RANT: This just bothers me way too much, most of you should know better

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You're = you are
your = possessive



I see so many ADULTS in their 40's+ on this board not getting these right, let alone those of us in our 20's and 30's...come on folks, if you want to take over the internet - PLEASE learn 4th grade English.

You're is a contraction or a combination of the words you and are. Other examples of contractions include doesn't for does not, they're for they are, and can't for can not.
"You're a good friend" means "You are a good friend."
"I don't know what you're talking about" means "I don't know what you are talking about."


Your is the possessive form of you, referring to something that a person has, something that belongs to the person in question or, the person you are talking to.
"Is your stomach growling?"
"Your book is on the table."\



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  • Profile picture of the author mattlaclear
    Pretty common typo. Another I see folks scrambling up are the words "are" and "our". Rant taken and well received.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jeff Lenney
      Originally Posted by mattlaclear View Post

      Pretty common typo. Another I see folks scrambling up are the words "are" and "our". Rant taken and well received.
      It's not even a typo, a typo is misspelling of a wird <-- like that :-)

      The your/you're thing is people just not knowing 4th grade english!

      Thanks for receiving my rant
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  • Profile picture of the author Robert Puddy
    oh god another thread i should stay clear of, before my blood pressure goes up again

    Another grammar wombat thread...
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    • Profile picture of the author JohnMcCabe
      Originally Posted by Robert Puddy View Post

      oh god another thread i should stay clear of, before my blood pressure goes up again

      Another grammar wombat thread...
      No, Mr. Puddy...

      This is a spelling wombat thread.

      Please pay attention.

      To the OP: Just because I'm tweaking him doesn't mean I don't agree with you. I do make allowances for people who are obviously writing in a non-native language, and for plain carelessness in casual communication like forum posting...
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  • Profile picture of the author scrofford
    Remember, not everyone's primary language is English. Could you for instance type properly in Italian? We in the US tend to forget that there are many many different nationalities from many other countries here. So if they can't type proper English, should they be banned from posting and learning? I think not.

    Unless someone is creating an ebook or some kind of other info product for sale, then who cares? It's a forum...why worry about it? Maybe we should spend our time and energy on contributing and learning while here. Just my opinion.
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    • Profile picture of the author Istvan Horvath
      Originally Posted by scrofford View Post

      Remember, not everyone's primary language is English.
      That's true. English is my 4th language... but being a linguist I understand and I know grammar. I may make mistakes when expressing myself in English but I know the differences between your/you're and their/they're/there etc. :p

      However, I gave up to be bothered by the poor spelling of native English speakers - because it is too common. I accept it as a fact not only in forum posts but even in sales pages, opt-in pages, everywhere.

      The overwhelming majority of those that make such mistakes are NOT foreigners but people whose mother tongue is English.
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      • Profile picture of the author scrofford
        Originally Posted by Istvan Horvath View Post

        That's true. English is my 4th language... but being a linguist I understand and I know grammar. I may make mistakes when expressing myself in English but I know the differences between your/you're and their/they're/there etc. :p

        However, I gave up to be bothered by the poor spelling of native English speakers - because it is too common. I accept it as a fact not only in forum posts but even in sales pages, opt-in pages, everywhere.

        The overwhelming majority of those that make such mistakes are NOT foreigners but people whose mother tongue is English.
        But the point I was making is that it's a "forum" not an info product or something being sold here...Who really cares?
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      • Profile picture of the author JohnMcCabe
        Originally Posted by Istvan Horvath View Post

        That's true. English is my 4th language... but being a linguist I understand and I know grammar. I may make mistakes when expressing myself in English but I know the differences between your/you're and their/they're/there etc. :p

        However, I gave up to be bothered by the poor spelling of native English speakers - because it is too common. I accept it as a fact not only in forum posts but even in sales pages, opt-in pages, everywhere.

        The overwhelming majority of those that make such mistakes are NOT foreigners but people whose mother tongue is English.
        Istvan, you can lay a lot of the blame for that on teachers, or rather on curricula more geared to protecting the oh-so-fragile self-esteem of children than actually teaching them. If more elementary-level English classes taught proofreading, the problem would not be as widespread.

