How to score younger women ?

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OK lets have a discussion on how middle aged balding geezers can score hot young chicks.

Lets get some tips here.. how is it done ?

I'm 41 pushing 42. I need a date but when I look at the dating sites it seems there is a threshold point around 30 and all the chicks get hideous after that.

So how does a randy old geezer such as myself get a sexy young girlfriend. I'm not even talking about sex here - just a date would do.

I guess $$$ cashola comes up & grooming etc...

What are some tips ?
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  • Profile picture of the author JaguarJaguar
    Dating sites and trying to find strangers as dates may led to disappointment as over the time you may find them uninteresting or vice versa.

    I believe a quality date can be found if we spent time within a group of people like in a class or office.

    The best way I think is to join any hobby classes. There you will meet a group of people and can spent a quality time with them which will led you know them very well and they will know you.
    Even if you may not get any single ready to mingle female but you can get many new friends and definitely those new friend can fix up you with their friends.
    Its my tried and tested formula !!!
    • Profile picture of the author Kevin Birch
      Originally Posted by JaguarJaguar View Post

      I believe a quality date can be found if we spent time within a group of people like in a class or office.

      The best way I think is to join any hobby classes. There you will meet a group of people and can spent a quality time with them which will led you know them very well and they will know you.
      Great advice - I am going to see if I can find a Stamp Collecting group . . . anyone here want to see mine while we are on the subject?

      I can show you some Scandinavian beauties.
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    You see, another reason why I'm jumping off a bridge b4 I reach 30. I can't handle it. People think as long as you're under 30, ok, but once you reach 30, you're "hideous". Another reminder of why I won't be able to handle being 30, better make the most of the time I have left cause I don't want to live to be "hideous" judged solely on age.

    THANKS A LOT GARETH!!!!!!

    BTW- Do men also get hideous when they reach 30 or is this only a female chromosome thing?
    • Profile picture of the author Kevin Birch
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      BTW- Do men also get hideous when they reach 30 or is this only a female chromosome thing?
      I am presuming you are wearing a flak jacket and tin hat as the Warrior Radar is detecting some incoming . . . .
    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      You see, another reason why I'm jumping off a bridge b4 I reach 30. I can't handle it. People think as long as you're under 30, ok, but once you reach 30, you're "hideous". Another reminder of why I won't be able to handle being 30, better make the most of the time I have left cause I don't want to live to be "hideous" judged solely on age.

      THANKS A LOT GARETH!!!!!!

      BTW- Do men also get hideous when they reach 30 or is this only a female chromosome thing?
      thats not true at all. Women just start reaching their prime around late 20's, early 30's in my opinion

      By that time most women have figured out how to choose a decent guy, they have usually either had a child or decided children aren't their thing and either way are likely on their way to really being in good shape. By that time they've grown a brain and care about more than the mall and fingernails.
    • Profile picture of the author gareth
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      You see, another reason why I'm jumping off a bridge b4 I reach 30. I can't handle it. People think as long as you're under 30, ok, but once you reach 30, you're "hideous". Another reminder of why I won't be able to handle being 30, better make the most of the time I have left cause I don't want to live to be "hideous" judged solely on age.

      THANKS A LOT GARETH!!!!!!

      BTW- Do men also get hideous when they reach 30 or is this only a female chromosome thing?
      Don't worry its the same for guys except we are supposed to spend thousands of dollars too.

      As for the corvette well I could hire a corvette for the weekend and pickup chicks at the beach.

      Heh being single is quite fun actually.
  • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
    Dear Gareth,

    Just buy yourself a corvette and a 25yr old hooker for the week-end.

    You should be over it by Monday.
    • Profile picture of the author Kevin Birch
      Originally Posted by Dave Patterson View Post

      Dear Gareth,

      Just buy yourself a corvette and a 25yr old hooker for the week-end.

      You should be over it by Monday.
      Bit of a waste of moolah getting a hooker - the OP just wants a simple date :rolleyes:
    • Profile picture of the author Kurt
      Originally Posted by Dave Patterson View Post

      Dear Gareth,

      Just buy yourself a corvette and a 25yr old hooker for the week-end.

      You should be over it by Monday.

      If you can't afford a vette, here's something I know works:

  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    yeah, but you're single in new zealand.

    thats like being a well hung priest











































    j/k
    • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
      Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

      yeah, but you're single in new zealand.

      thats like being a well hung priest

      j/k
      ROFLMAO!!!

