How Do You Explain "Online Stuff" To Your Family Members?

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Hi, WF Members!

The day since I stepped into the online world and till the day when I started making money.
During this whole time I had to literally explain the whole process to my "Father" and till today he has no freaking clue and still asks the same thing
"How the hell do you earn from the internet!"

I was wondering If you also have encountered the same thing
Either with your wife, mom, dad or any of your family members..

Dawood Khan
#explain #family #members #online stuff
  • Profile picture of the author salegurus
    Honestly, this question has probably been asked a dozen times this year alone...
    What does it matter anyway, unless you're still living with your parents and earning nada online then obviously they would think you're wasting your time...

    This one alone had over 170 replies:http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...y-im-scam.html
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  • Profile picture of the author Braznyc
    Just show them your Ferrari...

    Just kidding!


    Tell them you sell products or you offer a service online. If they want more info, they will ask.
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  • Profile picture of the author cyberdenizen
    I remember the time when I bumped into an acquaintance at a bank. She asked me where I worked. I told her that I work from home. She said, "Oh, that's good. Your mom could use some help with the household chores." I replied, "No, I earn a full-time income from the internet. I write articles. I don't have to go to an office." Thinking that I was kidding, she laughed and went on her way.

    Another story: When I tried to convince a friend to try working from home, her mother reacted quite negatively. She thought that I was trying to pull off a scam. Today, the mom is grateful because her daughter, who is a college dropout, earns five times her salary as a public school teacher. My friend works online as a chat and email support specialist.
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  • Profile picture of the author tomholen
    This is a well known "problem". It seems that I am the only one that loves and understands the power of internet marketing, so my wife will never understand it. That doesn't matter though, as long as I bring in some money she's happy.
    Other family has zero interest and understanding of it at all, so I just don't talk about it when they are around....it's actually frustrating trying to explain affiliate marketing and all that to people that don't have a clue!
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    • Profile picture of the author dawoodkhan97
      Originally Posted by tomholen View Post

      This is a well known "problem". It seems that I am the only one that loves and understands the power of internet marketing, so my wife will never understand it. That doesn't matter though, as long as I bring in some money she's happy.
      Other family has zero interest and understanding of it at all, so I just don't talk about it when they are around....it's actually frustrating trying to explain affiliate marketing and all that to people that don't have a clue!
      I just love explaining these things to my father.
      At least we have something to talk about.
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    • Profile picture of the author MiaSorensen
      Originally Posted by tomholen View Post

      This is a well known "problem". It seems that I am the only one that loves and understands the power of internet marketing, so my wife will never understand it. That doesn't matter though, as long as I bring in some money she's happy.
      Other family has zero interest and understanding of it at all, so I just don't talk about it when they are around....it's actually frustrating trying to explain affiliate marketing and all that to people that don't have a clue!
      Lol! it is the same at my house, my boyfriend doesn't understand it, but he won't mind the extra money though
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  • I say PROOF is probably the best way to eliminate scepticism.

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  • Profile picture of the author dawoodkhan97
    Yes indeed Proof is the only thing that makes them realize
    that this thing really works..
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  • Profile picture of the author michaelswengel
    I explain to people that online marketing is very similar to offline marketing - just the scale and potential are a lot better. Online, a marketer can make hundreds or thousands of sales without getting out of his chair. Offline, you'd need to have a store front, etc.

    There are obvious differences, of course, but the essential ideas are the same.

    In affiliate marketing, I tell people: There are all of these companies or vendors who need sales for their products and will pay people to help them get sales. That's it.

    That's a perhaps, simplistic view, but that's one way to describe it.
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  • Profile picture of the author greenowl123
    I had the same problem as well. After I started getting checks in the mail and after I sold one of the first websites I created for $500, the questions stopped.

    Still, from time to time, depending if I actually care if a particular person "understands" or not, I would explain it by asking them a couple of questions to activate their brain cells, such as :

    "Do you watch T.V. ? Do you see commercials on T.V. ? - Why do you think there are commercials on television ?"

    "Have you ever seen ads in magazines or newspapers ? - Why do you think there are advertisements in magazines and newspapers ?"

    "Have you ever heard of people selling things like Avon products, Tupperware, etc. and making a commission on every product they sell ? "

    This usually begins their awakening that selling things online is not really all that much different, just a more recent way of promoting and selling things.
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  • Profile picture of the author michaelswengel
    Ha! Well, that's not an inaccurate description.
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  • Profile picture of the author Tomas Lodén
    I´ve been doing this since 2003 and my whole family is involved.. Nothing beats being an online entrepreneur....when you get the hang of things.. Freeeeeeedom... =) Good luck out there..
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  • Profile picture of the author dsilvestre
    I actually thought my mother how to make a Udemy course. She already made like $200 and got her very excited. That seemed to do it.

    But normally I just explain with offline examples. The door to door salesman is a perfect example of affiliate marketing, except you do not work for the company and only get the commission out of sales (and not a base salary as well).

    Cheers
    Dan
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  • Profile picture of the author Joe Benjamin
    How I do it?

    I don't.

    Let the money do all the talking.

    'nuff said
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    • Profile picture of the author Tomas Lodén
      Originally Posted by Joe Benjamin View Post

      How I do it?

      I don't.

      Let the money do all the talking.

      'nuff said
      Haha... Money Talks!
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  • Profile picture of the author agmccall
    When I am with friends and family we do not talk about IM. I do not give a crap about their jobs and they really do not care about mine.

    If the subject does come up I just say I do well with ebay. I buy low and sell high. I don't actually sell on ebay but it puts and end to something I don;t want to talk about

    al
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    • Profile picture of the author dawoodkhan97
      Originally Posted by agmccall View Post

      When I am with friends and family we do not talk about IM. I do not give a crap about their jobs and they really do not care about mine.

      If the subject does come up I just say I do well with ebay. I buy low and sell high. I don't actually sell on ebay but it puts and end to something I don;t want to talk about

      al
      Hahahaha that's a nice idea!
      Will use it for my family members
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      • Profile picture of the author rjd1265
        I tell them I sell software online and have affiliates that sell for me as well. My software creates landing pages for affiliates and business owerns, anyone who wants to create leads

        I basically confuse the hell out of them to the point they give up asking.
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  • Profile picture of the author Randall Magwood
    I tell them I sell porn. They believe it too, and want nothing to do with me as far as starting a *real* business goes.
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  • Profile picture of the author Rory Singh
    I don't tell them anything. My wife and mom are the only one's who know what I do. Everyone else is just a 'civilian' and doesn't need to know.

    Even when I was new and didn't have any results to show for my effort and time, no one in my family could ever talk me out of what I wanted to do.

    You have got to make up your own mind and forget about trying to convince your father or anyone else. Yes I love my Dad but wouldn't need his 'blessing' in order to succeed online.

    If you're serous and believe in your own vision, then that's the only person you need to convince.

    Do what Robert said above...

    Tell them it's porn (just to get him off your back).

    One more thing...

    Even if your father sees you make a lot of income in the future, this still doesn't mean that he'll agree with how you make it.
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