        But that's a discussion best left for the Off-Topic section of the forum...
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      • Profile picture of the author Jeff Lenney
        Originally Posted by Istvan Horvath View Post

        That's true. English is my 4th language... but being a linguist I understand and I know grammar. I may make mistakes when expressing myself in English but I know the differences between your/you're and their/they're/there etc. :p

        However, I gave up to be bothered by the poor spelling of native English speakers - because it is too common. I accept it as a fact not only in forum posts but even in sales pages, opt-in pages, everywhere.

        The overwhelming majority of those that make such mistakes are NOT foreigners but people whose mother tongue is English.
        Ivan is right, most of them are 1st language English - LOL, not that everybody is perfect, but yeah - and nice beard by the way (I mean that).
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        • Profile picture of the author scrofford
          Originally Posted by eljeffe77 View Post

          Ivan is right, most of them are 1st language English - LOL, not that everybody is perfect, but yeah - and nice beard by the way (I mean that).
          Who is "Ivan?" Maybe the OP ought to look at the names a bit closer and learn how to spell them!
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          • Profile picture of the author Istvan Horvath
            Originally Posted by scrofford View Post

            Who is "Ivan?"
            Ivan is my son
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      • Profile picture of the author seasoned
        Originally Posted by Istvan Horvath View Post

        The overwhelming majority of those that make such mistakes are NOT foreigners but people whose mother tongue is English.
        Yeah, but you might be shocked at the mistakes we hear. It is almost amazing I get ANYTHING right. Of course, spanish teachers have told me of native SPANISH speakers that do really poorly. And many GERMANS don't even properly do declension anymore.

        So WHO KNOWS?

        Most of the REALLY stupid mistakes I make are just because, lately, my hands almost take phonetic dictation, and some words, like here, hear, etc... just sound the same. It is ODD, and ironic, that I should use hear as an example of a word that SOUNDS like another word. 8-)

        AND, I once got into an argument with a person about saying something like "I need to find a hotel". That is CORRECT English, certainly recognized as correct since the 50s, and actually TRADITIONALLY correct. "A" and "AN" are used PHONETICALLY! Since we pronounce the H, the "A" article is correct. In parts of other lands where they say "An 'otel", THAT would be proper. Incidently, I was taught "A hotel", and I WAS born in the 60s AFTER even the stodgiest person acknowledged it was correct.

        SO, though I agree with others that we should all know about NO, and KNOW, KNOT and NOT, HEAR and HERE, THEY'RE, THEIR and THERE, TWO, TO, TOO, THREW, and THROUGH, etc..., and *I* certainly know about them, anyone can make a mistake.

        AND, though others may say that Americans, or just native english speakers, are the only ones that make such mistakes, that is clearly not true. HECK, french agencies have FOUGHT to keep their language clean. Danish has gotten less formal. Hindi had to add to the spelling system, to make it easier to read. And German HAS changed. As for french? I DOUBT it started out ANYTHING like it is. Even spanish, YIKES.

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  • Profile picture of the author Marhelper
    Originally Posted by eljeffe77 View Post

    You're = you are
    your = possessive



    I see so many ADULTS in their 40's+ on this board not getting these right, let alone those of us in our 20's and 30's...come on folks, if you want to take over the internet - PLEASE learn 4th grade English.

    You're is a contraction or a combination of the words you and are. Other examples of contractions include doesn't for does not, they're for they are, and can't for can not.
    "You're a good friend" means "You are a good friend."
    "I don't know what you're talking about" means "I don't know what you are talking about."


    Your is the possessive form of you, referring to something that a person has, something that belongs to the person in question or, the person you are talking to.
    "Is your stomach growling?"
    "Your book is on the table."



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    I also hate when people use a font that is too ('er is that to) small.
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  • Profile picture of the author Ernie Lo
    I just read your original post and nothing more.

    Nobody cares....get a life. Thankyou.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jeff Lenney
      Originally Posted by Ernie Lonardo View Post

      I just read your original post and nothing more.

