymore, maybe we should just let this thread die.

      So you make a final comment and I'll go play somewhere else
      because we've beat this thing to death.

      Looking forward to your final remarks.

      Me? I'm outta here.
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      • Profile picture of the author Kay King
        Come on, Steve - you're not outta here - you're waiting to see what's next

        And there is nothing wrong with that as long as you get it legally and ethically.
        So it's not good to say what other people might do - but it's ok to tell them how to do it?:p

        It's all relative anyway. We can take the high moral ground until desperate circumstances make it a slippery slope. Karen - my friend would tell me to sleep with her husband and we'll split the money three ways.

        I'm not arguing - just poking fun a bit.

        The real argument isn't what someone will do for money - but what they will do for whatever "currency" is valuable to them. Shame, fame and revenge will often make people do things they would not do for dollars.

        Party's over - back to work.

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        • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
          Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

          Karen - my friend would tell me to sleep with her husband and we'll split the money three ways.
          okay...that made me laugh thanks, Kay!
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    Made ya look.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
      Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

      .
      Made ya look.
      lol.. You should've left lines in between.
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    ou are wrong...not everyone believes that money is the "be all and end all"
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    The problem with the excess greed in this society is that people have been conditioned and literally taught to be unscrupulous consumers. Eventually the programing to buy each latest greatest toy not only made people more aware of the material status of owning items, but actually transferred their self-esteem from actual self to the material show of the self, which in the long run was tied to their monetary ability to own things.

    As a result, when you look around you now, you will see that people feel that anyone who is not wealthy and is not in major ownership of large houses, flashy cars, latest designer fashions, etc, and so on is just not a decent human. They are considered mongrals by their own people. Look at this thread - anything for a buck. That is because the buck is where they hold their self esteem. Look at the jail thread - there are people in jails because they could not afford insurance for cars they absolutely had to drive. Yet these people are lumped together with those who murder, rape, and steal in the minds of many - they are all the same. Not rich = criminal deserving of being brutalized and contained.

    While wanting enough money ("currency" if you will, Kay) to give you necessities of life is completely understandable, but when you talk about selling your dreams for a million bucks what you see is people whose dreams do not go beyond a million bucks. They have no valuation of the thrill of achievement for it's own sake beyond their ability to make the mighty dollar from it.

    For those people, no matter WHAT they accomplished it would make not one damned difference if they created the most powerful piece of work in the history of their own time unless it produced ridiculous amounts of wealth for them.

    This is the reason I feel our society has become a vast wasteland of hollow shells of people who will consume anything in their path to acquire money. Unfortunately - as we can see, when a society feeds on itself, it crumbles. Also unfortunately, these organic wastelands never quite understand what it is they are lacking and they continue to consume and steamroller anything around even after they ARE wealthy in an attempt to gain more........and never realize the one REAL reason that more than enough cash isn't doing the trick for them.

    We can feel sorry for these people - but also must be aware of the dangers they are to us all.

    There are those that still hold something inside above acquisition and these people need to stay united or they will be consumed by the rest......a live retake of the Dawn of the Dead. Only when others can see the strength in that unity that goes beyond what they can reach into their pockets to grab will they be rendered back to into the world of deeper esteems and values that give meaning to life and community - our children must always be exposed to those who value what they create or humans will soon become nothing more than robots for the wealthy to command as easily as a stroke of their pens.

    Make your money - it DOES give necessities, it does give a bit of comfort and power. Do not trade that for your sense of worth in that which you create, though, or you are as good as a dead man walking.
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    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post


      As a result, when you look around you now, you will see that people feel that anyone who is not wealthy and is not in major ownership of large houses, flashy cars, latest designer fashions, etc, and so on is just not a decent human. They are considered mongrals by their own people. Look at this thread - anything for a buck. That is because the buck is where they hold their self esteem. Look at the jail thread - there are people in jails because they could not afford insurance for cars they absolutely had to drive. Yet these people are lumped together with those who murder, rape, and steal in the minds of many - they are all the same. Not rich = criminal deserving of being brutalized and contained.
      hold up. Not having insurance on your car you 'had' to drive is a crime. Dont think so? let one of these 'poor maligned' people you are talking about plow into you with no insurance and see how caring you are of them when you lose everything because THEY didnt follow the laws to be on the road.

      While wanting enough money ("currency" if you will, Kay) to give you necessities of life is completely understandable, but when you talk about selling your dreams for a million bucks what you see is people whose dreams do not go beyond a million bucks. They have no valuation of the thrill of achievement for it's own sake beyond their ability to make the mighty dollar from it.
      Because you cant pay the mortgage with the 'thrill of achievement'.

