I'm moving out of the house....again

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Hi guys!

Last year, I had moved out of my parents' house for only a couple of months (Thread below) and I indeed survived:

http://www.warriorforum.com/mind-war...ve-my-own.html

Now why is it that I came back here? It is because my mom missed me so much, and so my dad. Also, after my sister's graduation in college, we as family took a 5-day vacation in Malaysia (4 days) and Singapore (1 day). I haven't enjoyed much because we had lack of sleep due to travel schedules, and also arguing at me and my sisters for making tiny mistakes, and treated like grade school children.

I only enjoy visiting famous places like Petronas, a street full of restaurants, the King's Palace, Central Market and so on. And in Singapore, we even go to Universal Studios and Sentosa. But overall, it's not gonna make me fully enjoy due to the treatment I received from my parents.

It's just that "it's hard for them to fully let me go.". I'm already 26, so I deserve to be independent and not treated like a grade school child. But I realize that if I stay longer in their home, it seems that their attitude towards me is not good at all, and it haunted me once again. They didn't even respect my job, my efforts trying to be successful, criticizing me for that thinking it's not gonna give me a long term opportunity, and thinking that the only way to make me stable is to have an old school job working 8 hours a day with minimum wage minus tax.

I didn't listen to them, I listened to myself because I know that this will make me a living, and I ain't gonna stop till seeing success in my life. Coz' I believe that if anyone can make a living with internet marketing, I CAN TOO!

Within this year, I am planning to move out of the house again. And this time, away from the city...FAR FAR AWAY.....FOR A VERY LONG TIME...or might not even come back to live here again (just visit only is fine)! I will even sell my desktop computer before leaving them (at least I still have my laptop), or even go to internet cafes for a cheap rate per hour I can afford. Dunno if I am gonna travel by bus, boat or airplane, coz' I already know how to deal with people I don't know. I even planned to apply for an Australian tourist visa, to live with one of my best friends there who will support me till my time is up. The experience I have survived last year at a cheap dormitory, I'm gonna use them like budgeting on food, laundry, etc. At least, I still had a decent stable online job who pays me very well without such problems.

My savings are already good enough, and keeps coming. For sure, they will be changing their good attitude to me again without my presence, to know that I am a grown man, and I am truly 26 (not a grade school kid). I already missed my freedom, and I had a great life being independent. This year, I'm gonna do it again but even more challenging than ever, and I'll take it.

Cheers!

Jeff

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