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Guys I am very hurt and I need a hand...

by pickthat apple
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Victim this time for a change...
I need to "get back" by means of pm to somebody (ok a woman) in exchange for her behaving like a real B***H (I will spare you the details).
I already put down a very descriptive few lines in terms of decency.
I would like to have your opinion whether this would achieve the goal or if you think by adding or taking out some information would be better.
But for this you need to be really angry today.

So for those Warriors that are really furious with somebody today or tomorrow (I have got like a couple of days to do this) and they need to esternate it, please get in touch via pm. Thanks!!!
  • Profile picture of the author Domashnya
    What can I help you?
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  • Profile picture of the author bravo75
    Yeah, spit it out. What's ailing you?
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    • Profile picture of the author pickthat apple
      are you really furious you two?
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      • Profile picture of the author Kay King
        I need to "get back" by means of pm to somebody
        I've always thought if someone lies about me or talks about me in a negative way - it says more about them than about me.

        "Getting back at" seldom works and there is no payoff when you put yourself on the same low level as the person who hurt you.

        If what you mean is sending rude PM's to someone - I'd definitely rethink that one right away. Walk away....

        kay
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  • Profile picture of the author Floyd Fisher
    I think he's volunteering to be a punching bag.
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    • Profile picture of the author pickthat apple
      It is not for the faint hearted to read that PM...I don't really have the courage to show it to anybody.

      Basically the situation is there it is me involved, a man and another woman which borrowed him without too many compliments as it seems to be the fashion where he comes from.
      Mr Piggy was back with me in all his glory.

      I have put together this PM which is describing
      1) him taking the first step,
      2) all the saucy details about the physical approach in details(which is really the part that I find hard to show you and it is really a punch on the face)
      3) he loves me bla bla bla

      On which point should I insist more in order to get back to the B***H so that i can exchange the favour of how bad I felt...
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      • Profile picture of the author Martin2010
        Originally Posted by pickthat apple View Post

        It is not for the faint hearted to read that PM...I don't really have the courage to show it to anybody.

        Basically the situation is there it is me involved, a man and another woman which borrowed him without too many compliments as it seems to be the fashion where he comes from.
        Mr Piggy was back with me in all his glory.

        I have put together this PM which is describing
        1) him taking the first step,
        2) all the saucy details about the physical approach in details(which is really the part that I find hard to show you and it is really a punch on the face)
        3) he loves me bla bla bla

        On which point should I insist more in order to get back to the B***H so that i can exchange the favour of how bad I felt...
        It really sounds like you have to face the facts sharpish that this guy simply isn't worth the hassle. It seems with this post of yours that he made the first move which in my eyes shows he wasn't completely happy in the relationship and it's hard but you have to wake up and think i can do better.

        Life is too short to hold a grudge and i suggest you go out and bloody well enjoy yourself. The best way to get back at these people is to simply move on and move on fast and then it goes to show them that your not really that bothered which will hurt them more in the long run rather than acting bothered.

        I seriuosly suggest you get yourself out there and do what you want to do, get yourself shopping and make yourself look a million dollars and then get out on the town and enjoy the freedom that you couldn't when you where with this person and you will meet someone else but make sure that when you are looking and feeling at your very best that this man knows about it.

        Get this man out of your life fast as once a cheat, always a cheat.

        Keep your chin up and keep smiling.
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    As the saying goes,the best revenge is living well.
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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      Sounds like a very personal issue which should perhaps stay personal?

      I've always been fascinated by the "she stole my man" or "he stole my woman" scenario. You can't steal someone unless he/she is ready and willing to go along for the ride.

      If someone "stole" a man from me by fooling him - he's too dumb for me in the first place.

      If someone wants to be with you - they will be. If not, they aren't worth keeping around. Fish in the sea, dear - plenty of them.

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      • Profile picture of the author pickthat apple
        Yes, but I want this particular fish...
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        • Profile picture of the author clint48
          Ok, so she hurt you, and you think she is a bad person for doing that to you. Now you want to hurt her, so doesn't that mean you are no better than she is?

          If both of you want to hurt people you need to be friends not enemies, because you have something in common.

          Clint
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          • Profile picture of the author ruthlindsey
            I'm glad you are brave enough to reach out to others here when you are hurting...that takes courage. I can relate to the feelings you are going through and know it will take some time to get through the grief. Know in the meantime that God truly loves and cares for you. Your mind will clear with time when you heal and you'll be able then to see everything more objectively like the rest of us who aren't going through this like you are. It's easy to want to take revenge when you're hurt this badly, but that's part of the grieving process and you'll get past that eventually. Thanks again for sharing. Just know you are LOVED and ACCEPTED. lifetime dot org and gracewalk dot org helped me a lot when I was hurting. It will help to fill your mind with all the positive things you can once you are to the point where you desire to do that. Sometimes you just have to grieve for a while because it hurts so bad...
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        • Profile picture of the author Richard A.Cox
          Originally Posted by pickthat apple View Post

          Yes, but I want this particular fish...
          Wrong Forum
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          • Profile picture of the author ruthlindsey
            Originally Posted by Richard A.Cox View Post

            Wrong Forum
            Isn't it best not to criticize a man when he's already down?

            It's like stabbing your wounded.

            It's a blessing to be able to encourage others no matter what forum they happen to share in. People who care are alive and well...and I hope he finds more of them to uplift him...
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      • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
        Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

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        If someone "stole" a man from me by fooling him - he's too dumb for me in the first place.<snip>
        It would involve advanced hypnosis I think to fool someone out of their pants and all.
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    • Profile picture of the author actofrage
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      As the saying goes,the best revenge is living well.
      nice, gotta remember that one

      And yes, it's better to just be the better person and move on.
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      • Profile picture of the author FinallyFree
        Originally Posted by actofrage View Post

        nice, gotta remember that one

        And yes, it's better to just be the better person and move on.
        I truly agree.
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        • Profile picture of the author Kay King
          Yes, but I want this particular fish...
          Probably not - maybe you want to "win"? In that game, the prize usually isn't worth it. So you drive the other woman away and you reclaim "my man"...and you'll be happy until the next time he plays around. You will never feel secure.

          It would involve advanced hypnosis I think to fool someone out of their pants and all.
          If that's all you want, a few beers will do it
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  • Profile picture of the author Martin2010
    The best thing to do is get it out in the open and then we'll have a better idea of how we can help but if you don't give us any details then we're just making presumptions.

    If your going through an hard time then speak to your family and friends firstly and if that doesn't work then there are people who can help you. I'm not sure that the good people of this forum can help you with emotions as this is something that you have to deal with yourself but the help of the people i mentioned above will ease that.

    Getting everything out in the open is a great way to express what you are feeling and simply getting it off your chest.
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  • Profile picture of the author TommyBenidict
    It's not like the end of the World for you! What you need is go out and have fun, it's a natural process of life sometimes we're good then the next thing you know you're in trouble. I for once had a roller coaster relationship before but with positive thinking and help from Mindmaster.tv, I can proudly say I'm a happy person.
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