      Nobody cares....get a life. Thankyou.
      What's the matter, didn't graduate the 4th grade? Did I hit a nerve or something, mate?
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      • Profile picture of the author scrofford
        Originally Posted by eljeffe77 View Post

        What's the matter, didn't graduate the 4th grade? Did I hit a nerve or something, mate?
        No he just thinks this thread is a waste of time.
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      • Profile picture of the author Ernie Lo
        LOL nope, your just a nitpicking fool who should grow up and realise there is much more important things to worry about in life


        Originally Posted by eljeffe77 View Post

        What's the matter, didn't graduate the 4th grade? Did I hit a nerve or something, mate?
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        • Profile picture of the author Jeff Lenney
          Originally Posted by Ernie Lonardo View Post

          LOL nope, your just a nitpicking fool who should grow up and realise there is much more important things to worry about in life
          *You're
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          • Profile picture of the author Ernie Lo
            Haha I did that on purpose.

            I aint gonna argue with ya I just think it's silly that's all...

            Originally Posted by eljeffe77 View Post

            *You're
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            • Profile picture of the author Jeff Lenney
              Originally Posted by Ernie Lonardo View Post

              Haha I did that on purpose.

              I aint gonna argue with ya I just think it's silly that's all...
              Fair enough. Cheers.
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    • Profile picture of the author JDArchitecture
      Originally Posted by Ernie Lonardo View Post

      I just read your original post and nothing more.

      Nobody cares....get a life. Thankyou.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Precisely why it's such a problem.
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    • Profile picture of the author Black Hat Cat
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      Originally Posted by Ernie Lonardo View Post

      I just read your original post and nothing more.

      Nobody cares.....
      That's the problem.
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  • Profile picture of the author Underground SEO
    I'm also not too bothered, many people here will not speak english as their native language as has been mentioned above. Also it is a forum, so people are not going to go out of their way to get evey spelling and gramatical error correct.
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    • Profile picture of the author Dan C. Rinnert
      Originally Posted by fryerben View Post

      Also it is a forum, so people are not going to go out of their way to get evey spelling and gramatical error correct.
      Obviously.

      Anyway, why does the venue matter? So what if it's a "forum"? Is that a license to not care enough to communicate effectively?

      It's like saying you need to present yourself professionally on network TV but it's okay to act like a fool on a public access channel. Either way, you may end up on YouTube so you better look professional where ever you are appearing.

      The same goes for a forum. You never know when a prospective client may be lurking.
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  • Profile picture of the author Ron Douglas
    I think grammer is soooo important if your wantin to be a web sight Guru on the Interwebs.
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  • Profile picture of the author rosetrees
    @ Eljeffe - I agree with you wholeheartedly.

    Using the incorrect spelling is :
    a) lazy - and all those who are knocking you are doing so because they KNOW they make that mistake but don't have the b***s to admit it
    b) confusing. You start to read the sentence, taking in the meaning of the whichever variation is written. I can't tell all those of you who think it is clever/funny to get it wrong just how seriously annoying it is to have to go back to the beginning of a sentence and read it again to find the real meaning just because you are too lazy to get it right.

    Istvan is right - in my experience most poor English spelling/grammar is written by native speakers - like those above who claim they don't think it matters.

    /rant
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    • Profile picture of the author naruq
      Perfect Grammar is not a requirement to become wealthy!
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        Originally Posted by naruq View Post

        Perfect Grammar is not a requirement to become wealthy!
        Neither is bathing, but it's still a good idea.
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      • Profile picture of the author rhlduncan
        Originally Posted by naruq View Post

        Perfect Grammar is not a requirement to become wealthy!
        It's not required to become wealthy but it is essential to represent yourself as such. Grammar is important, it always will be.
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        • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
          Originally Posted by rosetrees View Post

          Using the incorrect spelling is :
          a) lazy - and all those who are knocking you are doing so because they KNOW they make that mistake but don't have the b***s to admit it
          That's a pretty broad assertion, and as with most broad assertions I've seen, it's wrong. In the first place, they spelled correctly, they didn't use the correct word. Isn't that more of a grammar problem?

