Teachers having sex with kids

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I see a lot of stories of teachers having sex with children. Around here, I see way more female teachers having sex with the boys than the males having sex with the females.

When these trysts come to light, parents always are tearfully saying how their child is messed up for life.

Now maybe i'm just thinking of this as an older male, but i find it very hard to believe that a teenaged male is going to be 'damaged' by having sex with his teacher.

For instance..this is one of the teachers that had sex with a student here in tampa


Debra lafave. This kids parents were all over tv about how their child is mentally damaged..yadda..yadda..yadda.

I dont know what highschool is like today, but in my day you would be a fricken SUPERSTAR if you were caught having sex with that teacher

Young females..maybe they are 'damaged'..but I kind of doubt that too, but i just dont see a young guy being anything but a hero to his classmates
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  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    Originally Posted by Michael Motley View Post

    Now maybe i'm just thinking of this as an older male, but i find it very hard to believe that a teenaged male is going to be 'damaged' by having sex with his teacher.
    Age of majority should be lowered to 14. For all purposes - contracts, voting, driving, drinking, smoking, prison sentences, execution, etc.

    One full generation after that, we'll have teenagers and young adults who actually know how to behave themselves.
    • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
      You can't be serious. You aren't a parent are you. Lol

      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      Age of majority should be lowered to 14. For all purposes - contracts, voting, driving, drinking, smoking, prison sentences, execution, etc.

      One full generation after that, we'll have teenagers and young adults who actually know how to behave themselves.
    • Profile picture of the author seasoned
      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      Age of majority should be lowered to 14. For all purposes - contracts, voting, driving, drinking, smoking, prison sentences, execution, etc.
      OK, you ARE nuts!

      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      One full generation after that, we'll have teenagers and young adults who actually know how to behave themselves.

      Wanna bet!?!?
  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    Originally Posted by Laura Knight View Post

    Some of what you say is right...though I believe you tread on dangerous ground, my friend. CD is right too...in a sense...but do you really know the consequences of your actions at age 14? And if you're caught, isn't it the automatic reflex of "the child" to deny any part in it?....hmmmm....I speak as a woman who started having children at the age of 15, and while I never had sex with a teacher, I did prefer the much older man...40+. (At this point, this could develop into a whole other topic!)
    Yeah, but you're looking at it from the point of view of a female. Teen males are a hormone fueled penis with legs. You can't 'rape' the willing.
  • Profile picture of the author Sumit Menon
    How did they find out? The guy is a nutjob if he'd told anyone. I mean at least wait till you graduate.
    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
      Originally Posted by Sumit Menon View Post

      How did they find out? The guy is a nutjob if he'd told anyone. I mean at least wait till you graduate.
      His cousin (who was the only one that knew about it) told on him.

      I would have been kicking my cousin's butt if he knocked me out of that.
  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    Originally Posted by Laura Knight View Post

    but do you really know the consequences of your actions at age 14?
    Do you really know them at 18?

    I'm Jewish. We hold our children accountable as adults from the age of 13. We've done this for six thousand years. It actually seems to work rather well.

    From a more modern standpoint, the brain undergoes a massive growth of grey and white matter every 12-14 years. Studies show no appreciable difference in maturity between those growth cycles. A person who has been through one such cycle is just about as mature the day afterward as he is the day before the next cycle. Changes in maturity happen at those cycles.

    The car insurance companies have known this for almost a century. Rates go down when you turn 26 - and the average person has just been through the second cycle.

    Indeed, the Founding Fathers seem to have known it: the President must be at least 35, the multiple of 5 closest to the third cycle. An awful lot of empirical judgments over the ages seem to bear out what science is now discovering just in the past couple years.
    • Profile picture of the author HeySal
      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      Do you really know them at 18?

      I'm Jewish. We hold our children accountable as adults from the age of 13. We've done this for six thousand years. It actually seems to work rather well.

      From a more modern standpoint, the brain undergoes a massive growth of grey and white matter every 12-14 years. Studies show no appreciable difference in maturity between those growth cycles. A person who has been through one such cycle is just about as mature the day afterward as he is the day before the next cycle. Changes in maturity happen at those cycles.

      The car insurance companies have known this for almost a century. Rates go down when you turn 26 - and the average person has just been through the second cycle.