      Somebody...

      Paper towel, sponge, anything......my keyboard is drowning here...
  • Profile picture of the author gareth
    I'm seriously considering hormone replacement also - that could change the whole ballgame. Um - testosterone I mean.

    It seems the health affects of low TS which all males experience eventually are as bad as or worse than those of enhancement.

    So I'm going to get blood tests & if its low I'll try it. May have probs with it raising my red blood cell count though - will have to watch out.

    Anyway then I'll be all steamed up for some dates and all frustrated like a 24 yr old.
  • Profile picture of the author Killer Joe
    Originally Posted by gareth View Post

    I need a date but when I look at the dating sites it seems there is a threshold point around 30 and all the chicks get hideous after that.
    I'd suggest getting used to hideous.

    After all, that's what they're going to have to do...


    KJ

  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    Gareth,

    A friend tried to fix me up with a 23-year old he hangs around with. I took one look at her and said, "She's a giraffe." They both looked at me like I'd lost my mind, and I said, "Fun to look at, but I wouldn't want to take one home."

    As a rule, I prefer to date women who were born before I voted in my second Presidential election...


    Paul
    • Profile picture of the author ThomM
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      Gareth,

      A friend tried to fix me up with a 23-year old he hangs around with. I took one look at her and said, "She's a giraffe." They both looked at me like I'd lost my mind, and I said, "Fun to look at, but I wouldn't want to take one home."

      As a rule, I prefer to date women who were born before I voted in my second Presidential election...


      Paul
      Ya see now Paul, that's what is great about being an 'old man'.
      I like younger women.
      Now when I was in my early 20's that was a problem as there wasn't a large field to choose from.
      Now at 56 a younger women could be 20 or 50, much larger playing field and still younger women.
    • Profile picture of the author Ken Strong
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      As a rule, I prefer to date women who were born before I voted in my second Presidential election...
      Paul, are you referring to Herbert Hoover or FDR?
  • Profile picture of the author Kenster
    Want a younger woman....one word....OLD SPICE


  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    Oh just get rich and get a mail order bride. Sure, she'd dump you after she got citizenship or poisoned you and collected your life insurance, but you'd obtain your goal. :rolleyes:
  • Profile picture of the author sandra.IMqueen
    Well you guys, you can spend all day talking.....

    I say go and get dressed, look good, smell good (not old spice) and go meet people. Select places that interest you. After that engage your brain before you spea. If you see a woman that appeals and you think she couldn't possibily be interested in you - please go talk to her, because chances are a lot of other men are thinking the same thing.

    Why do you think ugly guys end up with the attractive women (apart from their wallets) because they have an "I have nothing to lose attitude".

    Good luck hope you find a worthy date.

    BTW is that old spice advert for real it had me in hysterics.
    • Profile picture of the author Frank Donovan
      Gareth

      Forget all about hormone replacements, gym trips etc. Just concentrate on getting yourself in a position of power, authority or influence.

      To help you out, here are some jobs where scoring with younger women is practically mandatory:

      1) University or College lecturer (or lecherer, as they're more often called)

      2) Judge on a TV "talent" show

      3) Prime Minister of Italy


      HTH


      Frank
  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    Originally Posted by gareth View Post

    OK lets have a discussion on how middle aged balding geezers can score hot young chicks.
    Not saying things like that is a good start.

    Here's the basic rule: All day, every day, try to make every woman you see feel better than she did before you came along.

    Notice that I didn't say every hot young chick you see. I said every woman. All of them. Even if you wouldn't sleep with them on a bet. Old or fat or ugly or whatever, it doesn't matter. Every. Single. One.

    The results are magical. You'll know you've got it right when women young enough to creep you out are trying to talk you into it with phrases like "age is just a number."

    I mean, I've still got a while before this one stops creeping me out:


    I mean, she's not QUITE young enough to be my daughter... but I'll be happier when she's in her LATE twenties.

    Not like I'm saying "no" or anything. I'm old, not stupid.
    • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
      Originally Posted by sandra.IMqueen View Post


      Why do you think ugly guys end up with the attractive women (apart from their wallets) because they have an "I have nothing to lose attitude".
      Besides fat wallets I think women are more attracted to personality while men looks. Have a good personality. Be sincere and not fake.