      For those people, no matter WHAT they accomplished it would make not one damned difference if they created the most powerful piece of work in the history of their own time unless it produced ridiculous amounts of wealth for them.
      So when you go out mining for precious stones, if you do find one that is worth a lot of money, you plan on donating it to a jeweler so that your name can be recorded as the person that found it, but they get all the money from it?

      This is the reason I feel our society has become a vast wasteland of hollow shells of people who will consume anything in their path to acquire money. Unfortunately - as we can see, when a society feeds on itself, it crumbles. Also unfortunately, these organic wastelands never quite understand what it is they are lacking and they continue to consume and steamroller anything around even after they ARE wealthy in an attempt to gain more........and never realize the one REAL reason that more than enough cash isn't doing the trick for them.

      We can feel sorry for these people - but also must be aware of the dangers they are to us all.
      Yeah, we can feel sorry for these people...as we sit all day in forums designed to help us acquire more wealth and discuss how sad they are :rolleyes:

      There are those that still hold something inside above acquisition and these people need to stay united or they will be consumed by the rest......a live retake of the Dawn of the Dead. Only when others can see the strength in that unity that goes beyond what they can reach into their pockets to grab will they be rendered back to into the world of deeper esteems and values that give meaning to life and community - our children must always be exposed to those who value what they create or humans will soon become nothing more than robots for the wealthy to command as easily as a stroke of their pens.

      Make your money - it DOES give necessities, it does give a bit of comfort and power. Do not trade that for your sense of worth in that which you create, though, or you are as good as a dead man walking.
      Its a noble line of thought. Not realistic...but noble.
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    • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

      The problem with the excess greed in this society is that people have been conditioned and literally taught to be unscrupulous consumers. Eventually the programing to buy each latest greatest toy not only made people more aware of the material status of owning items, but actually transferred their self-esteem from actual self to the material show of the self, which in the long run was tied to their monetary ability to own things.

      As a result, when you look around you now, you will see that people feel that anyone who is not wealthy and is not in major ownership of large houses, flashy cars, latest designer fashions, etc, and so on is just not a decent human. They are considered mongrals by their own people. Look at this thread - anything for a buck. That is because the buck is where they hold their self esteem. Look at the jail thread - there are people in jails because they could not afford insurance for cars they absolutely had to drive. Yet these people are lumped together with those who murder, rape, and steal in the minds of many - they are all the same. Not rich = criminal deserving of being brutalized and contained.

      While wanting enough money ("currency" if you will, Kay) to give you necessities of life is completely understandable, but when you talk about selling your dreams for a million bucks what you see is people whose dreams do not go beyond a million bucks. They have no valuation of the thrill of achievement for it's own sake beyond their ability to make the mighty dollar from it.

      For those people, no matter WHAT they accomplished it would make not one damned difference if they created the most powerful piece of work in the history of their own time unless it produced ridiculous amounts of wealth for them.

      This is the reason I feel our society has become a vast wasteland of hollow shells of people who will consume anything in their path to acquire money. Unfortunately - as we can see, when a society feeds on itself, it crumbles. Also unfortunately, these organic wastelands never quite understand what it is they are lacking and they continue to consume and steamroller anything around even after they ARE wealthy in an attempt to gain more........and never realize the one REAL reason that more than enough cash isn't doing the trick for them.

      We can feel sorry for these people - but also must be aware of the dangers they are to us all.

      There are those that still hold something inside above acquisition and these people need to stay united or they will be consumed by the rest......a live retake of the Dawn of the Dead. Only when others can see the strength in that unity that goes beyond what they can reach into their pockets to grab will they be rendered back to into the world of deeper esteems and values that give meaning to life and community - our children must always be exposed to those who value what they create or humans will soon become nothing more than robots for the wealthy to command as easily as a stroke of their pens.

      Make your money - it DOES give necessities, it does give a bit of comfort and power. Do not trade that for your sense of worth in that which you create, though, or you are as good as a dead man walking.
      yes! Sal, your post made me so proud to know you, even if it's just here on this board. I could not have expressed how I feel any better than you have.
      thank you!
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    "(Question #26 = Would you be willing to kill an innocent person if it would end hunger in the world?)"

    The problem with things like this is they are dealing with impossibilities.
    There is no way killing an innocent person could end world hunger.

    On the other hand, as unlikely as it would be, someone could offer someone a millions dollars to sleep with someone.
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    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      "(Question #26 = Would you be willing to kill an innocent person if it would end hunger in the world?)"

      The problem with things like this is they are dealing with impossibilities.
      There is no way killing an innocent person could end world hunger.