      Indeed, the Founding Fathers seem to have known it: the President must be at least 35, the multiple of 5 closest to the third cycle. An awful lot of empirical judgments over the ages seem to bear out what science is now discovering just in the past couple years.
      Interesting. I still would not want a 14 year old kid VOTING - hell I hate it that half the adults are allowed to vote. Voting isn't just a matter of maturity, it's a matter of EDUCATION. At 14 the average kid (and even some exceptional ones) do not have the accumulated education about government or many of the issues needed to cast an informed vote. Voting privilege, I've always felt, should be held for only those who can pass certain tests of knowledge to acquire the right. If that 14 yr old can pass that test, give him a vote card - if a 50 year old can't, they don't have a say since they had plenty of time to learn and didn't do so.
    • Profile picture of the author seasoned
      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      Do you really know them at 18?

      I'm Jewish. We hold our children accountable as adults from the age of 13.
      Not 100%!

      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      We've done this for six thousand years. It actually seems to work rather well.
      How about some examples...

      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      From a more modern standpoint, the brain undergoes a massive growth of grey and white matter every 12-14 years. Studies show no appreciable difference in maturity between those growth cycles. A person who has been through one such cycle is just about as mature the day afterward as he is the day before the next cycle. Changes in maturity happen at those cycles.
      WOW, one happens before 2, and one happens before about 8, and one before about 13, and they say things kind of stop around 35, though they earlier said they stop earlier. In fact, the earlier ones grow to a larger degree faster.

      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      The car insurance companies have known this for almost a century. Rates go down when you turn 26 - and the average person has just been through the second cycle.
      Well, the case where they said it stops at 35, they DID say that was why you had to be that old to be president, but the 12-14 year span just doesn't make sense, considering the pruning around 2(If it goes crazy, you have CDD),8(Some claim if it goes crazy, you will get autism, but problems DO start earlier.), and 13.

      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

      Indeed, the Founding Fathers seem to have known it: the President must be at least 35, the multiple of 5 closest to the third cycle. An awful lot of empirical judgments over the ages seem to bear out what science is now discovering just in the past couple years.
      GEE, why didn't they pick 36 or 42?

      Steve
    • Profile picture of the author Harveydos
      Well said, I totally agree with this. I am Asian and morality about decency is ingrained into your subconcious from an early age and it has been seen to work from generation to the next.
      But I would still have told all my buddies if I got it on with this 'hottie'...Think of your street cred....lol
  • Profile picture of the author tryinhere
    And what about if the teacher was fugly ? would the kid be getting teased and bullied by all at school, then would everyone be crying this is wrong?
  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    doubt it...he's probably still the only kid in school that can say he's having sex and have proof.
  • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
    Sal didn't say literacy....she was referring to basic knowledge...

    Heck...I've met MANY folks who could hardly read or write but were INTELLIGENT as hell...
    • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
      Basic knowledge? Of what? Math? French? Art history? Politics?

      It's the same thing Dave. Any test would be a step backward and a way to take rights away from people. I'm surprised Sal, who is always talking about having our rights taken away, would support such a backwards idea that does exactly that.

      Originally Posted by Dave Patterson View Post

      Sal didn't say literacy....she was referring to basic knowledge...

      Heck...I've met MANY folks who could hardly read or write but were INTELLIGENT as hell...
  • Profile picture of the author badrovichx
    I m sure the teenager when he will get 18 he will say damn it if only i had 18 that time i would not complain having sex with that sexy teacher ,
  • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
    And for the record...

    I had sex with a teacher in 11th grade in a storage closet at school.

    She still lives and breathes so, I'm sure not ratting her out now...lol!
    • Profile picture of the author seasoned
      Originally Posted by Dave Patterson View Post

      And for the record...

      I had sex with a teacher in 11th grade in a storage closet at school.

      She still lives and breathes ...
      OK, is this a joke, or real. 8-)
  • Profile picture of the author Shane Dolby
    Actually Kids have even more Knowledge than we did at 14 with all the ways to tap into media from the internet to their cellphone. They have more of a vast knowledge of the world than we could hope to of had back than.

