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Mum, I just don't want to be who you want me to be...

by MilkerFocus
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This is my life, I have right to be who I want to be. I don't want to regret when I am old. Why my family just don't understand. I don't want to be a copy cat, I want to be myself, the guy who does anything with his heart, his soul.

How's your family? Can you guys share with me?

Marcus
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    So go be your own person. Pursue your "heart and soul" - and pay your own way.

    Could it be the problem you have is wanting to do your "own thing" while having other people provide for your daily needs?
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    • Profile picture of the author MilkerFocus
      Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

      Could it be the problem you have is wanting to do your "own thing" while having other people provide for your daily needs?
      Yes. that's the problem I am facing~ I have to move out once I have enough budget...
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        It's not a problem - it's an opportunity. Your basic necessities are being given to you - while others have to work at anything they can find in order to eat.

        You should be grateful to have a family that provides for you instead of complaining about their expectations. When you take over your own life, you can do what you want. Until then- show some respect for those who take care of you by at least considering their opinions.
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          Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

          It's not a problem - it's an opportunity. Your basic necessities are being given to you - while others have to work at anything they can find in order to eat.

          You should be grateful to have a family that provides for you instead of complaining about their expectations. When you take over your own life, you can do what you want. Until then- show some respect for those who take care of you by at least considering their opinions.
          So true. I love them. But you know Kay, I am adult now, they always think that I am kid. :\ they do need to respect me as well.
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            Originally Posted by MilkerFocus View Post

            So true. I love them. But you know Kay, I am adult now, they always think that I am kid. : they do need to respect me as well.
            One day they WILL respect you... but they will never ever see you as anything else
            other then there child. ... Who needs protecting, guidense and love.


            you think being a child sucks.. try being a parent.. it brings it ti a completely different level
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            • Profile picture of the author MilkerFocus
              Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

              you think being a child sucks.. try being a parent.. it brings it ti a completely different level
              I don't want to be a parent ~
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              • Profile picture of the author kenmichaels
                Originally Posted by MilkerFocus View Post

                I don't want to be a parent ~
                That's what i said.

                I will bet 5 dollars 90% of the males reading this said the same thing.
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                • Profile picture of the author MilkerFocus
                  Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

                  That's what i said.

                  I will bet 5 dollars 90% of the males reading this said the same thing.
                  True, brother ~
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      • Profile picture of the author kenmichaels
        Originally Posted by MilkerFocus View Post

        Yes. that's the problem I am facing~ I have to move out once I have enough budget...
        screw a budget, if you really want to go.. you will.

        I once lived in a tent for over a year, only living off the land. Why you ask?

        because, i had to in order to be true to myself, no hand outs, no help, just my wits, skill and a little luck that helped me survive.

        Good luck
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        • Profile picture of the author MilkerFocus
          Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

          I once lived in a tent for over a year, only living off the land. Why you ask?
          because, i had to in order to be true to myself, no hand outs, no help, just my wits, skill and a little luck that helped me survive.
          Wow, that's good experience. That's freedom I am looking for!
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