Is $1300 a good price?

That double sided thing is all wrong. Hopefully that is getting resolved.

Please tell me you are moving away from Weebly and getting your own hosting and setting up a nice Wordpress site?

Please tell me you are converting this to a private membership site, with your videos stashed inside and a nice members area, with a forum for members to communicate?

Sorry to take you off course from your initial inquiry.

No clue what your friends capabilities are for editing and driving traffic or even what the quality of the videos are themselves.

Hey Mr Sensitive

In post #5 you may want to delete the last sentence asking a person to come back at you with questions makes this thread a follow me thread and not allowed under new rules.

And they like to nuke threads like this.

You have zero backlinks on three 3rd party link checkers, a small 13 page site & no on-page SEO.

Delete this

If you would like to discuss the substance of my relationship system I welcome you. Please read the material and come back to me with specific questions.

Not me , the mods remove them if remove the sentence be good to see the thread last a bit or not up to you

First off, you tell your guy to move you away from Weebly ASAP... Then work on a fresh new design. Preferably, a premium wordpress theme on 'relationship' will do your website wonders...

Start from there. If you're on a budget, start with the $1300 deal, if not, scale up as soon as you can. It's a profitable niche. I know.

K

The seduction community.

It's been a while since I've heard about it. I remember how I was almost obsessed about this. I used to spend hours reading, watching videos and taking notes.

There was mASF which was actually a home for some cool people (and many keyboard jockeys).

Seduction lead me to self-development and self-development lead me to everything else. I think I've learned more about persuasion from dating then from Cialdini .

Leaving this aside ...

What the heck are you paying him a base salary? For a redesign? You're better off with a flat fee.

Btw, is this niche still active? I've been in the niche a few years ago. Now David DeAngelo is focused mostly on his business side, Mystery ... I don't know what the hell is doing, BadBoy Lifestyle launched a product in 4 years, Carlos Xuma is almost gone ...

... I know that people want to get companionship for emotional and physical reasons but I can swear that the PUA niche is not what it used to be before.

There was a time when there were two niches dominating, the PUA one and the MMO one and if you think that MMO meant make money online, you are wrong. It was multiplayer games, with guides about World of Warcraft sellings in tens and thousands of copies.

Btw, I love your enthusiasm

Thank you.

I have heard's about Mystery show, on VH1, however, as far as I know, that was years ago. I wasn't interested in it. I liked the community more when it was "hidden". There was a time in which very few people knew what an opener or LMR means.

Here's a piece of practical advice. What works in seduction doesn't always or most or the time works in sales letters.

You think the copy on your website is great.

Actually, it is not. Apart from breaking every possible copywriting rule, it comes down as self-serving and "I oriented". This works in dating (after all, the bad-boy always leaves home with the prom queen) but not so much in copy.

It is 6:10 AM and I want to catch the sunrise on the beach, so I'll keep it short.

1. The headlines's job is to stop someone who doesn't know you, doesn't care about you, never heard about you. It is very weak. It needs a strong benefit (a direct one, not an implied one).

2. The deck copy let's say that it makes more sense but you lack credibility. The base rule is that if you make a big claim, you back it up with proof. Your prospect is skeptical and if you take someone who hasn't got laid for the last 4 months and visited porn sites more often than Google, you've got a real credibility problem on your hand.

3. Your wife is beautiful but I suggest you add a photo of you and her. Her alone doesn't impact the sales message that much. Again, skeptical market. They'be been burned many times.

4. Your qualifying questions are all over the place. Are you selling seduction info or self-defense info? Even if you can do both, you shouldn't group them together. It is not like someone after jerking off thinks ... "Hmm, I wish I could get laid but I wish I also could protect myself and my loved ones". I do see how it connects and it is a major insecurity for most people but don't connect them together!

5. Lead copy. Lacking reason why and proof, big time. Always ask yourself "why". Why should I believe you that you've been counseling men? Why should I believe you that you can improve the quality of my relationships? He doesn't know you and seduction works with blind statements like this because there are other factors in play (like body-language, tonality and such).

6. I ... I ... I ... I ... I. It is not about "I". It is about "you". You will learn how to attract, date and get women to fall in love with you. Stop putting yourself center stage. You are a PUG but I've been long enough in this field for him not to care. He only cares how you'll solve his problems.

