Canada Has Got Some VERY Ignorant People

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Westport, Newfoundland is an embarrassment to Canada: "Torrence Collier, 11, says he faces racism, extreme bullying in Westport"
  • Profile picture of the author candoit2
    Yes, and I went to school one year where I as a white person was a minority and had to fight every day,sometimes more than once, even after I had separated my collar bone in hockey. It was my initiation as they called it. If you are new and different from the rest kids are like that.
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  • Profile picture of the author TLTheLiberator
    There are ignorant people all over the world and there are many reasons people use to think and try to act like they're better than someone else - and race is just one of them.


    In the first grade a boy used to scare the crap out of me and threaten to beat me up almost every day.

    He would say... "I'm going to beat you up after school". And almost every day I would practically roll down a hill to get away from him.

    I told my sitter about it and she told me to pick up a stick and hit him in the head with it.

    The very next day after school, I found a stick and hid it behind my back,

    Once again he approached me and I waited for the boy to get close enough to strike - and that's exactly what I did. I co-cocked him upside the head and away he went went a-running.

    After that we became good friends.

    I suspect if this young Canadian actually hit someone with a stick he'd be charged with assault.

    Maybe this news will prompt the parents of the offenders to talk to their kids and perhaps they will relent. I hope it will.
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    • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
      Originally Posted by TLTheLiberator View Post

      Maybe this news will prompt the parents of the offenders to talk to their kids and perhaps they will relent. I hope it will.
      I hope so too, but I wouldn't be surprised if it doesn't. Bullies are often the children of bullies, so it's a learned behavior, which kind of reduces the odds the parents will do much. They may even be taught that's how you have act in order to get what you want or to avoid being pushed around. And, many times bullies are abused and think abusing others is normal behavior.

      Seen too much bullying to hold out hope that the parents would be of great help. I hope I'm completely wrong about that.
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  • Profile picture of the author bravo75
    I noticed in Canada, that there are not all that many blacks. Maybe that's why black kids get bullied, because there are not enough of them to defend themselves.

    I don't think you see to many natives getting bullied because there are more of them and they are tough b@stards.

    Newfies are also not known to be the brightest bunch of people ever to have graced gods earth. It's like they just got of a boat from Ireland in the 18th century. Time has stood still in Newfie land.
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    • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
      Originally Posted by bravo75 View Post

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      Newfies are also not known to be the brightest bunch of people ever to have graced gods earth. It's like they just got of a boat from Ireland in the 18th century. Time has stood still in Newfie land.
      Wow, the Newfie reputation has permeated the UK? A Japanese guy who bicycled across Canada told me that the friendliest people he ever met were Newfoundlanders. Anyway, I'm sure Newfoundland has produced its fair share of highfalutin' super-accomplished and intellectually elevated people -- but they probably aren't based in Westport, Newfoundland.
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      • Profile picture of the author bravo75
        Originally Posted by thunderbird View Post

        Wow, the Newfie reputation has permeated the UK? A Japanese guy who bicycled across Canada told me that the friendliest people he ever met were Newfoundlanders. Anyway, I'm sure Newfoundland has produced its fair share of highfalutin' super-accomplished and intellectually elevated people -- but they probably aren't based in Westport, Newfoundland.
        I actually lived in Canada. I met a lot of Newfies while over in Alberta. Good lads, just not very bright.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    Kids can be extremely cruel - and it isn't just about race. It's about anything that is different that they can target. Up to about age 5 kids are okay with just about anything or anyone breathing. Then they get into school and they start to form cliques of friends.......and from that point on, unless you can instill some very strong empathy in them, if you are different, they will torture you.

    I hate to say it, but that's part of the instinctual side of our minds working. That's why parents have to actually RAISE their children to be empathetic people.
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    • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

      Kids can be extremely cruel - and it isn't just about race. It's about anything that is different that they can target. Up to about age 5 kids are okay with just about anything or anyone breathing. Then they get into school and they start to form cliques of friends.......and from that point on, unless you can instill some very strong empathy in them, if you are different, they will torture you.

      I hate to say it, but that's part of the instinctual side of our minds working. That's why parents have to actually RAISE their children to be empathetic people.
      One thing that has surprised me watching my son, 4, play with kids is the range of personalities displayed by children younger than 5. Some are distinctly friendly and others are downright vicious. Some are stoic while others cry over the smallest little thing. Even my son gets confused over why some kids cry over anything and has asked me about it. I say, "Hey, you're the 4 year old. How about you explain it to me," to which he shakes his head and replies, "Beats me." He is a little trouble-maker, but always has a big smile on his face while wreaking havoc.

      Anyway, it was kind of ignorant of me to start this thread. I was sleepy and reacted emotionally to that article in posting it. You are never too old to be immature.
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  • Profile picture of the author alistair
    I don't know whether I was lucky at primary school but all my class got on and there was never any bullying. Our headmaster was meant to retire the year before we moved up to secondary school but stayed an extra year just to stay until we all left.

    Secondary school was pretty much the same. There was one kid that was a bit of a bully to one particular kid in our class but it never got really nasty, probably because nobody ever ganged up on him and did at times stand up for him, plus the bully kid was just trying to act like he was hard, but that was it. I remember seeing he was on Friends Reunited years ago and actually apologised to antybody he had picked on. Obviously with age he had realised he was a bit of a d1ck at school and had come to regret it.

    Having said all of that though we were all English and white. I really don't think it would have been any different if a kid was "different" to the rest of us though, I just think we were all brought up right, and that's the truth.

    I remember when I was probably about 12, a family that lived in our road had relations come over from Canada. One was a kid a bit younger than us but we all befriended him right away. I suppose we liked him because he was different to us, wasn't white like us and spoke with what we considered at that age, a cool accent. I can't imagine any of my friends bullying that kid, and if we did I know my parents at least would have done something about it.
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  • Profile picture of the author socialentry
    if mike tyson was prime minister it would not happen
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    • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
      Originally Posted by socialentry View Post

      if mike tyson was prime minister it would not happen


      (Yeah, that is typical Canadian attire)
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  • Profile picture of the author socialentry
    y u do that face thunderbird, u mad?
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    • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
      Originally Posted by socialentry View Post

      y u do that face thunderbird, u mad?
      That's just a typical Canadian expression. We're a different culture, you know.
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  • Profile picture of the author socialentry
    Hm. I have never seen anyone express agreement in this fashion.

    BC sure is strange. Must be the Pacific weather.

    It is now on my list of places to visit before I die.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    You think they're different in BC - you should check out the East coast.
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