If a women hit you, would you hit back?

If I'm attacked by anyone with the intent of them causing me physical harm, I will defend myself. Which means I'm going to try and take the attacker out.
If it's a male or female doesn't matter.

Women hit on me all the time. I just hit them back with, "Sorry, but I'm taken."

RoD

Bravo75,

You poor fellow. You went through hell just because you have a Northern accent.

Under the laws of Karma, faith will punish them - they probably will be thrashed and beaten up badly by other women in another pub somewhere in Essex. You don't have to do anything man!

On the one hand besides protecting yourself by restraining them, I don't see why a woman thinks she can hit someone and get away with it because she is a woman.

Some of the old movies woman smack a guy across the face and the guy just stands there. I don't think so in this day and age and rightly so. If you hit somebody expect to be hit back.

On the other hand I would have more fun having them arrested for assault and battery. It would hurt them more (and for longer) than smacking them back. Once you hit them back then it is 'he-said-she-said' on who took the first punch.

Once in my life.

I was probably 14-15 and there was this BIG girl always harassing me in school. One day she pushed me to the wrong side and called my mother a freaking name - and I hit her really bad in her jaw.

From that day on, she never harassed any kid. But she was scary dude.

lol

You'd think someone with a pic of Zappa for their icon would have whapped them upside the head with a lead filled snowshoe...Peek-a-boo with a lead-filled snowshoe.

I was bullied by a girl all through the sixth grade. This chick was huge and fought like a man too. So when I found out she was after me I was rightfully concerned. I almost made it all the way through the school year avoiding her after school on the walk home. (Yeah, kids walked to school back then). One day she caught me at my parents house and pushed me down to the ground. I promptly popped up and planted one on her nose. I can still see the look of surprise on her face too when I did. Once she registered what happened she ran home crying and I literally felt like I had lost a hundred pounds. She had hounded me for what seemed liked forever. I later ran into her as an adult and she said that I had devastated her that day because she had had a crush on me for years. So I guess a fellow can't win either way when it comes to hitting girls back.

It depends on how hard the girl hits. If she's weak and smaller than you, it's best just to subdue her until someone comes or she calms down. Maybe, if you can't get a hold of her, then just push her down and walk away. Not body slam, but push her away. Now if she hits like a man and has the intent to do you serious harm like a guy would, then I believe in self defense regardless of sex. Some women think they can just hit a guy with no retaliation because some guys believe you should never hit a woman, even if she's as strong as you and started the whole thing. What are you supposed to do, just stand there and take the beating to your face until you get knocked out? I don't think so. So it all depends on if the girl is strong and can fight or not I suppose.

An Aikido fighting approach would be best in such a situation, so the person's own force is applied against themselves and you don't have to actually hit them. There is politics in life and it works against a guy to be associated with hitting a girl, whatever the context. If I ran a bar or club, I'd hire female bouncers for that very reason. Here's why, speaking in general terms:
One, a guy plain doesn't want to hit a girl.
Two, a guy doesn't want to be known as the dude who got beat up by a girl.
Three, research suggests that female bouncers, like female cops, are more likely to try to find a diplomatic solution to problems than their male counterparts.

You wrote - "I told them to **** off and leave me alone". Should you have hit back? Depends on what exactly you said. If you said - "Ladies, is it possible to please leave me alone. I've had a long, hard day. I know you find my accent funny, but please, not now." Then you moved away. Then, yes.

But if you had said - "You bbbbbbb, ckck off. Get the shtt outta here and leave me alone"...and your voice was a tad louder than the music playing in the background, then maybe not.

However, I don't condone what they did.

No...I probably wouldn't hit back. But not because I'm a guy, because I'm a wimpy woman who probably wouldn't win the fight.

i will just defend myself
i know how to defend without hitting a girl
you can make her fall but deliberately

next time use your charm, works wonders and if you ask nicely they will leave you alone. If you are a dude, never hit a woman, its uncivilized and old school.

If a women looks like a playboy than i will definitely kiss her instead of kick her ass LOL

That was the sensible thing to do, it would look pretty bad if you put either one in a coma, no one is going to accept the excuse no matter how riled up you were

If she came at me with a knife and threatened to kill me, YES. If not you are just a complete moron.