I hope you won't take these personally, since you seem very attached to your copy. These are some suggestions that will help you dramatically and I would continue but I have to go.

Best regards,
Razvan

I am going to continue my response here. You are right about several things, but you claim I offer little proof and or credibility? How could you possibly come to this conclusion. I think I know why: It has not been properly structured and that is why you missed it. My bad.


I spend page after page laying out the proof. I have tons of citations to back up my arguments, I just felt they would alienate my readers.

I believe that we (members of first world democracies) are in a state of crisis. I say believe, but actually, that word is not strong enough. Its more like I have a shit ton of evidence to prove this and my other claims.

My whole argument is proof. I explain how historical, social, economic, normative and cultural forces have converged into a perfect storm to produce modernity and the destruction of two parent families. There is a ton of literature pointing out that single parent families have much, much worse outcomes for children, how divorce hurts men....and women.


Are my claims that Evolutionary Biology, Evolutionary Psychology, rational choice modeling effective predictor's of human behavior in need of support? As stated I have sources but that style of writing would drive people away. I just need better organization.


Is my statement that women control relationships and call the shots in need of proof? The fact that women file for divorce 70% of the time is proof that most men are clueless when it comes to managing relationships.

The problem is organization and structure. I need to get each idea organized and presented in the same place, probably with buttons or better linking.



Now, there are a bunch of things you are correct about.


I need to get rid of "I" You are `100% correct.


I agree, getting bodybuilding and martial arts in the same program creates a diluting effect. However, these activities are fantastic for building confidence, health, and character. Along with spirituality, they increase value. Seduction techniques only go so far. You have to grow and improve as a person.


I really want to keep them in the program, but will listen if you disagree.


You are right about the headline, and advice is greatly appreciated. The same is true for lead copy. I discuss this later, Are you saying I should move this proof up to my home page? If so, I will do it. I counseled men for 14 years when I was teaching. I council men that I prep for BB comps. Every time it is about women.


My plan is to do a video on this topic but yes, maybe I should move it to my home page.

Key, thank you for your diplomatic response.

I just want to ask you a single thing.

"Have you've ever considered that you are too smart for your target audience?".

I think you are giving them a bit too much credit on what they can understand and what they can not. I've been in this game long enough to know. Please think about it.

In any case, it was a pleasure helping you. It is nice to see someone who is so passionate about something that was at one point the center focus of my life.

Best regards,
Razvan

If i were in such like situation, I will first be able to have a contract to sign with the person who is working for me. he is just talking and am not well convinced if he will really bring 500 visitors each and every single day through his work. You need to split the cash into milestones and see if this was really true. When you discover that the sales are improving, you will be sure that he is doing a good job. I always believe in seeing rather than being told. Lets get practical here buddy.

lol i lost track of what the post was about but play on playa lol, your wife is beautiful, I used to be like that in my younger days lol

Well since you have been answering the posts now this does become a follow me thread !

I think this thread shouldn't be there because it fluctuates the moral of a woman... here are many women sitting and you are talking like that... As your thread is of $1300 a good price. you are offering this price for which thing are you offering it for the one night stand or the site.... it's not about just men it's about the women also what they want and with whom they want to stay.. men are already tough enough to handle these kind of situations they need not to be more tougher them women should be tough so that they can handle these types of situations without hesitating.....

Most of your post was not talking about what you are paying to have done.

What is "everything" for $1300? Just editing videos? Or building a whole new website for you?

I have often found it weird that there is all these, "How To Make A Man Fall In You" or "How To Make A Man Marry You" type of products on the market for women.

Meanwhile for the men is, "How To Seduce A Woman Into Having Sex With You In 30 Minutes Flat" or "How To Control Her Mind And Get Into Her Bed Tonight".

I'm just making up names here people. But I say to myself this is probably why so many marriages are ending in divorce. It's obvious men and women want different things. Now I can understand why that book, "Men Are From Mars And Women Are From Venus" is still a hot seller today.

I intend to do a blog post about this in future about this type of divide between men and women.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

And then women are trying to raise a man's level of interest so he will stay with her forever. Settle down with her. Marry her. Have children with her. Start a business with her. Or whatever the hell she wants from this guy.

Meanwhile his eyes is already searching for the nest one.

This is huge problem.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Happy to hear you are teaching more than just mere seduction. God knows there is more than a swamp of information like that out on the market already.

