Truly Bummed Out - Freak forum that doesn't follow thier own rules
So I've been looking for forums in my niche that I can have a signature for, and have been engaging in answering many questions on this forum. The problem is that there was one person there who was determined to devalue my opinion that was a thoughtful and courteous response to someone needing help.
After I tried to disagree with her and tell her how she has her opinion and I have mine, I had stated that anyone I have seen that claims to be a guru at something, usually is the farthest from one. (right under her user name was a phrase "xxx xxxxx xxxxxxx guru".
Anyway, I winked after that statement, she responded to me in a negative manner and not to long after that called me a "name" stating that she didn't give herself that title, the owner did.
Anyway, it says in the site rules that name calling and attacking others is forbidden.
I reported her for the name, and I got an email from her friend (a moderator) stating to take my signature out because it is not a "free advertising" forum.
Plus she penalized me for it. I did not advertise but only had my name and a link to my blog, which was not even a clickable link.
Nothing was done about the name calling, and her and her friends were attacking the person who made the post, making references to Jerry Springer and such, and attacking me... obviously it got around "somehow" that I reported their "friend" and they were all pissed off.
Anyway... I mailed a complaint to the support addy that it said not to respond to, as well as to the addy that I found for the owner... I emailed him twice, so far with no response.
I just can't believe that they can break the rules like that...anyway..like I said, my sig was not an add, but even if it was, it says right in the area where it describes your signature, that signatures include links to your site(s).
It seems like I just can't win. I know, I know, I am at a loss...just move on. But it really makes me bent, because people come to that forum with real problems that can totally affect their lives and instead of being treated with respect, they are attacked, and that truly pisses me off.
Have any of you experienced something like this before? Any good advice? My heart truly breaks for these posters who come there expecting help and that no one will judge them, and truly makes me sad.
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