    Everything we knew was in the history books. Now its played out right in front of people
    • Profile picture of the author seasoned
      Originally Posted by Shane Dolby View Post

      Actually Kids have even more Knowledge than we did at 14 with all the ways to tap into media from the internet to their cellphone. They have more of a vast knowledge of the world than we could hope to of had back than.

      Everything we knew was in the history books. Now its played out right in front of people
      Well, I will agree that PEOPLE(not only kids, but PEOPLE) have a LOT more knowledge available to them now. And yeah, history is repeating itself all over. I could say more but.....

      Steve
    • Profile picture of the author Killer Joe
      Originally Posted by Shane Dolby View Post

      Actually Kids have even more Knowledge than we did at 14 with all the ways to tap into media from the internet to their cellphone. They have more of a vast knowledge of the world than we could hope to of had back than.

      Everything we knew was in the history books. Now its played out right in front of people
      And don't buy any of that statement.

      They know more trivia, but trivia is not knowledge.

      In fact, they are probably headed to be the least enlightened generation in quite a while. Not only are they being stripped of their communication skills, their ability to distinguish reality from fantasy is being eroded at a far faster pace than previous generations.

      KJ
  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Originally Posted by Laura Knight View Post

    Uh, I know I'm new, but could someone please enlighten me? There aren't supposed to be political or religious threads, and yet this thread seems to contain both :confused:
    You're right. And I have fallen into a lot of this. I'm not going any farther. As for religious, I think one person only MENTIONED they were jewish. That wouldn't be considered bad. The problem is that things can go on an on, and there are 100 messages that are effectively just insulting, etc....

    So I think this went a little too far with politics, but the one that deals with religion is probably ok. He just used it to lead into the idea of the age of responsibility being 13.

    Steve
  • Profile picture of the author Kurt
    Let's say a WWII vet was in the hospital for a long period of time and was unaware of the specific issues but wanted to vote based on traditional party lines.

    Who here is willing to take away his vote based on him not knowing the issues of the day?
    • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
      Originally Posted by Kurt View Post

      Let's say a WWII vet was in the hospital for a long period of time and was unaware of the specific issues but wanted to vote based on traditional party lines.

      Who here is willing to take away his vote based on him not knowing the issues of the day?
      Damn you Kurt...
  • Profile picture of the author Chris Worner
    Kids probably braggin to all his mates. Taboo is such a wonderful thing.
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    What the HELL?

    I think this guy wakes up in the morning thinking, "gee, what can I topic can I think of to post to get people fighting and arguing and how can I create the most drama?"

    Must be a slow day cause this was in the headlines years ago.

    And how did it go from promoting teacher/student sex which is wrong legally and to anyone with morals to arguing about voting?

    Psshh Sal, kids couldn't do a worse job voting than any adult. Only 2 men to choose from, a 50/50 chance of whoever the "good" guy is. Oh wait, there isn't one. Reduce age to 4, they can't do any worse than any 40 year old.

    Ok now I'll help this wacky dude with future topics so he'll have less thinking to do in the morning on how to stir up drama, then get out the thread and watch everyone go at it while he plants his virtual corn and milks his virtual cows.

    Tue- Abortion
    Wed- Death penalty
    Thu- Assisted suicide
    Fri- Polygamy
    Sat- Corporal punishment ie. spanking kids (that's been done but you can do it again)
    Sun- Way back day like today- Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky
    Mon- Refusing vaccinations
    Tue- Racism
    Wed- Dog and cat fur farms
    Thu- Punishment for kids who murder

    There you go 10 days of topics already created free of charge. Just post and watch your beloved forum soap opera.
    • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      What the HELL?

      I think this guy wakes up in the morning thinking, "gee, what can I topic can I think of to post to get people fighting and arguing and how can I create the most drama?"

      Must be a slow day cause this was in the headlines years ago.

      And how did it go from promoting teacher/student sex which is wrong legally and to anyone with morals to arguing about voting?

      Psshh Sal, kids couldn't do a worse job voting than any adult. Only 2 men to choose from, a 50/50 chance of whoever the "good" guy is. Oh wait, there isn't one. Reduce age to 4, they can't do any worse than any 40 year old.

      Ok now I'll help this wacky dude with future topics so he'll have less thinking to do in the morning on how to stir up drama, then get out the thread and watch everyone go at it while he plants his virtual corn and milks his virtual cows.

