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Should I do SEO When Looking for a Girlfriend?

by eddyjoy
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Hey Warriors,

SEO is simply the process of improving the visibility of a website so that search engines can notice the site.

I was just wondering, I have stayed for a long time without finding a girl to develop a nice relationship with. Girls do not notice me on the streets but they notice my buddies. I am left wondering what is wrong with me. Is it that I have not optimized my strong points (key words) or is that this thing about attraction is just natural?

I need to find a life partner, I am not celibate. Some body help.

Regards.
#seo
  • Profile picture of the author joebel
    You're right SEO can use in our life. You must optimize yourself to be on top of the search. So if a girl search for a BF, when you are on the top, you will be the first seen or can be the first choice of the girl.

    You can also use the concept of the Keyword research in searching for a Gf.
    *traffic = you must select a place that there are many girls that have the possibility to notice you.
    *competition = you must look for a place that you think it has low competition in looks and attitudes.
    *PBR % = you must look for a place that high percentage of the girls are really searching for a Bf.
    Try all of this and you will find what are you looking for.
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  • Profile picture of the author XtremXpert
    Originally Posted by eddyjoy View Post

    I was just wondering, I have stayed for a long time without finding a girl to develop a nice relationship with. Girls do not notice me on the streets but they notice my buddies. I am left wondering what is long with me. Is it that I have not optimized my strong points (key words) or is that this thing about attraction is just natural?
    It is natural for a few as they grew up being "optimized" for all the important points, like for example a really old website, but you can get a new website on the same spot with work, and you can do the same with your life.

    Do some 'reverse seo engineering' on your friends, those who get noticed. Are they dressed better? Better shoes or coat? A nicer haircut? Maybe is their attitude? How do they walk? Are they interested in getting a girl or in having fun?

    All this is pure psychology. If you are really interested in this subject I suggest you to buy these two-three books. They are cheap and will make you understand how attraction work and how to improve you life in this area:
    The Pickup ArtistThe Pickup Artist by Mystery
    The Mystery MethodThe Mystery Method by Mystery
    Rules of the GameRules of the Game by Neil Strauss
    or other books by these two.

    Don't think that you don't want to be a pickup artist or something like that so you don't need these books, even if you want just The One, these will help you a lot. Buy only the first one and you'll see what I'm talking about.

    It is like SEO, you have to optimize you for the best outcome but firstly you need to know how, and is better to learn from the best.

    hope it helps
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    • Profile picture of the author pickthat apple
      I just think that you need to relax.
      I was at the dentist the other day and in comes this thin man in working clothes, nothing like a macho, nothing like your sterotypical good looking guy, not flirtaceous at all - he just threw there a couple of humoristic sentences to the receptionist being that he had being waiting for an excessive time but he was happily choosing to come back another day because so and so...
      Anyway by the time he left which is like one minute, he had a total of three good looking and very presentable women drooling after him (in a figurative sense).

      I have been thinking why and I came out with the conclusion that he was very relaxed and friendly. So I am not suggesting that this is all what it takes to get a girlfriend, but it may help.
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  • Profile picture of the author Joshua Gonzalez
    Originally Posted by eddyjoy View Post

    I need to find a life partner...
    I concur that you may just "need" to relax a bit to begin with, as the above suggests that you are a little too eager - maybe even desperate. Women will definitely sense this and to be honest, it's not very attractive.

    If the above sentiment is the vibe you give off then it can also be a little scary for the opposite sex.

    Sure, find a way to get noticed but ease up on the "I need to find a life partner" attitude, I think. They tend to pop up when you aren't looking anyway.
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    • Profile picture of the author Roaddog
      Rather than give em the eye... lol
      Ignore them
      They'll come a runnin...
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    • Profile picture of the author TheNicola
      Originally Posted by Joshua Gonzalez View Post

      I concur that you may just "need" to relax a bit to begin with, as the above suggests that you are a little too eager - maybe even desperate. Women will definitely sense this and to be honest, it's not very attractive.
      I agree with Joshua here. I am a young woman and I know that I speak for most girls out there- the more desperate you look, the less attention you'll get. That is why most of us prefer bad boys;P But seriously, just relax, let all your steps come naturally
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  • Profile picture of the author eddyjoy
    Hi All,
    Thanks to warriors for your advice, I now have a girlfriend. I want to do everything to keep her. Hope I will succeed.
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  • Profile picture of the author tplink
    You can do seo when you are in bath room it is nice tip for you only.
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  • Profile picture of the author carcrazy
    SEO in the bathroom? What? Well you got a girlfriend so I guess it works.
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  • Profile picture of the author davis cup
    Get out of you computer and roam around on roads to find a suitable girl. Check your buddy list and choose the best. It is your life after all, live it to the fullest.
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  • Profile picture of the author hireava
    May be SEO could help but i think it's better for you to go out and socialize. Meet them in person, you'll get to know them better. I hope you'll find the right girl for you.
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