Some Important Steps To Real, Measurable Personal Change:

• 1. Decision - Know The Behavior You WANT (do not give attention or thought to the behavior you don't want (it gets enough attention as it is already!))
  2. Leverage - You need a powerfully motivating reason. For some, they have to be willing to painfully imagine, vividly, without mercy, projected the outcome of their failure to adopt the new behavior. For example - what will failure to adopt the new habit mean for you in six months,

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A sterling fellow - a senior in this forum and outstanding individual - asked the following question regarding what to do about someone close who gives in to doubt and begins to try and convince YOU to raise the white flag of surrender as an entrepreneur:

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I'm talking to YOU and YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE, and you know HOW YOU REALLY ARE, and you know EXACTLY what I'm talking ABOUT.

Here, at the end of the year, the great majority here can look back and realize that they have not done what they set out to do; they have not BECOME what they set out to become.

Many are already regretting, fearing, chastising themselves, and beset by a vague feeling of desperation - and right now you're running pictures in your head with that inner...

One Warrior is currently dealing with the problem of LONELINESS and FEELINGS OF LONELINESS during a long, solitary workday.

Their question was as follows:

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Here's an illustration of utilizing THOUGHT in the Success-building and Wealth-building Process:

Right now, you may have an idea that you would like to GET RICH, that you would like to KNOW HOW TO GET RICH; that currently, YOU HAVE TO INTERPRET AND MASTER THE SECRET OF GETTING RICH.

That's what thoughts tell you, and what you 'think' of as you telling yourself.

You perceive the thought, it is in your head, it sounds like you (it is, after all bounding around...