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Went to Fla. last Sat. to see my Dad who was in the hospital, being treated for a lingering case of pneumonia.

My Sister and Brother-in-law went down there as well. We went with the idea that we could help him to get better and eventually bring him to MI. where he wanted to be for the summer.

He turned out to be sicker than we thought. He apparently had gone downhill from the time we had talked to him 3 days before. By the time I arrived at the Hosp. Sat afternoon all he could whisper was "home".

We put him under hospice care Sun afternoon and he passed Mon morning at 2:30AM.

It was just like him to pass on Memorial Day so he wouldn't inconvience us in the future.

The pamplet the hospice nurse gave us to read, outlined almost word-for-word his decline, which had most likely started 2 months previous.

He was 80 years old. Never graduated form high school ,but managed to work his way up to Assistant Plant Manager at a General Motors plant here in MI. He was an avid fisherman both in MI and Fla. and like alot of people from his generation, could figure out how to fabricate or fix just about anything.

He is the person I always called first when I had a problem working on or repairing anything.

His passing leaves an extremely large hole in my life, not to mention making me responsible for maintaining our cottage in MI. and making sure my Mother is ok.

The viewing at the funeral home starts this evening and I know that is when his passing will really hit home for me.

Not looking forward to it.

Just had to get this off my chest and tell someone, even if is people I've never met.

Thanks to all who read this.

Rest In Peace.

Kenneth Magnus aka the answer man.
  • Profile picture of the author Mark Brian
    I'm sorry to hear your loss. I know it's a very tough time to bear. Your dad's in a better place now. I hope all is well with you and your family.

    Respectfully,
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  • Profile picture of the author Patrician
    My sincere condolences on the loss of your father. It sounds like there really will be a void where he used to be in your life. Fill it with the happy memories of him and he will always be with you in The Spirit. You were blessed to have him for the time you did.

    I am always thankful when someone's suffering is over and I really believe there is a better place than this. You will see him again when you get there.

    ... one day at a time.

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    • Profile picture of the author D.K. Magnus
      Thanks to all of those who replied.

      The funeral was yesterday.

      I really need to put my plans for my ghostwriting service into overdrive, but I'm having a hard time consentrating and my Mother is staying with me for a while too.

      And I really thought this was going to be a good summer!

      Thanks
      Dar
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      • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
        I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my mom yesterday, so I know exactly
        what you're going through.

        My prayers are with you and your family.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Motley
    Sounds like my father. He's one of those guys that no matter what it is, if its broken and you give it to him, it will com back fixed. Sometimes it may not come back looking like it originally did, but it would do the same job. All around my little home town, pop was infamous for being the go to guy if you needed something fixed. he was always tinkering or building something.

    I dont realize how much I miss him until i have to come up with an answer for something
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  • Profile picture of the author Audrey Harvey
    So sorry for your loss, Dar. My Dad passed 6 years ago on 18th July, and it's not something you get over in a hurry. Take care of yourself, and your mum.
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  • Profile picture of the author jacktackett
    D.K. ,condolences as well. As HeySal said about Steven's mom - this is a time to remember and celebrate their lives. If there's anything we can do to help out - your warrior family stands ready.

    peace,
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  • Profile picture of the author gnajnik
    Condolences to you and your family. Even though your dad lived until he was 80, it never seems like it's quite long enough.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    Strength and Courage Kenneth. It sounds like you had a wonderful man to look up to as you grew up. One day you will find the memories that now cause sadness will bring a smile and comfort. I hope that day comes soon for you.
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