So much for list relationships, I just bought from a spammer
Well, today something happened to me which had made me question the whole "relationship with your list" thing. Hear me out:
I received an email for a MMO product (FB Advertising related). It was from some guy I'd never heard of (the email)...Let's call him Dave. I know for a fact I didn't subscribe to Dave's list (at least intentionally...). I also know Dave has built no relationship with me at all. In fact, I couldn't tell you if I received any emails from Dave before.
Instead, the message was compelling and I bit. I did a little bit of due diligence to make sure the product truly existed and read some online reviews. I bought the product. Dave earned his affiliate commission. (Perhaps another surprising aspect of this story is that the product actually didn't suck). Zero pre-existing relationship.
Conversely, I receive a number of emails from people who are clearly trying to build a relationship with me. I say this because I start recognizing the names. Now, just recognizing the names doesn't imply a relationship, but they're trying. Here's the thing: I haven't bought a single thing from them. In fact, I mentally discount their emails already. Mostly this is because they think that sending me offers every day is relationship building (hint: it's not).
Anyway, my observation is merely that either the relationship isn't that important, or that most people don't in fact know how to build a relationship, or that I'm a complete idiot for buying from what was effectively a spam email
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