How can I market my business and get traffic WITHOUT the Google Gargoyle?

Hi all - well, Google dropped BOTH of my my sites - AGAIN. No sooner had they started to index each of them and WHAMMO, they're gone, delisted.

I've worked so FKN hard to get several of my pages to the first page on Google and BAM, they knocked me down again.

So, I need some advice on how to bypass Google and get my traffic moving again because I am seriously LOSING BUSINESS. I haven't made a bookmarks sale in weeks because ... nobody finds my site anymore on their keyword searches, which was bringing me in over 100 uniques a day! Now I'm down to less than 40!!!

I'm talking about these two sites:
1. Bookmark Wedding Favors and Custom Laminated Bookmarks for All Occasions and
2. General Transcription & Home Business Information from Musselman's Online Publishing

Gone from the index for the third time. It's like, I no sooner start getting some solid gradual links, up to a PR2 on some pages, PR1 on others, between #1 and #5 for my main keywords and ....

I mean, it feels like one of my competitors is in Google's pocket and as soon as they see my sites passing theirs and making sales, my site's gone!!

I am really, completely LIVID right now, so I need a way to "stick it" to Google and start getting sales and traffic from other resources. And no, I can't afford to BUY into AdWords, which is probably what they want and I'm not going to give them the satisfaction. There has got to be another way besides Google this and Google that.

I'm open to suggestions. Google can't really be "all that and a bag o' chips" when it comes to succeeding online, can it? Are they really that much of a monopoly? The God of the Internet? If so, I'm FKN ruined!!!

Thanks for letting me vent...