if you appreciate the way you were raised.

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I copied this from my friend's FB,

When I was a kid, I didn't have a laptop, iPod, PS3 or iPad. I played outside with friends, bruised my knees, made up adventurous fantasies and played hide and seek, also not to forget Polly Pocket if i get good grades. I ate what my mom made and KFC was a treat. I would think twice before I said "no" to my parents. Life wasn't hard, it was great and I survived. Kids these days are spoiled. Re-post this if you appreciate the way you were raised. I think we were happier kids - Mr Stephen Tong

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  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Let me tell you about MY life.

    When I was a kid, small portable radios were almost a big deal. In fact, they were called transistor radios! I looked them up in wikipedia, and they were developed less than 10 years before I was born! Transistor radio - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia We didn't even have cassette tape! It was reel to reel! Arcades probably weren't as prevalent, and were MECHANICAL! Play wasn't on some electronic gizmo, but that was actually a good thing. OH, and we had chicken delight! They were like KFC, but crispy, and they delivered. And when I was a really little kid, I remember that like half the TV channels we got, at least in the morning, were college courses! BTW WE only got (2,4,5,7,9,11,13) so 7 channels on VHF. On UHF you were often lucky if you got ANY! And that was IT! NO Cable, and apparently NO satellite.! Relatively few people even had encyclopedias, so some research had to be done at a library. If we wanted to know how to spell a word, we had to look it up in dictionaries!

    A lot of people in the 60s would have been ECSTATIC to have some of the potential that kids today take for granted. They would have been shocked to see it squandered so.
    And encyclopedias were never viewed as a human right, that all were to provide for the poor, when I was a kid. I was one that didn't have such luxuries. EVEN the hand held electronic calculator didn't appear until I had been through several grades in school, and they were not allowed to be used in school.

    It was a simpler time, but kids didn't feel disadvantaged. In many ways, I like THAT time BETTER. I wouldn't even mind if I had to go back and forget about computers, etc...

    Steve
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    • Profile picture of the author ThomM
      Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

      Let me tell you about MY life.

      When I was a kid, small portable radios were almost a big deal. In fact, they were called transistor radios! I looked them up in wikipedia, and they were developed less than 10 years before I was born! Transistor radio - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia We didn't even have cassette tape! It was reel to reel! Arcades probably weren't as prevalent, and were MECHANICAL! Play wasn't on some electronic gizmo, but that was actually a good thing. OH, and we had chicken delight! They were like KFC, but crispy, and they delivered. And when I was a really little kid, I remember that like half the TV channels we got, at least in the morning, were college courses! BTW WE only got (2,4,5,7,9,11,13) so 7 channels on VHF. On UHF you were often lucky if you got ANY! And that was IT! NO Cable, and apparently NO satellite.! Relatively few people even had encyclopedias, so some research had to be done at a library. If we wanted to know how to spell a word, we had to look it up in dictionaries!

      A lot of people in the 60s would have been ECSTATIC to have some of the potential that kids today take for granted. They would have been shocked to see it squandered so.
      And encyclopedias were never viewed as a human right, that all were to provide for the poor, when I was a kid. I was one that didn't have such luxuries. EVEN the hand held electronic calculator didn't appear until I had been through several grades in school, and they were not allowed to be used in school.

      It was a simpler time, but kids didn't feel disadvantaged. In many ways, I like THAT time BETTER. I wouldn't even mind if I had to go back and forget about computers, etc...

      Steve
      You kids Pocket or transistor radios are a year younger then me
      We had 3 TV stations on good days, 2 on most days. Funny thing was the one that we had the hardest time receiving was the one we could see the tower. Two of my childhood highlights where walking to the end of the road to get the mail from our mailbox and when they finally started plowing our road in the winter. Up until I was around 6 we had to live in Green Island in the winter and in the spring move back to Brunswick.
      Like I mentioned before my house was surrounded by a dairy farm when I was a kid so I played with cows more then kids till I was around 12. At that time I ventured over the hill in back of the farmers house and met the person who would end up being my life long friend JP. John and his family still live close by and we play horseshoes every Monday night during the summer.
      I also hung out in the cemetery down the road from me and sleep in the mausoleum on hot summer nights. In fact my back steps came from there.
      HEre's a little article about the place Weird New York
      By the way the cemetery was designed by the first black graduate from R.P.I., Garnet D. Baltimore.
      Maybe all that explains why I'm such the peoples person I am today:rolleyes:
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      • Profile picture of the author seasoned
        Originally Posted by ThomM View Post

        You kids Pocket or transistor radios are a year younger then me
        We had 3 TV stations on good days, 2 on most days. Funny thing was the one that we had the hardest time receiving was the one we could see the tower.
        Well, I lived in a LARGE market! Yeah, I should have said that. And the towers may only put out ONE station.

        As for the radios, I STILL remember how they all had the SAME look when I was a kid. THANKS for making me feel a LITTLE younger though, as I said, the difference between our ages is less than 8 years.

