Does Just Being Helpful Sell?

by rimam1
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I'm not a copywriter... but as a buyer, I'd just like the seller to be cool with me and say:

"Here's a problem lots of people have... and here are some really cool tricks you can use to solve it... oh and by the way, we have a product that makes it even easier to solve your problem... check it out, we think you'll like it"

No hypey headline, no exaggerated claims, no false scarcity... just honest, helpful advice the prospect can benefit from even if he doesn't buy from you. I figure that people will appreciate that honesty, trust you, and eventually buy from you. You *just* might earn enough good will for people to actually refer their friends to you.

Am I being too simple-minded about this?
#helpful #sell
  • Profile picture of the author shawnlebrun
    Raza,

    You summed up selling better than most marketers on this board.

    And you answered your own question... when you mentioned what you liked as a buyer.

    What would you prefer?

    Someone asking you what you're looking for, then showing you what would help you get that, and then offering helpful advice, talking with you about any objections or issues, and then recommending the best product possible.

    Or, a high pressure sales person literally trying to force something onto you.

    People don't like to be sold to, but they like to buy. so top sales people just help people buy.

    It's nothing more than finding out what the prospect is motivated to have/do/get... and then giving that to them.

    But you're 100% right and hit the nail on the head.
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    • Profile picture of the author Lance K
      Originally Posted by shawnlebrun View Post

      It's nothing more than finding out what the prospect is motivated to have/do/get... and then giving that to them.
      Right. You cannot motivate someone else. You have to find their existing motivation and demonstrate how your offer helps to satisfy it.
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    • Profile picture of the author Make Money Ninja
      Originally Posted by shawnlebrun View Post

      Raza,

      You summed up selling better than most marketers on this board.

      And you answered your own question... when you mentioned what you liked as a buyer.

      What would you prefer?

      Someone asking you what you're looking for, then showing you what would help you get that, and then offering helpful advice, talking with you about any objections or issues, and then recommending the best product possible.

      Or, a high pressure sales person literally trying to force something onto you.

      People don't like to be sold to, but they like to buy. so top sales people just help people buy.

      It's nothing more than finding out what the prospect is motivated to have/do/get... and then giving that to them.

      But you're 100% right and hit the nail on the head.
      This.

      I have found that doing this, were 95% of the time you are just being helpful and suggesting products that help when they are relevent.

      Then once you have a trusted following, when you pull out the hard sell for the 5% of the time.

      Because people like you, trust you, find your shit helpful, they will whip out their credit cards straight away.

      My experience anyway.

      My attitude to freeloaders is this: I can make them a buyer. So the more people i can entice on my list. I will eventually get a sale from them. They will keep looking at my emails because they are a mix of value/sale/valuesale at same time. Eventually they will just buy something. Especially if you offer at different price points.

      At the end of the day, it costs nothing to have someone on your list. If you send them 1000 emails over say 10 years, they will buy once, some will buy 10 times etc. Its just about being prolific imo. But what do i know, i only make $5-10k month, im not a bigtime guru.
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  • Profile picture of the author Andrew Gould
    To answer your subject line:

    No.

    Just being helpful tends to attract tire-kickers and free-loaders who not only won't buy, but will complain about you even trying to sell to them.

    But for the rest of your post:

    That's the structure I use to sell.

    It's worked for me in IM, computer repair, Photoshop, photography, joint mobility, employment, and several other niches.
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    • Profile picture of the author rimam1
      Thanks guys.

      I figure most people are tire kickers anyways... so even if they don't buy, at least they learn something useful... and who knows, they might come back later.

      I actually read a sales page about 15 times over the course of a few years. I was even an affiliate for the product (in the fitness market). I sold dozens of copies of the product but never actually bought it.

      But I always referred to the sales page because the guy actually had some rock solid info on his sales page. He earned my trust like crazy. And when the time was right, I eventually bought.

