I'm Nervous... I'm about to propose on valentines day

10 years ago

Well I can understand the nerves but I do hope she says yes, you have a jolly nice time in Paris and I wish you all the best for what is hopefully a very successful marriage.

Good for you.

I hope she doesn't spend too much time online and specifically does not visit the Warrior forum.

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Alex Sanderson

10 years ago

Originally Posted by Richard Van

Well I can understand the nerves but I do hope she says yes, you have a jolly nice time in Paris and I wish you all the best for what is hopefully a very successful marriage.

Good for you.

I hope she doesn't spend too much time online and specifically does not visit the Warrior forum.

I'm very positive she'll be saying "Yes". Thank you.

She's not into the online world as such yet, apart from facebook.

Alex

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Richard Van 10 years ago

Originally Posted by Alex Sanderson

I'm very positive she'll be saying "Yes". Thank you.

She's not into the online world as such yet, apart from facebook.

Alex

Good stuff, you'll have to come back here and post some pictures from up the Eiffel Tower when you get back.

Good luck Alex.
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- Alex Sanderson 10 years ago
  
  Originally Posted by Richard Van
  
  Good stuff, you'll have to come back here and post some pictures from up the Eiffel Tower when you get back.
  
  Good luck Alex.
  
  Oh yeah for sure, already planned that, i'm just hoping it's a nice day on valentines day, because if the weathers bad, we are not allowed up to the top.
  
  Will post some pics
  
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thunderbird

10 years ago

¡Buena suerte!

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Alex Sanderson 10 years ago

Originally Posted by thunderbird

¡Buena suerte!

I'll need it... I'm terrified, it's new horizons for me.

Alex
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johnben1444

10 years ago

Common young man, are you 16?

Do you need me to whoop your ass before you become a full grown man?

I hope that's encouraging.

Back to reality:

Being nervous can be associated with different things.

1. Do you really love her?
2. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with her?
3. Are you afraid of responsibility?
4. Do you have a stable source of income?
5. Do you have a past or does she has a past or something that keeps bugging your mind?
6. Are you being pressured into early marriage?
E.t.c

If you can truly find the reason why you are nervous and see if it's something you can tackle before the marriage then you will be fine.

Nevertheless, it's like that for a lot of folks.

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Alex Sanderson

10 years ago

Far from being 16 John, add another 10 years,

1 - Too right i do...
2 - Oh yes...
3 - No way..
4 - Oh yeah the internet does me proud...
5 - Nope not a thing...
6 - My own decision...

I think the nervs are just there's always that little chance of rejection, in the back of my mind.

Alex

Originally Posted by johnben1444

Common young man, are you 16?

Do you need me to whoop your ass before you come a full grown man?

I hope that's encouraging.

Back to reality:

Being nervous can be associated with different things.

1. Do you really love her?
2. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with her?
3. Are you afraid of responsibility?
4. Do you have a stable source of income?
E.t.c

If you can truly find the reason why you are nervous and see if it's something you can tackle then you will be alright.

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myleslast

10 years ago

Dude relax. She'll probably be so excited she wouldn't hear or notice half of the things you say or do.
If you can get on one knee, do it....women go nuts over that.

Everything is going to be fine. Trust me.

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HeySal

10 years ago

Yep, I agree, relax. If there is love there, it's hard to screw this one up fatally. Even if you pull the biggest, stupidest stunt in the history of proposals, the most that will happen is she'll want to wait a little while and you'll redeem yourself just fine. Have fun, relax, love, laugh, and discover everything over there and it will be a memory you'll cherish forever.

As far as nervous -- name one life-changing thing you ever did that didn't include a tad bit of stomach tightening? It's normal, very common, and goes away real fast when the anticipation turns into a done-deal.

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Dennis Gaskill

10 years ago

It's a major change, it's natural to be a little nervous about any major change. We are creatures who like our comfort zone. Congratulations on your engagement in advance.

Roll on...

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Karen Blundell 10 years ago

how romantic!
I wish you and your lady-love all the happiness in the world -
cheers!
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samfischer980

10 years ago

Every new thing or act (certainly commitment) gives us jitters, it will wear off.
I am getting ahead of myself ,but cheers mate for getting hitched .

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Alex Sanderson

10 years ago

Originally Posted by myleslast

Dude relax. She'll probably be so excited she wouldn't hear or notice half of the things you say or do.
If you can get on one knee, do it....women go nuts over that.

Everything is going to be fine. Trust me.

Yeah i'm taking the plunge, making sure i get on one knee!

Originally Posted by HeySal

Yep, I agree, relax. If there is love there, it's hard to screw this one up fatally. Even if you pull the biggest, stupidest stunt in the history of proposals, the most that will happen is she'll want to wait a little while and you'll redeem yourself just fine. Have fun, relax, love, laugh, and discover everything over there and it will be a memory you'll cherish forever.

As far as nervous -- name one life-changing thing you ever did that didn't include a tad bit of stomach tightening? It's normal, very common, and goes away real fast when the anticipation turns into a done-deal.

I'm sure everything will go to plan, i'm just one of those that thinks there's always that chance of something going wrong.

Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill

It's a major change, it's natural to be a little nervous about any major change. We are creatures who like our comfort zone. Congratulations on your engagement in advance.