      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      Not saying things like that is a good start.

      Here's the basic rule: All day, every day, try to make every woman you see feel better than she did before you came along.

      Notice that I didn't say every hot young chick you see. I said every woman. All of them. Even if you wouldn't sleep with them on a bet. Old or fat or ugly or whatever, it doesn't matter. Every. Single. One.

      The results are magical. You'll know you've got it right when women young enough to creep you out are trying to talk you into it with phrases like "age is just a number."

      I mean, I've still got a while before this one stops creeping me out:


      I mean, she's not QUITE young enough to be my daughter... but I'll be happier when she's in her LATE twenties.

      Not like I'm saying "no" or anything. I'm old, not stupid.
      HAHAHAHAHAHA you gotta admirer, good for you

      CDarlock is very wise Replace hot chick with woman, you'll probably have much better results It worked for CD.
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    Oh look he changed the post title. CD should open up a dating advice service And yeah what site are you on where all the women get hideous at 30?

    Most women are more "in tune" with their feelings or emotional or whatever you wanna call it.

    Here's some more tips:
    Don't use cheesy lines.
    Don't say "hey sexy", or "hey beautiful" the first time you talk cause she'll know you use that with everyone and it sounds like a very cheesy line. Wait till after you've already talked a while.
    Either listen or pretend like you're listening.
    Either care or act like you care.
    Be able to carry a conversation.
    Make her feel good, feel special like CD said.
    Talking about your pet puppy or kitten usually helps-makes you sound more loving n lovable
    The grooming stuff others mentioned.
    And I second stay away from Old Spice LOL Smell nice, but not with Old Spice!!!

    Before you know it, you'll have more stalkers than you'll know what to do with and you'll be asking for advice on how to get rid of them
    • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
      Hideous after 30? What site do you belong to?

      These days if a woman takes care of herself they can be sexy decades past 30. Why do you think so many younger guys are looking for "cougars" these days?

      I was just in a 5 year relationship with someone who was 16 years younger and it was very enjoyable in many ways, but I wasn't looking for it. She approached me. I'm very happy with someone my age and there are plenty of terrific sexy women my age or close to it.

      I prefer using dating sites because of the convenience and also the ability to filter through thousands. You can't do that by joining a hobby group.
    • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      CD should open up a dating advice service
      I have some preliminary notes for a dating product, but I'll need more video proof before I feel confident putting one together.
  • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
    Originally Posted by Laura Knight View Post

    I don't know what dating site you're on, but I agree with Michael on this one...women only start to reach their prime around 30. They start to gain confidence and experience. Speaking as a woman of 48, I have been approached by lots of men young enough to be my son who are in awe of how sexy I am!
    I always liked older women.

    In fact, now they're mostly all in the same place.

    I visit them on Sundays.
    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
      Originally Posted by Dave Patterson View Post

      I always liked older women.

      In fact, now they're mostly all in the same place.

      I visit them on Sundays.
      this conversation is about to get weird
  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    Val,
    Don't use cheesy lines.
    Is "Why aren't you playing pool, so I can spank your ass?" a cheesy line?


    Paul
    • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      Val,Is "Why aren't you playing pool, so I can spank your ass?" a cheesy line?


      Paul
      LOL um creative cheesy maybe?

      PS. Never heard that one. Did you come up with it?
  • Profile picture of the author AwesomePossum
    Here's all you have to do...I don't give advice about this much but my dad asked me about it last night then I saw this lol.....

    Basically you have the advantage : 0 Some ladies love older men so your in the clear....the key isn't to act like an old man though.

    I know this sounds like really impractical advice but here's what it comes down to......go and talk to all the girls you can and don't be afraid to get rejected...It's already happened to me twice this week : 0 I'm not bothered by it in the slightest bit though...why? Cuz there's seriously a thousand other girls in city AND I'm heading out of town in a year.

    Also, don't ACT old.....BE young......I know that your past your physical prime and you can't bust out all those crazy positions any more but the key to having a good life is having fun!!! You don't need to be 24 to have a good time...GIRLS F IN LOVE A GOOD TIME...That's how you pick up numbers, girls, and dates. At first it might be a little work to switch your mindset but dude....go out and LIVE. Go out talk to girls and be light hearted and be nice. Talk to them like they aren't some foreign goddess...talk to em like you're on the same level...y? CUZ U ARE ON THE SAME LEVEL!! Girls are looking for guys just as much as your looking for them....if you look you will find! When that happens, just have fun with it! Enjoy talking to them and try to pick up a date...if it fails move along....there's always like 20 girls at the bar just chillin..

