Teachers having sex with kids

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I see a lot of stories of teachers having sex with children. Around here, I see way more female teachers having sex with the boys than the males having sex with the females.

When these trysts come to light, parents always are tearfully saying how their child is messed up for life.

Now maybe i'm just thinking of this as an older male, but i find it very hard to believe that a teenaged male is going to be 'damaged' by having sex with his teacher.

For instance..this is one of the teachers that had sex with a student here in tampa


Debra lafave. This kids parents were all over tv about how their child is mentally damaged..yadda..yadda..yadda.

I dont know what highschool is like today, but in my day you would be a fricken SUPERSTAR if you were caught having sex with that teacher

Young females..maybe they are 'damaged'..but I kind of doubt that too, but i just dont see a young guy being anything but a hero to his classmates
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  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

    Now maybe i'm just thinking of this as an older male, but i find it very hard to believe that a teenaged male is going to be 'damaged' by having sex with his teacher.
    Age of majority should be lowered to 14. For all purposes - contracts, voting, driving, drinking, smoking, prison sentences, execution, etc.

    One full generation after that, we'll have teenagers and young adults who actually know how to behave themselves.
  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    Originally Posted by Laura Knight View Post

    Some of what you say is right...though I believe you tread on dangerous ground, my friend. CD is right too...in a sense...but do you really know the consequences of your actions at age 14? And if you're caught, isn't it the automatic reflex of "the child" to deny any part in it?....hmmmm....I speak as a woman who started having children at the age of 15, and while I never had sex with a teacher, I did prefer the much older man...40+. (At this point, this could develop into a whole other topic!)
    Yeah, but you're looking at it from the point of view of a female. Teen males are a hormone fueled penis with legs. You can't 'rape' the willing.
  • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
    How did they find out? The guy is a nutjob if he'd told anyone. I mean at least wait till you graduate.
  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    Originally Posted by Laura Knight View Post

    but do you really know the consequences of your actions at age 14?
    Do you really know them at 18?

    I'm Jewish. We hold our children accountable as adults from the age of 13. We've done this for six thousand years. It actually seems to work rather well.

    From a more modern standpoint, the brain undergoes a massive growth of grey and white matter every 12-14 years. Studies show no appreciable difference in maturity between those growth cycles. A person who has been through one such cycle is just about as mature the day afterward as he is the day before the next cycle. Changes in maturity happen at those cycles.

    The car insurance companies have known this for almost a century. Rates go down when you turn 26 - and the average person has just been through the second cycle.

    Indeed, the Founding Fathers seem to have known it: the President must be at least 35, the multiple of 5 closest to the third cycle. An awful lot of empirical judgments over the ages seem to bear out what science is now discovering just in the past couple years.
  • Profile picture of the author tryinhere
    And what about if the teacher was fugly ? would the kid be getting teased and bullied by all at school, then would everyone be crying this is wrong?
  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    doubt it...he's probably still the only kid in school that can say he's having sex and have proof.
  • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
    Sal didn't say literacy....she was referring to basic knowledge...

    Heck...I've met MANY folks who could hardly read or write but were INTELLIGENT as hell...
  • Profile picture of the author badrovichx
    I m sure the teenager when he will get 18 he will say damn it if only i had 18 that time i would not complain having sex with that sexy teacher ,
  • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
    And for the record...

    I had sex with a teacher in 11th grade in a storage closet at school.

    She still lives and breathes so, I'm sure not ratting her out now...lol!
  • Profile picture of the author Shane Dolby
    Actually Kids have even more Knowledge than we did at 14 with all the ways to tap into media from the internet to their cellphone. They have more of a vast knowledge of the world than we could hope to of had back than.

    Everything we knew was in the history books. Now its played out right in front of people
  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Originally Posted by Laura Knight View Post

    Uh, I know I'm new, but could someone please enlighten me? There aren't supposed to be political or religious threads, and yet this thread seems to contain both :confused:
    You're right. And I have fallen into a lot of this. I'm not going any farther. As for religious, I think one person only MENTIONED they were jewish. That wouldn't be considered bad. The problem is that things can go on an on, and there are 100 messages that are effectively just insulting, etc....

    So I think this went a little too far with politics, but the one that deals with religion is probably ok. He just used it to lead into the idea of the age of responsibility being 13.

    Steve
  • Profile picture of the author Kurt
    Let's say a WWII vet was in the hospital for a long period of time and was unaware of the specific issues but wanted to vote based on traditional party lines.

    Who here is willing to take away his vote based on him not knowing the issues of the day?
  • Profile picture of the author Chris Worner
    Kids probably braggin to all his mates. Taboo is such a wonderful thing.
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    What the HELL?

    I think this guy wakes up in the morning thinking, "gee, what can I topic can I think of to post to get people fighting and arguing and how can I create the most drama?"

    Must be a slow day cause this was in the headlines years ago.

    And how did it go from promoting teacher/student sex which is wrong legally and to anyone with morals to arguing about voting?

    Psshh Sal, kids couldn't do a worse job voting than any adult. Only 2 men to choose from, a 50/50 chance of whoever the "good" guy is. Oh wait, there isn't one. Reduce age to 4, they can't do any worse than any 40 year old.

    Ok now I'll help this wacky dude with future topics so he'll have less thinking to do in the morning on how to stir up drama, then get out the thread and watch everyone go at it while he plants his virtual corn and milks his virtual cows.

    Tue- Abortion
    Wed- Death penalty
    Thu- Assisted suicide
    Fri- Polygamy
    Sat- Corporal punishment ie. spanking kids (that's been done but you can do it again)
    Sun- Way back day like today- Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky
    Mon- Refusing vaccinations
    Tue- Racism
    Wed- Dog and cat fur farms
    Thu- Punishment for kids who murder

    There you go 10 days of topics already created free of charge. Just post and watch your beloved forum soap opera.
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    It sure the hell is, wanna get it off?
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    Don't be scared of a cute lil hat Dave :p
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    No it's not, leprechaun hats are no good.

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