          If you look over the reasons others gave you'll see there are valid points of view, they just don't happen to agree with what you decided to believe without proof. One could make a case that using broad assertions as you have is lazy because it is your opinion written as fact without proof of your allegation.

          Keep reading and you'll read why I agree with the OP. It may surprise you WHY I agree.

          Originally Posted by Istvan Horvath View Post

          If we were to take seriously the purpose of this forum (making money) - then at least half of the threads should be deleted/moved!
          And of course, if I'm reading you correctly, you're not necessarily saying that would be bad thing.

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          To the OP, I agree with you, it does bother you way too much. Here's why I say that...

          1) Life is too short to worry about other people's typing, spelling and grammar mistakes. If you have nothing better to do than that, I can't help but wonder if you're making any money at all yet in the IM field, because your focus is clearly not on YOUR OWN BUSINESS.

          2) Life is also too short to spend it trying to run other people's lives. Isn't running your own difficult enough?

          3) Lastly, life is difficult enough without having other people add to your difficulties because of their own petty dislikes. Pleasing you isn't essential to their life. Get over it.

          English is just difficult for some people. That's just the way it is for them, and your rant isn't going to change that. They don't need you making them feel inferior with a misguided attempt to bend the world to your satisfaction. For some folks, you're telling them they shouldn't participate in written activity, like this forum, because they're not good enough for you. I'm sure you didn't intend to say that, but you did.

          There ya go!
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    • Profile picture of the author Jeff Lenney
      Originally Posted by Kevin-VirtualProfitCenter View Post

      Your write. You're post is dead on.
      LOL - I'm at work, I actually DID LOL to that one - my coworkers are wondering what's going on now... :p
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  • Profile picture of the author Aaron Elliott
    The big issues in life are right here in this thread..... Sometimes I wonder why people get upset about little things like this!
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  • Profile picture of the author ButterflyGarden
    I think when posting in forums and rushing through emails people just get lazy. When typing things as you are thinking you are more likely to spell phonetically than correctly. If you are communicating in a professional capacity you need to proof read. :-)
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  • Profile picture of the author scrofford
    Look, I lerned ta red wit huked on fonics and it wurked fer me! I don see wat da big deal is anyways! Cant we just al git along? They're ya go.
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    • Profile picture of the author scrofford
      Originally Posted by ccmusicman View Post

      What does this have to do with making money online?
      nuthin cept, when u make ur own product, ya mite wanna proof read it.
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    • Profile picture of the author Istvan Horvath
      Originally Posted by ccmusicman View Post

      What does this have to do with making money online?
      If we were to take seriously the purpose of this forum (making money) - then at least half of the threads should be deleted/moved!

      Many questions could have been answered better in a technical support forum of the products/scripts/CMS used by the warriors.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jagged
      Originally Posted by ccmusicman View Post

      What does this have to do with making money online?

      Absolutely nothing.....
      I can understand the OP's rant, it makes for interesting discussuion, but it has nothing to do with making money & should be moved to the OT forum.

      JMO,
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  • Profile picture of the author garyv
    Personally I try to steer clear of those type of mistakes. But when in a hurry, or in a relaxed atmosphere like a forum, I notice that I'll let one slip by once in a while.

    However, I can't stand these type of threads. Anyone w/ a firm enough grip on the English language to make a thread like this, should be able to easily pull the proper meaning of a word from the context in which it's placed. So, in a way, posting such a thread is exposing your own lacking abilities. Most people come in here to relax, and learn about making money, not to be lectured by the grammar police.
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  • Profile picture of the author Nic Lynn
    Can we just stop these threads? This is a social forum, not the SATs. I bet if we were to meet in public, that you would occasionally slip in an "uh" or an "umm" when talking or presenting. Those aren't even words! Should someone just dismiss you because of that? Probably not.
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  • Profile picture of the author txconx
    It only slightly irritates me in forums but it really irritates me on a web site or landing page.

    How you present yourself is important. Grammar and spelling errors on your pages are not acceptable if you're intent is to be seen as an authority. Lots of errors make it very difficult to read and it's distracting. It can also make it very difficult to comprehend the message.
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  • Profile picture of the author CarloD.
    ...international forum. I say deal with typos, you don't have to read the thread if it annoys you that much.

