Women In Their 40s Are Having Great Sex... Just Not With Their Husbands

Ha!

You are too kind, Steve, lol!

Terra

Hey, Hey, HEY, dude, whose side are you on , anyways??

Must be a lawyer.

We buy cars and have insurance, we buy houses and have them insured, we buy health insurance, life insurance, but of ALL the devastation that divorce can do to a man financially and otherwise , most will jump into it with no possible life raft.

With marriage, you are entering into a corporation, that is why they rape the dude financially in court.

Would you enter a CONTRACT , with both the state and your partner, without securing safe guards, either in the contract or out of it?

When you put it that way, it really sounds quite foolish. Yeah, I'll jump into something that could ruin me for the rest of my life or may never recover but I WILL NOT have a contingency plan for failure.

Constructions sites, state laws, federal laws,etc., have protocols to insure safety , but real love requires no safety, no insurance against failure or damage, hm?

That's a gamble, and I think that the same disclaimer of 1-800 GAMBLING PROBLEM that they put in fine print in lottery tickets and other pari-mutual wagering literature, they should put on a marriage contract before it is signed and stamped.

Marriage is simply not for everybody, because it only works, until it doesn't.

The average person gets married for the wrong reasons , anyway.

Most cannot distinguish between love and lust, friendship and lust, loneliness and friendship, etc.,.

The average women has a conscious or unconscious need and/or instinct for security, period, however it is expressed or exercised.

Or some guy who never gets looks from women, the ONE woman who gives him time, he thinks he "found" his one and true.

Why don't they require EXTENSIVE psychiatric evaluation, over a period of months, BEFORE a marriage is approved, and why can't the results be given to each others evaluation before they decide they "think" they "know" this person.

"Oh, by the way, I forgot to tell you, when we was married for 38 years and then I divorced you ,ruined your life financially and you send me a check every month until I die, I did not tell you I was molested and had issues with men and other psychological trauma that I skillfully hid from everyone....., sorry about that, chief".

They assume because they are so good and compatible at several things, that the stuff they are not compatible on, they will somehow, someway, grow into it, which may happen, but often times usually fails at, so they either tolerate each other on certain things until years later, they cannot take no more.

Here's my neophyte thought:

Most people have friends for a long, long time.

You know why?

Because friends, real friends, found a place where they are cool at together, and THEY STAY RIGHT THERE.

For instance, a group of fellas play football 2 days out of a week for years together.

They are good there.

A dude, A REAL dude WON'T have this thought in his head as a good idea:

"Hey, we play ball together and enjoy each other, so since I like needle point, I am going to try to get the other fellas into, I mean, really sell it, so we'll probably be good there as well".

But that is one example that happens when people are good together in several things think the next logical step is marriage.

If people APPLIED that logic to friendships, most would not have many friends, if any at all, unless psychos that play together , stay together.

With friends, you ONLY stay where you are good at, whether it be respect, boundaries, hobbies, when and why you call each other, whatever.

A dude would NEVER call his longtime football buddies and bring up, let alone hard sale, that he has tickets to the ballet and they all should go.

Just a few calls like that, and his football buddies will ALWAYS be busy...., ice cold shoulder and g-o-o-d-b-y-e forever............, you freak-a-zoid that turned weird.

Most people hide their true self and put on their best behavior anyway.

Then, when they are married for a few years, it's like, " I sure wish I knew about this before I married this person " or " If I known marriage was REALLY like this, I probably would've made a different decision."

It's like a Brain Surgery....., it is a great profession, but not everyone should do it or be pushed/forced into it.


The 13th Warrior

What I meant by "any variety of chap" is any fellow at random.

Ok, you may be "medically" correct, but ask your average gent can he tell the difference, in his experiences, whether the attitude is medically induced or not.

If a dude works his butt off with overtime, extra job, etc., the woman would complain he is not spending enough time...., if he cuts his hours , she complains they are not making enough money to get the stuff she wants....., if he rearranges his hours so she can see him often, she suggests she needs to spend more time with her friends and he should do the same, that they need a little space, so she can "find" herself, girl time.

Testosterone cannot neither match this psychosis, nor can it equal or surpass the undefeated, undisputed champion and their championship trophies for the title of being the most f***ed up hormone.

Testosterone has already lost before the first season ticket has been sold.

Not even a contest.



The 13th Warrior

Lol, Terra, Sal's offline...........hmmm.....its to early for her to sign-off......um......?!!! :p

Enjoy your evening Sal.

indiana jones and u...can definitely see that!

Here you go. Battery powered Indiana Jones:

Not necessarily true, I'm afraid.

Take someone with a charismatic personality. Some lead others to their death in weird cults, others lead people to successful lives in books, videos and speaking engagements, for example.

Both have charismatic personalities, but one of those charismatic personalities lacks morals, integrity, honesty and strength of character.

Terra