      Perry Marshall does a great job of this in the IM niche. I also really like Rusty Moore's approach in the fitness niche. His muscle building salespage has 4 short videos with really unique information... then he very subtly says you can buy his full course for more detailed information.

      I really like that. Even if I don't buy right away, these guys stay in my mind for a long time and I eventually come back when the time is right.
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  • Profile picture of the author Clix
    You'd be surprised. There's tons of people out there that aren't as intelligent as you and don't see through the flashiness of over selling. Some people respond to that. Best bet is to try selling whatever your selling both ways and see which segment of the population is buying.
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  • Profile picture of the author shawnlebrun
    Good point Andrew... you can't JUST give... you gotta ask for the sale too.

    I like using something like 75% helpful advice, and weave in 25% persuasion tactics.

    But you're right... that's where traditional sales people may have trouble when it comes time to "close"

    They talk and talk, and try to help and help... and never ask for the sale.

    That can actually backfire and unsell someone.

    So, Andrew is right... be helpful... but also, don't be afraid to say...

    "Look, this is what you need, this will help you... it's in your best interests to get it, so do that now"

    Try to tie in how much it will help them, but you still gotta drag them across the finish line... don't stop short.
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  • Profile picture of the author Clix
    It all depends on the traffic source really. I find you'll have better luck with flashy pressure type copy with paid traffic and better luck with quality, low pressure copy with organic traffic.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mark Pescetti
    If you have a solution that actually helps people a ton, there's no need to exagerate or kick up some fake scarcity.

    Effective copy should be able to say BIG things, without coming across fake.

    A lot of the BS out there is born out of crap products - and copy that's trying to over compensate.

    And dammit...

    It's NOT hype - IF the copy hit all of the right buttons.

    Focus on emotion and use the correct tone to trigger what you're prospects are already feeling.

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  • Profile picture of the author Steve Hill
    It's a classic approach to effective salesmanship.

    A couple of related books that have withstood the test of time are:

    "How I Raised Myself from Failure to Success in Selling" by Frank Bettger

    and

    "The Secret of Selling Anything" by Harry Browne

    As others here have pointed out, there is always room for fine-tuning, but these core bedrock principles haven proven effective for decades. Some of the most successful salesmen I know of are using these techniques, which are similar to what you suggested.
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  • Profile picture of the author Raydal
    I remember listening to Dan Kennedy talking about this very
    subject and saying that free doesn't work. He was talking
    in the context of consulting and how some people would take
    advantage of you if you don't charge them.

    I've had subscribers to my list for over 7 years who never
    bought a product from me. One subscriber once asked for
    a quote for a sales letter and then thought it was too high.
    So he basically refused the offer. I thought that he would
    unsubscribe when I switched autoresponder services, but
    he signed up again!

    Goes to show ...

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  • Thanks to social media the good people expect the interweb and all that is in it...

    To be FREE.

    Ok, they "get" that they do have to buy at amazon and the big sites.

    But everything else should be free, free set me free.

    (if Facebook charged just a couple of bucks a month, yes they would lose 1/2 a billion users - but MAKE $4 billion a MONTH from the others)

    Anyway, if you're selling something on the web - to stand a cat in hells chance, you've got to start by giving something valuable free.

    And then spend the rest of eternity trying to flog them your stuff.

    Have I ever mentioned it's a lot easier using Postcards and Flyers?


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    • Profile picture of the author Steve Hill
      Originally Posted by Steve The Copywriter View Post

      Anyway, if you're selling something on the web - to stand a cat in hells chance, you've got to start by giving something valuable free.

      And then spend the rest of eternity trying to flog them your stuff
      That's one approach, and as Andrew said, you'll attract tire-kickers and free-loaders who not only won't buy, but will complain about you even trying to sell to them.

      But another approach is to offer something of value at a small cost.

      While the offer will attract less people, they'll be much more likely a) value the content, b) remember you, and c) become customers in the future.
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  • Steve,

    Good point. A way to do it, is say and prove that the "small cost" will go to charity.

