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I'm taking my husband away for a weekend for our wedding anniversary next year. After 20 years, I don't think you need "stuff" as gifts, but a bit of time doing something relaxing is nice. His idea of relaxing is running ultramarathons. So, we're going to New Zealand for a 60km trail run. He'll do fine, I won't look pretty at the finish.

I need a new passport. Get the forms all filled in and witnessed, photos done and endorsed, and take them and every piece of ID I have, and trot along to the passport interview.

Nope. No good. My Scottish birth certificate and my Australian citizenship certificate are in my maiden name, and I don't have a certified copy of my marriage certificate to explain why my name has changed. The piece of paper you hold up while you're smiling for photographs after the ceremony isn't a legal document apparently.

So, off to the courthouse I go, to order a certificate. I fill in the form, and although the mountain of documents I have will prove who I am several times over, it's no good. I don't have a utility bill from within the last 6 months. Home I go, to try again another day.

The kicker? I still have my old expired passport, and it's in my married name. Nothing has changed on it, the new passport will be exactly the same (except for maybe a few more wrinkles and grey hairs on the photo). Oh, they tell me, things are being tightened up. Still, are they being so tightened up that I need to prove my name change when they've already issued me a document acknowledging said name change???

Vent over, thanks for listening, I feel better.
  • Profile picture of the author Ken
    Makes you sort of understand the American term, 'He/she Went Postal'

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  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Originally Posted by Audrey Harvey View Post

    I'm taking my husband away for a weekend for our wedding anniversary next year. After 20 years, I don't think you need "stuff" as gifts, but a bit of time doing something relaxing is nice. His idea of relaxing is running ultramarathons. So, we're going to New Zealand for a 60km trail run. He'll do fine, I won't look pretty at the finish.

    I need a new passport. Get the forms all filled in and witnessed, photos done and endorsed, and take them and every piece of ID I have, and trot along to the passport interview.

    Nope. No good. My Scottish birth certificate and my Australian citizenship certificate are in my maiden name, and I don't have a certified copy of my marriage certificate to explain why my name has changed. The piece of paper you hold up while you're smiling for photographs after the ceremony isn't a legal document apparently.

    So, off to the courthouse I go, to order a certificate. I fill in the form, and although the mountain of documents I have will prove who I am several times over, it's no good. I don't have a utility bill from within the last 6 months. Home I go, to try again another day.

    The kicker? I still have my old expired passport, and it's in my married name. Nothing has changed on it, the new passport will be exactly the same (except for maybe a few more wrinkles and grey hairs on the photo). Oh, they tell me, things are being tightened up. Still, are they being so tightened up that I need to prove my name change when they've already issued me a document acknowledging said name change???

    Vent over, thanks for listening, I feel better.
    Ah, GOOD OLD Beaurocracy, huh? (sarc) YEP! Some people can slide through with little effort for various reasons, but us regular folk are subject to things that DEFY logic!

    I mean I GUESS you could be lying, and you DIDN'T change your name, but then you weren't a problem BEFORE, why would you be now? BESIDES, they could issue the passport with your given name and have the married name as an alias. That WOULD be more secure anyway.

    On the other hand, maybe you changed the old one. Doing so leaves two questions. If they never kept track, how could they feign security? If you did it before, why not now?

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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    I just went through much the same nonsense just to plate my car for the year. BS and expenses up the ying. We've been pwned for sure.
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    • Profile picture of the author seasoned
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

      I just went through much the same nonsense just to plate my car for the year. BS and expenses up the ying. We've been pwned for sure.
      You haven't said even a small fraction of it. I mean NOBODY could determine how much is paid in taxes, etc... For example, there are taxes on assets, supplies, labor, etc.... on your car, or trains or trucks, etc.... and cars and trucks are used to deliver cars. And GAS? They require that it be made less volatile, etc... and then charge LOTS of taxes, etc...

      And, of course, the registrations.

      You know.... One time in MA a few years ago, I was LOST! I went the ONLY way I could! And I found that it was a TOLL road that worked ONLY by those RFID sensors. For a while, I was wondering if I would get a ticket or something. either I lucked out, or only SOME pay for it. The sign was VERY late in the scheme of things, and stopping would have been worse than breaking the law. It is INCREDIBLE!

      In san jose, there is a street going down and they have islands placed in the middle of a cross street in just THAT area just LOOKING for an accident. Isn't it enough that they plant trees in the middle of the street at intersections there so that you have to go counter clockwise around them? IMAGINE if the other guy decides to go COUNTER clockwise! And WE pay for that? The trees are nothing more than a nuisance!

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