Participation trophies ...
was dumb, possibly even a disservice to the children.
( possibly because i had to earn every trophy i ever got as a kid ---
which was exactly 1, until my teens )
However today, my 3.5 year old received a trophy.
It is his first sports team / league. ( soccer )
also his first trophy.
He wasn't particularly good, or bad. Maybe a smidge above average.
Friday I found out he was getting a trophy today, my reaction to
my wife was .. uhmm WHY?
Today however, when he received it, you should have seen the look on his face.
He was so excited and happy.
The entire ride home, he was asking if he could put it on one of the shelves with ours.
( His mom and I compete in several leagues and have 15 years worth of trophies )
unbeknownst to me, his mother gave him that idea.
I said sure ... when the moment came, he started asking about the other trophies.
real questions and then he said ....
I have to work extra hard next year to get one.
Up until that moment, I thought that little participation trophy was a
bad idea. I really did not want him to have it.
But after seeing the excitement.. then hearing him understand he has to work
harder next time.
... now I am completely rethinking my stance on the idea.
Sal
When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
Beyond the Path
Life: Nature's way of keeping meat fresh
Getting old ain't for sissy's
As you are I was, as I am you will be
You can't fix stupid, but you can always out smart it.
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