    The free, free, free mindsets don't feel they have "spent" their money on the site (in other words they haven't broken their interweb habit of a lifetime and actually bought).

    And as you said, once they get the value from the material they realise they will have to buy (and be OK doing it) because they want more good stuff.


    Steve


    P.S. Another way to stop the perpetual freeloaders is to explain with a dash of diplomacy -

    "You get what you pay for"
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    • Profile picture of the author Steve Hill
      Originally Posted by Steve The Copywriter View Post

      Good point. A way to do it, is say and prove that the "small cost" will go to charity.

      The free, free, free mindsets don't feel they have "spent" their money on the site (in other words they haven't broken their interweb habit of a lifetime and actually bought).

      And as you said, once they get the value from the material they realise they will have to buy (and be OK doing it) because they want more good stuff.
      I don't know about giving away the profits, since part of the idea is for the buyers to become used to paying you for quality information. The associations of value, credibility, and authority get built at the same time, too.

      If it's quality information that took time and effort to put together, then it could be sold on its own at a higher price. They're getting the reward and satisfaction of a good deal (value) in a way they'd not get if it was free. If the money is just going to be given away anyway, would that lessen the perceived value?

      That initial small payment is a means to controlling the selling process, starting with that first premium to get them into the marketing funnel (your selling process). If there is no system for selling and reselling to customers, then the somewhat random buying processes of the customers are in control.

      If they raise their hand and say they are interested enough to make that small investment, then that's a quality customer and someone that is a buyer. As Dan Kennedy said, "A buyer is a buyer is a buyer."

      Of course, this depends on having a selling process and something to sell (and upsell, cross-sell and otherwise keep them engaged while providing value along the way as the OP asked). If the idea is just to get signups for a blog, then a free report in exchange for a signup is probably fine.

      Freebies definitely have their uses in marketing, though. For example, Rich Schefren's free Internet Business Manifesto helped to launch his business in a big way. Because it was free, it was able to go viral.

      Likewise, freebies can be a way to provide extra value to the customers on your list that did commit to the initial purchase (perhaps educating or training them to need future products, like Copyblogger did).

      Kennedy does go into this free-or-not-free angle, although I don't have a citation here. TJ Rohleder does too, and I know I've seen it elsewhere.
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  • No, I don't mean give away the profits.

    Just the small nominal cost for the "first" product (which isn't making any money anyway).

    The example I gave is for lists which are chocked full to the rafters with hardcore "we don't buy anything cos it's free" crowd.


    Most site owners prolong the "it is always FREE" viewpoint by constantly giving away more free stuff.

    Kennedy is right a "buyer is a buyer" but on the interweb colossal numbers are not. And don't ever intend to be.

    It can help to use very contrarian tactics to persuade them to become one.


    I often think one of the best ways is "block" the multitudes of freeloaders and only ever sell (and give away something really valuable after the good people have bought).

    Rather than endlessly giving free, free, free (it's a huge amount of time, cost and effort) hoping that the wonderful law of reciprocation kicks in and they will eventually buy.

    But it doesn't always work as quickly as you want or in high enough numbers.

    Must be a easier to laser target the top notch interweb users who want to buy without all the fuss.


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  • Profile picture of the author RichBeck
    Originally Posted by rimam1 View Post

    I'm not a copywriter... but as a buyer, I'd just like the seller to be cool with me and say:

    "Here's a problem lots of people have... and here are some really cool tricks you can use to solve it... oh and by the way, we have a product that makes it even easier to solve your problem... check it out, we think you'll like it"

    No hypey headline, no exaggerated claims, no false scarcity... just honest, helpful advice the prospect can benefit from even if he doesn't buy from you. I figure that people will appreciate that honesty, trust you, and eventually buy from you. You *just* might earn enough good will for people to actually refer their friends to you.

    Am I being too simple-minded about this?
    rimam,

    In my experience, "being helpful" by giving away "solutions" doesn't help you sell your own products... It trains people to expect "solutions"... for free.