      Tue- Abortion
      Wed- Death penalty
      Thu- Assisted suicide
      Fri- Polygamy
      Sat- Corporal punishment ie. spanking kids (that's been done but you can do it again)
      Sun- Way back day like today- Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky
      Mon- Refusing vaccinations
      Tue- Racism
      Wed- Dog and cat fur farms
      Thu- Punishment for kids who murder

      There you go 10 days of topics already created free of charge. Just post and watch your beloved forum soap opera.
      I think somebodies sombrero must be a bit tight..
    • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      What the HELL?

      I think this guy wakes up in the morning thinking, "gee, what can I topic can I think of to post to get people fighting and arguing and how can I create the most drama?"

      Must be a slow day cause this was in the headlines years ago.

      And how did it go from promoting teacher/student sex which is wrong legally and to anyone with morals to arguing about voting?

      Psshh Sal, kids couldn't do a worse job voting than any adult. Only 2 men to choose from, a 50/50 chance of whoever the "good" guy is. Oh wait, there isn't one. Reduce age to 4, they can't do any worse than any 40 year old.

      Ok now I'll help this wacky dude with future topics so he'll have less thinking to do in the morning on how to stir up drama, then get out the thread and watch everyone go at it while he plants his virtual corn and milks his virtual cows.

      Tue- Abortion
      Wed- Death penalty
      Thu- Assisted suicide
      Fri- Polygamy
      Sat- Corporal punishment ie. spanking kids (that's been done but you can do it again)
      Sun- Way back day like today- Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky
      Mon- Refusing vaccinations
      Tue- Racism
      Wed- Dog and cat fur farms
      Thu- Punishment for kids who murder

      There you go 10 days of topics already created free of charge. Just post and watch your beloved forum soap opera.
      is this not the off-topic discussion forum?

      These are off topic discussions..i like hearing people's replies. Nobody is making you read OR reply to any of my posts. I believe there is also an ignore button if they bother you that much.
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    It sure the hell is, wanna get it off?
    • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      It sure the hell is, wanna get it off?
      Sounds like a trick question....I'm afraid to even touch your hat.
    • Profile picture of the author Chris Worner
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      What the HELL?

      I think this guy wakes up in the morning thinking, "gee, what can I topic can I think of to post to get people fighting and arguing and how can I create the most drama?"

      Must be a slow day cause this was in the headlines years ago.

      And how did it go from promoting teacher/student sex which is wrong legally and to anyone with morals to arguing about voting?

      Psshh Sal, kids couldn't do a worse job voting than any adult. Only 2 men to choose from, a 50/50 chance of whoever the "good" guy is. Oh wait, there isn't one. Reduce age to 4, they can't do any worse than any 40 year old.

      Ok now I'll help this wacky dude with future topics so he'll have less thinking to do in the morning on how to stir up drama, then get out the thread and watch everyone go at it while he plants his virtual corn and milks his virtual cows.

      Tue- Abortion
      Wed- Death penalty
      Thu- Assisted suicide
      Fri- Polygamy
      Sat- Corporal punishment ie. spanking kids (that's been done but you can do it again)
      Sun- Way back day like today- Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky
      Mon- Refusing vaccinations
      Tue- Racism
      Wed- Dog and cat fur farms
      Thu- Punishment for kids who murder

      There you go 10 days of topics already created free of charge. Just post and watch your beloved forum soap opera.
      Time of the month ey?
    • Profile picture of the author Killer Joe
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      It sure the hell is, wanna get it off?
      Is that some kind of dominatrix proposition :confused:

      KJ
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    Don't be scared of a cute lil hat Dave :p
    • Profile picture of the author Thomas
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      Don't be scared of a cute lil hat Dave :p
      My hat is better than your hat.
    • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
      Originally Posted by valerieSONORA View Post

      Don't be scared of a cute lil hat Dave :p
      It's not the hat. It's the cute lil gal that was formerly known as annoyedgirl that makes me nervous...

      You see, my ex-wife was cute. She had a sombrero. She always looked calm. And she smiled as she tried to run over me in the driveway. Twice!
  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    No it's not, leprechaun hats are no good.

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