FOCUS! Does anyone else have ADD?

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Okay, so I find it challenging to focus these days. From running WSOs, hanging out in the War Room, reading and responding to threads....thinking of ideas of things I'd like to try...

Does anyone else have this problem?

I came across a project where a client asked me for a website to have a to do list on two pages.

Page 1: "The One Thing I Need To Do Today IS_________"
Page 2: "Every other task that I need to do"

I guess the idea is to separate out the single most important thing you need to do...and then do it. Once it's done, you select a new item from the second list.

What do you do to help you focus?
#add #focus
  • Profile picture of the author Dave Rodman
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    I've noticed a lot of IM'ers will say things like "I swear I have ADD, never been diagnosed though!". I consider it pretty normal to want to slack off from working to play around online. It just takes disciplne to stay focused. I know when I was doing 9-5 work and I was just a much more efficient worker than others, I was probably working 5 minutes per hour....seriously, I'm not even kidding. Truth is, it's just really easy to find excuses to not work.
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    • Profile picture of the author donhx
      Originally Posted by Dave Rodman View Post

      I've noticed a lot of IM'ers will say things like "I swear I have ADD, never been diagnosed though!". I consider it pretty normal to want to slack off from working to play around online.
      ADD is a genuine malady, but a lot of people claim to have it just because they have no discipline. ADD can be treated medically, but there is no cure for slothful people. I know sloth/slothfulness is an old fashioned word these days, but it means, "Laziness; slowness in the mindset. Disinclined to work or exertion."
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      • Profile picture of the author Dave Rodman
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        Originally Posted by donhx View Post

        ADD is a genuine malady, but a lot of people claim to have it just because they have no discipline. ADD can be treated medically, but there is no cure for slothful people. I know sloth/slothfulness is an old fashioned word these days, but it means, "Laziness; slowness in the mindset. Disinclined to work or exertion."
        Yeah, I realize it's an actual illness. I just think that people that like to put off work like to use an excuse of "undiagnosed ADD' as the reason. It's really just old fashioned slacking off in most cases.
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  • Profile picture of the author markosolo
    I have ADD, fully diagnosed. I also suffer from slothfulness. How do I get around this? I have tonnes of red bull in my cupboard, and I simply brute force by working 20 hours days at 50% efficiency instead of 10 hour days at 100%. Unfortunately it's a very easy trap to fall into in this business, so you simply have to keep yourself busy.
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    • Profile picture of the author donhx
      Originally Posted by markosolo View Post

      I have ADD, fully diagnosed. I also suffer from slothfulness. How do I get around this? I have tonnes of red bull in my cupboard, and I simply brute force by working 20 hours days at 50% efficiency instead of 10 hour days at 100%. Unfortunately it's a very easy trap to fall into in this business, so you simply have to keep yourself busy.
      I don't think Red Bull is the answer. But I think you have hit the nail on the head when you talk about efficiency. Low efficiency is a trap.

      There are meds for fully diagnosed ADD, and it is a good thing to take them. For the sloth part, you need to readjust your thinking. Don't say, "I have all day to finish this so I'll surf the web for a while." Make a list (hard stuff first), set a time limit, and use a countdown timer to keep you on track. Immediately move on to the next task. The mind and body will want to wander, but that's where discipline comes in.

      I don't want to become a walking , talking dictionary, but I sometimes think that people don't know what discipline is. It is defined as, "behavior by instruction and practice; self-control." You train yourself to keep on track. Setting a time limit for each item on your list and completing them in order without interruption is a simple way to start. You can play (like visiting this Forum) after your work is done.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    I don't have ADD. My focus is like a laser beam. And if she calls again I'm going to tell her I left my cell phone me later and we'll rock and roll is good music.





    PS - I don't mean to make light of anyone with ADD...I just couldn't resist.
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  • Profile picture of the author webapex
    There was a PBS program run in my neighborhood a couple of weeks ago, titled "ADD and loving it" the trailer and several clips, including "Everyone thinks they are" are here.
    Some people find their place, and believe they are better at their job than non ADDs.
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  • Profile picture of the author Nicola Lane
    I have ADHD - and I take controlled drugs to help every day!

    If you genuinely think you have ADHD then please see a competent psychiatrist, get diagnosed and get help. There are strategies that are more likely to help people with ADHD and a few strategies that will be counterproductive. (But will work fine for people who don't have ADHD). So it is importnat to find out if you really do have this!

    Whether you have a medical condition or not the real secret to curing procrastination, focus and time management problems is actually simple (even if it is not easy)

    You need to find the strategies that work for you! Look through websites and book - try things out. If a strategy works - keep it! if it doesn't, then throw it out! Just because it works for Guru X, or your friend Jim, doesn't mean it will work for you.

    Hope that helps.
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  • Profile picture of the author ThomScott
    I'm highly ADD, but have chosen not to use medications to mitigate its effects because I don't want to diminish the "good side" of it. I have managed the negative effects by:

    1) Gaining understanding of exactly what I'm dealing with (which is not actually a lack of focus, but an inconsistent focus ... ie... ADDers go from lack of focus to hyperfocus - which can be a great benefit). To understand and learn lifestyle choices and scheduling decisions I can make, I've read a couple great books...

    Odd One Out and ADD-Friendly Ways To Organize Your Life (the former was very helpful for overall understanding and acceptance and the latter was great for some simple tools and strategies.

    2) TIMERS - I LIVE by setting timers for tasks to keep me focused on my goals. Then, in between these tasks (usually broken down into 20-30 minute sub tasks), I take TIMED 5-10 minute breaks to scan the cool web pages I came across when I was working on my task, or other types of things that usually distract me. Using Evernote makes it easy for me to quickly save a page/warrior post, etc... in a "break time review" folder. This way, I don't have the time bleed on the important projects, but I can still feed my mind the variety and new stimulus that it seeks.

    3) The other huge thing is making sure to take time each day for pre-planning. I actually prefer to do this at the end of the prior day so that in my head while I'm sleeping, I'm already planning on how to accomplish my daily to-dos. DON'T make it complicated. I simply have my actual appointment list and then create my daily "5 before 11" list. Those important things (not always the most urgent) that will be accomplished before 11am. Making them a priority ensures they get done.

    It's a messy transition in the beginning and you will likely "fall and skin your knees" a few times before you really get the hang of it. But, you will begin to become more realistic in your daily goals and as you start to consistently accomplish them, you'll find that you get addicted to the process of consistently forward momentum.

    Hope this helps!

    All the best,
    Thom
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  • Profile picture of the author Leather
    i am diagnosed with ADD but what i find most helpful to stay on track is that I make a list of all the tasks that absolutely have to be done that day (or whatever time period). i generally have a good idea about how much time each task should take, so before even getting started i write out a whole schedule on a note pad including what time i should be finishing each task by. i usually leave myself an extra bit of time at the end of each task just in case. as i complete the tasks i cross them off my list, if i'm ahead of schedule, i take the time to surf on fb or check out forums and twitter etc. and then i get right back on schedule with my tasks.

    the nice thing is too that when you get to the end of the list and everything is crossed off at the end of the day, I feel VERY productive and I can also walk away from the computer and carry on with life worry free knowing that I got everything accomplished.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jerryl
    I just set down at my computer and do just what I planned...if that is goofing off, writing, looking at my emails, etc. I just work at one job and get it done and move to the next. Oh, I guess that's pretty much what you said, isn't it? Oh well...thanks
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  • Profile picture of the author waitstate
    What did the first chap say?
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