      On the other hand, as unlikely as it would be, someone could offer someone a millions dollars to sleep with someone.
      Scientist Joe Johnson has discovered a way to create nutritional food for fractions of a cent per person. This threatens mcdonalds and ronald buys all rights and promptly stashes it away in the golden arches.

      Kill ronald, feed the world
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    • Profile picture of the author Andie
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      "(Question #26 = Would you be willing to kill an innocent person if it would end hunger in the world?)"

      The problem with things like this is they are dealing with impossibilities.
      There is no way killing an innocent person could end world hunger.

      On the other hand, as unlikely as it would be, someone could offer someone a millions dollars to sleep with someone.
      But the point of the questions is not about possibilities or probabilities; the point of them is to look at that 'inner-morality' line that each person draws for themselves. Steve's OP referred to a MASH show he saw that made him think/question his lines...and that of forum members. The magic word is "IF".......might have to use your imagination a bit (or alot!)
      Heck, I can't really imagine it but I'd even sleep with Steve W. if someone gave me a million$$
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      • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
        Originally Posted by Andie View Post

        Heck, I can't really imagine it but I'd even sleep with Steve W. if someone gave me a million$$
        I think my wife would have a bit of a problem with that.
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      • Profile picture of the author KimW
        Originally Posted by Andie View Post

        But the point of the questions is not about possibilities or probabilities; the point of them is to look at that 'inner-morality' line that each person draws for themselves. Steve's OP referred to a MASH show he saw that made him think/question his lines...and that of forum members. The magic word is "IF".......might have to use your imagination a bit (or alot!)
        Heck, I can't really imagine it but I'd even sleep with Steve W. if someone gave me a million$$
        "the point of them is to look at that 'inner-morality' line that each person draws for themselves."

        I understand the point, all I'm saying is that one cannot define that point in a impossible context. Only in a possible context can one (honestly) define that point.
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      • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
        Originally Posted by Andie View Post

        Heck, I can't really imagine it but I'd even sleep with Steve W. if someone gave me a million$$
        for the right price I would sleep with Steven. But he has to be the little spoon.
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        • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
          Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

          for the right price I would sleep with Steven. But he has to be the little spoon.
          Okay, now I'm really going to be sick.
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          • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
            Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

            Okay, now I'm really going to be sick.
            alright fine..i'll be the little spoon, but its going to cost extra.
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    Film At 11!
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      Film At 11!
      You realize I am going to have nightmares for weeks just from the visual
      that's going on in my head right now.

      My eyes! My eyes!
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      • Profile picture of the author Andie
        You guys are way too funny sometimes :-)
        I'm glad we are talking about sleeping and not having s*x ::::shiver::::
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        • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
          Originally Posted by Andie View Post

          You guys are way too funny sometimes :-)
          I'm glad we are talking about sleeping and not having s*x ::::shiver::::
          If you were like 8 or something, I'd be saying, that's what they want you to believe.
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  • Profile picture of the author garyv
    First Alexa Smith playing the harp, and now Wagenheim and Motley Spooning! Am I in another dimension? What the heck's going on in here? Did I miss some good Christmas hooch or something?
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  • Profile picture of the author digidoodles
    There are things I may do that I don't LIKE or WANT to do for money.

    But I won't lie, I won't steal, I won't break a law.

    I'm not going to Hell for any amount of money. (Or at least I am going to try NOT to go to Hell.)
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    Well, if I was standing on a corner NO! But if you wanted to buy my business then yes! LOL
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  • Profile picture of the author LetsGoViral
    Well many people say they wouldn't but I believe although it might sound harsh that anyone can be bought...it's just a matter of amount of money. Maybe a person who is living a great life somewhere away from modern civilization and found money really useful in this life...maybe that person wouldn't. But then again - the chances are - nobody will ever try to buy you for the price you consider to be your price (millions for example), so most people would say no.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
    Now, this is the coolest thread ever!

    People on the edge of prostitution, Steven Wagenheim becoming the new hottie and me discovering what "spooning" is.

    Way To Go!
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    I could go on and on with examples. It's a funny thing. People will say "well, I don't believe in ___ (fill-in-the-blank)." And, for some silly reason, they seem to think that their disbelief in _______ (whatever it is they don't believe in), somehow changes something. It changes nothing.
    And the reverse is also true - you can believe in something with all your might -- and sometimes a fairy tale just remains a fairy tale no matter how much you want it to be the truth. Because you see something as "truth", doesn't make it so. It just makes your belief so.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

      And the reverse is also true - you can believe in something with all your might -- and sometimes a fairy tale just remains a fairy tale no matter how much you want it to be the truth. Because you see something as "truth", doesn't make it so. It just makes your belief so.
      Bang On! My point, exactly. I was typing a long reply but then I refreshed the page and I saw you reply.