    As Make Money Ninja stated, "being helpful" can work for those who are affiliates promoting many products... In time, you'll promote so many products you'll eventually turn most of your list into buyers... They key word is eventually...

    Since you are selling your own product, I would take a different approach....

    Create a simple sales page...

    I would clearly state the problem.....

    Aggravate the problem....

    Show empathy....

    Show you understand the problem.....

    Tell them you have the solution....

    Ask for the sale.....

    Of course, this is a rough outline "off the top of my head"... It is by no means exhaustive...

    I'm one who believes there is a huge difference between a "freebie seeker" and a buyer... I wouldn't give them a "solution" for free...

    I would offer the "really cool tricks you can use to solve it" for $7..... and the "product that makes it even easier to solve your problem" for $47... or whatever you think is "appropriate."

    If your "really cool tricks you can use to solve it" isn't worth $7, you need ditch it and find a new solution.... or find an entirely new problem and a new solution.

    All The Best,

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  • Profile picture of the author Loren Woirhaye
    yes, in a content marketing scenario.

    Creating non-crap content however is not always
    simple or easy, especially in crowded content
    markets.... like blogs about picking up women
    or whatever.

    Good content will get you trust. Effective promotion
    of good content will get you a following of people
    who trust you.

    From there, it's pretty easy to sell some stuff. Maybe
    not huge amounts of stuff. You won't get away
    with resting on your laurels for long usually.

    ... and getting into that position of credibility can
    take a lot of work so I recommend choosing a niche
    that is both economically viable and personally
    interesting to you.

    ... 'cause if it bores you, you're in for a sucky ride.
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    • Originally Posted by Loren Woirhaye View Post

      ... and getting into that position of credibility can
      take a lot of work so I recommend choosing a niche
      that is both economically viable and personally
      interesting to you.

      ... 'cause if it bores you, you're in for a sucky ride.
      Exactly. Sometimes gurus say you can be an expert in any field. True, but unless you are interested in the topic, it's a grind. Your tribe will sense your lack of enthusiasm, and drift to other experts.
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  • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
    Originally Posted by rimam1 View Post

    I'm not a copywriter... but as a buyer, I'd just like the seller to be cool with me and say:

    "Here's a problem lots of people have... and here are some really cool tricks you can use to solve it... oh and by the way, we have a product that makes it even easier to solve your problem... check it out, we think you'll like it"

    No hypey headline, no exaggerated claims, no false scarcity... just honest, helpful advice the prospect can benefit from even if he doesn't buy from you. I figure that people will appreciate that honesty, trust you, and eventually buy from you. You *just* might earn enough good will for people to actually refer their friends to you.

    Am I being too simple-minded about this?
    I don't know if this approach works better in print. I'm constantly disappointed that I sell more online with Hypey copy.

    But in person? Yup. Customers generally want to buy from the exact person you created in your post. It's nearly the approach I use. And while it's very complex below the surface, the way it looks to the buyers is as you stated.
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    • Profile picture of the author ECTally
      Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

      I don't know if this approach works better in print. I'm constantly disappointed that I sell more online with Hypey copy.

      But in person? Yup. Customers generally want to buy from the exact person you created in your post. It's nearly the approach I use. And while it's very complex below the surface, the way it looks to the buyers is as you stated.
      You make an interesting observation, Claude.
      If I may expand on that, I think it has much to do with the tangibility of the product.
      More often than not, when we're writing about intangible products online, we're actually selling a dream. And dreams are anything but honest (damn you, Tina Fey and Alfa Romeo 4C)!
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      • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
        Originally Posted by ECTally View Post

        You make an interesting observation, Claude.
        If I may expand on that, I think it has much to do with the tangibility of the product.
        More often than not, when we're writing about intangible products online, we're actually selling a dream. And dreams are anything but honest (damn you, Tina Fey and Alfa Romeo 4C)!
        And I think you make an interesting observation.