    Plus, why comment when you don't know the level of someone's literacy skills?

    Maybe some people are here to read what others have to say and help out in things like programming and design or just want to comment.

    IMO pointless thread.

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    • Profile picture of the author balara
      Originally Posted by CarloD. View Post

      ...international forum. I say deal with typos, you don't have to read the thread if it annoys you that much.

      Plus, why comment when you don't know the level of someone's literacy skills?

      Maybe some people are here to read what others have to say and help out in things like programming and design or just want to comment.

      IMO pointless thread.

      Carlo
      Wow! I was under the impression that the thread was meant to encourage readers to improve their spelling or grammar or both. In my opinion it was a jolly good idea!

      However, it obviously hit many members sensitivities. (maybe struck a chord too close to home?)

      To call a spade a spade, there is a heck of a lot of ignorance in this thread. Are people too proud to try and improve?
      Why shouldn't the OP express the facts? Frankly, the poor spelling is plain laziness, and yes, correct spelling and grammar is important. Bad habits can take on a life of their own, so don't be surprised if your great sales page is a flop because of sloppy spelling.

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  • Profile picture of the author Deepak Media
    I agree with Ken. Nothing to do with IM or MMO.

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  • Profile picture of the author Scott Ames
    Your write. People that make offencive righting need to except the consequences of doin so.
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  • Profile picture of the author madison_avenue
    Shouldn't this thread be on the Off Topic forum?
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    • Profile picture of the author rhlduncan
      Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

      No. It's interesting that some people believe the way they present themselves in print has nothing to do with making money. Everyone makes the occasional typo, or grammatical error. When people write "could of" instead of "could've," or "could have," or when they consistently misuse your and you're, it marks them at best as careless, and at worst as stupid.

      People won't usually comment on someone's grammar, but they most likely won't do business with them if they come off as semi-literate.
      This is so true. Making typographical errors is one thing but obvious misuse of grammar is another. It's obvious and might make you look stupid.
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  • Profile picture of the author B3n
    Of course you *meant* to say 20s, 30s and 40s, didn't you?

    Putting an apostrophe in 20s i.e. "20's" means "20 is"
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  • Profile picture of the author Adam Nolan
    Your right - this bothers the hell outta me

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  • Profile picture of the author Diana Lane
    I think this is a cause for celebration. There are at least three RANTS on the front page now, all posted by Warriors who are presumably irate enough to give their thoughts the label, and all anxious to know why others do things in the ways they wouldn't. It's good to know that we're all doing so well that not only can we spare the time to ponder the practices of business owners who we think won't do well because of them, but that we can even find the time to get wound up about it too.

    Life's too short for all this ranting. Whatever happened to the 'positive mindset of the successful'?!
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    • Profile picture of the author JDArchitecture
      Originally Posted by Diana Lane View Post

      Life's too short for all this ranting. Whatever happened to the 'positive mindset of the successful'?!
      The makings of another rant!

      Those who are successful are positive that they can change things and aren't afraid to try.

      It's a serious mistake to confuse "positive mental attitude" with apathy.
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    • Profile picture of the author sanssecret
      Why are folks posting 'rants' all over the forum lately? Is there something in everybody's water?

      This is supposed to be an 'internet marketing discussion' forum. Yet lately all I see are rants about people making mistakes or not bothering to learn some of the funnier languages, (I'm referring to that gooky code stuff, not french or italian).

      Ok, that's my rant over. At least now I don't need to bother starting another thread. (sorry for swiping yours).

      Ok, it's been moved. forget everything I just said.
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  • Profile picture of the author bocephus
    Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

    If people want to represent themselves as idiots, let them.

    No skin off my teeth.
    Bingo!

    I'm competing against every marketer out there. If you want to minimize the importance of good grammar, all the better for me.
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  • Profile picture of the author Alan Petersen
    It's also annoying that adults don't know how to post in the right forum. At best this and all other rants belong in the off topic forum. Or even better would be if Allen Says says no more rants posts.
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    • Profile picture of the author bocephus
      Originally Posted by Alan Petersen View Post

      It's also annoying that adults don't know how to post in the right forum. At best this and all other rants belong in the off topic forum. Or even better would be if Allen Says says no more rants posts.
      In my humble opinion, good grammar has everything to do with Internet Marketing.