      BTW, Who's side are you on? I see you bat for both the sides. :rolleyes:
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    • Profile picture of the author digidoodles
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

      And the reverse is also true - you can believe in something with all your might -- and sometimes a fairy tale just remains a fairy tale no matter how much you want it to be the truth. Because you see something as "truth", doesn't make it so. It just makes your belief so.
      That's true. Truth doesn't change, regardless of anyone's belief. Things don't cease to exist simply because I attempt to will them away.

      And, just because I THINK they are, doesn't make it so.

      That's why I LOVE undeniable Truth. It's a beautiful thing standing on its own. And once you embrace it, the beauty is even more, well, beautiful
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    I am on the side of those who may be bought in certain terms, but when push comes to shove, if something really violates their principals or compromises their ultimate dream (other than that of being rich) they can stand and say "no thank you" with no regrets or remourse -- and do so not because they are afraid of what the ultimate consequences may be, but because the offer was not in accordance with the foundation upon which they build their own self.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

      I am on the side of those who may be bought in certain terms, but when push comes to shove, if something really violates their principals or compromises their ultimate dream (other than that of being rich) they can stand and say "no thank you" with no regrets or remourse -- and do so not because they are afraid of what the ultimate consequences may be, but because the offer was not in accordance with the foundation upon which they build their own self.
      Cool! Then we are on the same team, apparently.
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  • Profile picture of the author TLCarroll
    Ok, I admit it...Brad Pitt could have me for a million dollars.

    I'm so ashamed.
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      I want to apologize to Michael and everybody else in this thread for my
      senseless arguing.

      Life is too short to argue over things that really aren't that important.

      And IMO, nothing is that important.

      Have a Happy New Year all.

      Sincerely,

      A Kinder and Gentler Steven Wagenheim
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  • Profile picture of the author mwashington
    Yes I could. It all depends on the situation. I don't think I could be bought in an illigal transaction but if it was legal and the price was right I could be bought. If I was an athlete in school and had an opportunity to play college ball and a person in the NBA offered me several millions to play professional ball, I would definitlely take that buy out. There are all kinds of situations that we are bought out and does not include money. Sometimes we adapt to the situations in our work force and go along with the wishes of the higher ups rather than taking a stand and risking loosing your job. That buyout is done everyday.That question is loaded with lots of scenarios that some might not consider being bought. It depends on your personal philosophy of being bought.
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    Syliva Rolfe said:"(Did you know 99% of stats are made up...)

    I'm sorry Sylvia, I have it from good sources that it is actually 86% of all stats are made up.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      Syliva Rolfe said:"(Did you know 99% of stats are made up...)

      I'm sorry Sylvia, I have it from good sources that it is actually 86% of all stats are made up.
      I've read on countless T-shirts. It's definitely 42%.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
    We're gonna be calling you something else if you don't hurry and slide that X-mas tree outta the way and get in your studio and put some music to that Wagentaylor hit song that's getting stale.....

    We're waaaaaitinnnngggg...... ;>)
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      Originally Posted by Dave Patterson View Post

      We're gonna be calling you something else if you don't hurry and slide that X-mas tree outta the way and get in your studio and put some music to that Wagentaylor hit song that's getting stale.....

      We're waaaaaitinnnngggg...... ;>)
      Well Gee Dave -- arncha goona send him a vid of you with your hair spiked with eyeliner and piercings and just haulin' out in the mash pit to some very disturbing rage rock so we can get that toone on MTV where it will belong?

      Right now I'm busy tryin' to keep Steve from extinguishing the *sshole in himself until he gets the notes all sewed together.

      Geesh.
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    Originally Posted by Sylvia Rolfe
    Wow, that is one sexist blanket statement.

    Perhaps I am in the 1% of your BS stats (Did you know 99% of stats are made up...LOL) but I highly doubt it. There are a great many woman who believe all they need is love. There are a great number of woman who don't even have men in their lives and still don't strive for the keeping up with the Jones mantra.
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    So Karen is another.....you have another here. All I want is the freedom to go where and when I want and a dog to go with - a man if and only if the right guy that I enjoy being with is around to join us. Fancy house? No kids, no need - all I need is a small place in the mountains or very near to them.

    Could I live with having a lot of money? You betcha I could. Could it make me happy? Only if I had the freedom I need and a dog to love, possibly a man......but there's a lot of em who think just like that and that I can do without any day of the week, rich or broke.
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