        Selling an intangible is different in many ways from selling a thing. Selling an intangible is selling a result, or a dream...depending on who is buying.

        But I think "Honesty" simply can't apply here. You can manage expectations, so that the customer is more likely to be happy...but you can't honestly tell them what their dreams actually are...or that they will come true.
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  • Profile picture of the author max5ty
    Originally Posted by rimam1 View Post

    I'm not a copywriter... but as a buyer, I'd just like the seller to be cool with me and say:

    "Here's a problem lots of people have... and here are some really cool tricks you can use to solve it... oh and by the way, we have a product that makes it even easier to solve your problem... check it out, we think you'll like it"

    No hypey headline, no exaggerated claims, no false scarcity... just honest, helpful advice the prospect can benefit from even if he doesn't buy from you. I figure that people will appreciate that honesty, trust you, and eventually buy from you. You *just* might earn enough good will for people to actually refer their friends to you.

    Am I being too simple-minded about this?
    A lot of magalogs and advertorials are designed like you describe.

    They give loads of tips and helpful advice, then offer a product to the reader.

    The new form of sales letters that seem to be sneaking onto the internet come across as news stories, then sneakily offer the reader a product. The other day I was reading the headlines on Yahoo when a headline caught my attention about the financial markets. I was almost all the way through it before I realized it was an advertorial...kept reading though because it was so darn interesting.

    I went back to see if it was marked as an ad. Yep, it was marked, but it was so tiny and in such an odd place I hadn't noticed it.

    Pretty smart really.

    I know some will say these type of letters aren't new, but they seem to have evolved into highly sophisticated pieces now that are completely disguised in ways they didn't use to be.
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  • Profile picture of the author Bill Jeffels
    Offer a Free Report. Giving away some solid great information that the prospect can actually use.

    But, don't give away the big "Secret" to what ever it is your selling. Answer all your prospects objections in the last part of your Free Report and why they need to buy your info product or whatever it is your selling.

    How they're going to get the big benefit by buying your product. Also, a lot of people have it in their minds that their not going to get "The Big Secret" unless they actually pay for it anyway.


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  • Profile picture of the author shipwrecked
    Shortly, I don't think simply being helpful sells. But it certainly creates the best credibility, reputation that no advertisement or "trick" can get you.
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  • Profile picture of the author ronrule
    Originally Posted by rimam1 View Post

    I'm not a copywriter... but as a buyer, I'd just like the seller to be cool with me and say:

    "Here's a problem lots of people have... and here are some really cool tricks you can use to solve it... oh and by the way, we have a product that makes it even easier to solve your problem... check it out, we think you'll like it"

    No hypey headline, no exaggerated claims, no false scarcity... just honest, helpful advice the prospect can benefit from even if he doesn't buy from you. I figure that people will appreciate that honesty, trust you, and eventually buy from you. You *just* might earn enough good will for people to actually refer their friends to you.

    Am I being too simple-minded about this?
    It's a great strategy for a soft lead - you build credibility as an expert in your field, while simultaneously offering a solution that "does the work". Kind of like when Ross made the Google Authorship plugin for Wordpress, anyone could do that by hand but for most bloggers it was easier to pay a few dollars for a plugin that did the work.

    I have a WSO open about Google AdWords that teaches people to use this exact same approach to get companies to pay them to manage their Adwords campaigns - and it works for 70% of the people you'll approach. But for that other 30%, all you did by showing your hand was tell them what they needed to do so they don't have to pay you.

    Tread carefully when using this approach and make sure you pitch it to the right audience - if they're technically-minded cheapskates, telling them exactly what to do will result in losing the sale. But if they're non-technical people who need to solve a problem, they will appreciate your honesty and buy your product. It's your job to qualify them before you make your pitch.
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  • Profile picture of the author Ross Bowring
    It depends on the type of "helpful content" you offer. Generally speaking, in my experience, one type of content gets virtually no buying response. Another type gets a big buying response.

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