It really depends. . If it is my fault, maybe not!. but if she'll gonna hit me with no apparent reason at all.. This call for a CAT FIGHT!.

no l never hit a female even if she hit me

if she hit really hard then no, she might do it again

Mike Tyson has his own twist on this. I read an interview where he was asked "What was the hardest punch you ever threw?" He said it was when he hit one of his wives. (Robin, if I remember right, an itty bitty little thing) He said he thought she was going to go through the wall behind her.

The guy doing the interview moved on to the next question without comment.

It might not completely apply to this topic. There was no suggestion that she hit him first.

if a women hits you, you are Entitled to hit her back , problem is you might be accused of being a women beater, you have to weigh it up

You did the right thing. It's wrong to ever hit a woman. You should have been more polite to them in the first place.

At least you have to in your defense.

If I lose a tooth, the gloves are coming off!

You guys realize, roofex dug up a 10 month old thread(?)

Women have mastered the art of verbal jujitsu... I'll take the physical punishment thankyou!

No. I would laugh at her. It's funny when women get angry. If a weapon were involved, however, I think I'd have to kick her ***!

Would I hit a woman back who had hit me?

I think it would depend on how hard she hit me. If I were out cold, then no, I wouldn't.

Yes of course i response back her .

By law, at least here in Australia, you are allowed to apply necessary force to appropriate an arrest (i.e. when you have witnessed a crime). As they assaulted you, you witnessed it. You are allowed to effect a citizens arrest, using as much force as necessary, but not more.

As atrained fighter, you may have gotten away with punching one in the face or shinkick to the thigh, just to let her taste the power of a serious hit, which would hopefully stop her. Then you could be more gentle with the other one who would hopefully have started using her brain after seeing her friend get nailed.

Basically, if they're using closed-hand techniques, they are the ones who have taken it to that level of the force continuum.

You could actually grab a clublock and use that, as filled-hand is the next step up from closed hand.

I learnt that from security training. Guards have the same rights as citizens here.

In that situation ,first of all protect yourself and you should attack on them .There is no matter .they are male or female.

No! I would never ever hit a woman if she hit me.

Only pussies hit womans. A real man hit guys and not chicks.

My two cents.

Sounds to me that your incident was quite a violent one, but there's other things to consider besides the women themselves.

If you strike back and a bypasser (other males for example) only sees you attack then you'll have more trouble on your hands. There are many males who'd intervene if they seen that - some out of moral belief and some just to act the hero.

If those factors weren't an issue and you are clear of not landing yourself in police cell and court, I'd of suggested that you give them both a knuckle sandwich without hesitation. It would shock me to think anyone believes that kicking someone in the balls is acceptable regardless of their sex. I've known of some very nasty incidents involving that. I'm sure a lot of people who live by the "Don't hit a female" rule probably haven't ever found themselves in situations which would challenge their intergrity and perhaps change their opinion. It's all too easy to be a pacifist on Easy Street.

My parents returned from a holiday a few years ago with a tale of a butch, ex-military woman shouting at her 7 year old daughter by the poolside to swim more lengths whilst she was parading backwards and forth with a knife. There were apparently men signalling to each other to just flying kick her into the pool but it ended by someone snatching the knife.

Stay safe but don't let yourself be abused by anyone.

Sounds like you're life wasn't really being threatened...so I wouldn't hit a woman in that scenario. But say if a woman pulled out a knife or something sharp on me.... well then somebody gonna get a hurtin real bad.

I was thinking similar...on that way

No!!! I would give the other face.

Hi Bravo,
It seems like you are having serious issues with the two girls ......in my opinion if i am in your place i will not hit them back as they both are drunk and i have told them to **** off right.So instead to get ****off they **** me.


I didn't done anything wrong by sparing them Although it hirts but we should never hurt a women whatever the circumstances were.

Definitely getting the post count up with this one. I am a woman and I have sons and daughters. I always teach both the girls and boys not to pick a fight but don't back down if you are cornered. If there is no other way out then fight to protect yourself. Try not to kill the other person but make sure every knows it was self defense.

Some of the most vicious criminals are females.

No! Dont Hit her Back.

What you did was right, you did not hit back because you know you can easily knock them down. Being a gentlemen to those girls is one of the best thing that you've ever done in your life. Even though we know that you have the right to hit back and they will surely deserve that for not acting proper in public.