      This is the nature of forums. It appears here that a great majority of new threads are either from novices looking for a fast way to get to big money... or from users who have been here for a while and can't help themselves but let everyone know what the "Top 3 Things Every Newbie Should Do..." are, or some other hyped topic designed to get a backlink or sell a product.

      I've seen more terrible or useless advice than good advice. But that's just the way it is. You sift through the muck and pull out the little nuggets you can find. Sort of like keyword research.
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  • Profile picture of the author Johnny Slater
    Hunderds of years ago people would fret over each and every letter they wrote. They would spend hours making sure that each single letter was carefully written out properly, that case was used correctly, and so on.

    In those days everything was done by hand and great care was taken because there was no instant gratification aspect. They recipent wouldn't read what was written for a long time after it was finished so more care was given to what was on the page.

    However, in this age of instant gratification, instant publishing, instant everything, more and more people are becoming lax with proper writing skills, myself included. Add to that the fact that many people haven't had any kind of grammer lessons in 20 or 30 years and it's easy to see why many of us will some times spell words wrong, use the wrong case, or just not care about the "proper" use of grammer.

    Most people honestly don't care if something isn't formatted in the "correct" grammer style or not. They just care about the information being given. As long as it can be understood then it's ok.

    Now, although I do agree that a lot of us adults could us a grammer refresher, is it really that big of an issue when it is done on a forum that has nothing at all to do with proper use of language? This is a forum about making money online, not about proper use of language. I would understand these constant rants if someone was using the annoying as hell "leet" speak shorthand, but constantly complaining about your verses you're is getting old and has no productive value in this setting.
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  • Profile picture of the author James Campbell
    "Lose" = actually losing something, like losing your shirt in ppc

    "Loose" = loosening your muscles with a nice massage after being stressed from losing your shirt in the above ppc example.

    That bothers me too.

    I know people want to harp about grammar and spelling not being that important, well, even JMo has started paying more attention to it.

    Doing it right only takes a little extra effort and it WILL equal more sales, because you won't alienate people that want to buy from someone they perceive as educated.

    Take the time, find out the difference, have some pride in it and you will feel good about it.

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  • Profile picture of the author garyv
    Just from my own research, I can tell you that there's no correlation between the amount of money you make, and the accuracy of your grammar. In fact, I can tell you that many of the best sales pages out there are well outside of the bounds of proper English. In fact, there are so many variations of the English language that most linguists would tell you that "proper English" is just about an oxymoron.

    Here's what bothers me: I could understand making this point if the conversation became completely undecipherable. However, you obviously understood the conversation enough to know that the word was used improperly. So then pointing it out merely exposes yourself as a snob, or just someone that likes unnecessary nit-picking. Which in my opinion is an even better reason to not do business w/ someone. After all, what did you actually hope to accomplish w/ this thread?
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    • Profile picture of the author Black Hat Cat
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      Originally Posted by garyv View Post


      Here's what bothers me: I could understand making this point if the conversation became completely undecipherable. However, you obviously understood the conversation enough to know that the word was used improperly. So then pointing it out merely exposes yourself as a snob, or just someone that likes unnecessary nit-picking. Which in my opinion is an even better reason to not do business w/ someone. After all, what did you actually hope to accomplish w/ this thread?

      This is also part of the problem. It's why we graduate thousands of illiterates every year who wonder why they can't get a decent job.
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      • Profile picture of the author garyv
        Originally Posted by Black Hat Cat View Post

        This is also part of the problem. It's why we graduate thousands of illiterates every year who wonder why they can't get a decent job.
        Because they misused a word on a forum? Get a grip.
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    • Profile picture of the author bocephus
      Originally Posted by garyv View Post

      Just from my own research, I can tell you that there's no correlation between the amount of money you make, and the accuracy of your grammar.
      I'd be interested in seeing that research. How large a sampling and what sort of statistical analysis did you use? What was the correlation coefficient?