I do want to see more programs teaching women that it's fine to date more than one guy at a time. And I'm not referring to S-E-X. For me the two don't go hand in hand. But some women are scared to do it for fear of being called names like slut.

And that's why they make bad choices when it comes to picking men. Some are so lonely that they latch on to the first guy that swings their way.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

I applaud you sir. I'm just glad a man said. Maybe now other men will be willing to listen.

I recall there is a Wallace D. Wattles book that I can't remember the name of. There is a chapter called "Winning Love". He states clearly that is a wife falls out of loving here husband, then it is the husbands fault. Why? Because he has to keep working at winning her love day in and day out. He can't ever stop. And that right there is "The Secret". He is also the author of The Science Of Getting Rich in case anyone is curious about who he is.

But I have to admit I had no idea that more women were filing for divorce more than the men.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Hi Shana,


I discuss these exact issues on my web site. It is too dry for most readers on the net, but I unpack these issues.


My site is about to publish the over haul, however, if you can hang with a dryer academic type of writing, read what is there right now. Terrible for marketing, but gold if you want to really understand what is going on.


For example, you site John Grey (Mars/Venus book) he has one (only one) good point. That point is that men and women have completely different communication styles. I use this theory.


However, the rest of his book is crap. You will find that in all the academic literature on why people date, fall in love, marry, divorce there is nothing that will actually help you.


Marriage counseling can help communication. but it will not help to keep a woman in love. There is very little out there that will produce tangible results that can be implemented to keep a women in love. The academic world will eviscerate someone who makes arguments like mine.


I do value academic work in evolutionary biology/psychology because it explains why people feel the way they do. While my guys are not looking to date and dump like other seductionists, the community is bang on in their view that there are certain things that cause women to become interested in man, the preliminary stages of love.


My purpose is to teach men how to do these things.


I have been counseling a martial arts student of mine. Real nice guy, computer hardware guy, smart.


He was dating this gal for 3 months with no sex. Yet he considers her his girlfriend.


She is also going away to school in 8 months.


I told him "she loves you so much, that she is moving 800 miles away."


He texts back and forth every day and sees her on the weekend (a no no until she is in love with you). I told him "girl friends text back and forth, not men unless you want to be her g/friend."


Stop it. The phone is for one, and only one reason: Making dates. I still do this with my wife, I only call/texts if she calls/text's me. I do, however give her 100% attention when she comes home and wants to discuss "her day" but not on the phone.


When she texts you, be a gentleman, but respond that you are busy. Eventually she will understand that if she wants to talk to you she has to see you.


Start cutting your dates short. Stop being so available.


He should not be seeing her on the weekend, but it is too late for that.


I also coached him on 2 steps forward one step back (a technique to get sex).


Lo and behold, last week they had sex. Also, she is reconsidering moving away, she is looking for a school in the area.


Back to the academic literature: Barbara Dafoe Whithead was originally a feminist, but her first major study (unintentionally) illustrated how feminists have poisoned the world for young women. People flipped. Had she not made it on Opra Winfries' best book list her career would have been scuttled. I like her stuff a lot, but there are not many like her.

Yikes! That is totally off. Leave Weebly now and start WordPress.

For the price:
$1,300 for a remake is a bit high. Even the $1,200 base + bonuses on sales is also high.

Let me do the project and I'll do it $899 base + bonuses on sales. Even reduce the share to 5% would still be good for me.

Also: THANK YOU VERY MUCH TO EVERYONE WHO HELPED!

Keep playin' player. There's big money in seduction and a lot of lonely guys lol. Luckily, my girl is a handful for me. She would probably kill me if she saw me on a seduction site though haha. But, there are plenty of single guys who are willing to pay an arm and a leg to be close to a female's arms and legs. Yeahhhh

Well, to be honest ... 99% of the people thinking that they setup a website like yours and get rich, never make a dime with it. The times have changed. Today it's all about "Squeeze Pages" and intensive "Email Marketing".

Before all the work is done to create the videos I suggest you hire someone to create a short intro video that has your logo on it. This will brand your videos and distinguish them as YOUR videos.

If you need help on this please PM me.

I usually abscond from pick up stratagem threads because they make my blood boil. If you want to have the ride of your life try something striking different to the likes of being a mesmerist. That should make your pupils dilate and glow.