Roll on...

Thank you Dennis

Originally Posted by Karen Blundell

how romantic!
I wish you and your lady-love all the happiness in the world -
cheers!

Thank you Karen, let's hope the answer is a "Yes"

Originally Posted by samfischer980

Every new thing or act (certainly commitment) gives us jitters, it will wear off.
I am getting ahead of myself ,but cheers mate for getting hitched .

Haha, thank you.

hmmm.... Next step, learn to dance, can't dance for toffee! (just for some who don't get it, when i mean toffee, i mean i'm useless haha)

Alex

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Daniel Evans 10 years ago

Originally Posted by Alex Sanderson

hmmm.... Next step, learn to dance, can't dance for toffee! (just for some who don't get it, when i mean toffee, i mean i'm useless haha)

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TLTheLiberator

10 years ago

Good luck!

Just make sure you want to get married for all the right reasons.

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Thunderbolt75201

10 years ago

Good luck mate

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Alex Sanderson

10 years ago

Originally Posted by TLTheLiberator

Good luck!

Just make sure you want to get married for all the right reasons.

Oh i am doing, she's wealthy

Haha.. only kidding.

Originally Posted by Thunderbolt75201

Good luck mate

Thank you...

Alex

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bizgrower

10 years ago

Originally Posted by Alex Sanderson

Oh i am doing, she's wealthy

Haha.. only kidding.

Thank you...

Alex

Well, as long as she is wealthy and good looking... or really, really old.

Seriously, congratulations and the best to you two. (Of course you'll be nervous
about one of the biggest things in life.)

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Alex Sanderson

10 years ago

Originally Posted by Dan Riffle

Alex:

Just give me all of your money and I'll kick you as hard as I can in the balls. That's the full married experience in ten minutes.

Was waiting for someone to say that...

Originally Posted by bizgrower

Well, as long as she is wealthy and good looking... or really, really old.

Seriously, congratulations and the best to you two. (Of course you'll be nervous
about one of the biggest things in life.)

Thank you

Alex

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Dan Riffle 10 years ago

Originally Posted by Alex Sanderson

Was waiting for someone to say that...

Alex

Come back in ten years and tell me I'm wrong. :p

Of course, I've been married for thirteen years, so I much enjoy the pain.
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Dan Riffle

10 years ago

Alex:

Just give me all of your money and I'll kick you as hard as I can in the balls. That's the full married experience in ten minutes.

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laurencewins

10 years ago

If you weren't nervous, you wouldn't be human. Any time you face a major change or decision in your life, the nerves will hit you. Use it as a positive sign that you're doing the right thing.

Good luck and may you both be very happy together forever.

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JimDucharme

10 years ago

I can only give you the advice my dad gave me 12 years ago:

If ever in the course of your marriage you are ever proven to be absolutely, completely irrevocably correct........
.....apologize immediately!

Hey, relax sir! If you're proposing in Paris, how can you miss?

Regards,
jim

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MikeTucker

10 years ago

By the gods, don't do it man!
You do realize that when you get married, you have to stay with her!?
For a really long time, too, because getting divorced is expensive!!

Women think about getting married.
Men think about being married.
A lot of men find that out the hard way!!

...But seriously, if you have found someone that makes
you laugh and smile, and you can stand to be around
each other that long, then I wish you all the happiness
you can handle.

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JimDucharme

10 years ago

Originally Posted by MikeTucker

By the gods, don't do it man!
You do realize that when you get married, you have to stay with her!?
For a really long time, too, because getting divorced is expensive!!

Women think about getting married.
Men think about being married.
A lot of men find that out the hard way!!

...But seriously, if you have found someone that makes
you laugh and smile, and you can stand to be around
each other that long, then I wish you all the happiness
you can handle.

What Tucker is trying to say is: Get a puppy.

Regards,
jim

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Alex Sanderson

10 years ago

Originally Posted by JimDucharme

I can only give you the advice my dad gave me 12 years ago:

If ever in the course of your marriage you are ever proven to be absolutely, completely irrevocably correct........
.....apologize immediately!

Hey, relax sir! If you're proposing in Paris, how can you miss?

Regards,
jim

Stranger things have happened...

Originally Posted by JimDucharme

What Tucker is trying to say is: Get a puppy.

Regards,
jim

Already tried that route...

Alex

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Rod Cortez

10 years ago

Originally Posted by Alex Sanderson

Guys... I'm nervous...

I'm about to take the plunge on valentines day and ask my love of my life to marry me.

I've already booked a few days to go to paris and i've also booked a fancy night out on valentines day.

I'm getting the jitters, it's a weird feeling!

Alex

Good luck with that Alex. I hope you're 100% sure that this is the right woman for you.

I'm curious, how long have you been dating?

RoD

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Alex Sanderson

10 years ago

Well.... She said "YES"

Had an awesome time!

Rod, been together just nearly 4 years now.

Alex

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Dan Riffle

10 years ago

Welcome to the end, Alex.

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inboxtrail

10 years ago

Congrats Alex

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HeySal

10 years ago

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Congratulations Alex.

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MissTerraK 10 years ago

Yes!

She said, Yes!

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