    Oh ya....act like your modest and confident you know...like you actually don't care if you pick up a date or bang her. Just say hi and get to know em...the rest will take care of itself over time.....you have to work out the kinks but hey It's a lot of fun meeting new people anyways

    Hope this helped at least a little,

    Aaryn
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    But don't act too young. Women who like older men like them because they are more mature (or supposed to be) than young men, and don't act like frat boys. Good luck. (Gotta get outta this place and actually get stuff done )
    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      Women who like older men like them because they are more mature (or supposed to be) than young men, and don't act like frat boys
      The thing women like most about men is that we're all still 17 at heart.

      The thing women hate most about men is, well, that we're all still 17 at heart.


      Paul
  • Profile picture of the author WD Mino
    When I was young I gained some weight. I hung out with guys that used to make fun of me because they were skinnier then I was so one day we are at mcdonalds downtown london ontario we all see this gorgeous blonde like smokin hot so I said to them 10 bucks I get her phone number they all laughed the bet was on. so i walked across the street walked ahead of her crossed the street and as she came closer I said 'pardon me ....do you wear contact lenses? She said no in the most awesome accent I ever heard(found out it was russian) I said well excuse me for saying so but you have the most stunning eyes I ever saw on a woman -phone number-coffee.......
    10 bucks later it is all about confidence man I am married to an older woman and that is also what got me my lovely wife .confidence man just be honest and confident

    -WD
    • Profile picture of the author birdman87
      I don't think age is a factor, honestly.

      I used to teach people how to meet girls and get paid a lot for it. Some clients were much much much older than me. It's not about how old but how you act.

      Be honest with yourself, is it cos over thirties are ugly or is it that under thirty younger woman turn you on a lot more? I don't theres anything wrong with it if that is the case. But don't start deciding you want to start dating younger woman out of some kind of considered preference.

      It's wierd how when you get to the point of having loads of choice, all the kinds of girls you once dreamed of being able to get all the time don't seem at all as appealing anymore.

      Here are some things to bare in mind:

      1)a certain amount of woman have a real craving for a daddy type personality in their lives. If you digg that, then you can find people where you fill that kind of role.

      2)people are attracted to others because of the way they make them FEEL. it doesn't matter if you look older if you make her feel excited/energetic/happy/fun etc.etc. you have to live an amazingly interesting exciting great life. if you're genuinly filled with excited and interested in your own life that will rub off on her and she'll be drawn to you

      3)don't seem like the creepy older guy excited by woman trying to change who he is and act different to impress her.

      4)also don't seem like the old man in the whooly jumper collecting his stamps because that isn't attractive to the majority.
  • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
    Ummm, I've decided after reading all of the posts to change my comment to "No comment"!:p

    MissTerraK
  • Profile picture of the author jimlovingu2
    Originally Posted by gareth View Post

    OK lets have a discussion on how middle aged balding geezers can score hot young chicks.

    Lets get some tips here.. how is it done ?

    I'm 41 pushing 42. I need a date but when I look at the dating sites it seems there is a threshold point around 30 and all the chicks get hideous after that.

    So how does a randy old geezer such as myself get a sexy young girlfriend. I'm not even talking about sex here - just a date would do.

    I guess $$$ cashola comes up & grooming etc...

    What are some tips ?
    Someone much wiser than me said:"You don't get what (who) you want, you get what (who) you ARE!" That means that if you want a thing, you have to BE whatever it is that attracts that thing. I won't go into details here, but, it has to do with "The Law of Attraction". And it does'nt matter if you are tired of hearing about it or not, it is still an unbreakable law. If you want immeadiate results in changing your thinking ( mind) I suggest a qualified (Certified) hypnotherapist. I am one and I have helped many people do just that. [Btw, I know what you're thinking and it's only half true ] You can google for a list or you can dot com my name (JamesLoving) and I will email you a list.
    James Loving, CH.t, RSc.P
  • Profile picture of the author Matt Bard
    For me it's more about the same reference points when talking about life, music, politics...

    I don't want to have to explain the difference between a Senator's hatred toward a Russian figure
    and "two guys in the Beatles".

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