Is it good to remarry your divorced Spouse ?

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Is it good to remarry your divorced spouse ? I want your best opinion.
Please friends it is really serious for me. Have you ever seen such couples ?
If yes why and if not why ?
  • Profile picture of the author bulram
    NO, its not good! Dont do that! NEVER. I have been in that situation.....
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  • Profile picture of the author LeeLee
    My ex and I are on very good terms and people have suggested to me that we could get back together. But the fact is while I respect him as a person and love him for the life we lived together, I could never again trust him with something so important and fragile as my heart.
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  • Profile picture of the author Joe Mobley
    I can not give you accurate advice because I am not you. Maybe a couple of things to think about.

    The percentages for long-term success are less than encouraging.

    If it would be a good decision today, it should be a good decision tomorrow. Maybe relax and enjoy each others company for a while. Revisit the marriage decision in 6 months or so.

    It has been my observation that decisions made in the throws of high emotion tend to be devoid of wisdom.

    Do let us know of your decision. We would be interested in hearing how it works out.

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    Originally Posted by timothy2011i View Post

    Is it good to remarry your divorced spouse ? I want your best opinion.
    Please friends it is really serious for me. Have you ever seen such couples ?
    If yes why and if not why ?
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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      If you need to join a marketing forum to ask a question like this - you should probably stay single for a long time.
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  • Profile picture of the author heenaalbert
    I think so but its unlikely.
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  • Profile picture of the author Thomas Wilkinson
    If I knew I only had a year to live I'd re-marry my ex-wife because she'd make it seem like ten.

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  • Profile picture of the author Sunfyre7896
    I think it's possible depending on what you got divorced for. If it was for infidelity or constant fighting or something similar, then most likely as not, no. If it was because of immaturity from getting married too young or for monetary reasons, then yes, you can possibly. People change over time and getting married too early or now having the money you didn't back then can make the world of difference. I'd say if it were for one of those 2 reasons just listed, then go for it. If you're going to do it, go into the relationship just as you would a new one. Begin dating and not just jump right back in. Start with a couple of days per week and do it just like you would if you just met her. The only difference is that you know things about each other, but that doesn't take away from the beauty of slowness and fostering a new love for each other in time.
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  • Profile picture of the author Rose Anderson
    It depends...on you...on your ex-spouse...on your situation...on how well you can leave the past and move on...whether you've both changed since the first break-up...and on and on.

    Find a good marriage counselor and both of you go. They'll be able to give you better insights than a marketing forum.
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    • Profile picture of the author AprilCT
      Friends I grew up with got married and had a family while in high school. They split up for around 8 years and then returned. They are great grandparents now and still happily married -- it was much tougher when they started out at 15 years old.

      I'd also suggest marriage counseling for both of you before you try this again. If you thought breaking up the first time was tough, the second wouldn't be any easier. Get the counseling first, then make your decisions together so you make the right decision this time and weather any storms together safely.
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  • Profile picture of the author Audrey Harvey
    I know a man who did that. Divorced his wife, then remarried her. Divorced her again. Entered a relationship with my friend, within 2 months she was pregnant. Baby is now 7 months old, and he has moved on, having found "profound love" with her best friend.

    If someone is thinking about remarrying their spouse, I'd suggest that they don't rush into it, and spend a lot of time working on themselves with a therapist so they know themselves better, and can enter their next relationship having dealt with their baggage. Better chance of success that way.
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  • Profile picture of the author waterotter
    If you're in need of companionship - get a dog.
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  • Profile picture of the author Don Schenk
    Dan Kennedy and Carla were divorced about 10 years ago. A few years later they became remarried - to each other.

    I was at one of Dan's programs about a year ago in Cleveland when he was recording his Wealth Seminar, and Carla dropped in to say, "Hi" to people.

    :-Don
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  • Profile picture of the author oldhamalan
    NO, its not good!
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  • Profile picture of the author casdir
    I guess its possible for it to work out, but I wouldn't try it. If it didn't work out the first time, then it probably won't work this time. Its always sad when relationships don't work out, sorry to hear about that. I hope it all works out for you in the end.
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  • Profile picture of the author JustinDupre
    Remarrying your divorced spouse? I'd have to say NO to this since it didn't work out the first time round.
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  • Profile picture of the author Thomas Wilkinson
    Says it all Attachment 10486
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  • Profile picture of the author Robert Michael
    probably not, but hell.. you only live once.

    lol just dont act surprised when it falls apart again. theres a reason you split up, you'll remember it once you're back with them.

    you dont like them.. you like the idea of them. once you have them you remember why you left in the first place.. ya kno?

    let them go and dont look back, dont get depressed.. cant move forward when ur stuck in the past man.

    there are 7,926,958,342 people (not an exact figure) in this world, so why focus on the 1 person that deep down, you know it isn't going to work in the long run anyway?

    i know i know, incredibly lucid stuff here. and i havent even had a bud light yet hahahaha

    either way tho, let us know how it works out (or if it doesn't) lol
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    • Profile picture of the author QuickSurf
      "marriage is the leading cause of divorce" - Tommy Lee
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  • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
    My Sister and her Husband are on their third marriage....to each other.

    Their life has been a soap opera. And a successful one, I might add, since it's now gone three seasons.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    Originally Posted by timothy2011i View Post

    Is it good to remarry your divorced spouse ? I want your best opinion.
    Please friends it is really serious for me. Have you ever seen such couples ?
    If yes why and if not why ?
    It works out for some people, not for others. It doesn't matter how it works out for others, good or bad, if you or someone you know is trying to base such an important decision on someone else's results then ... and I mean no offense by this, but ... you're crazy!

    Different people and different circumstances from what any other remarried couple experience. Time to look inward for the answers, not outward.
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  • Profile picture of the author neojiphre
    The more i think about it, yeahh, nah
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