For Things To Change You Must First Change

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It's amazing how many people do the same thing over and over expecting some miracle to take place. You can just go to the facebook groups to see that.

In order for us to learn new ways (the correct way) we need to step out of our comfort zone and learn to do something different.

I see so many people standing on the corner waiting for the success bus to come pick them up.

The bus isn't coming...

You need to do it yourself.

How?

Stop hanging out with the same people and find new friends that can take you higher.

The truth is the higher up you go the less friends you will find you have!

Take the same strategy with your IM business and you can get the results your looking to get but if you keep going around saying this is never going to happen then you might as well hang your hat up now.

Biggest thing for me...

I found people a lot, lot more successful than me and I started hanging out, learning how to think like these successful people.

The results!

The best time of my life... ;-)
#change #dreams #getting things done #things
  • Profile picture of the author icoachu
    REAL TALK!

    Thanks, TS.

    I couldn't have said it better myself.

    Our outer world is NOTHING but a reflection of our INNER WORLD.
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Guilfoyle
    There's an old saying that you earn the average of the 5 people you associate with the most.
    I find it a little harsh that you are suggesting you leave your old friends behind. Tell them what you are doing and give them the opportunity to travel the road with you. Many will ridicule your plans- well then that's their choice to stay behind.
    Jim Rohn said that If you want to change your situation, you have to change...
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  • Profile picture of the author Jonathan Vodini
    when i feel to not truly believe in myself i watch this video, when i feel that i'm not enough skilled i watch this video, when i think that i'm not going to succeed i watch this video, when i look around my self and not seeing the results i wish i watch this video, since a while this video become a kind of mantra for me and anytime i fear to fail one more time...guess what i do?

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  • Profile picture of the author Houlian
    Yes -- find people more successful than you and hang out with them as often as possible -- it works!
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  • Profile picture of the author Jonathan Vodini
    Originally Posted by EPoltrack77 View Post

    The truth is the higher up you go the less friends you will find you have!
    that's the sign when you are about to change and succeed!
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    The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
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  • Profile picture of the author RevenueGal
    Some good thoughts.

    I would say it boils down to finding the right mentor (s). And getting busy with "action". Some people stay stuck on step 1...and keep trying to learn and learn and learn. Some of the best learning experiences is through the process of doing.
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  • Profile picture of the author jeronamo
    I couldn't agree more. You are the company that you keep. Although, I agree with the above comments to try and bring those old friends along with the journey. If they lack vision and drive though, you may be better off distancing yourself while you focus on your dreams.
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  • Profile picture of the author kdrinky12
    Bob Proctors Think and Grow Rich video series was the best learning experience of my life. It got me to change the way I think, who I associate with and basicly got me out of old bad habits and develope new good habits. Great Post.
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  • Profile picture of the author Christopherava
    Exactly, The world worships the original.
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  • Profile picture of the author wesleywinter
    Great post! Action is key for anyone wanting to make anything online.

    You could literally read everything, watch every video and if you still don't take action you will get nowhere.
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  • Profile picture of the author JaxAttacks
    Good advice. You definitely have to change yourself before things in your life change. Surrounding yourself with successful people is key.
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  • Profile picture of the author Robert999
    Originally Posted by EPoltrack77 View Post

    It's amazing how many people do the same thing over and over expecting some miracle to take place. You can just go to the facebook groups to see that.

    In order for us to learn new ways (the correct way) we need to step out of our comfort zone and learn to do something different.

    I see so many people standing on the corner waiting for the success bus to come pick them up.

    The bus isn't coming...

    You need to do it yourself.

    How?

    Stop hanging out with the same people and find new friends that can take you higher.

    The truth is the higher up you go the less friends you will find you have!

    Take the same strategy with your IM business and you can get the results your looking to get but if you keep going around saying this is never going to happen then you might as well hang your hat up now.

    Biggest thing for me...

    I found people a lot, lot more successful than me and I started hanging out, learning how to think like these successful people.

    The results!

    The best time of my life... ;-)
    Yes hanging out with more successful page will give you inspiration and lot more to learn.
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  • Profile picture of the author Randall Magwood
    Good imagery and allegories. Your post is accurate. Everybody wants to go to Heaven but nobody wants to die. Furthermore.... they don't even want to stop sinning!

    Anyway, sometimes the only people in life that you can help 150% is yourself. The best thing you can do is offer clean drinking water. Those who want to drink it, let them drink. Those who ask 21 questions about where you got the water from.... let them die of dehydration.
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  • Hello Epoltrack77

    beautiful, beautiful reflection but also true!

    Thank's!!
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