      I don't think the OP is a snob. I think they are probably sad to see the apathetic depths to which our society has fallen and they would like to do what the can to help bring everyone up a notch... not down.
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  • Profile picture of the author purplecone
    Actually, I believe this thread has a great impact on IM. Personally, if I am interested enough to read a squeeze page and then find it full of grammatical errors, I will not buy. Maybe the person who created it is phenomenal in marketing. Maybe the person who created it is the go-to person for IM success. I still won't buy. I believe words mean something, so when they are misused, I seriously doubt the ability of the writer to be right about anything.

    Just my 2 cents.

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    • Profile picture of the author garyv
      Originally Posted by purplecone View Post

      Actually, I believe this thread has a great impact on IM. Personally, if I am interested enough to read a squeeze page and then find it full of grammatical errors, I will not buy. Maybe the person who created it is phenomenal in marketing. Maybe the person who created it is the go-to person for IM success. I still won't buy. I believe words mean something, so when they are misused, I seriously doubt the ability of the writer to be right about anything.

      Just my 2 cents.

      Linda
      Then you'd be skipping over the ideas of many successful IMers. There are many very successful IMers on this forum that do not have a proper grasp on the English language. But that doesn't mean that they don't know what they're doing. It would be nice if we could all use "proper English" - if there really is such a thing. But it's never going to happen. And you just limit yourself by ignoring a conversation because of improper English.
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  • Profile picture of the author jukeboxhero
    Pretty funny stuff....

    I've gotten inundated with customers looking to teach the difference...

    Sure the devils in the details... But you've got to have a place for the details to go first...
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  • Profile picture of the author Online Bliss
    Too many rants.
    I come to this site to learn what I may not know about marketing
    and not spelling, punctuation or 4th grade English.
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  • Profile picture of the author George Wright
    people won't usually comment on someone's grammar, but they most likely won't do business with them if they come off as semi-literate.
    If you comment on my grammar you better say something nice. She was a wonderful woman who was loved and respected by all who knew her.
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  • Profile picture of the author Thomas
    Originally Posted by eljeffe77 View Post

    You're = you are
    your = possessive
    Ur right!
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  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    I see that your having some sort of problem, but I don't understand you're point.
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    • Profile picture of the author Tina Golden
      Other than a minor pet peeve over the misuse of lose/loose, I don't care how many words you misspell, apostrophes you misuse or tenses you get wrong. As long as I understand what you are saying, that is all that matters in the end.

      Unless, of course, you are selling your writing services in your thread or signature. In that case, your post is your resume.

      I've seen far too many "writters" offering their "grate" work in threads where people are asking how to find good writers. Now that's funny.

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      • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
        I could care less.


        Damn. That should be "I couldn't care less".
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        • Profile picture of the author seasoned
          Originally Posted by TimPhelan View Post

          I could care less.


          Damn. That should be "I couldn't care less".
          One PERFECT example of what I spoke about. If you could care less, it OBVIOUSLY means you care somewhat. Another is saying that a computer has a buildin modem! Buildin? Does that mean that it builds modems? You could say something past tests. HEY, DON'T skip the tests, maybe they were necessary. And there is the famous double negative! "I don't know nothing!"! OK, then tell us what you know!!!!!! I swear, I can just imagine how some cop should react to that. YIKES!

          How about "he likes her more than me"? MOST people don't even realize that that means "He likes to be with her more than he like to be around me". BUT "he likes her more than I" means "He likes to be with her more than I do". TOTALLY different meaning!

          One thing that REALLY bugs me is when someone says something like "Do you mind if me and him go to the store with you?"

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      • Profile picture of the author seasoned
        Originally Posted by TMG Enterprises View Post

        Other than a minor pet peeve over the misuse of lose/loose, I don't care how many words you misspell, apostrophes you misuse or tenses you get wrong. As long as I understand what you are saying, that is all that matters in the end.

        Unless, of course, you are selling your writing services in your thread or signature. In that case, your post is your resume.

        I've seen far too many "writters" offering their "grate" work in threads where people are asking how to find good writers. Now that's funny.