        Steve
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        • Profile picture of the author pickthat apple
          When we would drive to the country for the weekend we would stop to a certain village bakery where we would buy freshly baked bread and one packet of crisps for me and one for my twin sister. Now, in Italy the crisps are delicious, plus those particular crisps they came with a surprise.

          We would not see any other crisps in the week because my mother was always careful what food she would feed us.

          So that packet of crisps at the weekend was a very exciting moment.

          And I so thank God now, that I haven't been fed continuously some unhealthy processed plastic food...
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  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    ANOTHER THING. On Household batteries, for example, we had AA, AAA, C, D, 9v, and the large 6v. So everything was standardized. And people used a given size for a REASON! These days, even for watch batteries, you may have dozens of types and sizes. CRAZY!

    Steve
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  • Profile picture of the author Sunfyre7896
    I think you guys are missing the point of this. It wasn't about telling who had the harder childhood technologically and who had less stuff or more outdated equipment. It was about whether you appreciate being raised without all of the excess technology that kids have now days or being spoiled or the worst of all, everyone getting trophies or ribbons just for trying by parents that want to be perfect.

    I agree with the TC. I didn't have much growing up until I was about 12. Then I got a Nintendo (original), but was only allowed to play it a couple of hours a day. The other times, I was shooed out of the house to go out and be active. Good message from my parents. I didn't have it all, but I had friends and the freedom to be anything from a soldier, to athlete, or whatever my mind contrived. We played hide and seek, tag, and many other classic games. We rode our bikes with no helmets or pads and came in when it got dark. I miss those days. Now children are spoiled beyond belief. They sit inside all day and play on the gaming platforms, eat food I barely received such as McDonalds quite a bit, and are coddled to prevent their precious "psyches" from being hurt. Here's a tip. Not all people are exactly equal if you work the same. Giving trophies to all of the kids just because and telling them not to eat dirt and disinfecting everything and letting them play on their ps3's all day is just leading to overweight, allergy ridden, disillusioned adults. Try not to be perfect, just a great parent.

    So as the TC said, I'm reposting with one minor change about the good grades:
    When I was a kid, I didn't have a laptop, iPod, PS3 or iPad. I played outside with friends, bruised my knees, made up adventurous fantasies and played hide and seek, also not to forget Six Flags if i get good grades. I ate what my mom made and KFC was a treat. I would think twice before I said "no" to my parents. Life wasn't hard, it was great and I survived. Kids these days are spoiled.
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    • Profile picture of the author seasoned
      Originally Posted by Sunfyre7896 View Post

      I think you guys are missing the point of this. It wasn't about telling who had the harder childhood technologically and who had less stuff or more outdated equipment. It was about whether you appreciate being raised without all of the excess technology that kids have now days or being spoiled or the worst of all, everyone getting trophies or ribbons just for trying by parents that want to be perfect.
      GEE, is THAT the way you read it?

      I even said... "It was a simpler time, but kids didn't feel disadvantaged. In many ways, I like THAT time BETTER. I wouldn't even mind if I had to go back and forget about computers, etc..."

      I wasn't trying to say "OH, My life was HORRIBLE!". Quite the contrary, I was saying "I lacked SO many things we now take for granted and CLAIM are necessary, and in some ways it was BETTER!"! HECK, I recently found out that people in at least some middle schools here, and I believe in the state, if they get free lunch and don't have an internet account get a FREE laptop, and money for an internet account! It is almost like rewarding bums, and punishing others. Not even a MEANS test!

      Steve
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    • Profile picture of the author ThomM
      Originally Posted by Sunfyre7896 View Post

      I think you guys are missing the point of this. It wasn't about telling who had the harder childhood technologically and who had less stuff or more outdated equipment. It was about whether you appreciate being raised without all of the excess technology that kids have now days or being spoiled or the worst of all, everyone getting trophies or ribbons just for trying by parents that want to be perfect.
      Whose telling they had a hard childhood?
      I was just saying a little about my childhood. I'm very thankful I was raised in the way I was and where I was. I wouldn't trade my youth for anything.
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      • Profile picture of the author pickthat apple
        To cut it short, I am glad that I have been raised in a way that was stimulating for my immune system as well as for my brain...
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  • Profile picture of the author Fazal Mayar
    I think it could have been better. I didnt go out much and used to stay at home which is still the case. You know thats why old times look better where you hang out and have fun instead of being on your electronic gadgets.
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  • Profile picture of the author Raja Kamil
    Guys, past are should never forgotten, right?.
    I can't imagine what will happen in 20 years after now, where people can read their grandpa's diary in blog (provided their grandpa renew the domain and hosting each year :p).
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  • Profile picture of the author Aileen Flannigan
    I cant remember when we're playing outside our home and thinking nothing, just pure decent fun.. Simple happiness.. Now, it's hard to make kids happy, they have so many demands
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  • Profile picture of the author williams22
    Do not forget about the robberies ( am talking about the fruits and flowers from neighbours) we have done when we were kid !
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