        Tina
        Now that IS funny! But if I hire a writter, I WANT their work to grate! I want it to GRATE against the souls of those the writ is against! Of course, I said all that in jest, but you get my meaning.

        BTW many INDIANS have the SAME problem with their "native" English! One, for example keeps talking about IMPROVISING! It took me QUITE a while to realize that he meant "IMPROVE". I and, to the best of my knowledge, NOBODY ELSE, ever corrected him. It is just too funny! Of course, many speak of "cashee" when saying "cache"(temporary quick computer memory). OH YEAH, many spell my name steave, even though I always spell it as I have here!

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  • Profile picture of the author lcombs
    Originally Posted by eljeffe77 View Post

    You're = you are
    your = possessive



    I see so many ADULTS in their 40's+ on this board not getting these right, let alone those of us in our 20's and 30's...come on folks, if you want to take over the internet - PLEASE learn 4th grade English.

    You're is a contraction or a combination of the words you and are. Other examples of contractions include doesn't for does not, they're for they are, and can't for can not.
    "You're a good friend" means "You are a good friend."
    "I don't know what you're talking about" means "I don't know what you are talking about."


    Your is the possessive form of you, referring to something that a person has, something that belongs to the person in question or, the person you are talking to.
    "Is your stomach growling?"
    "Your book is on the table."



    </rant>

    You're preaching to the choir.
    I've started a couple of threads about this very topic.

    Drives me CRAZY!

    All I ask is a simple proof reading.

    I read an a print article in a very high-profile IM program magazine written by a well-known marketer that was virtually unreadable.

    If anyone had taken the time to just glance over the article before it went to print it would never had made it.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    eljeffe77

    I just love language Nazis. My background is linguistics.

    Where you are is in a forum - i.e. online conversations.
    This is not a salespage - it's not an ebook - and what you are reading is not article submissions. It is conversation (or is supposed to be) and should, in reality take on aspects of conversation. That means there will be written mistakes. Some of those will reveal the social class of the writer - some, the personal quirks, some the education.

    Refraining from using contractions would stilt the conversation to formal levels of speech........inappropriate diction for the vehicle of conversation. Lack of contractions in informal register indicates the emphatic, so need not be used. Contractions are correct forms of speech and are most widely used outside of formal diction.

    As far as wrong word forms - sometimes just a typo or someone not paying that close attention to their typing. Big deal. If a wrong word usage appears in the same person's posts repeatedly, then it is probably a matter more of ignorance than of just casual carelessness.

    If you would rather see posts written with care and formal diction, perhaps you would be happier reading through a submission site than reading forum posts.

    Story --
    I had a speech to give once for a class. I wore jeans.........because I felt like it. I gave the speech and ran out of time with about 10 minutes of information left. Nobody moved, I was asked to continue. So I talked for that extra 10 minutes and when I was done people gathered around me outside of the room to ask questions. I talked to those people another half hour before I could gracefully escape. The next day the critics were consistently raves for attention capture, informational interest and value, style, etc. ..........um.........all except for one and the only thing this person could say was that I was wearing jeans and it should have been a suit, and how I had degraded my intelligence.

    Ya know what? I could give a rat's patoot if s/he was upset about those jeans. Throughout the time I talked and considering the subject, if all that person could "get" was that I had jeans on, than s/he didn't have enough of a clue of how to use that information to bother with anyway.

    If a sales page has errors on it, that might be cause for concern. You can write a brilliant sales page without once slipping into formal diction, however.
    In a forum, if people are too busy thinking while they type and then not editing before they post........Oh well. That's the way conversations roll sometimes - especially when many of the people in the discussion know each other personally. Many Warriors do, if you have failed to notice.

    You may not want to do business with me........I don't edit my posts. Sometimes if I see a mistake I posted I never even bother to edit it when I see it if it's a small one like a typo. You might not even want to read another post I make because I'm not going to edit every time I want to just talk to my pals here.

    I'm just going to continue to write casual responses to posts and continue to read the casual posts of others and enjoy discussions with my pals - even if they slip up here and there. If someone wants to be horrified because of a slip up, then they probably don't get the point of what I'm saying anyway.
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